Post: #1

I was just curious if anyone on here cared about what social class a girl comes from?

Or if she is from a good/wealthy family?

It doesn't seem like many people care about that on here, but to me it matters a lot with girls I date.

I will take a girl that has good manners, and comes from a good/wealthy family over a girl that is hotter but doesn't have that going for her.

Anyone else feel the same way?

Post: #2

For just a bang/notch?....nah, I don't care.

For something more serious or long-lasting (or raw-dog with risk of pregnancy)?....I think my previous posts would suggest that I care about her wealth a lot?....LOL

Post: #3

Wealth- important, but at the end of day irrelevant to me. Class/Manners/Attitude- very important if its a girl whos a part of my life. ONS i dont care.

I am with you. No matter how hot the girl, atrocious behaviors and manners quickly trump hotness factor.

A cute girl (aka 7) with decent upbringing and sweet personality is imo more enjoyable long-term than a stir-crazy 9.

Post: #4

As long as she's ladylike I can work with it.

Post: #5

Depends on how the wealth was created in her family; new money vs. old money.

Old money: if her parents were born into wealth, then she will likely be spoiled, and will not understand the value of a dollar. That's not the type of girl I can relate to, nor do I want to spend any serious time with.

New money: if her parents were born dirt poor, and earned their high wealth through tremendous hard work, then that will have rubbed off on the girl during her upbringing, and her personality will be more selfless and genuine.

Best case scenario for me would be a girl who created her own wealth, irrespective of her family.

Post: #6

Class is super important to me if it's going to go past a ONS.

Aside from being outstanding arm candy, I can't be seen with some trashy girl. Even if she comes from a modest background, she'd be comport her self with grace, class, dignity, and style if she want to roll with me.

Post: #7

I think that such a low percentage of "high society" type women actually earn their own wealth that it's sort of irrelevant.

I too put a premium on class, but my definition of class is astronomically different from what your average rich white chick calls class.

In this day an age, a classy fly chick is without major mental disorders, wears heels without walking like a baby giraffe, had a strong father and respects masculine energy, and sincerely tempers the rough edges of her man. I've seen these types from families rich as sin and families poor as dirt.

The group that produces the most classy chicas I have met would definitely be middle class Mexican-Americans with one white collar breadwinner.

Post: #8

ONS/short term I don't really care.

For Longer term, of course manners are critical but Im not sure how well that correlates with family background. We've all met uncouth rich biatches and also girls from modest backgrounds who carry themselves well.

Not knowing anything else and speaking on FAMILY SOCIAL CLASS, Id like a girl to come from a middle class background (like myself). If her family is wealthy, high likelihood she's a spoiled brat and high maintenance. If she grew up poor, I worry I'd feel like Daddy Warbucks.

When it comes to what a girl has achieved ON HER OWN, Id like a girl who has got something going on and can stand on her own 2 (schoolteacher, small business, whatever...something). Of course, that success should never come close to her man's...not a good situation.

Post: #9

Frankly, it's very important when I'm looking for a girlfriend.

It's just as important when I find a girlfriend for the night.

I've been exposed to how "they" live. Attraction is powerful when you run into another girl, by chance, whom also understands how "they" live.

Post: #10

For me, class is about attitude. I think that poor/middle-class women who spend all their money on clothes/purses are just as classy as rich girls who are materialistic. I am lower-middle-class and I usually click with upwardly-mobile women who are from my class or upper-class women who respect my hustle.

A woman having money is somewhat important to me; sometimes a thought pops into my head that the low-income ladies are using me for a drink, ride, etc., but that never pops into my head with wealthy women because I know that they could easily do these things for themselves and thus genuinely enjoy my company.So in a way, it's easier to know that I am building emotional rapport with a wealthier girl than with a poorer girl which is a good thing.

Post: #11

I couldn't care less. I'll bang anything from a ghetto bitch to a wealthy primadonna.

Post: #12

I used to think that I preferred self aware meditating women only. Then I realized that many of those have an unbearable neurotic burden and that meditating had no correlation to cheerfulness and easy companionship.

But I was still sure that I needed high intelligence. Until I saw that a woman with high intelligence is very smart at rationalizing crazy bullshit.

I've been with women of all classes and intelligence and education and meditation ability.

Number one is her affect. Is she cheerful? Is she easy to get along with?

Class doesn't affect affect.

I don't care if I find the girl in the trash can. If she makes me feel good, she's good.

But after that, yes, all the other attributes weigh in. They are a minor consideration. I'd never choose or reject a woman based on the minor considerations only.

Oh, also it's of benefit to me if the woman considers me above her station, and that I have way more money than she could expect to earn on her own. That's just Having Hand 101. The expense of having this hand means nothing to me - making money is my job, and I do my job.

