Post: #126

I stayed the night at her place last night and we fucked pretty much all night long. We would sleep for about 2-3 hours then I would wake up and start dry humping her leg for awhile and then one thing led to another.

She had to drive me home but her little brother had to ride with us and she wanted me to come in and meet her parents but I kind of felt like shit after a night like that and had given her hickeys all over her neck so I didn't really want to meet them so I waited in the car while she got her brother.

Should I have gone in and met them or should I next time?

Post: #127

Don't meet them at all. She's already making you into her boyfriend from the sounds of it.

Post: #128

^^^@bojangles- Agreed, she's trying to lure him in and she's doing a pretty good job too. / @murrb- Okay man, you've had your bangs and satisfied your nut. Now it's time to lay low and go silent for a few days and let her crave some more. 2-4 days of complete radio silence will be sufficient. This will #1. Show her you're not available whenever she wants, #2. Increase her interest in you because it will make her wonder where she stands with you, #3. Make her wonder if you're with other girls and getting some other satisfaction elsewhere. As a reminder, NO DATES ON FRIDAY OR SATURDAY, though I think you may have compromised that already. You can correct me if Im wrong.

Post: #129

(01-07-2013 07:38 AM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  ^^^@bojangles- Agreed, she's trying to lure him in and she's doing a pretty good job too. / @murrb- Okay man, you've had your bangs and satisfied your nut. Now it's time to lay low and go silent for a few days and let her crave some more. 2-4 days of complete radio silence will be sufficient. This will #1. Show her you're not available whenever she wants, #2. Increase her interest in you because it will make her wonder where she stands with you, #3. Make her wonder if you're with other girls and getting some other satisfaction elsewhere. As a reminder, NO DATES ON FRIDAY OR SATURDAY, though I think you may have compromised that already. You can correct me if Im wrong.

Well for the first 2 weeks I was good and didn't do any dates on friday or saturday but this last weekend I didn't have anything to do and when she asked me what I was doing this weekend I couldn't think of any excuses quick enough to say what I was doing so we hung out saturday night. I will be leaving to Thailand on the 19th for at least 3 weeks at the minimum maybe more so I'm not sure. She is making it sound like she will be waiting for me but I dont really trust that.

Post: #130

There's plenty of excuses you can get ready that can also be DHV's

Some of these girls you can DHV your way off their books (increasing your value well beyond theres so they give up hope). Make up some if you have to but try to revolve them around your friends and things you do yourself.

Simple reconstruction of sentences can help.

Situation: Going out for a boys night out
Typical evaluation of that: "the boys are going out on Friday, we're going to hit a few bars in ...."
DHV that: "I'm taking the boys out on Friday in ...., it's going to be great"

Situation: Playing football with your work friends
Standard spiel: "I play football with my work friends on Sundays"
DHV it: "I started up a football team with my work friends, we play every Sunday"

Of course you could just ignore all her calls and texts but this might fuck you over as your friend and his wife are so involved in this little 'fling'/'relationship' whatever you want to call it of yours.

Work/Sports/Gym/Nephews(or nieces)/ (Are you free?)No
those are my typical excuses

Post: #131

^THIS @Bojangles-those are some excellent examples of DHV reconstruction and the list just goes on. I have one question though. When you say football, do you mean American Football or European Football?

Post: #132

haha I mean European football or soccer as you guys call it.

Post: #133

I didn't text her for 3 days but I was just about to today but I fought it really hard and I was able to supress the urge. About 30 minutes later she texts me "murrb, you cant just stay the nigh and then I never hear from you! how rude!"

hahaha I sent her back "Sometimes I just feel like you are only using me for my body"

Post: #134

thats quite good you know mate, have you tried getting any other girls?

Post: #135

(01-09-2013 06:16 AM)bojangles Wrote:  thats quite good you know mate, have you tried getting any other girls?

No I haven't yet. I'm waiting until I get back from my trip because my logistics suck ass. I dont figure many girls will want to be sneaking around my dads basement like this girl. Once I get back I'm definitely moving out for sure and then I'm really going to start getting real serious about this stuff. I bought the book "bang" and I'm going to be reading it while on my vacation.

