Post: #576

1st post

I match a lot of girls but they rarely respond to my messages, I usually only match those who swipe me right first I figure that would increase my odds, but negative.

Post: #577

(12-04-2013 11:53 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Do you guys make a new facebook account ? I want to make account but don't want to use my facebook on it( i just like to fuck girls and not talk to them afterwards ) .

if you have mutual friends, it might make it more likely that a girl swipes 'yes' to you. It is a good pre qualifier, I think at least.

Post: #578

Wierd. I matched a few real ones. Got 1/2 message notifications and the red dot on the App Icon. When I go in I cannot see the message.

Also I cannot send messages to any of the matches (real or fake ones from 1000s miles away). Some App Bug. I need to upgrade to iOS 6

Post: #579

(12-04-2013 07:11 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(12-04-2013 11:53 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  Do you guys make a new facebook account ? I want to make account but don't want to use my facebook on it( i just like to fuck girls and not talk to them afterwards ) .

if you have mutual friends, it might make it more likely that a girl swipes 'yes' to you. It is a good pre qualifier, I think at least.

I can see how that would work. But still I'm a bit worried about syncing this to my Facebook account - does it just show certain things from my account? Cover photo, interests,# of mutual friends etc.?? Need to hide my age!

Just downloaded this today, I'll report back on how it works in Moscow...

Post: #580

Tinder lay last night. Stunner Italian, brought a bottle of wine to her place and fucked.

Post: #581

(11-23-2013 04:35 PM)murrb Wrote:  But she left the fucking toilet lid up!

Isn't she supposed to leave it up?

Post: #582

(12-08-2013 12:23 PM)SpeedRacer Wrote:  

(11-23-2013 04:35 PM)murrb Wrote:  But she left the fucking toilet lid up!

Isn't she supposed to leave it up?

No I always put it down and it's a pet peeve of mine when a girl leaves the lid up. I have noticed quite a few girls leave it up.

What's the point of having a lid if you never put it down?

Post: #583

I got burned really bad by this app. Really hit it off with a girl, started hanging out a lot, started developing feelings for her and thn I ind out she's still using it to meet other guys during the day (she's in sales).

I've also seen formerly shy girls become addicted to all the attention.

Tinder is crawling with sluts. Be careful.

Post: #584

(12-08-2013 02:06 PM)mikeraw Wrote:  and thn I ind out she's still using it to meet other guys during the day ... Tinder is crawling with sluts. Be careful.

Don't beat yourself up - walk away a wiser man. The faster you fully digest the red pill, the better.

Post: #585

OK, this has been happening to me a lot lately: i swipe "yes" to a girl when there are 2 girls in the profile photo where one of them is super hot and the other is maybe a 6.5. I don't look at the other photos and just swipe yes. Then I get matched with her and look at the other photos and it is the average looking girl. Bangable not nearly as hot as her friend.

I am so tempted to say "hey is the other girl in your profile photo single, I would really love to meet her".

But that seems like a hail mary at best. Have any of you had luck getting an average looking tinder girl to hook you up with her much hotter friend?

Post: #586

(12-04-2013 06:24 PM)Mabina Wrote:  1st post

I match a lot of girls but they rarely respond to my messages, I usually only match those who swipe me right first I figure that would increase my odds, but negative.

What's your opening message? Believe it or not I get the best response rate with.... Hello "name".

Post: #587

(12-08-2013 09:47 PM)Gopher Wrote:  

(12-04-2013 06:24 PM)Mabina Wrote:  1st post

I match a lot of girls but they rarely respond to my messages, I usually only match those who swipe me right first I figure that would increase my odds, but negative.

What's your opening message? Believe it or not I get the best response rate with.... Hello "name".

I'm 2 for 3 today... I usually say something about one of their pics but you're right the simplest approach is probably the best.

Post: #588

I have well over 100 matches and not a single meet up.

Fuck this app.

Unless someone has cracked the code and I missed the post?

