I'm using this app to disabuse myself to the notion of purity, so forgive me as I degrade ye wenches.

I'm beginning to think Tinder should be a mandatory part of any new player's game. All the texting practice alone has been invaluable.

Just bumped into an old peer of mine on POF and ran hard direct online game on her. She recognised me, and it was definitely a warm approach, but it was still funny as hell seeing her take the bait so hard. I would definitely not have been able run such hilariously cocky online game on anyone before this thread.

Thank you gentlemen.

(07-16-2014 10:48 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 10:45 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Last three tinder dates have showed up 10-15 lbs heavier and 2-3 years older than their photos. Frustrated. How can I prevent this?

Start approaching in real life.

(07-16-2014 10:48 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 10:45 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Last three tinder dates have showed up 10-15 lbs heavier and 2-3 years older than their photos. Frustrated. How can I prevent this?

Start approaching in real life.

Hah I am Tuth, but probably not enough or I wouldn't need the app at all. So, well played...

(07-16-2014 04:32 PM)Fortis Wrote:  I find OKC to be a total no-go for me. I have to send out billions of emails to get a single lukewarm response from a girl who just wants a pen pal.

OKC is terrible in my area as well, the women look horrid and are not into minorites

POF is easier but those chicks are so fucking slooty it's not even funny.
Online women in general are just skanks or have very vapid personalities hence they have to resort to online dating cause no smart man will deal with their shit

On another note

anybody see chicks you know IRL on Tinder?

I saw a chick who is in a relationship, so I snapchatted her the pic as a joke lo and behold she blocked me from snapchat. The chick is a huge skank though so now surprise she is already looking for a BBD

But I see tons of chicks whom I know IRL but are sluts if you were to see their Tinder profile you would never know it

truly scary

(07-16-2014 10:48 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 10:45 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Last three tinder dates have showed up 10-15 lbs heavier and 2-3 years older than their photos. Frustrated. How can I prevent this?

Start approaching in real life.

Best post of the thread!!

I have a buddy who constantly meets skanks of Tinder and complains about lack of quality. I tell him to approach IRL but he's to scared WTF. Some guys are not willing to put in the work

(07-17-2014 01:49 PM)Thesoloist Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 04:32 PM)Fortis Wrote:  I find OKC to be a total no-go for me. I have to send out billions of emails to get a single lukewarm response from a girl who just wants a pen pal.

OKC is terrible in my area as well, the women look horrid and are not into minorites

POF is easier but those chicks are so fucking slooty it's not even funny.
Online women in general are just skanks or have very vapid personalities hence they have to resort to online dating cause no smart man will deal with their shit

On another note

anybody see chicks you know IRL on Tinder?

I saw a chick who is in a relationship, so I snapchatted her the pic as a joke lo and behold she blocked me from snapchat. The chick is a huge skank though so now surprise she is already looking for a BBD

But I see tons of chicks whom I know IRL but are sluts if you were to see their Tinder profile you would never know it

truly scary

Ha, got a cute, nice-looking girl's number on Tinder. Looked at her Facebook...*In a Relationship*

One of the first girls I swiped through I went to university with. Luckily I left-swiped as my Tinder profile lies about a few things.

PS - Getting tons of matches now, and over an 80% response rate to my openers. One girl asked me out and am going for drinks with her next week. Feel like it's a potential catfish but oh well.

(07-17-2014 03:48 PM)HankRearden Wrote:  One of the first girls I swiped through I went to university with. Luckily I left-swiped as my Tinder profile lies about a few things.

PS - Getting tons of matches now, and over an 80% response rate to my openers. One girl asked me out and am going for drinks with her next week. Feel like it's a potential catfish but oh well.

I know the feeling man. Just play it safe. If she sounds almost too eager to meet you, you're definitely gonna get catfished. That's just from my experience.

(07-17-2014 01:49 PM)Thesoloist Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 04:32 PM)Fortis Wrote:  I find OKC to be a total no-go for me. I have to send out billions of emails to get a single lukewarm response from a girl who just wants a pen pal.

On another note

anybody see chicks you know IRL on Tinder?

I saw a chick who is in a relationship, so I snapchatted her the pic as a joke lo and behold she blocked me from snapchat. The chick is a huge skank though so now surprise she is already looking for a BBD

But I see tons of chicks whom I know IRL but are sluts if you were to see their Tinder profile you would never know it

truly scary

So far, I've run into 1 friend on tinder, who actually just broke up with a guy. Claims she isn't "looking" LOL. Hahahahahaa

I also bumped into this girl I know from college on POF and ran aggro game on her, but it turns out she lives in VA now. So That's a bust, but she may come back and visit me.

On another note:

I'm find that POF has great response rates for me now that I changed my POF profile to match my tinder profile.

I'm going on my first Tinder date tomorrow. Will reply with results.

Barry

I remember someone trolling (speakeasy maybe?) with the "i want to lick nutella off of you". I got this gem today reminded me of you guys haha! BTW no response after mine.

(07-17-2014 04:00 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 03:48 PM)HankRearden Wrote:  One of the first girls I swiped through I went to university with. Luckily I left-swiped as my Tinder profile lies about a few things.

PS - Getting tons of matches now, and over an 80% response rate to my openers. One girl asked me out and am going for drinks with her next week. Feel like it's a potential catfish but oh well.

