Post: #1

So I got two girls who I'm talking that I've known from past friendship and school. Ironically I ran into both in the same week and decided to go out and catch up with them individually. They both showed the same signs which was weird.

Things went good and they where more then happy to see me again. However I noticed that most of the calling and texting has been one way from my side. Yet when I ask them to meet up they don't hesitate to go and are quite excited. I kind of chalked it up as a lost and have not given much effort now.

My question is do you guys think I've been pushed into friendzone or might I have a chance to get something out of these girls? The calling issue is annoying in the fact I don't like chasing chicks looking desperate as fuck.

Post: #2

Don't ever expect 50/50. Get them alone, drinking and push for the kiss. They start calling you more as they develop feelings for you.
Bang them out pretty good a few times and they'll start to call you. It's just how it is. The feeling desperate part is in your head.
That's something you have to work on and learn to get past.

Women love to put guys in the friend zone. It's comfortable for them. It's a place where they have control. If you like her and you're
funny and confident you can push your way out of it. That's what they want.

Learn to have that "I don't give a fuck" attitude. Push her buttons. Piss her off. Pull on her emotional heart-strings.
Make her laugh and she's yours.

Post: #3

Your absolutely right. The fear of rejection is not something I'm scared about, more the me screwing shit up part. I'm just going to follow through and see where things land. I mean if I was completely out of it they would just flake on me I suppose.

Post: #4

Escalate and show them that you have a dick?

Relate man-to-a-woman instead of friend-to-a-friend, all that shit.

Usually if you don't show (sexual) interest from the start it's hard to salvage because the girl has already decided to view you as a friend.