Post: #1

From my previous post: "The first girl (friday night) was very interested in me and we talked for a while at the bar, when I told her I had to leave she was visibly disappointed and looking back on it I was dumb because I could have probably isolated her and started making out. But my game is still noob and I'm learning as I go along. I sent the first text last night and she responds immediately. I text her back 30 minutes later saying we should hangout later this week.. no response since. "

She even complied physically when we were talking. Anyways, I sent one more text yesterday rebooting the convo since it had been 3 days (using the grape juice opener for OKC) and it worked:

Me: I'm free tomorrow night, if I got to know you, I would invite you over for a romantic dinner and as soon as you arrived, I would pull you close and whisper in your ear "I have a swanson tv dinner in the freezer with your name on it." Then I would fill your wine glass with welch's grape juice.
Her: Hahahaha
Me: so what time am i picking you up?
Her: That depends is it white or purple grape juice?
Me: purple of course, its rich in anti-oxidents.
Her: Tomorrow at 7? Better be romantic
Me: Romance at 7 works for me. where am I picking you up?
Her: Depends on where we are going?
Me: Do you like italian? Im thinking we can try ***** pizzeria, i hear everything is pretty good there
Her: Sounds good

She seems cool, but i see the whole paying for shit as kinda weak.. just feels like im being used for a dinner from the "Depends on where we are going?" line. I'm thinking I'll get a booth table and sit next to her, if she gets all weird or insists that I sit across maybe I'll just walk out.. thats another question, any you guys ever walk out on a date?

Post: #2

You're the one who volunteered dinner instead of drinks, so don't blame her. Next time offer drinks instead. Still not too late to switch to sushi IMO because then you can drink more and it's "lighter" food.

A pizza dinner isn't that expensive so I don't think you should sweat splitting a pizza with her and paying for it. My only criticism of that suggestion is that pizza is fairly heavy and it will ruin any wine or alcohol buzz you have and reduce your chances of a hookup.

Always do drinks only and failing that do something light like tapas or sushi.

Post: #3

You offered to take her a a restaurant to eat-how can you accuse her of using you for dinner when it was you who suggested the restaurant?

That was a fuckup-you don't take a girl you are trying to seduce to a sit down restaurant-you take her to a bar or at least the lounge bar of a restaurant.

And what was wrong with her asking where you two were going? you just said you would pick her up, is she being a bitch just for asking where you will be taking her? Seems like a normal question to me. And now you're thinking about just walking out on her. Are you going to stick her with the bill too?



When you pick the girl up tell her you've changed her mind and take her to someplace where you can have drinks and eat while sitting at the bar. And stop blaming girls for your mistakes- you will only improve in game if you learn to recognize when you fucked up and take responsibility for it

Post: #4

haha Mike you were quicker on the draw than me

Post: #5

Is it possible that you are over thinking this? You asked where you should pick her up. I think she replied "it depends where we're going" for logistical reasons not to decide if the restaurant was fancy enough for her discriminating palate. JMHO.

If you're worried she's a Dinner Whore you could always change the venue to a bar.

Post: #6

Thanks for the shit kick.. and keep in mind im still a recovering beta and new to game so im learning as I go along. I'll switch up venues

Post: #7

(02-07-2013 03:52 PM)NomadofEU Wrote:  Thanks for the shit kick.. and keep in mind im still a recovering beta and new to game so im learning as I go along. I'll switch up venues

this girl wants to have sex with you. rock it bro

Post: #8

you'll still smash her if you play it right