Post: #26

(02-16-2013 03:15 AM)ryanf Wrote:  This is one I've experienced a few times - wondering what other guys around here do in this situation. It usually throws me for a loop, which is not good when trying to hold frame. I believe when the girl says it she is being sincere. I usually say thanks. What do you guys do?

Just bulk and you wont experience this anymore. You will go from youre cute, to youre hot. There are many threads about this i even made one myself.

Post: #27

(02-17-2013 08:58 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

(02-16-2013 03:15 AM)ryanf Wrote:  This is one I've experienced a few times - wondering what other guys around here do in this situation. It usually throws me for a loop, which is not good when trying to hold frame. I believe when the girl says it she is being sincere. I usually say thanks. What do you guys do?

Just bulk and you wont experience this anymore. You will go from youre cute, to youre hot. There are many threads about this i even made one myself.

To me, that would still be an issue. Not accustomed to hearing that, and not knowing how to respond to it.

Post: #28

(02-17-2013 09:01 PM)ryanf Wrote:  To me, that would still be an issue. Not accustomed to hearing that, and not knowing how to respond to it.

If a girl says youre cute, it means that youre attractive but that you dont have a strong masculine presence, kinda like when they tell a 12-15 years old wow youre gonna grow to be a ladies man one day.
If a girls says youre hot, it really doesn't matter if you are not accustomed to it (ugly duckling syndrome myself) or how you react, she pretty much wants the D already. Let others guys worry about witty responses in order to create attraction, attraction is already there for you, just run FAG game from there.

Post: #29

(02-17-2013 09:23 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

(02-17-2013 09:01 PM)ryanf Wrote:  To me, that would still be an issue. Not accustomed to hearing that, and not knowing how to respond to it.

If a girl says youre cute, it means that youre attractive but that you dont have a strong masculine presence, kinda like when they tell a 12-15 years old wow youre gonna grow to be a ladies man one day.
If a girls says youre hot, it really doesn't matter if you are not accustomed to it (ugly duckling syndrome myself) or how you react, she pretty much wants the D already. Let others guys worry about witty responses in order to create attraction, attraction is already there for you, just run FAG game from there.

I'm having a hard time getting results from the gym. Although, I'm only around 5 months in. Started with a cut (I was getting pudgy), went from 165 to 135. 3 days a week of Muay Thai and 3 days of lifting. And lifting meaning the good stuff, not just machines (squats, barbell curls, dips, dumbbell flyes, etc).

Post: #30

(02-17-2013 09:27 PM)ryanf Wrote:  I'm having a hard time getting results from the gym. Although, I'm only around 5 months in. Started with a cut (I was getting pudgy), went from 165 to 135. 3 days a week of Muay Thai and 3 days of lifting. And lifting meaning the good stuff, not just machines (squats, barbell curls, dips, dumbbell flyes, etc).

I bet you are, thats why i decided to give up martial arts this year, i will try to go up to 220 lbs and then (maybe) go back to muay thai. It takes too many calories, for me at least to bulk while doing 2 hours of training a day.
135 is extremely underweight by the way, get a weight gainer and eat A LOT.
It doesnt matter if youre training properly without enough calories, you wont have results.

Post: #31

(02-17-2013 09:51 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

(02-17-2013 09:27 PM)ryanf Wrote:  I'm having a hard time getting results from the gym. Although, I'm only around 5 months in. Started with a cut (I was getting pudgy), went from 165 to 135. 3 days a week of Muay Thai and 3 days of lifting. And lifting meaning the good stuff, not just machines (squats, barbell curls, dips, dumbbell flyes, etc).

I bet you are, thats why i decided to give up martial arts this year, i will try to go up to 220 lbs and then (maybe) go back to muay thai. It takes too many calories, for me at least to bulk while doing 2 hours of training a day.
135 is extremely underweight by the way, get a weight gainer and eat A LOT.
It doesnt matter if youre training properly without enough calories, you wont have results.

I'm pretty average height, though. Anything above 145 and I get pudgy. I know I need to eat more, but I have a mental block because of the great response I've had by losing the excess weight.

Post: #32

(02-17-2013 09:53 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

(02-17-2013 09:51 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

(02-17-2013 09:27 PM)ryanf Wrote:  I'm having a hard time getting results from the gym. Although, I'm only around 5 months in. Started with a cut (I was getting pudgy), went from 165 to 135. 3 days a week of Muay Thai and 3 days of lifting. And lifting meaning the good stuff, not just machines (squats, barbell curls, dips, dumbbell flyes, etc).

I bet you are, thats why i decided to give up martial arts this year, i will try to go up to 220 lbs and then (maybe) go back to muay thai. It takes too many calories, for me at least to bulk while doing 2 hours of training a day.
135 is extremely underweight by the way, get a weight gainer and eat A LOT.
It doesnt matter if youre training properly without enough calories, you wont have results.

I'm only 5'8, though. Anything above 145 and I get pudgy. I know I need to eat more, but I have a mental block because of the great response I've had by losing the excess weight.

Time to alter the diet. Just focus on putting on good weight, even if it's only 1-1 and 1/2 pounds a month.

Post: #33

'You're welcome'

Post: #34

(02-16-2013 08:15 AM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  "I also fuck on the first date"

Gold.

Post: #35

Translating the phrase:

"You're so nice that I can not be attracted to you! You'd be my brother!"

Post: #36

"Cute" is an emotional​ state for some females. There's a certain type of woman who takes home "strays." You can exploit that, but don't stick around too long, she wants to own you like a puppy.

Post: #37

I've been called "beautiful" a couple times.

Once by a chubby middle aged mom in a coffee shop who exclaimed it to me as she walked out with her order as I was standing in line. "I just have to tell you that you are absolutely beautiful."

Then a confirmed lesbian commented to a female friend of mine who shared a picture of us. My friend's comment to me was was "Face it, you are hot."

It was a nice ego boost both times and made me a little more bold and forward in approaching women.

Post: #38

"I get that a lot"

Post: #39

(02-16-2013 03:56 AM)mental Wrote:  I usually either ignore or say "Yeah, cute like a caramel.".

Yep, I either
1) 'Thanks'
2) ignore

or agree and amplify
3) 'My mom/dog thinks I'm really cute too!'