(03-24-2017 09:58 AM)Chetthebaker Wrote:  @nextstop100
Details?
-what city/region
-how old are you
-how old was she
-text game
-date or did she come straight over
-was she like her pictures? 6? 7?

She's a cool girl.

NYC
24
18
Simple text game. Told her I wanted to fuck her that night
No date. Came to my place
7-7.25

this just about sums up tinder and the U.S dating market . :
http://www.thepoke.co.uk/2017/03/24/woma...s-rejects/

@Player_1337: If I recall correctly, I heard that left-swiping a high-ELO girl lowers your rating. I'm not so sure about that though, it might be false, or I might have just misremembered something I read somewhere.

Read this: http://www.swipehelper.com/2016/11/16/tinder-algorithm/

It describes how the ELO rating is (possibly) calculated. Only insiders at Tinder know the full details, so all we can do is speculate.

(03-24-2017 05:15 PM)cosworth Wrote:  this just about sums up tinder and the U.S dating market . :
http://www.thepoke.co.uk/2017/03/24/woma...s-rejects/

Relevant thread

(03-03-2017 03:36 AM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  If I could have one wish come true, it would be for online dating to be abolished.

Instead of "competing" with the 500+ guys/week who are messaging the women through Failbook/Instagram/Snapchat/Tinder/OKC/POFarts/Tinder that I approach IRL, I would be "competing" with 0 guys/week, since virtually no other man actually does cold approach pick-up. I'd have to think my date/number rate rate would quadruple.

And while, yes, I've done a bit of online dating over the last 6 weeks, cold approach is something I do 7 days/week and that's always been my primary focus. The only reason I even started doing online dating is b/c LA is a veritable pussy purgatory, so I was essentially left with no choice.

Seriously. Look at all the guys right here in this thread, using autoswipers etc etc. It's only fucking up the dating market that much more. A real life prisoner's dilemma situation.

I'm also noticing that the younger generation, kids 23 and under, seem to be relying almost entirely on Tinder/Snapchat, and don't know for shit how to talk to a girl that's drunk - let alone approaching someone sober during the day.

(03-23-2017 02:20 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  I've noticed that deleting matches where the convo went dead usually leads to several new matches.

It seems to me Tinder is putting an effective cap on matches at around 10-15 if you're conversing with 4-5 of them. Which, to be honest, is more than I can handle. I have to turn off my phone or I just end up procastinating by going for more matches (dopamine hit).

Can anyone else confirm this? I'd love to delete my dead matches, but I have no idea how Tinder looks at that.

Who else has been experimenting with the new "status" feature.

I am still new to the Tinder game and got a question:

You guys always talk about pipelining before going to locations.. I am on the road for work once a month through a few cities in Western Europe.

When you match with a girl say like a week or a few days out.. do you just lie to her about where you are at the moment or be honest and say that you are coming for vacation or whatever the hell it is?

I'm getting a vibe that girls are losing interest as soon as they hear I am not in their immediate area or I am just passing through. I'm guessing I need to lie about why I am there and the length of time etc etc to keep them on the hook.

forget Tinder, it was bad over 2 years ago, getting worse

you will not be happy with online stuff

but I know you'll hear me now, but listen to me later when you realize how bad the country is

social circle, lottery selections in niches, or foreign country is your only hope

sad to say it, it's true though

Online is not my first line of offense but I'd rather have multiple pipelines rather than just relying on nightgame all the time.

There's just too much opportunity on Tinder/online dating to eliminate it completely from your strategy. You are just doing yourself a disservice IMO.

Got a hot 20 yr old supposedly coming tonight but I'm always careful to verify the identity of a new online prospect (especially if they're coming over fresh direct). She didn't want to send digits last night and apparently doesn't have fb or insta. Bots are easy to detect but this is clearly a human operated account. Might be getting scammed here.

(03-27-2017 05:24 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Got a hot 20 yr old supposedly coming tonight but I'm always careful to verify the identity of a new online prospect (especially if they're coming over fresh direct). She didn't want to send digits last night and apparently doesn't have fb or insta. Bots are easy to detect but this is clearly a human operated account. Might be getting scammed here.

Always meet at a public venue first time around. Neighborhood bar is the safe bet, that way you can always bounce after a drink if something is off.

I'm really not surprised there are simps out there stupid enough to fall for this shit:

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/...54501.html

I'm embarrassed to live in the same state as this whore.

(03-28-2017 01:57 PM)[email protected] Wrote:  I'm really not surprised there are simps out there stupid enough to fall for this shit:

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/...54501.html

I'm embarrassed to live in the same state as this whore.

I've been trolling bishes that put this in their bio over the last few days. It's pretty funny. Maybe been a little too harsh with my trolling and haven't got a bang but it's pretty quality entertainment.

