Post: #26

(03-12-2013 12:07 PM)soup Wrote:  On topic- my dry spells since the game start at the end of the cold weather. They can go for months. Sometime in the middle of spring, my abundance starts to dry up. Where I was banging like crazy in Jan, Feb and into March, things start to slow down in April and May.

Then summer hits and I'm not getting laid until Sept.

This is part of the reason I originally joined the forum.

Almost sounds as if you're on some sort of seasonal schedual. Is your usual target demographic leaving the city? Are you running some sort of winter comfort game, very boyfriend oriented?

Spring usually ramps things up for me with the summer being crazy once all the students get back to town at the start of August. July is the only problematic month and the winter ones when you don't have a regular to shack up with.

Post: #27

(03-12-2013 11:46 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 11:45 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 11:43 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 11:38 AM)soup Wrote:  El Mech, I'm with you. It's up to the guy if he's going to have a dry spell or not. The problem is that some us hit a wall and we can't figure out why. And, we are putting in the time. Maybe we just aren't smart enough yet.

Agreed. Mistakes and bad game are generally the main causes of cold streaks, but that's a far stretch from mere excuses and lack of effort. Though other circumstances such as location can contribute, as well. I doubt el mech would manage to bang a chic in under 24 hours in Saudi Arabia or rural India, for example.

Three days max

Bullshit, that I'd like to see.

Buy me a ticket and come watch.

Post: #28

(03-12-2013 12:19 PM)Grayham Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 12:07 PM)soup Wrote:  On topic- my dry spells since the game start at the end of the cold weather. They can go for months. Sometime in the middle of spring, my abundance starts to dry up. Where I was banging like crazy in Jan, Feb and into March, things start to slow down in April and May.

Then summer hits and I'm not getting laid until Sept.

This is part of the reason I originally joined the forum.

Almost sounds as if you're on some sort of seasonal schedual. Is your usual target demographic leaving the city? Are you running some sort of winter comfort game, very boyfriend oriented?

Spring usually ramps things up for me with the summer being crazy once all the students get back to town at the start of August. July is the only problematic month and the winter ones when you don't have a regular to shack up with.

People exit town in the summer in NYC.

Post: #29

I think you can troubleshoot game just like you'd troubleshoot an engine that's misfiring, or a printer that's not working. There are stages of game which have to build on one another.

If I consistently can't get girls to talk to me, the problem lies with my vibe, my appearance (looks/clothes) or, least likely, my opener. Or it could be a location issue, where my approach is just fine for one type of girl but I am in a new place with different kinds of girls who are looking for or expect different things.

If I can't get them on a date, I'm not building enough attraction and showing enough value. If I get them on a date but can't seal the deal, nine times out of ten I'm not escalating smoothly enough. Etc.

Post: #30

Four months last year.

I was totally focussed on writing my book and didn't give a damn about going out. The second time I went out again - Liberian flag.

Post: #31

(03-12-2013 12:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I doubt el mech would manage to bang a chic in under 24 hours in Saudi Arabia or rural India, for example.

Quote:Three days max

Quote:Bullshit, that I'd like to see.

Quote:Buy me a ticket and come watch.

A small village where women can only go outside to do chores, and even then, not unaccompanied by fathers and/or husbands...and you'd be getting one night stands in less than three days...

This exteme example aside...yes, if we all spent every waking hour approaching women and had no job or life outside chasing pussy, then yeah, there'd be no excuse for a dry spell spanning more than a few days. Reality doesn't work like that for most, though.

Post: #32

(03-12-2013 02:26 PM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 12:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I doubt el mech would manage to bang a chic in under 24 hours in Saudi Arabia or rural India, for example.

Quote:Three days max

Quote:Bullshit, that I'd like to see.

Quote:Buy me a ticket and come watch.

A small village where women can only go outside to do chores, and even then not unaccompanied by fathers and/or husbands...and you'd be getting SNLs in less than three days...

This exteme example aside, yes, if we all spent every waking hour approaching women and had no job or life outside chasing pussy, then indeed, there'd be no excuse for a dry spell spanning more than a few days. Show me someone on this forum who's like that, though.

This is the crux. Since I've been getting into game, I don't have the same time to make music.

I think that I used to believe that I'd get girls, money, and respect through music. That hasn't really happened and I'm not going to wait around.

Game has given me girls, but I think the combo could get me higher quality.

So, right now, I split my time between game and music.

That's my whole life. The only other things I do are hanging with my family and the essentials like eating.

