Post: #51

(06-03-2016 01:27 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Kona it's going to be a helluva battle if you want to keep her out of that life.

I agree. I hope that our strong family holds her back from it.

She's not white at all, and was not raised in America proper. I am the only one of my fathers children that has ever missed Christmas at my gramdmas , and that's because I was fighting a war. She has solid role models as far as both success and family are concerned.

For me, this summer is gonna be an ass festival. There's three of her friends on the beach in front of my house now. These are all 50k plus follower quality girls (that's my new hotness metric) and they look good.

For her, this summer is a crossroads. I did some crazy shit when I was 21, but still had my head on straight, and was very motivated. I'm taking the wait and see and be a good example (while your friends blow me) approach.

Aloha!

Post: #52

Just talk down about her when your sister brings her up.
If your sister questions why you are degrading her friend, explain what degrading shit you had her do.

My younger sister had friends who were average sluts, some of them got their spokes poked.
My sister would bring up, so-and-so is going to Mexico for spring break, she's so lucky!, or other-girl is going to start going to this party university, sounds like fun, I'm jealous (I'm assuming she was because she brought it up). Anything that she was envious of her friends doing, or any "advice" she would take from her friends, I had to shoot down.
"Yeah? I know what filthy fucking things she's going to do down there, cause I already did them with that loose chick." or
"She said that? I wouldn't listen to her, she sucked my dick after it was in her ass, don't listen to what comes past those teeth." or
"Oh neat, she got into that party school? They'll have fun with that dummy, first night I hung out with her, she gave it all away, and I mean everything."
Any time that she would bring up her dirty friends, even casually, my go to line was, "I don't care. Nobody cares what dumb shit those idiots do."
She had some good friends though, and I never disparaged those.

It wasn't verbatim what I said, but basically along those lines. I had to be graphic and make her see how worthless I saw them, so she would be more careful. Most of these conversations were when I had been drinking, so I was less inhibited about talking shit about her friends.
Now she is married to a hard-working guy (insanely hard working), good size house with huge backyard, 1 kid and another on the way. No tattoos or piercings (that I know of, I mostly hope she doesn't have them), and I want to think the shit I did to her friends helped get her there. My dad and mom would only ever say, 'don't hang out with her', or 'don't do that', and not explain exactly why not. So I guess I had to.


If you haven't yet, go throw the barn doors open on her friend, then casually inject it (and your feelings about it) whenever she talks about her.

Post: #53

(11-12-2012 06:39 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  Of course I don't mean that you're actually attracted to them (though I'm told incest is becoming increasingly tolerated in our society ), but that you can objectively say your sister is physically attractive and recognize that she gets tons of male (and female) attention.

How has this affected your game? Did you have access to hotter girls as a result (through social networks) growing up? Have you observed cats trying to game her? How lame/good is their game? What behind-the-scenes shit have you observed?

Let's see, both of my sisters were ballroom dancers back in the day,
the older one went on the Miss Finland (came in third) and Miss Hawaiian Tropic International (didn't make the finals, but she got a trip to Florida out of it) pageants
and was on TV (some lame quizshow that only lasted a season) back in the early 90's,
the other one's the demure/down-to-earth housewife-type who prefers to stay at home.

The women on my fathers side of the family have always been tall and somewhat skinny, on my mothers side the women were more curvy. (shorter, wider hips, big tits, etc.)
My sisters are somewhere in between. Both are in their 40's now but I'd wager they still turn heads, given how they've stayed in shape.

Older one's had one (maybe two) boyfriends, she's now in her second marriage.
The other one's had one prior boyfriend, she's now been married for 20 years to a guy she met in college.

Access to hotter girls was non-existant, due to me being a decade younger than them or their friends, and a sheltering attitude they got from our parents.
Now when I think back, everytime I would express an interest in some girl (during my teenage lust), my sisters would be the first ones to question my taste in women. Every time.
"Whose daughter is she?", "She's not good enough for you.", "Just be careful." etc.
It got annoying so I stopped talking about my interests.

Later on, the older one tried to set me up with some of her friends when I was in my mid-to-late 20's. Didn't work.
She just couldn't grasp the concept of me having my own taste in women by that time. Or my own personality, for that matter.

But, I digress...

I remember seeing guys flirting with them and making them laugh, even though they had steady boyfriends/husbands.
And as far as I can tell, they were faithful to them.
(Although, when the older sister moved out to Helsinki to pursue a career in TV, she broke up with her fiancé a couple of months later.)


Behind the scenes shit, well... I've heard them both talking a lot about their husbands, at one point.

The older one just couldn't understand why her husband wouldn't spend more time with her ("He's always working or he's out boozing with his friends, why can't he spend more time with me?!")
and the other one felt underappreciated ("I'm always cleaning up the house and he doesn't even notice!"). So I guess I learned something about LTRs.
(To be frank though, the older one can be a spoiled rotten stupid bitch at times, and the other one's just too damn kind/has self-esteem issues.)




I still have this hunch that I don't know everything about them. Perhaps it's better that way.