Post: #26

Good Lord, look at that nose!!!

Post: #27

There are quite a few women out there like her.

Either from physical abuse, emotional abuse, are weird upbringing, they are simply not into sex.

The sad thing is that many of them lie to themselves and men in order to induce them into marriage only to reveal their tru colors afterwards

I suspect many bad marriages and divorces are often the result of women who shut down sex because they were never into it anyway....

at least she´s honest abd not torturing some guy.

Post: #28

Here's another article on this madness.

Quote:People hoping to start a new relationship can generally expect a prospective partner will come with baggage of some kind.

But Lisa Smith comes with one of the tallest orders of all - no sex. Ever.

Speaking with Ruth Langsford and Eamonn Holmes on the ITV This Morning sofa today, Lisa confessed she 'hopes to find a man who is wiling to embrace her asexuality'.

While she is willing to extend intimacy to levels of cuddling, she finds the act of sex itself completely repellent.

Quote:Sitting with ITV psychologist Emma Kelly, Lisa said: 'I don't think anything's ever set completely in stone, but this is how I feel now.'

Her teenage years at school were difficult, especially in sex education.
'It didn't seem like something I would ever do. I was embarrassed because everyone was giggling - especially girls.

'I saw it as a coming of age thing - something I wanted to get it out the way.'



Speaking about her first sexual experience Lisa said: 'I was in a relationship with someone I trusted who was wonderful, but I saw it as a chore and I didn't want to do it.

Quote:'It was a case of "I want to be with him, and I have to do this in order to be with him".'

'All my partners were patient men willing to do anything to make me happy. They didn't pressure into anything.'

Translation:

Quote:But, she says, even after trying everything in the bedroom to rid her of her disgust for the act she still felt repulsed and found sex didn't 'do anything' for her.

Quote:Emma Kelly said asexuality affects one per cent of the population in the UK - so it's a lot more common than people might think.

Really? That sounds about as rare as I'd expect it to be.

Quote:Lisa said she gets frustrated when people say maybe she 'hasn't met the right man', she's 'not doing it right', or that maybe she just 'likes women but hasn't realised it yet'.'

'I'd love to be in a loving relationship and settle down,' she said.

'But the extent of intimacy would be cuddling.'

Quote:When asked about her hopes for the future and finding a man to settle down with, Lisa's reply reveals her fears. 'I'm an asexual vegan who doesn't want kids - I'm thinking crazy cat lady.'

Quote:'I want to get married and have a house - but no sex.'

She then admitted it was a 'tall order'.

Psychologist Emma jumped in and said 'people underestimate men' and this is 'an opportunity'.

LOL

Quote:Lisa said that if she met the man of her dreams and he wanted sex, she would say no.

'I would have to tell them from the beginning. I'd feel like I was compromising myself and I would detest them for making me do something I don't want to do.'

Since her article for the Mail, Lisa said she's had really positive response from AVEN [the Asexual Visibility and Education Network].

'A lot of them don't feel they can come forward and say it,' she said.

But, unfortunately, she said she has also had some 'horrible' comments, like: 'You can't get a man and this is how you cover it up'.

She finished on a final hopeful note that 'there are people who physically can't have sex and still have relationships', and that 'it's harder of men to admit to it as "being up for it" is expected of them 24/7'.

I suppose I can respect her honesty at least. Kdolo is right that this isn't unique to her- lots of victims of emotional/physical/sexual abuse are walking around out there with similar viewpoints stemming from some very bad experiences they've had in their youth. Some parents have really and truly fucked up their kids, and they grow up and turn into this.

It's unfortunate.

Post: #29

Would my story make the news if my requirement was: "Man, wants to find a woman for emotion-less relationship predicated on endless sex"?

Post: #30

Either she just hasn't had good sex. Or she's a sexual which partnering up with a guy who is self proclaimed as a sexual wouldn't be outside the realm of possibility. There is a documentary on a sexual people on netflix, it was interesting.

Post: #31

(02-01-2013 05:44 PM)gamepadawan Wrote:  Either she just hasn't had good sex. Or she's a sexual which partnering up with a guy who is self proclaimed as a sexual wouldn't be outside the realm of possibility. There is a documentary on a sexual people on netflix, it was interesting.

I think I saw this doc, or something similar. There are people that are born chemically/physiologically asexual. It's rare, but possible. Others become some out of some form of trauma perhaps. Even the softest heterosexual dude is going to want some pussy occasionally, so this IS a tall order. She's going to need one of the rare asexual men, or a closeted gay dude to step up.

Post: #32

(02-01-2013 12:31 PM)Menace Wrote:  Look at her younger pictures, she has aged badly. Also read how some dude lasted 7 YEARS with her having minimal sex. This is what we are fighting against. I'm not sure what her issues are, but I can't say that I'm hating on her because she's up front about her weird issue.

