Post: #1

Woman always say they find confidence attractive, but that simple statement is not easily understood. The link below gives some detail to what confidence is, in sports. This can be adjusted for gaming woman. The article list 6 sources and 5 exercises to boost it. The overall website provides a wealth of info for sports training and exercise.

An example, source 6: Emotional State.
Emotional states is the final source of self-confidence and relates to how you control the emotions associated with competition, such as excitement and anxiety. Very often, the importance of the occasion creates self-doubt, which is why it is essential to control your thoughts and emotions. Learning imagery and concentration skills such as those described in "the spotlight of excellence" (Exercise 2 below) will help.

http://www.brianmac.co.uk/selfcon.htm

Post: #2

Here an exercise that I do with basketball players who are not shooting the ball well:

I have them approach a few 9+ girls and try to number close. The process of doing this forces them to deal with their underlying fear and self-doubt. I've found that this can remove much of the tension in the body-mind of the athlete and allow him to shoot with greater comfort and confidence.

When you are fearless around a beautiful woman, shooting the ball is easy.