Post: #1

I am fairly new to this whole scene but I am not someone who is completely inexperienced either. I have a largely extrovert personality and tend to make friends everywhere I go. Women have long been my kryptonite though.

I have had girlfriends before but my biggest problem is esclation and approach anxiety. The latter of which has gotten infinitely better by me pushing myself out of the comfort zone. I just need a little guidance and also a little competition. I noticed when I compete I turn into a different person and become so driven. For example, we went to a club recently with my friends(betas/I prefer hanging out with my women friends because of that) and I found the need to compete and shut the whole place down. Literally I danced with every girl and I was so confident that not a single rejection was heard that day. Got a cute girls number which ended in a flake. I was too aggressive with her on the dance floor trying to grab her crotch LOL and I could have gotten a few other numbers but by then I had drank so much I ended my night with my eyes closed, head on shoulder, slow dancing with a chick and having an awesome convo. Definitely could have done a SNL with her! Crazy fucking night though lol I ended up dancing and had a huge circle around me. Felt like a fucking eagle going all over the dance floor to mark my new prey. Was even approaching sets of 2 girls and getting the cuter girl to dance with me while her friend just stood by LOL

I know there is a beast inside me and I could be a natural. Just need to get rid of my approach anxiety and learn to esclate. And by compete I don't mean cock block, just need someone to make it into a competition for me. I also need guidance/feedback.

Also what male feminist next to name? What calls for this disgusting title?!

Even anyone on here that I could Email/PM/Text or whatever would work!

Post: #2

Tri-state area as in near NYC? I spend my summers there. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

Post: #3

Quote:Also what male feminist next to name? What calls for this disgusting title?!

That's because of your post count.
Under 25 posts: male feminist
25 posts: game denialist
75: beta orbiter
150: recovering beta and on and on

Post: #4

The longer you're here and the more you contribute by posting,
the cooler the custom label you'll achieve.

It's a rank in RVF community based on PUA and Game terminology.
It's all in good fun.

Post: #5

dude, in all honesty you will probably have better luck finding a wing in the RSD or Love Systems forums. Also, I would never wing with someone without a posting history.

I've met about 5 "wings" in real life before from the Internet, and only one was a cool guy. The others were just fucking unbelievable weird. And I'm a pretty fucking looney with a very high tolerance for weird people, but these guys were just....<mind blown>.

Post: #6

(01-02-2013 09:32 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  dude, in all honesty you will probably have better luck finding a wing in the RSD or Love Systems forums. Also, I would never wing with someone without a posting history.

I've met about 5 "wings" in real life before from the Internet, and only one was a cool guy. The others were just fucking unbelievable weird. And I'm a pretty fucking looney with a very high tolerance for weird people, but these guys were just....<mind blown>.

I get you man, I am just trying to have a little fun with this while learning along the way. I know what you mean about the weirdos, was definitely one of my fears when making this topic.

I am kind of the alpha male in my group and most of my friends are women so I feel like I have had to learn everything out on my own.

I will try to get a posting history going.

Thanks for replying though!

(01-02-2013 09:26 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  The longer you're here and the more you contribute by posting,
the cooler the custom label you'll achieve.

It's a rank in RVF community based on PUA and Game terminology.
It's all in good fun.

Do you read Heartiste's blog? For some reason you sound so familiar!

(01-02-2013 06:22 PM)Leaper Wrote:  Tri-state area as in near NYC? I spend my summers there. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

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