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I've got a few bangs from moments. Mostly from girls I've matched weeks or a month or so in the past. Seems like it's could be a good tool to boost your cool factor or remind some girls that you are still a match. I've had a couple message me right away because of it.
I travel quite a bit so I like to show them how 'cool' my lifestyle is.
Talent has dropped off considerably now. I suspect it will be a struggle outside of summer and college breaks. I doubled my total tinder notch count within that 4 weeks window of school breaks.
Anyone in college use it? I'm curious to see how girls respond when school is in.
Benoit 路 2015-01-07 17:06:00 路 #3128
(01-07-2015 04:19 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got two new numbers off Tinder last night and looking good for a third, back on the horse!
Lost one girl who was looking good because when I suggested switching to whatsapp she said she didn't have it but wanted to add me on Facebook and use Facebook chat instead. I said I don't have it, then she called me a weirdo and she unmatched me. But I figure she would have been a dead end anyway.
You
have to have a facebook account to use Tinder. Some girls are even smart enough to realise this.
So perhaps she was trying to check out your details before going any further.
Probably was a dead end but a response like "the chat app doesn't work on my phone" might be better in future, then it's less like you're hiding anything.
DJ-Matt 路 2015-01-07 17:27:00 路 #3129
(01-06-2015 06:22 PM)Sourcecode Wrote: SNIP
This is actually a great video on why you need to be original as fuck as have good pictures.
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Thanks so much for that video, after watching it I had the epiphany that my messages DO need to matter and not just be cut and paste. Just last night I got three responses in a row because of customized and friendly messages using photos or the profile.
The_CEO 路 2015-01-08 01:22:00 路 #3130
Just signed up (couple hrs ago). No matches do far.
Some gem profiles I saw:
"Over 25? No. Just no."
"i'm 5'5". You must be over 6'4". No midgets."
"What do you call a guy under 5'11"...? Friends."
Also, it seems like the more I swipe left the fatter they get.
In fact I think I am going to put this as my profile blurb: "The more I swipe the fatter they get."
Or... "Over 110lbs? No. Just no."
Roardog 路 2015-01-08 01:29:00 路 #3131
(01-07-2015 05:06 PM)Benoit Wrote: (01-07-2015 04:19 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got two new numbers off Tinder last night and looking good for a third, back on the horse!
Lost one girl who was looking good because when I suggested switching to whatsapp she said she didn't have it but wanted to add me on Facebook and use Facebook chat instead. I said I don't have it, then she called me a weirdo and she unmatched me. But I figure she would have been a dead end anyway.
You have to have a facebook account to use Tinder. Some girls are even smart enough to realise this.
So perhaps she was trying to check out your details before going any further.
Probably was a dead end but a response like "the chat app doesn't work on my phone" might be better in future, then it's less like you're hiding anything.
Yeah, she said "Don't you have to have Facebook to get Tinder?" and I said "there are ways around that." That is when she called me a weirdo. I agree that I don't think I handled it very well but I'm not letting random girls add me on Facebook or moving from one chat medium to another without the number.
I like your response, it is less suspect.
bigbait 路 2015-01-08 13:01:00 路 #3132
(01-08-2015 01:29 AM)Roardog Wrote: (01-07-2015 05:06 PM)Benoit Wrote: (01-07-2015 04:19 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got two new numbers off Tinder last night and looking good for a third, back on the horse!
Lost one girl who was looking good because when I suggested switching to whatsapp she said she didn't have it but wanted to add me on Facebook and use Facebook chat instead. I said I don't have it, then she called me a weirdo and she unmatched me. But I figure she would have been a dead end anyway.
You have to have a facebook account to use Tinder. Some girls are even smart enough to realise this.
So perhaps she was trying to check out your details before going any further.
Probably was a dead end but a response like "the chat app doesn't work on my phone" might be better in future, then it's less like you're hiding anything.
Yeah, she said "Don't you have to have Facebook to get Tinder?" and I said "there are ways around that." That is when she called me a weirdo. I agree that I don't think I handled it very well but I'm not letting random girls add me on Facebook or moving from one chat medium to another without the number.
I like your response, it is less suspect.
hahaha! that is weird because there is no way around it! i just tell them i don't ever use my fb. anyway, getting fb or instagram is great so that you can see more pics of the girl and decide if you she is worth your time. just don't friend them.
kaotic 路 2015-01-08 13:08:00 路 #3133
(01-08-2015 01:01 PM)bigbait Wrote: (01-08-2015 01:29 AM)Roardog Wrote: (01-07-2015 05:06 PM)Benoit Wrote: (01-07-2015 04:19 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got two new numbers off Tinder last night and looking good for a third, back on the horse!