I appreciate all the help throughout!

Post: #136

no problems lad, why dont you try getting some ass on your trip

Post: #137

(01-09-2013 08:00 AM)bojangles Wrote:  no problems lad, why dont you try getting some ass on your trip

I'm heading to Thailand. Already been pipelining on thaifriendly! I also might try to get some western chicks on vacation as well.

Post: #138

good lad, don't restrict yourself, hit on as much pussy as possible

Post: #139

funny story

I was banging this same chick in her apartment on her couch and as I was fucking her on the arm of the couch my face was literally staring at a picture of her and her friends during a birthday dinner. There was like 6 or 7 of them all lined up in a row in the picture. I kept on fucking her while looking at the picture and then said "oh yeah I get to stare at your friends while I fuck you!" I wasn't really thinking when I said it but she got kind of mad and turned all the pictures face down. After we got done she was like "You are lucky I didn't just stop after you said that!"

At the time I didn't think anything of it but now I'm laying my own bed laughing my ass off.

Post: #140

^lol at the above. Trust me Murrb, that move did you way more benefit than harm. It's good to get girls riled up every once in a while. It keeps them excited and on their toes regarding you or any other guy. You may have messed up a bit in the beginning with this girl but you seem to be on the right track now. Well done.

Post: #141

@Bojangles- I figured you meant soccer

Post: #142

when was this murrb? did you pick up some new skank to plunder?

@Alpha Hunter Zero yeah it's a man's game

Post: #143

@Bojangles- Most definitely! Soccer is definitely my favorite sport. Running or dribbling a ball with your hands across a field or court is easy. Traveling with a ball at high speeds while using nothing but your feet while at the same time protecting it from other players, now that takes skill.

Post: #144

You from the States lad?

Post: #145

@bojangles- PM'ing you

Post: #146

It's almost time for my friends wifes company christmas party again (the reason I started this thread last year) and she told me one of the single baristas thought I was cute at the stand. I went through yesterday and told her "I will take a toasted marshmallow hot choclate and your phone number" (first time I had met her) She gave me her number and the hot chocolate for free. I text her to hang out later. She meets me at this little restaurant next to my building after I buy an appetizer I tell her I will give her a tour of the area. She follows me back to my building without asking any questions and about 1hr 30min later I'm smashing that ass. She gave up tons of LMR but it made it so much better when she finally gave in.

I enjoy this part almost as much as the sex afterwards.

"Whoa. I didn't expect that to happen." Credit Tuthmosis

Post: #147

I got this text from my friends wife who hooked me up with the girl that I mentioned in the above post.

"So thanks for being a douchebag with one of my good friends.....shes honestly hurt that you played her like you did...she literally rushed out of here to go buy a whole new outfit before she met you that night...and then you basically have it all set up to just fuck her...Your classy"

So I guess I have alot to learn. Don't shit where you eat. It's one thing doing that to a girl from online or daygame but not one from your social circle. So much to learn. I guess I wasn't very comforting after sex and gave her the vibe that she was a pump and dump. I invited her out tonight to try to mend things so my friends wife doesn't make half of my social cirlcle hate me by calling me a douchebag.

Post: #148

uh oh lad, comfort after sex is king, just lay there saying nothing, scratching her head as she has it on your chest. I find thats good enough

So tell us how this date went?

Post: #149

(10-10-2013 07:07 AM)bojangles Wrote:  uh oh lad, comfort after sex is king, just lay there saying nothing, scratching her head as she has it on your chest. I find thats good enough

So tell us how this date went?

Pretty much I had my routine down to well that it didn't feel organic to her and she told me friend that. Added to the fact that I didn't really comfort her afterwards and I only sent her one text the next day and it was to make plans again she thought she got played out but I made it all better last night and took her out and then spent the night at her place while we cuddled all night. haha She seems like a really cool girl and she just bought me a ticket to go see steve o coming up.

This girl is just night and day different then the last girl. The last girl was persuing me very hard and this girl even though I think she likes me a lot will not pursue me. She is just a more go with the flow type of girl I think.

Post: #150

wait this is a different girl?