Post: #13

Wealth isn't important to me, except insofar as I want a girl who is virtuous and down-to-earth. A girl too poor will tend to be too uneducated and unrefined to be very virtuous, as she'll instinctively tend to view the world in terms of material things (what she doesn't have and would like to get.) A girl too wealthy will tend to be a spoiled brat. As I am not wealthy, I find it hard to relate to them because I can't throw around money like they do, and I find that their surfeit of "stuff" tends to make them just as shallow as the poorer gold-digger, in a way. Conclusion: I was raised middle-class, and I can relate best to middle-class girls, although this isn't set in stone by any means.

Class, IMO, is much more important. If I spend time with a girl outside my efforts to get her in the sack, it's because she is enjoyable to be around, and a large part of that involves, on her part, ladylike bearing, good taste, sensibility, and a sense of propriety, decorum, and modesty. These characteristics are sadly lacking in girls today, especially the younger ones, who tend to have mouths like sailors and vaginas to match -which is why I, as well as most of us, I dare say, choose to be players. A girl that I wouldn't dream of taking to a dinner engagement can, after all, still supply excellent sex.

Post: #14

It's already been said, but acting classy outweighs wealth. As a man I'm not relying on a wealthy bitch, so money is never going to be an issue.

But acting like a lady is a huge factor in keeping a girl around. No one wants to wear a hood rat around their arm.

Post: #15

To me, it doesn't matter much. I prefer that she's feminine regardless of her station. Femininity (is that a word?) trumps all.

Post: #16

Ok, so we are separating Class and Wealth.

How important to you is it that she has both Class and Wealth?

Post: #17

Class and wealth tend to go hand in hand. Wealth is not that important to me. The women I'm after are middle to upper middle class (women here are quite homogeneous in that respect) and they all work so as long as they're not leeching off of me, I'm cool.

Post: #18

For a ONS I wouldn't care. Although even for a ONS I wouldn't go for something too trashy.

For a relationship yes. It's very important. But, you have to get to know them first. Just because someone has money doesn't mean they have class and manners. I know a few people with lots of money and little class.

Post: #19

(01-06-2013 11:24 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Ok, so we are separating Class and Wealth.

How important to you is it that she has both Class and Wealth?

I think the general consensus, myself included, is leaning toward class taking priority over wealth. But it really depends on the context because the definition of the two can get mixed up.

Does classy mean that she can sustain her lifestyle without my largess?
Does wealthy mean she has greater access to high society?

I don't mean to split hairs here, I'm just saying that I prefer to trust my instincts rather than make a complete science out of it.

I'll know it when I see it.

Post: #20

G, I'm curious as why you're interested in this question. The only reason I could ever want a girl who has wealth would be if I wanted her to buy me something, or if I was planning to have a kid with her.

Post: #21

(01-05-2013 08:41 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  I was just curious if anyone on here cared about what social class a girl comes from?

Or if she is from a good/wealthy family?

It doesn't seem like many people care about that on here, but to me it matters a lot with girls I date.

I will take a girl that has good manners, and comes from a good/wealthy family over a girl that is hotter but doesn't have that going for her.

Anyone else feel the same way?

I agree with you I think there is something extra attractive about a girl who comes from a wealthy family and carries herself well and has good manners. However, I almost always find these types of girls to be extremely high maintenance because they are used to having what they want and getting waited on hand and foot.

My ex girlfriend was a prime example of this. She was Spanish and from Madrid and her family had some serious cash cooks/cleaners, pool, mercedes, eating jamón iberico for a snack, etc. I learned a lot from the way her family acted and her dad and mom carried themselves really well.

Relationships should be mutualistic and you should benefit from it as well. This is why I agree that a girl with money/wealthy upbringing is more likely to provide you with opportunities through networking and things like that, and also to enjoy some of the finer things without you always having to foot the bill. I prefer to date girls like that.

Post: #22

The longest LTR in my life, 4 or 5 years, was with a girl who was far richer than me. Her family took us on a cruise around Hawaii. When we broke up, she left a lot of her shit at my house, including her Prada shoes. At the time, I didn't know shit about fashion and gave it all to the salvation army.

She called a month after the breakup to see if I still had those shoes and I told her "I gave everything to the Salvation Army."

Post: #23

It's not important at all to me. I'm all about looks and personality.

Post: #24

A girl without class will simply not "get" me. I have dropped many a fine tail the moment I realized that I was pretty much talking to someone who considered fine dining to be a grande nacho platter or used single malt with coke to make a drink. It's not about me being pompous but the fact that I will get so little in return from the interaction apart from the friction of her lips rubbing against my prick.

The same goes for those times when I've talked to "Zoolander".

Post: #25

This thread made me think hard. In the midst of that thinking I had a revelation.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/01/0...h-options/

I would much rather have the options of multiple chicks at my beck and call, so that I can have a variety of fulfilling experiences. You know that chicks love drama and class and high value men? I prefer to have the whole range of options available at once. Life as a man would be intense and amazing being able to see beauty in a wealthy girl, and at the same time see beauty in a low class girl. And bang them all.