Post: #589

I have a little over 50 matchups, 2 meet ups and 7 flakes. I think like 12 phone numbers (no bangs yet) over the past month.

I had a lot more matchups total, but some of the girls just block you when you ask for their phone number so I am down to about 50. Some of the girls are clearly fake profiles, they have '4chat' profiles. That site is a known scam/cam whore site.

As far as I can tell, the biggest roadblocks seem to be getting your matches to give their phone number, answer the phone, and agree to meet up and actually show up. My phone game is OK, sometimes I make good progress on the phone and the girls are really looking forward to meeting up. Sometimes when I follow up later they just say they ultimately felt no connection with me on the phone or aren't interested or just don't respond. Sometimes even the girls that sound enthusiastic about meeting up flake out and don't show up. Chalk it up to the game.

And yeah, today I tried an opener of "Hello ____" on a new match and she responded right away. after a few messages back and forth I said I would much rather talk to her on the phone than typing back and forth on instant message and she gave her phone number right away so i called her, talked for a bit, set up a date for wednesday and that's that. From what I can tell, she seemed like one of those hot nerds that is surrounded by other engineers that all have either zero game or weak game. She allegedly worked for nasa on that mars project last year as an aerospace engineer. I thought that was cool. She is probably a 7.5 physically(in some of her photos she looks like an 8, in others she looks like a 7), does lots of yoga and a health nut.

I don't think this is cracking the code so much as finding a woman who was on there to meet up and go on dates and not just attention whore.

If a girl includes her instagram on her tinder, she likely is just trying to use tinder to get attention so don't expect much from them. I have not been able to get any of those matches to give their phone number. I am not saying it can't be done, but probably far less likely.

edit
Back to my other question, is there any suggestion on getting an average looking girl to hook you up or put you in touch with the much hotter girl in her profile photo? I am sure I can't be the only one who has those sorts of matches.

Post: #590

this girl I was digging went MIA on me so I am trying to go on a whoring spree to get over it... I have 66 matches but haven't messaged many of them but went 3 for 3 messaging my matches tonight, I was chatting with this HOT Indian girl, I don't think ive ever even said hi to an Indian girl before, I'm from a small city where is you aren't white, black or mexican you are probably lost, just moved to the big city so any tips from those with Indian experience ? she seems very Americanized but I want to play my cards right already got her number and started texting. just as i was writing this she texted me again and said I can't sleep... too soon to go there

Post: #591

my friend said I was dumb for this strategy but I think its good, what do you think haha, I usually on match those who have matched me, if you don't know if you see a girl and you close the app and she is the first one you see when you open it again then she has already swiped you to the right. I figure if they match me first I have a better chance of getting a response from them.

Post: #592

(12-09-2013 02:30 AM)Mabina Wrote:  my friend said I was dumb for this strategy but I think its good, what do you think haha, I usually on match those who have matched me, if you don't know if you see a girl and you close the app and she is the first one you see when you open it again then she has already swiped you to the right. I figure if they match me first I have a better chance of getting a response from them.

I am confused. Why would it matter who swiped yes first? You need to both swipe "yes" to get a match.

Post: #593

(12-09-2013 03:16 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 02:30 AM)Mabina Wrote:  my friend said I was dumb for this strategy but I think its good, what do you think haha, I usually on match those who have matched me, if you don't know if you see a girl and you close the app and she is the first one you see when you open it again then she has already swiped you to the right. I figure if they match me first I have a better chance of getting a response from them.

I am confused. Why would it matter who swiped yes first? You need to both swipe "yes" to get a match.

you're right but i was just thinking if she swiped me first i have a better chance of getting a response from her but by not swiping im limiting my options i think its time to start swiping again haha

Post: #594

(12-09-2013 11:00 AM)Mabina Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 03:16 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 02:30 AM)Mabina Wrote:  my friend said I was dumb for this strategy but I think its good, what do you think haha, I usually on match those who have matched me, if you don't know if you see a girl and you close the app and she is the first one you see when you open it again then she has already swiped you to the right. I figure if they match me first I have a better chance of getting a response from them.

