Post: #26

(02-15-2013 01:02 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  After she handed me the pen she put back on her headphones and returned to studying. I assumed she had to study for a class and just didn't have the time to chat. It's the same as meeting someone that just don't have the time right then and there to talk to you but might want to otherwise. Your best bet in these situation is to just leave a strong impression and contact them later.

That makes sense. If she were open to having a chat she would have maintained eye contact and given you something to work with. Thanks.

Post: #27

The fastest way to see if there is any SPARK you mention about is to express interest in the girl somehow asap IMO

Post: #28

That's what the approach is: an expression of interest. Any girl you approach knows you are interested in her unless your approach is very indirect. You rack up that expression of interest by being more or less sexual. I prefer to error on the side of more rather than less sexuality.

Post: #29

Ok, guys here is the wrap up of this. This was her text:

"Hello **** - thank you for your note, but I already have a boyfriend. I hope you have a happy valentines day too. ****"

I tried texting her four different messages all of slightly different nature over the span of a week. She never responded to any of them. She now goes into a group that I will do a restart with once every few months to see if anyone bites. Don't know maybe my texting game is weak but it's just basic stuff like in Bang. Usually, unless, I get to spend some one on one time with a girl, like an hour or more, my chances of seeing her again falls dramatically.

Post: #30

Your texting is probably fine. You just met unreceptive girl.

Post: #31

Yep. It's usually doesn't work when the girl is in a serious relationship unless she's unhappy.

Post: #32

Im wondering why she gave you her number, giving you access to her like that, just to tell you that she has a boyfriend. She coulda just wrote that on the napkin.

Texting her 4 times with no response is probably not the route I would have took. She'll likely never reply back to you now at any point.

Id just delete her number. Its not a big deal though because you cant miss what you never had.

Post: #33

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It all comes down to what is going on in her life at the moment and how she views you. For example, this has happened to me numerous times. I get a girls number, try to contact her, nothing. Put her in rotation, keep contacting her once per month, then suddenly a month, two month, even more later she starts responding. Has anything changed about me? Nope. Usually, they were seeing someone and now there are not. It's that simple.

I just let them know, in no uncertain terms, that I find them attractive and that I don't fuck around. If she contacts me she knows what's going down. Society teaches women that they can be flaky and inconsistent, that's its their right. The best way to combat this is to be the opposite: consistent. I use to try being flaky in return, just to punish them but you can't beat them at their own game. A girl can always out wait and out flake you.

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

Post: #34

I kind of feel you on that. Its all about timing and you never know, a couple of months from now you may hit her and she might respond. One of my most gratifying fucks ever in life was with this chick that pretty much blew me off after the first date. Stayed contacting her off and on and fucked like 1.5 yrs later. She's on the team now.

But still, I dont think Id be as interested in staying in contact with a chick that ive literally never talked to or went out with. But you never know it could turn into something.

(02-20-2013 11:09 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  This is from another thread...
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It all comes down to what is going on in her life at the moment and how she views you. For example, this has happened to me numerous times. I get a girls number, try to contact her, nothing. Put her in rotation, keep contacting her once per month, then suddenly a month, two month, even more later she starts responding. Has anything changed about me? Nope. Usually, they were seeing someone and now there are not. It's that simple.

I just let them know, in no uncertain terms, that I find them attractive and that I don't fuck around. If she contacts me she knows what's going down. Society teaches women that they can be flaky and inconsistent, that's its their right. The best way to combat this is to be the opposite: consistent. I use to try being flaky in return, just to punish them but you can't beat them at their own game. A girl can always out wait and out flake you.

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

Post: #35

That girl from Halloween I literally spoke to for like 10 mins. So yes, you never know. It all comes down to how desperate they are feeling when you contact them.