Post: #1

1. Never meet a girl in a club for a first date. She probably got her friends there. And she is in a power position over you since there are lots odds other guys hitting on her. Leaving you behind or like the dancing puppy trying to stay on level.

2. No downtime. I pipelined 10 girls in Thailand, then got sick for 3 weeks. No I can't even get a reply on text cause the affection is gone.

Post: #2

3. always try to end the conversation with a number or date. Sometimes I talk to girls for fun but never bother to get her contact info. Usually regretted it after.

Post: #3

4. Maybe more of a tip than a lesson, but i got far better reaction from using the word "whatssapp" or "contacts" than the word "number". The word number has to much pressure on it. But really they are the same thing.

Post: #4

Its plain humorous to me some of the lessons I've learned "the hard way" since finding this site. Things that never would have occurred to me I was doing wrong before.

One of many examples: (and I am ok to admit it because A- I'm a noob, and B-I learned from it)

I'm in the zone one night a couple weeks ago at my hang-out bar. I have a girl on my right and one on my left, number closed both even with the other sitting there, and ended up making out with one just before she left. Then this blonde in close proximity grabs my attention. She is obviously tipsy and being loud so I open her by telling her to quiet down cuz she's bothering the other people in the place. I said it with a smirk on my face and she gets it so she asks if she's in trouble and if I'm gonna spank her. She turns her ass up and I smack the shit out of it.

So this is going good. I get her number too. I probably could have SNL her except her friend was literally so drunk she was sleeping and so the chick had to babysit that.
Anyway, after all this good stuff and me feeling on high opening and number closing a couple 7s and an 8, I get complacent and.....................are you ready? Prepare yourself for my lesson learned that night....................

I ask the spankin girl, "Are you single?" WHAT!!!!! As soon as it left my mouth the following went through my head:

WTF did I just say? You f***in idiot! What do I care if she is single? Thats her problem and if I could have ended up fucking her at some point, it would then be her man's problem! Fuck I still laugh at me when I think about this one...

One more to add to the list of things I will never do/say again

Post: #5

That's a good one. Wanna keep this short, so it's possible to scroll through and speed up on some rookie misstakes.

5. Never ask a girl if she is single or what her status is.

Post: #6

Most important lesson: All girls are like that.

Seriously, every time I start dating a girl and get to the point where I think she's special and wont fuck me over if I let my guard down she does something shitty.

Post: #7

Don't fuck with women that have been abused as children: Lesson Learned!

Post: #8

Unless it's just for a pump and dump, avoid women with daddy issues.

Post: #9

online dating is counter productive and depressing, even if you are getting laid

Post: #10

A few lessons here...
Been in the game since 2005.

I worked with a girl who was cute. I quit pulled the number. We went out 2 times. 1st time was the science centre (they had the body worlds exhibit in my town). Our second "date" was a pub crawl. (Definitely recommended) Kissed a bunch, felt her up and got her drunk. When we got home i decided to make food...Yeah i know wtf right... We sat and ate the food at my dinner table...
Then we sat on my bed and talked till her brother came and picked her up... I didn't even try to escalate at all. Looking back the notch was in the bag if i wanted it. The next time we hang out i have her on my bed (sober) and start kissing, as soon as i go for the boobs she turns over and says "i can't". Turns out she was seeing a guy in her area and that they just became official the day before...

Lesson: Always push the interaction as far as it can go sexually, you might be surprised with a blow job or the notch.

This past summer i opened a girl in the bus coming home from martial arts class. Got the number she wanted to chill and blaze the next day.
We meet up an hour late because she thought i meant 11pm not 11am. No matter as she lives 10 minutes walking from me.
We go to my house and we start to drink vodka and oj. I'm making the drinks so hers is stronger than mine. We start talking on my bed and i place my hand on her lower back and start to escalate...Next thing i know she says she has a boyfriend. I'm like thinking to myself "then why the fuck are you in some dude's house drinking vodka on a Sunday afternoon?!"
We start watching music videos on youtube and she sits on my lap and starts grinding her pussy into my dick with the music. I "accidentally" spill the vodka and oj on her shirt and shorts.
Like everywhere on her. I apologize and say I'll wash her clothes. As her clothes are washing we bang. Top 3 tightest pussies for myself.
A few days later i see her with her "bf"...he's this huge dude with tats and shit. She sees me and says i raped her. He rushes me in safeway. A fight ensues i win and leave.
The entire time i was gaming her in my room, she kept on saying how she likes to "get drunk and loose control" And that her "bf is the super jealous type" He's a drug dealer and he's put a few guys in the hospital for touching her ass... Huge red flags for any experienced player, i just thought she was bullshitting me. Most girls bs a fuckton.

Lesson: Pay attention to what a girl says about her current boyfriend. No amount of pussy is worth your life. Or having some roided up dude after you because his girl is a super slut.