I am confused. Why would it matter who swiped yes first? You need to both swipe "yes" to get a match.

you're right but i was just thinking if she swiped me first i have a better chance of getting a response from her but by not swiping im limiting my options i think its time to start swiping again haha

Swipe anxiety? Just use the three second rule.. lol

Post: #595

(12-09-2013 11:19 AM)calihunter Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 11:00 AM)Mabina Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 03:16 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 02:30 AM)Mabina Wrote:  my friend said I was dumb for this strategy but I think its good, what do you think haha, I usually on match those who have matched me, if you don't know if you see a girl and you close the app and she is the first one you see when you open it again then she has already swiped you to the right. I figure if they match me first I have a better chance of getting a response from them.

I am confused. Why would it matter who swiped yes first? You need to both swipe "yes" to get a match.

you're right but i was just thinking if she swiped me first i have a better chance of getting a response from her but by not swiping im limiting my options i think its time to start swiping again haha

Swipe anxiety? Just use the three second rule.. lol

lol you got me

Post: #596

Met a cute Estonian from tinder on saturday. She had a beta friend drive her over my bar from 100km away, and I convinced her to stay the night and get a bus the next day. Her friend had to drive home alone that night. Can you imagine the look on his face, he was destroyed, surely he would have banged her but was friend zoned hard. Anyways, did not get the bang but she gave me a FOOT JOB lmao, so that was fine with me. Going to get the bang next time, she already promised me.

Post: #597

(12-09-2013 09:10 PM)delonge Wrote:  Met a cute Estonian from tinder on saturday. She had a beta friend drive her over my bar from 100km away, and I convinced her to stay the night and get a bus the next day. Her friend had to drive home alone that night. Can you imagine the look on his face, he was destroyed, surely he would have banged her but was friend zoned hard. Anyways, did not get the bang but she gave me a FOOT JOB lmao, so that was fine with me. Going to get the bang next time, she already promised me.

Maybe Estonia promised the bang to Beta, also?

From your short description, she does NOT seem to be a girl of her word.

Post: #598

Trust me, from the texts I'm getting, this one is in the bag. She didnt flat out say "we'll bang next time" but I got the idea.

Post: #599

(12-09-2013 10:36 PM)delonge Wrote:  Trust me, from the texts I'm getting, this one is in the bag. She didnt flat out say "we'll bang next time" but I got the idea.

Delonge:

Hehehehe.... you seem to be getting yourself into a situation in which you are going to be obligated to report the results.

You gotta be the better judge of the situation, since you were the recipient of the texts and you met the girl... but I find it curious to know that a bang is going to be a sure thing.. until it happens.

It may be good to hear also a kind of description from you about words used or body behavior that would give you such a bang impression...

I've predicted quite a few bangs in my days that NEVER took place.. SHIT.... but anyhow, my luck and/or my game is likely NOT as good as it could be. And, frequently, I find girls to be quite fickle and moody.. until after sealing the deal by getting a bang out of them.. ..

Anyhow, you may be correct to suggest that sometimes a guy just has a feeling that the bang is gonna happen... Yet, would be curious about more details in how that conclusion was reached....

Post: #600

I can't get the app to work at all. I signed up for a facebook account, it's been a month, there are 13 friends on there... no one to match with, nothing comes up, for the berlin area! A friend opened up his phone and was able to swipe through dozens, showing me how it worked. I don't understand how nothing shows up for a place with millions of people, well, for some people but not for others?

there's no support either. Support messages go to some kind of zendesk support interface, and after 2 weeks are never answered.

Looked around for someone discussing this issue, read this thread on rooshv... signed up for an account a few weeks ago and I guess at the beginning of december sometime it was approved.


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if someone can help, pm me. Lost on this smartphone junk.