If she looks like this at her age now, imagine what she will look like in 7-10 years from now. She has certainly aged very badly. I also suspect she has some major mental issues as well.

Post: #33

What HAPPENED to this woman? What could make somebody who's not even in their 30s look like that? Some kind of bad skin condition?

Post: #34

She should go on Stern and sit on the sybian.

Post: #35

She is vegan. That could explain the lack of facial fat. She reminds me of a golum.

Post: #36

Why doesn't she search for a disabled man, incapable of sex. Or a man with incurable impotence? or just become a lesbian? Why is she looking for a man for a sexless relationship?

Ohhh. She still wants validation. Kdolo is right - at least she isn't torturing some poor bastard. But she's still a huge attention whore.

Post: #37

She could have what she wants if she decided to be flexible.

for example, there are men who wold put up with her provided she did the followng things
1. maintained a perfect home
2. cooked
3. maintaned a drama free relationship- perfect companionship
4. looked the other way-allowed the man to have women on the side

I suspect being a woman, that the idea of fairness and equity is an anthema to her. So, she would not go for any of 1 -4. But if she could be reasonable, and accept them, some guy would take her up on the offer.

She could also become part of some guys harem-rotation and provivde in abundance all the things a guy needs other than sex,

Post: #38

She was an ugly child as well.

Post: #39

This illustrates how fundamentally broken modern psychology is as an institution of studying and curing mental illness. Instead of probing a possible defect that allows this woman to be completely okay with abandoning her biological imperative, the psychologist's response is essentially "There's probably a man pathetic enough out there to be okay with this arrangement."

Sad.

Post: #40

vegetarians/vegans: I consider a girl being vegX a warning sign
Vegetarian diet and mental disorders: results from a representative community survey

Post: #41

She should just become some guys beard. If she moved to a country which was still shitty to out homosexuals she'd snap a closet case up right quick.

Post: #42

She does look a little like Jane Seymour, but JS is over 60!
I think it was Catherine Deneuve who said that at a certain age you have to choose between your face and your ass. I don't think she meant that women should get fat so they won't wrinkle. More like if you starve yourself to have an ultra skinny figure, you are going to pay the price with a prematurely aged face.

I bet this women has been yo-yo dieting since she was a teen. She probably thinks fats are evil.

Also, there is, at least in my experience a correlation between women who are overly picky eaters and/or on super restrictive diets and ones who are frigid.

Post: #43

Aren't there a lot of illegal aliens in the UK? She could even get paid to marry one and if she picks well the guy can be her cuddle bunny as she seems to like.

Post: #44

She looks frightening; I literally cringe and shudder seeing her picture, she's a monster. I'm not surprised that face goes also with a warped mind.

Remember: people who look evil, usually are.

That said, there's nothing wrong with wanting a friend without sex, although it may be unrealistic. I've wanted just to cuddle/have physical affection with girls before, and no intercourse; I see nothing wrong with that, or with using a woman as an emotional pillow to share your problems with. But it never really works out; girl always wants to fuck, and gets angry when you're not making a move on her...

Post: #45

What kind of guy would be willing to put up with a relationship with no sex. Maybe that broad just needs a big dick to calm her down haha.

Post: #46

(02-02-2013 10:18 PM)donkey_puncher Wrote:  What kind of guy would be willing to put up with a relationship with no sex. Maybe that broad just needs a big dick to calm her down haha.

Married men.

Don't underestimate how pathetic guys can be. I'm sure there's some guy out there who would sign up for this.

Post: #47

(02-01-2013 08:51 PM)Faust Wrote:  What HAPPENED to this woman? What could make somebody who's not even in their 30s look like that? Some kind of bad skin condition?

It's called being British.

Post: #48

She looks retarded, she can go fuck herself

The WORST thing about this is that other females will copy-cat it to belong and conform to this sisterhood nonsense.

For mine she can die a virgin, she is a attention whore, its her [its] 15mins. of fame

What she REALLY needs is to book herself into this nice resort:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story...d=93581736

"Lifes about, shooting your load"

Post: #49

seems pretty normal for 1 or a few people out of 6 or 7 billion to have no interest in sex at all

Post: #50

(yawn)

Chronic masturbator.

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There are two major categories of chronic masturbators in the world: 15-year old boys who fantasize that a supermodel is going to walk through the door, fling off her clothes, and beg to have sex with him, and...32 year old women who fantasize that "they can still wait a few more years" before a handsome high status man will fall at her feet and beg to marry her.

The difference between these two groups is...eventually the boys will grow up and have sex with a real girl