Post: #1

A few Saturdays ago I met a girl, completely ignored her, and wound up smashing faster than I've smashed almost any others in my past.

I met up with my friend at a bar in SoHo to watch the return of GSP in the big UFC event. I am a UFC fanatic, so I was pumped for this event and, even though I was meeting him in a target rich environment, my mind was completely focused on the fight. I had no thoughts or plans of approaching.

My friend is a broker and he takes out clients on his company's tab and this night was no exception. There was an eclectic group of about 10 people at his table, enjoying booz and watching the fights. I introduced myself to everyone upon arrival but nothing caught my eye except for a decent blonde but she was clearly wifed up by the guy next to her. I sat down and a few mins later another blonde sits across from me. She's a 7. I didn't even bother to introduce myself but a few moments later I noticed her ask my friend's gf to introduce us (IOI) and I don't think I said anything but my name. She asked me questions throughout the event but I gave her the briefest, monosyllabic answers I could think of. I truly had adrenaline running the entire event and was fixated on the screen. Sometimes I wouldn't even bother to look at her when giving her one of my cursory responses.

After the fight, I realized it was time to get to work so I assessed the situation. I finally showed some interest in her by making small talk for about 2mins. It was pretty late so I wanted to quickly determine where her mind was at because I was ready to hit a party if she wasn't going to be worth a Saturday night. I nonchalantly invited her to come with me to a party. She agreed but said she had to get changed first. I asked where she lived and she said 2 blocks away. Bingo.

I led her out of the bar and asked for the direction to her place as if she had invited me. I have no idea what we talked about, just chit chat, no game. We walked into her building and up to her apt w/o discussing it. Small talk and light banter continued. She poured us drinks when we got upstairs. We talked as we finished the drink and I finally went for the makeout. I pushed her into her room and threw her on her bed. No resistance.

Her: you know we're not having sex right?
Me: I know, I think it's too soon
Her: Ok I'm usually not this fast
Me: I can tell, you seem like the slower type

Physical escalation continues and I'm STROKING THE ISH OUT OF HER, all within 10mins of entering her apartment and 20mins after showing some type of interest in her.

Great night in my book.

Post: #2

You were her slump buster.

Post: #3

Well done.

Become a shark at identifying girls like this, and the quality of game you have to spit will be minimal.

Post: #4

Good write-up. Flipping the script and making her chase you is strong game. She convinces herself of how much she wants you with everything she does. If you ignore her long enough, she'll lay all her cards out. From there, it's on you to find the nearest bedroom.

However, it's only applicable in certain circumstances like social circle or when attraction's already been established. When it's used properly though, it's devastatingly effective.

Post: #5

What time was it?

I would have left and gone out after.

Nothings more satisfying than a double swoop.

Post: #6

(12-07-2012 07:36 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  You were her slump buster.

OUCH!!!!! hehehe,it might very well be true though. definitely been in those shoes before. reminds me of that marilyn manson song where he has a girl singing "i fucked you till somebody better came along" haha. life is funny in that way.

Post: #7

Sounds like she gamed you. 'hey I need to stop by at my house and grab something' lol

Post: #8

"You know we're not having sex tonight" is synonymous for giving me a boner in my pants as soon as a girl utters it.

Post: #9

You have it backwards- SHE gamed YOU.

Think about it:

She joined your group and liked what she saw

She got another girl to introduce her to you- a common girl way of making an approach without seeming too forward

She kept talking to you until she created enough interest for you to engage with her and give her an invitation

She had a pretext to get you to her apartment

Her logistics were tight-two blocks

Once she had you in her lair, she made you a drink

Though you don't mention it, I imagine she was giving you nonverbal indications of sexual interest at this point

She then waited for you to make your move

No resistance other than a token verbal one

Classic game recognized

You do deserve credit for not acting to needy or eager which would probably have reduced her attraction, and for escalating quickly and aggressively.

But overall, she was the one driving the train that night. Not that there's anything wrong with that

Quote:Posted by MaleDefined - Today 08:32 PM
"You know we're not having sex tonight" is synonymous for giving me a boner in my pants as soon as a girl utters it.

Me too. Last week a girl looked at me and said "You can stay with me tonight, but you will NOT put your penis in my vagina! Unfortunately she was serious, but I did get to third base at least

Post: #10

(12-08-2012 06:32 PM)MaleDefined Wrote:  "You know we're not having sex tonight" is synonymous for giving me a boner in my pants as soon as a girl utters it.

I haven't heard those words and not gotten the bang. Thats co-word for "if you try to have sex I will resist a little, but then eventually give up"

Post: #11

You did the best possible thing by recognicing that she was the one being thirsty. Had you started gaming her she probably would have rolled back and played a lot harder.

Post: #12

You did the best possible thing by recognicing that she was the one being thirsty. Had you started gaming her she probably would have romled back and pmahed a lot harder.