I know the feeling man. Just play it safe. If she sounds almost too eager to meet you, you're definitely gonna get catfished. That's just from my experience.

Have her snap you. I make every girl whose number I get send me a picture. "Send me a picture to prove you're not an old man. Make it hot."

(07-17-2014 11:02 PM)Renberg Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 04:00 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 03:48 PM)HankRearden Wrote:  One of the first girls I swiped through I went to university with. Luckily I left-swiped as my Tinder profile lies about a few things.

PS - Getting tons of matches now, and over an 80% response rate to my openers. One girl asked me out and am going for drinks with her next week. Feel like it's a potential catfish but oh well.

I know the feeling man. Just play it safe. If she sounds almost too eager to meet you, you're definitely gonna get catfished. That's just from my experience.

Have her snap you. I make every girl whose number I get send me a picture. "Send me a picture to prove you're not an old man. Make it hot."

Not bad. I'm not sure if I want to sexualise things too soon... she feels kind of innocent.

I now have 2 drinks dates set up for next week of Tinder. My best friend also just got Tinder the same day as me and we are both shocked at how awesome it is.

If I can actually get some dates/lays/etc out of this then I'll post my framework for everything. Until then it's all speculation.

I've been catfished (in terms of looks) and that was the one girl I didn't ask for a pic haha.

No need to sexualize it. But why waste time and potentially money?

HankRearden, don't fuck up and you'll get some action. Best of luck sir

By the way, do we have a POF thread? I know we have an OKC thread, but OKC sucks horribly in my area.

Is there a way to unswipe users? I accidentally swiped left a couple of lizards...

@Fortis, do a search, I've seen a couple addressing POF. Not one as in-depth as this thread, though.

@Seboist, Nope. They've disappeared into cyberspace and lost forever (unless you delete and recreate your account)

As Soup has said, don't delete numbers with girls you thought were lost by the wayside out of lack of interest.

I got home with a nice buzz after I hired my friend for a professional photo shoot for pro Tinder photos to see if it helps with my success on there. I will use these shots for OKC too, but I think I'm done with Match after a year of testing it. I got one lay and meet off Match. I got 3 meets and lays off OKC. I'm at 3 lays and 3 meets from Tinder only after a couple of months of messing with it. So I'm batting at 100 percent with all my online meets. It's just all the ones I didn't meet is the problem.

I hit up a girl I hit up a few times before and let it go after a month of a few meetup texts that went nowhere. I hit her up and suggested another meet and suggested a bar. She said she'd be happier if I came to her place instead. I thought um, fuck. Send a photo to make sure I'm not going to get catfished or raped or mugged and she sent a follow-up. I got an Uber and brought wine and talked to her for like 30 minutes and then banged out raw three times. One of my easiest lays ever.

Keep the stale numbers on the back burner, guys.

(07-17-2014 10:48 PM)d3traktion Wrote:  I remember someone trolling (speakeasy maybe?) with the "i want to lick nutella off of you". I got this gem today reminded me of you guys haha! BTW no response after mine.

Haha, yeah, she was probably talking to me.

First time using Tinder in 500k+ city area this past week and noticed more shields. Had to work harder to get the numbers I did and a tentative meetup which flaked, though I didn't really push for it. Definitely a reduction with my match rate, probably because I haven't tweaked my pics to reflect the more urbanized setting with appropriate DHVs, will experiment and redo soon. There were more women of a higher quality of course, but not necessarily a higher average SMV. Even the mediocre ones required tighter game compared to ~100k cities, and generally took much longer to respond. Matching with more older women as well. Already tweaked my blurb for an urban DHV but still following my standard "not a one note joke" theme mentioned earlier. It's up to 15 words but I noticed an increase in responses to the opener after this, which I believe is the only time the actual content comes into play.

Also notice a much higher percentage of blurbs specifically stating that they weren't looking for ONSs. Going semi-direct with one of these she froze out for a bit but some cocky funny and role play warmed her back up in spite of knowing my intentions... of course. I'm optimistic that I can bang at least one this coming week. Will most likely pass on a couple low hanging fruits to go after a very cute, educated, Pakistani flag.

Hope to get a couple convo screenshot compilations together of some past (and future) successes one of these weekends, but it won't be this one.

(07-17-2014 10:48 PM)d3traktion Wrote:  I remember someone trolling (speakeasy maybe?) with the "i want to lick nutella off of you". I got this gem today reminded me of you guys haha! BTW no response after mine.

The irony is that, if she had gotten that message from some celebrity, she would tell you about it as "one of the cutest pickup lines of all time, that she simply couldn't resist".

The Brazilian website Viajante Anônimo, introduced to me by RVFer O_Cartola, wrote a series of posts on Tinder in european cities. They spoofed their location, swiped 100 girls and wrote their impressions, match ratios, and so on. You can check out the girls' pics and average out the local talent. Talinn and Warsaw tied in #1; Berlin was rated last.

Stockholm

Talinn

Berlin

Vienna

Warsaw

St. Petersburg

Prague

I am getting a little pissed at Tinder in Dubai at the moment.....getting a huge amount of matches per day...only problem is that most of the girls here are of the pay to play variety.

tinder bang tonight. half Iranian half white. 28 yrs old (a little old for my blood but hey).

match up earlier in the day. went to bar around the corner from her place. bounce back to her spot after a few brews. after 10mins at her place. it was on.

fin