Post: #33

Quote:No way. 48 hours max from zero to sex. This thread should be called 'Which excuses do you tell yourself for a dryspell'

In the DR 5 hours from zero

After reading this I couldn't help but think of Alec Baldwin in Glengarry Glen Ross

Post: #34

(03-12-2013 02:26 PM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 12:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I doubt el mech would manage to bang a chic in under 24 hours in Saudi Arabia or rural India, for example.

Quote:Three days max

Quote:Bullshit, that I'd like to see.

Quote:Buy me a ticket and come watch.

A small village where women can only go outside to do chores, and even then, not unaccompanied by fathers and/or husbands...and you'd be getting one night stands in less than three days...

This exteme example aside...yes, if we all spent every waking hour approaching women and had no job or life outside chasing pussy, then yeah, there'd be no excuse for a dry spell spanning more than a few days. Reality doesn't work like that for most, though.

You do it while you're running through the motions
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Post: #35

(03-12-2013 11:19 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(03-12-2013 11:13 AM)soup Wrote:  I'm getting a drought to.

El Mech is probably right- maybe there's been a sea change and we need to change up our tactics.

I wonder if it has to that stupid 'Girls' show. That's the only thing I can think of that all these chickens are watching.

No way. 48 hours max from zero to sex. This thread should be called 'Which excuses do you tell yourself for a dryspell'

In the DR 5 hours from zero

I've got none. I haven't been approaching enough but I have the next four nights to go out. I'll give myself 5-10 days to snap this dry spell.

Post: #36

Posting a 'dry spell' report here because it looks like the most recent thread on the topic.

Coming up to 5 week dry spell. Haven't gone without for so long since I lived in Australia (max about 2 weeks since then).
And man has it been a fuck of a dry spell. Basically 6 girls coming home, and then either not coming to my room, or coming and then not banging, for a variety of reasons.

(Edit: detail removed)

Brutal luck, I simply can't believe I haven't stuck my dick in at least one of these girls. I've even got a backlog of other girls I'm arranging dates with. What gives? It's kind of blunting my desire to even bother.

Hope to do better now that work has eased off.

Post: #37

Since really starting to apply any game at all, my longest was something like 6 months. September 2013 - February 2014. I had ended a two month relationship I was in over the summer and just couldn't get anything to seem to work. Went on a couple dates, got a ok number of kisses and makeouts, but I simply wasn't converting anything. I broke it with a girl I matched with on Tinder in late February who had broken up with her boyfriend 36 hours prior and who loved getting dominated in bed. We ended up banging on and off for the better part of 2014.

HSLD

Post: #38

Dryspell continues, and gets even more brutal.

Had a date the other night which should have been a lay-up. She basically got a message just as we were about to leave for my place with some fucking bad news, and she had to go. Now either this was an excuse for her to exit (which is what I assumed at the time), or its some more fucked-up luck. I've now assumed the latter, based on the way she was behaving towards me, what the news was, and how she responded to my texts after.

It was so painful and depressing that I just walked around the streets like a zombie, and then proceeded to drink in a bar until the early morning.

Something just isn't fucking right at the moment. I have no idea what's going on.

Post: #39

(12-20-2014 10:53 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  Dryspell continues, and gets even more brutal.

Had a date the other night which should have been a lay-up. She basically got a message just as we were about to leave for my place with some fucking bad news, and she had to go. Now either this was an excuse for her to exit (which is what I assumed at the time), or its some more fucked-up luck. I've now assumed the latter, based on the way she was behaving towards me, what the news was, and how she responded to my texts after.

It was so painful and depressing that I just walked around the streets like a zombie, and then proceeded to drink in a bar until the early morning.

Something just isn't fucking right at the moment. I have no idea what's going on.

Just don't tell her if you talk with her again that you had an equally bad day that day who lost the bang due to her mom who died or something.

Post: #40

1 month, but Ive had age and environment in my favor

Post: #41

I don't know when I got my official start in "the game". Was it the first time I got laid? First time that I started reading material regularly? First time that I started applying it? First time that I got laid on a regular basis?

I'm currently in a 4-month dry spell (don't like American women at all). I will likely be running dry until I return to China, and given that I am Black, there is no guaran-damn-tee that I'll get any there.

Post: #42

The last 6 months has been dry for me because i have been busy making bank, 1.56M in incoming revenue to be exact.

Took a doctor our on a date tonight who works next door for something different , could have gone for the bang but am more interested in getting my workload sorted out before i hop on a plane in two days.

