Post: #1

Anyone seen this? It's got some good points, and also bad ones. I'd be curious to hear what you guys think.

Wiki on How to Flirt

Here's my response to each step:

(First five are for text or online chatting)

1. Seems OK for mass/low-investment texts.

2. This is good- kind of like what Roosh teaches in Day Bang where you bait them in to asking you questions.

3. I like the idea of making your intentions clear early on so you don't get LJBF'd. This kind of fly's in the face of negging, but it might be the yin to negging's yang.

4. Negging

5. I like the idea of setting up the next communication and also being the one to end the conversation.


(flirting in person)

1. Good notes on eye contact

2. Smiling is good.

3. Taking the initiative and leading the interaction is alpha.

4. Both good points on names.

5. This is important- in most situations, you can't wait for her to start the conversation. You have to initiate.

6. Good notes on kino. If a girl closes her body off to me, it almost always means she will not fuck me that night. Actually, I can't think of a time when a girl has crossed her legs away from me and the bang ensued.

7. Good advice on vocal tone.

8. Get her chasing you.

9. I wouldn't be so formal: "I'd like to take you out on a date".. I'd see if she'd be up for "grabbing a drink sometime"

10. Approach, approach, approach.

Post: #2

Oh man, I remember reading this during my pre red pill days when I got tired of not knowing anything about effectively talking to girls and not having even the most basic flirting ability. Tough times There's also a somewhat similar article on mahalo.com titled "how to flirt" or "how to flirt with girls", cant really remember the exact title at the moment.