Post: #1

Met her in training. Knew of an ex but she claimed he was a bum and wanted nothing to do with him. 1 month into the hooking up she wants me to be her boyfriend. 2-3months into it she tells me she loves me. 4 months into it i tell her i love her on a street corner and she blushed and face became flushed with joy. After training we go to seperate states only 7.5hrs away. She asks if im still going to see her. "oh you are going to find somebody else.." I tell her casually just to focus on her job and i'll be around. We plan a weekend and meet up in phoenix. She says she loves me and when the weekend is over my phone is flooded with pictures of us and texts, "i miss you soo much."

Now... 3 days of silence from her, i text her, "hey baby you ok?" She responds, "hey, i've been thinking, i think we should seperate..."

Well she gave me the most idiotic reasons imaginable:
1. you always hang up the phone first
2. you never talk for that long... the day after the weekend we spent she called and i spent 2 minutes on the phone before i was like i gotta go, call you later. Never called her til the next day with no answer on her end.
3. you always move my legs in different positions during sex before im comfortable. This is coming from the same girl who says 3 days prior: "you fuck me the best! i have the best sex ever with you!"
4. you always interrupt me when i talk.

My response to all of this... ok fine i guess thats it.

3 days of no contact i text her, "baby i know you still love me, call mestop acting stupid" no answer.

my boy comes out this weekend who knew her. He tells me "dude didn't you know she was engaged?"

I look on her instagram on veterans day and it has a pic of her and ex. "i know i don't post a lot about my personal life on here but me and him have been through so much in the last 4 yours. I love you babe, happy veterans day...

lmao what a cunt... i wish he knew

Post: #2

fuck her sister

Post: #3

"You always move my legs during sex..." Well, that's a new one.

Post: #4

so what's the problem exactly?

Post: #5

nothing unusual just a dumb bitch

Post: #6

Classic. Even knowing that she was engaged the whole time, she still had to make up a list of reasons for why it was YOUR fault it didn't work out. The Hamster simply doesn't allow for a woman to simply own up and take responsibility. They HAVE to make YOU feel like you failed THEM.

Reasons #1 and 2 make her sound like she's one of those "The Rules" girls. According to the book, the woman should always be the one to end the conversation, and she shouldn't return calls immediately. Reason #3 is just plain stupid, and I'm guessing #4 is just because maybe you can't stand to listen to her ramble on. This is still a win for you. You got some nice pussy for a little while, and now her silly ass is out of your hair.

Post: #7

No surprise here. Women are like that, for some reason their rationale allows them to do shit like this and see nothing wrong about it.

There was this girl I banged regularly for about 3 years. Picked her up at a bar, banged her, and kept her in rotation for a long while, seeing her just for sex. That was it, i would call her, we would set a date, and then she would came over to my house and leave in the morning.

One day I see her online, and say hi. We start chatting and she tells me she feels terrible because "she broke up with her boyfriend and now doesnt knows what to do"

Thats cool, things happen and you will get over it. How long where you two together?

"4 years"

Oh. So I have been fucking her for 3 years, and she has been with this guy for 4.

I should feel sorry for the guy, but I dont. I feel sorry for her. She will be devastated when she finally understands that she has nothing to offer a man, but sex. That her value is correlated to her providing sexual intercourse. And that even that value is slowly decreasing.

Post: #8

Should change thread title to "Just found out this weekend I dodged a huge fucking bullet."

Post: #9

This chick seems pretty crazy, you can either let it slide or get in contact with the fiance and conspire to publically humilate her, preferably in front of her friends/family. It looks like you won't be able to hit that again so I would personally go for option B. You will help a guy dodge a bullet and have quite a satisfying experience outing a whore. Definitely video tape it and post it on youtube.

Post: #10

I hate this kind of neurotic bullshit. Just remove her from your life entirely and focus on other things/women. You don't need the aggravation. Move on now and thank me later. She may come to her senses sometime down the road when her psychosis suppresses, then the ball is in your court as to what your next move will be.

Post: #11

Look,

it appears that at this stage of the game, that they are all Whores - given the chance.

accept that - even though it is hard to do -

being that she's whore and if you enjoy her company, maintain casual contact if you like

eventually she'll cheat and get board with the beta/provider and she'll find a way to come back for sex.

take her off that pedestal and put her in the gutter where she really wants to be....

Post: #12

(11-16-2012 07:22 PM)CMan0928 Wrote:  I hate this kind of neurotic bullshit. Just remove her from your life entirely and focus on other things/women. You don't need the aggravation. Move on now and thank me later. She may come to her senses sometime down the road when her psychosis suppresses, then the ball is in your court as to what your next move will be.

I would normally agree except that it appears that they are all neurotic and bring a lot of bullshit......

dealing with them for extended time necessarily entails aggravation - there is no way around it really.

Just make sure you know what you really want out of the relationship - make sure you get it - and protect yourself from any potential liability.

Post: #13

A wise man said: "bitches be scandalous."

Post: #14

Damn man. Sorry to hear it. Kdolo is on point.

Post: #15

i was fucking a german chick that was engaged for a long time..
It was hilarious.

shit got real when we both ended up in a different city..I was on a date with another girl(ended up having to work)
The engaged girl was in the same city...mentioned she was at another bar.

She starting getting sketch and stopped replying to my text...
I walked to that bar(nothing to lose right? )
turned out she had another boyfriend in the City..he had gotten in a fight with some other dude at a club..and there was a big brawl.
her other boyfriend ended up going to jail.
While he was getting dragged out of the bar, the engaged chick was still horny. she ended up blowing me in the bathroom( talked her to the train at about 6Am so she could take a train back to her future husband)

couple weeks later,she told me her fiance found the pictures she was sending on her phone He kicked her out.
I noticed she hopped right into a relationship with some african black guy.

She had abut 3 boyfriends in 2 different cities on top of her fiance

Moral of the story..
Women will get around..doesnt matter if its her wedding day.
She will hop on a new and improved dick before you can find the box to put the wedding ring in.

Post: #16

Women always talk about wanting a man that wants to be exclusive, but they often have a Plan B already in place in case things don't go exactly the way she wants them to, or as some of you have shown, are working two plans simultaneously. Essentially working with a safety net in case the bottom falls out of one of the plans. You should never feel bad about breaking up with a chick - she's probably got something lined up already.

Post: #17

(11-16-2012 07:42 PM)kdolo Wrote:  Look,

it appears that at this stage of the game, that they are all Whores - given the chance.

accept that - even though it is hard to do -

being that she's whore and if you enjoy her company, maintain casual contact if you like

eventually she'll cheat and get board with the beta/provider and she'll find a way to come back for sex.

take her off that pedestal and put her in the gutter where she really wants to be....

ah yes, the ugly truth. I can almost hear all the voices protesting in chorus: "but im not like that"

pay attention boys.