Post: #1

4 weeks into the Roosh program and I have 2 bangs, 4 make-outs, and multiple phone numbers, so I'm not doing too bad.

However, these all come from bars with no dance floor, and I've probably missed 1-2 bangs solely because I can't dance.

I've searched the internet for advice (particularly dancing in clubs) but I'm just not finding anything. I don't think going out and doing more shitty dancing is the answer, either. This guy is my idol but I don't necessarily need to be him, I just want to be able to pull on the dance floor:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRLEDSA4afo

Does anyone have any advice? My last resort is calling a dance studio, showing them this video, and saying "name your price, I want to dance like him".

Post: #2

Um, in terms of "dance", that's just bending your knees in time with the music. Pretty fricking dull.

In terms of being calm when approaching girls and not getting all jerky and moving too fast but keeping things slow and calm --that's not something a dance studio can teach you. That's just earned confidence.

In terms of locating a club where the dance floor isn't a sausage fest, there aren't girls dancing in a group circle blocking everyone else out, but just a huge amount of chill chicks by themselves or with one friend, able to be singled out, and without the floor being crowded... wow, who couldn't slay facing a crowd like he has in that video? So many chicks he can blow one off and trade up, and all she can do is stand there pissed and stare at the cameraman. Fucking fantastic job on the venue selection.

For twirling girls, take three months of tango or swing classes anywhere. Learning to lead girls into twirls and dips is easy.

Or if you just don't care, look for blues dancing. It's just dignified dry humping with no skill at all.

Post: #3

Try meetup.com. If you live in any major city in the U.S. you can find a variety of beginners dance groups to get started. Once you learn the basics, you can practice more out in public without embarrassing yourself. Just being willing to put yourself out there gives you a competitive advantage over the 80% or so of American men who don't or won't. If you want to be aggressive about this, invest some money in some lessons. The best way to do this is to network with people in meetup groups who will tell you who the good teachers are.

Post: #4

(01-29-2013 02:48 AM)Capitán Peligroso Wrote:  Try meetup.com. If you live in any major city in the U.S. you can find a variety of beginners dance groups to get started. Once you learn the basics, you can practice more out in public without embarrassing yourself. Just being willing to put yourself out there gives you a competitive advantage over the 80% or so of American men who don't or won't. If you want to be aggressive about this, invest some money in some lessons. The best way to do this is to network with people in meetup groups who will tell you who the good teachers are.

I bet you can pull at some of the dance meet ups. Meetup.com has been a mini gold mine for me, pussy wise. Hint: hiking.

Post: #5

(01-29-2013 07:13 AM)ryanf Wrote:  

(01-29-2013 02:48 AM)Capitán Peligroso Wrote:  Try meetup.com. If you live in any major city in the U.S. you can find a variety of beginners dance groups to get started. Once you learn the basics, you can practice more out in public without embarrassing yourself. Just being willing to put yourself out there gives you a competitive advantage over the 80% or so of American men who don't or won't. If you want to be aggressive about this, invest some money in some lessons. The best way to do this is to network with people in meetup groups who will tell you who the good teachers are.

I bet you can pull at some of the dance meet ups. Meetup.com has been a mini gold mine for me, pussy wise. Hint: hiking.

Yup

Post: #6

I just bought this DVD and it's actually pretty good.

Post: #7

Read Samseau's thread.