Just a fad, it'll go out of style in a week or two. It's fun trying to find a way to leverage their stupid trendyness to make banter/conversation

How stupid do you have to be to send money to a lizard on Tinder.

(03-27-2017 05:24 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Got a hot 20 yr old supposedly coming tonight but I'm always careful to verify the identity of a new online prospect (especially if they're coming over fresh direct). She didn't want to send digits last night and apparently doesn't have fb or insta. Bots are easy to detect but this is clearly a human operated account. Might be getting scammed here.

Just checking in to see if you're still alive or if you had your kidney's harvested.

We could get in on this train, make fake profiles with hot chicks and scam betas out their money

Killing it on Tinder for the size my town (150k total pop).

I have came up with a pretty good strategy.

Rules
No selfies
Not too tryhard, if you can't make a picture with something amazing just look an accessible regular dude. Go big or not at all, I'm doing not at all. I recently changed my tinder style from cocky-asshole to cocky-dude-next-door. I'm not trying to impress these hoes, I'm just putting myself out there.
Pictures are

-me with a cute dog (on a plates bed, it's not strictly a feminine bed but it's implied ever so slightly - plate took the picture ). Dogs kill it, they just do. Find a fucking dog and take a picture with that lil MF
-Me by the river, pretty good photography taken by a friend (back facing camera, shirt off, about to dive into the water)
-Shirtless picture where I get the good natty lighting that looks like I'm in better shape than I actually am
-Me in a proper suit, don't forget the pocket square (no meme)
-Me in nature, back to the camera looking ove a beautiful coastline (picture also taken by gf at the time)
-A potrait a girl drew of me with a stupid snapchat bunny filter captioned "swipe right"

It started off me getting an odd satisfaction from using girls that I have fucked's pictures they have taken of me to fuck more women. It just feels right, and it excites me. It goes deeper though, girls take pictures of what they think looks good. There's a certain feminine eye at play here, a lot of the times girls take a lot better pictures of me than I could ever stage myself and I'm not really sure how it works but it seems to work well. The best way to do it is if it's not forced at all, the natural relaxed look is pretty good. If anyone has experienced this or cares to comment please help me out.

Swiping strategy
There was a swiping strategy posted by a bro on here I forget his username, I didn't come up with this and if I get some time I'll dig back in the thread and credit him. It's important to remember Tinder has an ELO ranking system. With all Elo systems there's a phenominon called "elo hell" some people say it's a myth, to others it's very real. Let's not worry about that right now but the point is you don't want to end up a couple standard deviations below what your true elo should be. No mass swiping. Don't do it. Only swipe on girls you think you would enjoy fucking, find your slump buster somewhere else cuz it's gonna tank your elo swiping on fatties and ugos.

Also remember Tinder has a "noob bonus" - so every time you restart your account you get higher visibility in the stack while tinder ranks you. It's unknown if this period is weighted more heavily in terms of elo impact but I personally think it is - so put your best foot forward. Apperently the elo of the user that denies or accepts you (swipes left or right) effects your elo, if you respond to a user, or if a user responds to you and I've also heard there's a myriad of other factors. It's just stuff to keep in mind but don't stress. You can restart your account at any time

Now for the strat
1. When you (re)start your profile swipe right on the first 10 bangable girls and NO MORE. Wait 24hrs
2. Next 24hrs you swipe right between 5-10 times on the first 5-10 bangable girls, no more. And remember if you swipe more than 5-6 times in a row and you don't match that means you got no matchs lined up.
3.Repeat 2
4. If you find yourself not getting any matches after 3-7 days RESTART YOUR TINDER and try above.

Bio
A lot of people will say Bios are not very important but i strongly disagree. Remember when girls swipe right on you they are effectively saying "WB". If you're on the fence what do you do? You probably check her profile huh. Girls do the same. It can turn a "maybe" into a "WB". That's some powerful shit. Be funny and covertly sexual - preferably something she can comment on later, it really does matter guys.


Frame
Be casual, friendly, and accessible. Banter is the most important thing to master. Tinder is for casual sex and casual dating, don't let anyone tell you any fucking different they are crazy. All the girls with "NO HOOKUPS" on their profile are full of shit that's to scare betamales away and amass orbiters, but you're not going to be an orbiter are you? No, you're smashing this girl and going for her friends next. Remember she swiped right on you, they are the choosier sex - she wants to bang you and is open to it if you play your cards right. Remember that.

It sounds paradoxical but women want a dude that doesn't care a whole lot if they can fuck them but still really wants to fuck them. I don't know how to describe that kind of frame but it's pretty milquetoast and I'm not a huge fan but it does work. Don't deal with disrespect (from anyone, especially women), don't supplicate directly but do let them know you find them attractive in some way (covertly).These girls want dick and you have it.

