omg let me tell you about this super hot betty boop looking hot hipster girl 10 years younger I found on Tinder, big boobs, super sexual looking, man she was so hot in those pics, wow she was a stunner.

then I met her. Online dating sucks.

(01-18-2014 10:15 AM)puckman Wrote:  omg let me tell you about this super hot betty boop looking hot hipster girl 10 years younger I found on Tinder, big boobs, super sexual looking, man she was so hot in those pics, wow she was a stunner.

then I met her. Online dating sucks.

I don't know if it's just my imagination but I've gotten several matches with girls who I don't recall ever right-swiping, because when I look through their picks I'm thinking, "why would I have right-swipped this chic, she's not even attractive at all." I'm wondering if Tinder just sends you a random match every now and then even if you guys didn't both click on each other's profile so that you stay interested in using the app? Anyone else notice this?

(01-17-2014 01:58 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(01-15-2014 10:14 PM)LiftedHabit Wrote:  I have had 29 matches and of the 29, 25 have replied. The opener I use is simple and so obvious and it has worked every time however I have yet to get laid off this app. But then again I barely put time and effort into it unless im taking a shit. But here is my opener:

"you're my first match haha"

try it out guys! it works well for the most part, just don't use that exact line every time

ive been trying it out, and yeah, used it on a nice european chick who is only 21 and super cute and has terrible english. she gave me her number after like 5 lines of back and forth.

"youre my first tinder match.... what part of town do you live?.... want to meet for coffee or drinks later this weekend?.... number close"

If it keeps working, i will have to give you a rep point, because i think that opener is gold.(tho granted seriously small sample size, but still)

personally I think this line is prime. pm me your results :D

I'm having trouble actually meeting the girls, even though the interactions go very well.

My go to opener is:
"Wow
Your hair = sexyyy haha"

Sometimes just "Wow", let them guess.

About 90% success.

Also, for the guys who are worried about swiping wrong: if you delete your profile and start it back again, apparently you restart all your matches. Girls who have swiped left for you will see you again, so change your pic or try something different.

I do this once every few days or weeks when things are stale and the results are great.

Went out with the 22 year old tonight. My first tinder date. 15 year age gap. Had fun, she threw a lot of shit tests, but passed them with flying colors, had a nice makeout, but didn't get up into her place tonight. Next time.

This girl is 28 years old and on Tinder. What do you think her future holds?

^^^ I wouldn't try that pizza opener with any chic older than college age. I don't she said anything wrong, I just think she's the wrong audience for that type of opener.

(01-20-2014 05:23 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  ^^^ I wouldn't try that pizza opener with any chic older than college age. I don't she said anything wrong, I just think she's the wrong audience for that type of opener.

You're right, of course. I've noticed a sharp divide between under 25 and above 25. I will refrain from using it going forward. Sad to see how much less fun women have as they age though...

(01-20-2014 05:32 PM)Nemausus Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 05:23 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  ^^^ I wouldn't try that pizza opener with any chic older than college age. I don't she said anything wrong, I just think she's the wrong audience for that type of opener.

You're right, of course. I've noticed a sharp divide between under 25 and above 25. I will refrain from using it going forward. Sad to see how much less fun women have as they age though...

Beyond the obvious physical reasons, that's also why I prefer way younger women. They are just more fun, pleasant and easy-going.

I gave Tinder a week's worth in NYC.

NOTHING came of it.

OKC was off the hook but Tinder dead as a door nail.

74 matches on tinder in 2 days here in London. Phone is throttling itself to death.

Radius: 6km

Age: 18-24

Would bang: 0/74

I have 174 matches, spoke to about 10, convo dies out after 10 or so back and forths cause the girls are boring as fuck and provide nothing to the convo
I'm crap with anything text-based though so maybe it's me, I'll stick to nightclub game

Same here

Ive had good conversations with ambunch of chicks but ultimately they flake after trying to set a meet up. I'm going less cocky/sexual over a longer period of time to err how that works. One thing I've noticed is all the girls are from other cities. It might affect my matches but I have a chick who might come up from the states this weekend.