Lost one girl who was looking good because when I suggested switching to whatsapp she said she didn't have it but wanted to add me on Facebook and use Facebook chat instead. I said I don't have it, then she called me a weirdo and she unmatched me. But I figure she would have been a dead end anyway.
You have to have a facebook account to use Tinder. Some girls are even smart enough to realise this.
So perhaps she was trying to check out your details before going any further.
Probably was a dead end but a response like "the chat app doesn't work on my phone" might be better in future, then it's less like you're hiding anything.
Yeah, she said "Don't you have to have Facebook to get Tinder?" and I said "there are ways around that." That is when she called me a weirdo. I agree that I don't think I handled it very well but I'm not letting random girls add me on Facebook or moving from one chat medium to another without the number.
I like your response, it is less suspect.
hahaha! that is weird because there is no way around it! i just tell them i don't ever use my fb. anyway, getting fb or instagram is great so that you can see more pics of the girl and decide if you she is worth your time. just don't friend them.
Girls ask me this all the time, I always tell them due to what I do for work, I'm not allowed to have a FB, so I created a dummy FB profile for Tinder so I don't get fired.
Also, if a girl want to switch to what's app thats fine, if she wants to FB chat, forget it.
I NEVER go for any chat app, I always go for the number, and I've got some LMR:
"I don't give my number out to just anyone"
-I'm not anyone and I need to make sure you aren't some 6'4 300 lb duded named Bubba so you're gonna send me a selfie doing (tongue out/flipping off/spoon)
"Do you have snapchat ?"
-Nope not on this phone, it keeps crashing. (However snap is a good way to get nudes).
"Do you have Instagram?"
-No I'm not a little girl haha. Besides people fake that shit also. (I actually have one).
ALWAYS go for the number and have them send a selfie so you get a better look at them.
Some girls just want to have some chat beta orbiters, don't be that guy.
Push them into a PNL position (Phone number or leave) that way you can filter easily whose interested, luke warm, or just wanting validation online.
The_CEO 路 2015-01-08 13:16:00 路 #3134
Re: the Instagram thing...
Do you guys always swipe "Nope" when you see those profiles?
kaotic 路 2015-01-08 13:23:00 路 #3135
(01-08-2015 01:16 PM)The_CEO Wrote: Re: the Instagram thing...
Do you guys always swipe "Nope" when you see those profiles?
All girls have IG, I don't swipe nope.
(My tinder bio has a line saying "no I won't follow your thirsty ass on IG")
It's also a good way to recon, their interests and where they've been. Then use that to relate to them (but not indirectly tell them you creeped their IG).
It's also a great way to tell if they're a SIF.
If a girl ever asks me to check out their IG to see more pics (when I request a selfie) that's when I use the above line.
Rawmeo 路 2015-01-08 13:33:00 路 #3136
"Do you have FB"?
- No, I just created an account to be able to register on Tinder. I really hate FB.
I just saw a profile today:
"I'm high status girl, and if you are not hi-so, don't message me. No small men, no bad looking. I deserve the best, so like me to apply."
Wow. Left-swipe.
kaotic 路 2015-01-08 14:07:00 路 #3137
(01-08-2015 01:33 PM)alex3948 Wrote: "Do you have FB"?
- No, I just created an account to be able to register on Tinder. I really hate FB.
I just saw a profile today:
"I'm high status girl, and if you are not hi-so, don't message me. No small men, no bad looking. I deserve the best, so like me to apply."
Wow. Left-swipe.
Hey guys have standards, so do girls, it's how the world works.
I always laugh because any girl who says that to me or simliar to that I always give them a reality check about hitting the wall and how their trade in value works.
(01-08-2015 02:07 PM)kaotic Wrote: (01-08-2015 01:33 PM)alex3948 Wrote: "Do you have FB"?
- No, I just created an account to be able to register on Tinder. I really hate FB.
I just saw a profile today:
"I'm high status girl, and if you are not hi-so, don't message me. No small men, no bad looking. I deserve the best, so like me to apply."
Wow. Left-swipe.
Hey guys have standards, so do girls, it's how the world works.
I always laugh because any girl who says that to me or simliar to that I always give them a reality check about hitting the wall and how their trade in value works.
Hey man how does that work for you?
I am being serious because I have been tempted to do that a few times but just bite my tongue and then take it out on them when I am pounding that pussy. Lol
What do you say?
How does it turn out? Does it kill the interaction?
kaotic 路 2015-01-08 18:25:00 路 #3139
(01-08-2015 06:08 PM)reco2100 Wrote: (01-08-2015 02:07 PM)kaotic Wrote: (01-08-2015 01:33 PM)alex3948 Wrote: "Do you have FB"?
- No, I just created an account to be able to register on Tinder. I really hate FB.