I would say good luck but players don't need it.

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I've been trolling the fuck out of the "send me 5$" girls. (for some reason they don't know that the dollar sign goes before the amount which i find entertaining). Yesterday I got a match that went like this

Me: What do you need $5 for?
Her:A blunt
Me:Honesty game recognized (she liked this)
Her: Yeah I've just been having a really rough couple of weeks and i saw the 5$ thing somewhere and i was really hoping some people could help me out
Me: I'm sure some poor guy will come along and buy you lunch and give you 5$. If you're trying to smoke grab a wrap and come kick it
Her:Where you at
Me: [cross streets of my hood]
Hour goes by
Her: Can my boyfriend come
Me: If ya'll bring some food and some beer I don't see why not
Her: haha nobody drinks that shit
Me: I do, what's good?
Her: It was an expression for this side of the track brobeans, anyway nah i can barely eat as it is
Me: I didn't realize the upper socio-economic classes solicited for "5$". I guess i'm not ready for ascension quite yet
Her: I guess not.
*she unmatches me*

Slut destroyed, next target. I would've been nicer to her but I lost it when she had the nerve to bring class into this, on tinder, after she is begging for 5 dollars to buy a blunt, mirroring my hood slang attitude. Banged a girl that night that was nice and fun to be around and nothing of value was lost.

Bio Ideas for the $5 Dollar Hoes

"$5 ? How broke are you basic bitches -laugh emoji-?"

"$5 ? Most of you aren't even a 5 to begin with -laugh emoji-"

"$5 ? Damn, you broke AND thirsty now -laugh emoji-?"

"$5 ? I didn't know Tinder was a hooker app now"


You get the idea, I haven't matched with any of these attention whores yet, but I see more of them popping up.


Something discussed on other channels.

1. Create legit fake profile
2. Create paypal/venmo app
3. Match with a bunch of SIMPS
4. ?????
5. PROFIT

@Eugenics: Don't forget, if you set your radius to 1 mile and you see girls who are somehow more than 1 mile away, it means they already right-swiped you. If you want to swipe conservatively, I recommend setting it to 1 mile.

Consensus on the 'Smart Photos' feature?

@Player_1337: I think the use of your own judgment is far better than the Smart Photos feature. Just because one picture got slightly more right-swipes than another doesn't necessarily mean it's a better picture, because you're dealing with separate groups of girls (who don't check all the pictures before swiping).

One's first picture should ideally:

-Contain only himself, no one else.
-Not hide too much of his body - no extreme closeups, no overly distant shots.
-Not be a selfie.
-Be taken with a quality camera. Grainy photos are a no-no.
-Facing away from the camera, to avoid looking intimidating.
-Lighting that makes one appear more flattering.
-Have any blemishes (acne, etc) photoshopped out.
-Be taken in a setting that isn't one's bedroom or bathroom.

The other photos should ideally:

-Indicate that other people spend time with you.
-Show what you like doing (but don't be repetitive - keep it to 1 pic per interest, e.g. guitar pic, jogging pic, party pic, reading pic - not guitar pic 1, guitar pic 2, etc).
-Have a candid appearance, as if someone just caught you in the act of doing whatever it was you were doing.
-Have a variety of different settings and colors (not all just night-time pics, not all just daytime pics, not all with solely warm colors, not all with solely cool colors)

So can anyone confirm if this is just me or if this is happening elsewhere?

I'm in Houston and recently reset my account. For the past month or so the quality of girls that I am able to swipe has gone to shit. Like 7 out of 10 girls that show up on my account are below 5's. Not even bangable if the just wanted me to come over and bang them.

The weird thing is that girls on Bumble are generally very cute to hot.

Is tinder just going to shit or have I just been unlucky?

(04-13-2017 04:52 PM)StackGsMan Wrote:  So can anyone confirm if this is just me or if this is happening elsewhere?

I'm in Houston and recently reset my account. For the past month or so the quality of girls that I am able to swipe has gone to shit. Like 7 out of 10 girls that show up on my account are below 5's. Not even bangable if the just wanted me to come over and bang them.

The weird thing is that girls on Bumble are generally very cute to hot.

Is tinder just going to shit or have I just been unlucky?

tinder is garbage. Uninstall and never look back.

Been on tinder for about 3 weeks. Complete waste of time.

The attitude of some really average and below average women is astounding.

Got one coffee date out of around 20 conversations where it's mostly up to you as the guy to drive/force the conversation. The women make no effort and ask zero questions. At any point they can stop replying completely or delete you.

I'm going to stick to day game. Way easier and far more fun.