Post: #26

Timely post. I have a fat girl that I'm not attracted to ready to fuck anytime but I've been ignoring her because I want to pursue better women.

It's all about quantity vs quality.Should I bang her or should I not? A dilemma.One day I shall find the answer.

Post: #27

I'm not sure I can relate to the guys here who say they can get a boner no matter what.

If an ugly girl is in front of me, it has the same effect as having a man in front of me. My dick shrivels up and my balls retreat. There's literally nothing I can do about the situation.



Here's a personal story to help understand.

Once, I tried to fuck a fatty. I picked her up at a dive bar and told myself, "I just want to bang and this chick is desperate." My pick up line? "I'll give you a damn good fuck." She was down and we went back to her place.

Once I got her partially naked and saw her rolls, my dick, which was mildly aroused at that point, completely did an "about-face" and refused to get hard.

She sucked on my dick for twenty minutes, but to no avail.

Eventually, she broke down in tears and I went home.



I will never humiliate a girl like that again. Bonertest4lyfe

Post: #28

(12-08-2012 07:50 PM)Samseau Wrote:  I'm not sure I can relate to the guys here who say they can get a boner no matter what.

If an ugly girl is in front of me, it has the same effect as having a man in front of me. My dick shrivels up and my balls retreat. There's literally nothing I can do about the situation.



Here's a personal story to help understand.

Once, I tried to fuck a fatty. I picked her up at a dive bar and told myself, "I just want to bang and this chick is desperate." My pick up line? "I'll give you a damn good fuck." She was down and we went back to her place.

Once I got her partially naked and saw her rolls, my dick, which was mildly aroused at that point, completely did an "about-face" and refused to get hard.

She sucked on my dick for twenty minutes, but to no avail.

Eventually, she broke down in tears and I went home.



I will never humiliate a girl like that again. Bonertest4lyfe

She did it to herself. That boner honesty was probably the best thing for her. Maybe she'll eat more healthy.
I'd say that there is a gray area.. some girls can be hotter with the lights off, or if you turn the around for doggy. How do you think the whole butterface thing became such a point of interest?

Post: #29

If you regret not getting the bang more than fucking an average girl, get the notch. However, if it's the other way around and you beat yourself up about fucking an average girl just because it was there rather than agonizing over passing up easy sex, then you should hold yourself to some higher standard. You know where you stand.

Post: #30

(12-08-2012 12:56 AM)soup Wrote:  Christ, that's too much!

I wasn't talking about fucking anything lower than a 5.

(12-08-2012 05:21 AM)soup Wrote:  for me, a 5 is a girl I would only fuck if I was drunk. Lower than that, I'd avoid.

Word we're pretty much on the same page then. I can get a boner for a 5.

Post: #31

Do you believe in sexual habits?

Not wise to mix up disgust and sex. Better to habitually fuck girls you are into. Have habitually good sex in order to habitually have good sex.

Post: #32

(12-10-2012 01:10 AM)xsplat Wrote:  Do you believe in sexual habits?

Not wise to mix up disgust and sex. Better to habitually fuck girls you are into. Have habitually good sex in order to habitually have good sex.

Obviously. But, there are times, like the witching hour, where options are limited.

Post: #33

I understand where the OP is coming from and he has a valid point. What I can say from experience is that guys I have personally known that bangs a lot of girls usually have a very wide range. Sure, they would like to bang an 8 but if an 8 is not available they will just as well bang a 5. Obviously there are limits, the girl has to arouse you on some minimal level. Options such as turning out the lights and fantasizing can help.

Post: #34

Can somebody explain to me why novelty trumps familiarity when the novel woman does not turn you on?

Post: #35

I think most cats are waaaaaaaaaay to worried about what other people think.I like BBW's,I like fitness chicks that most say are too muscular,I like older women,I like suicide girls,I like average women,I like 8,9's and dimes.It doesn't matter to me.Within just about all types and classes of women I can find something I'd like to fuck...and that goes for race and socio-economic status as well.

Post: #36

(12-10-2012 07:37 AM)xsplat Wrote:  Can somebody explain to me why novelty trumps familiarity when the novel woman does not turn you on?

Personally, I would rather bang a chick I know that's good than put in the work to bang a new unknown but it seems a lot of guys don't think the same...

Post: #37

A banged an ugly girl the other day:

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I remember meeting a lady from OKC once - we were gonna bang, but she wanted drinks first. She was almost man like in person & said she wanted to go back to hers - I pretended I felt sick and went home!

Another lady from OKC - She said she'll drive into my area, so I thought possible bang. She arrived with 3 friends! She was also really ugly in real life. She hadn't spotted me so I texted her and said my friend's car had broken down and I needed to help him. I went home.

Post: #38

(12-10-2012 10:06 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

(12-10-2012 07:37 AM)xsplat Wrote:  Can somebody explain to me why novelty trumps familiarity when the novel woman does not turn you on?

Personally, I would rather bang a chick I know that's good than put in the work to bang a new unknown but it seems a lot of guys don't think the same...

Yea but you won't know an unknown is good until you bang her.

Post: #39

I have struggled with issue this as well.

There have been various occasions where I've brought back a girl to my place and we were on the couch either kissing and/or groping eachother but she was putting up some LMR. Nothing too serious. I'm sure that a bit of push-pull, fingering, light dominance and patient persistence (and maybe getting my dick out) would have overcome this, but I just didn't push it further and let them go home. I seem to remember only managing a chubby on those occasions. Perhaps some dick sucking from them would have surely improved things, but for one reason or another I just didn't work enough to make it happen. I did manage to see most of these girls a 2nd time after this, but the bangs still didn't happen.

Of course, there have also been times where I was having a dry spell (or the girl made it really easy) so I soldiered on and got the notch, but for the most part it just seems that my dick refuses get really hard for a girl I know I will want to bang only once or twice, just to have her as part of my notch count.

I recently wanted to figure this out and had a look back at some photos of some of the faces of girls I did bang, compared to these I came really close to. In most cases, the "almost" girls were never as attractive to me as the ones I did eventually have sex with. I really have no regrets about not banging them and not getting the notch, while I would bang most of my ex's again provided they hadn't hit the wall too hard.

My dick seems to care less about numbers and notch counts and always favours a girl that it knows I will get rock hard for (and want to bang) REPEATEDLY.