I just saw a profile today:
"I'm high status girl, and if you are not hi-so, don't message me. No small men, no bad looking. I deserve the best, so like me to apply."
Wow. Left-swipe.
Hey guys have standards, so do girls, it's how the world works.
I always laugh because any girl who says that to me or simliar to that I always give them a reality check about hitting the wall and how their trade in value works.
Hey man how does that work for you?
I am being serious because I have been tempted to do that a few times but just bite my tongue and then take it out on them when I am pounding that pussy. Lol
What do you say?
How does it turn out? Does it kill the interaction?
If I ever match a quote that has some condescending comment, i'll poke fun at them and joke, they either go ballistic or laugh and we carry one.
You can drop reality checks and red pill knowledge without saying it right.
I knew what was up when I was younger, but got called an asshole because I said red pills truths as they were. I've learned to casually and use clown game to drop these truths, typically I don't drop many of them until I grab her number or on the first date.
The_CEO 路 2015-01-09 00:15:00 路 #3140
Time to play hard ball.
I loaded my "pre-wall" profile photo from 10+ yrs ago.
Actually I'm still pre-wall but I feel like Tinder f'ks you if your'e 29+
Chaos 路 2015-01-09 00:35:00 路 #3141
Just started using the location changer for Manila since I'm arriving to the Phils in a week.
The quality is another world compared to Filipinocupid.
Used the massliker once, matches are rolling in on parade, including a bunch of ladyboys...
Still the talent is much better than FC
Got a bunch of girls on leash now.
Let's see what will happen once I'm on the ground.
So far I dare to say there is no need of using FC as long as you have Tinder.
Edit: Perhaps this post should have been posted in Satoshis Tinder thread.
nick_ 路 2015-01-09 05:21:00 路 #3142
The girls are more DTF/Westernized on Tinder/OKC than on FC too.
Back in the anglosphere it seems to be getting harder to get matches by the week, the ones that match never reply or just try and use me for attention. I haven't come close to setting up a date in ages, feel like uni-stalling...
FatBoy 路 2015-01-09 23:18:00 路 #3143
I just matched with a seemingly WB female (my first match in weeks). She initiates conversation with "Hey, I've seen you at Xyz nightclub."
I haven't replied yet and she's been offline for a while, how do I proceed without fucking it up or coming off needy?
I was going to go with "I barely ever go'there" but it sounds really pathetic come to think of it.
@Chaos - Its true you don't need FC, Tinder you should be getting around 70-95% match rate. I had 200+ interests on FC and didn't end up having time to meet any of them when I was in Phils last year.
@FatBoy - What does WB mean? And I dare say that any advice someone gives you won't come off well if you don't know how to send basic replies to start flirting..
The_CEO 路 2015-01-09 23:48:00 路 #3145
My first match...
messaged me offering p4p.
Big wake up call from my lifestyle overseas being back here and joining the thirsty masses.
Moma 路 2015-01-10 03:20:00 路 #3146
Just uploaded some muscle pics to Tinder. Shall see what it yields.
I'm interested to see the difference that might make Moma.
I've kept it fairly standard with pictures so far and done alright. But I've got some other pictures I wouldn't upload to my public Facebook that I think might pull in a lot more matches.
Let us know how it goes.
Moma 路 2015-01-10 10:21:00 路 #3148
(01-10-2015 05:57 AM)Blackwell Wrote: I'm interested to see the difference that might make Moma.
I've kept it fairly standard with pictures so far and done alright. But I've got some other pictures I wouldn't upload to my public Facebook that I think might pull in a lot more matches.
Let us know how it goes.
So far, just bots.
(01-10-2015 05:57 AM)Blackwell Wrote: I'm interested to see the difference that might make Moma.
I've kept it fairly standard with pictures so far and done alright. But I've got some other pictures I wouldn't upload to my public Facebook that I think might pull in a lot more matches.
Let us know how it goes.
You can make a private folder on facebook. Upload them to that folder and make sure its set to "only me".
The_CEO 路 2015-01-11 00:24:00 路 #3150
So far bots and 2 p4p offers.
Deleted my profile and realized I had another account that was attached to my number, so I deleted that and now when I make a new account it allows me to enter my number without giving me an error message.
Now though, when I make a new profile, I get 2-3 matches in an hour, then never get another match again. It's usually 3 real girls, 1 bot, then it freezes me out and I never match again.
Sadly, that's a step up from what I've had the past two months, which was 0 matches period. I guess now what I'll do is get 3-4 matches, number close, delete my profile, and start the whole process over again. Just match 3-4 girls, delete, and repeat. Annoying but better than nothing.
Something similar has happened before, and I quit Tinder for about 3-4 weeks. Then came back with a new profile and had a ton of success match wise. But I really don't want to go that long without using this thing.