Always remember the rule of abundance.

Life is good

Merry Christmas fellas!

Post: #43

^^As long as you use that to convert in the future, kudos to you.

Post: #44

(12-23-2014 05:14 AM)loki Wrote:  The last 6 months has been dry for me because i have been busy making bank, 1.56M in incoming revenue to be exact.

Took a doctor our on a date tonight who works next door for something different , could have gone for the bang but am more interested in getting my workload sorted out before i hop on a plane in two days.

Always remember the rule of abundance.

Life is good

Merry Christmas fellas!

1.56M in 6 months?? Show me a cheque and i'll quit my job today and work for you.

More than the amount of game and motivation i gain from this community, is the drive i get from seeing guys making bank. Granted some guys might be telling porkie pies, but I'm sure majority of guys here and killing it.
I'm 27 and I'll make about 60k this year, i need to up my money game.

Oh longest spell without bang for me this year might have been 2 weeks. (not sure it qualifies, but I'm in NYC)

Post: #45

6 months & counting. I'm largely at fault for this due to laziness added to my hectic schedule in law school.

Post: #46

(12-23-2014 07:20 AM)Goldfinger Wrote:  1.56M in 6 months?? Show me a cheque and i'll quit my job today and work for you.

That's revenue. It's the profit that matters.

Post: #47

(12-23-2014 08:22 AM)Specter Wrote:  6 months & counting. I'm largely at fault for this due to laziness added to my hectic schedule in law school.

Try meeting women online. Small investment, gives you time to study, and will exponentially help your chances to end your dry spell.

Post: #48

I only found out about "game" in the spring of 2013. No "results" yet other than a lot of self-improvement, mentally and physically. I don't approach enough, and when I do they're mostly not real "cold" approaches, just conversations I strike up with shop girls, or sometimes girls in the gym, etc. Even though I've been working out a lot, I feel as if I notice fewer IOIs. I haven't found a night venue that suits me, I've given up drinking for the time being, the weather sucks most of the time anyway, and it seems like daytime possibilities for meeting someone are few and far between, requiring much wasted time.

Post: #49

(12-23-2014 08:49 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

(12-23-2014 07:20 AM)Goldfinger Wrote:  1.56M in 6 months?? Show me a cheque and i'll quit my job today and work for you.

That's revenue. It's the profit that matters.

yes 1.6M revenue.

80k profit in one month alone, after all costs based on 357k turnover for that particular month to give you an idea.

however keep in mind i own the company so what it makes is mine to reinvest as i see fit and that's what i keep doing, reinvesting. We have grown 456% YTD compared to the same time last year and December sales alone increased 925%. These are not bullshit figure, these are hard numbers from our accounting system.

Not all of the positive things happening in my life are due to game, some is due to organic growth, looking after myself (game related?), getting my head straight (game related?), hiring good staff and not being distracted by crap that life throws at us all constantly. I have also had some good luck.

Game has definitely helped me though, as has the forum.

I am more focused now then ever before and its paying off big time. I no longer waste my time with women who want to play games like the bird i went out with last night ( what a head fuck). I have a plan and I am sticking to it and its fucking working, end of story.

The simple fact that I have turned my life around the way I have since i met all of you guys on here, proves that we all can if we want to because my life was a mess before i went redpill, sure its not perfect now but it is getting better every day because i keep working on myself and my inner game.

You guys helped me find my confidence again , something i thought i had lost long ago but the truth was i was didn't lose it, i was just surrounded by shit people and not looking after myself. I also spent 3-4 years in a dead end relationship with a control freak who was mega insecure. On top of that I also went to therapy for the last 2 years to address the crap from my past that was like ball and chain around my leg every mother fucking day of my life. I cut that chain and so can you if you need to and want to.

Ok so I have not been laid in 6 months or so, since i was banging the Persian bird i asked for help with but big deal, i am driven by the desire to succeed in life, be all that i can be....not to placate some woman who doesn't even know what she really wants. Don't worry, I am flying out to SEA tomorrow, business class and will make up for my 6 month dry spell over the break.

Not sure if what i am saying is helpful to anyone but i have shared it all the same in case it is.

Merry Christmas guys, best wishes for 2015!

Edit: I also hired a business coach just over a year ago as well, so that has also definitely helped me.

Post: #50

^^Happy story about to get happier
May your stocking (bed) be full of presents (thai sloots).
What general area is your business in btw?