At least in my area I'm having success with less sexual flirting. One thing ive been using is finding something in common with her and then saying ""whens the wedding". As opposed to saying something like "lets drink tequila and make out"

(01-20-2014 06:47 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  74 matches on tinder in 2 days here in London. Phone is throttling itself to death.

Radius: 6km

Age: 18-24

Would bang: 0/74

Why would you swipe yes to girls you wouldn't bang? Don't waste your time...? Just swipe the ones you would and some of the marginals ones... then when you match check them out more closely.

just wanted to say the best advice i got was to get the number ASAP. if you get a positive response after opening line, asking for a number the next has been working for me.

typically i say the app sucks and tell them to give me their number. I've picked up 2 in the past two days, I've been stunned by results.

(01-18-2014 06:09 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I don't know if it's just my imagination but I've gotten several matches with girls who I don't recall ever right-swiping, because when I look through their picks I'm thinking, "why would I have right-swipped this chic, she's not even attractive at all."

My guess too. Yesterday the first 5 or 6 I swiped where matches right away.

I got tinder today and for some reason can only go for girls between 13-17, (I think it looks at your fb age) so I don't have a very big pool (only girls 16 and 17) and the girls that young wont be keen to meet at bars etc. Also, new girls ran out after only 10 swipes and it said that there were no new people in the area. I'm going to email tinder and see whats up.
I'll post updates on here, so far gotten two matches, I'll speak to them tomorrow.

(01-20-2014 05:08 PM)Nemausus Wrote:  



This girl is 28 years old and on Tinder. What do you think her future holds?

obviously she has no sense of humor or fun so forgot that. One of the more creative ways to ask for a number, but a little drawn out. Its been said before but after a decent exchange where you build a little rapport a simple "hey this app sucks, lets text instead, whats your number" usually does the trick.

Vicious. I live in NYC as well, and I also find OKC to be far better than Tinder.

Sure you can def meet girls off Tinder, but I find it to be more of a game than anything. Neither myself, or girls seem to really take it seriously at all. Okc girls seem to have a bit more investment. Perhaps it's the more expansive profile?

(01-20-2014 06:19 PM)Vicious Wrote:  I gave Tinder a week's worth in NYC.

NOTHING came of it.

OKC was off the hook but Tinder dead as a door nail.

(01-21-2014 08:54 PM)puckman Wrote:  obviously she has no sense of humor or fun so forgot that. One of the more creative ways to ask for a number, but a little drawn out. Its been said before but after a decent exchange where you build a little rapport a simple "hey this app sucks, lets text instead, whats your number" usually does the trick.

Thanks for the tip, whoever came up with it. Getting their real number to text them has worked for me as a good flake defense.

Also, what I'm noticing is that even if you get a match, it almost means nothing unless the girl hits you up first. If I hit up a match first she either doesn't respond or it dies out within a few texts. I guess the same rule applies with OKC/POF.

(01-22-2014 01:25 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(01-21-2014 08:54 PM)puckman Wrote:  obviously she has no sense of humor or fun so forgot that. One of the more creative ways to ask for a number, but a little drawn out. Its been said before but after a decent exchange where you build a little rapport a simple "hey this app sucks, lets text instead, whats your number" usually does the trick.

Thanks for the tip, whoever came up with it. Getting their real number to text them has worked for me as a good flake defense.

Also, what I'm noticing is that even if you get a match, it almost means nothing unless the girl hits you up first. If I hit up a match first she either doesn't respond or it dies out within a few texts. I guess the same rule applies with OKC/POF.

I'm not sure if I agree with this 100%. The only girls who have ever messaged me first on tinder were either:

1. Hideous
2. Extremely Fat
3. Advertisements for the TV Show Suits (which is an awesome show)

They were all equally offensive and blocked instantly.

We may need a WWW III just to thin out the excess male population.

(01-20-2014 05:08 PM)Nemausus Wrote:  

Tinder, and OKC's tinder rip off, gave women power back. It gives the hot ones a semblance of validation on their appearance. Of course, one beauty of that youtube is how many guys didn't bother saying a damn thing. There are a lot of betas in this world. Doesn't take much to stand out.