Post: #1

I remember Roissy writing something about that you shouldn't feed a girl's need for gossip.

Any thoughts? Because I like talking a little bit of gossip with girls. Don't you why, it gets them going I guess. It makes them talk more and roughly 1000 subjects pops up surrounding the thing we are talking about. But then again, not sure if it brings me any closer to her pussy.

Somehow I feel that it's sort of a beta trap, but I'm not sure. Is this a "no-no" and something I should stop immediately?

Post: #2

Sure you can...if you wanna end up being her girlfriend

Post: #3

(11-11-2012 06:41 PM)HenryH Wrote:  I remember Roissy writing something about that you shouldn't feed a girl's need for gossip.

Any thoughts? Because I like talking a little bit of gossip with girls. Don't you why, it gets them going I guess. It makes them talk more and roughly 1000 subjects pops up surrounding the thing we are talking about. But then again, not sure if it brings me any closer to her pussy.

Somehow I feel that it's sort of a beta trap, but I'm not sure. Is this a "no-no" and something I should stop immediately?

Go for it. That shit is like crack to girls, I do it all time. Just don't skip on the escalation while do you so or very quickly you will:

(11-11-2012 07:05 PM)RevolutionaryCause Wrote:  end up being her girlfriend

Post: #4

Roissy also wrote that a little bit of beta goes a loooong way with girls, so chat it up but dont get carried away and lose track of what you're actually there for.

Post: #5

Think of gossip and drama as a very easy way of elliciting very strong emotional responses from girls, which can be really entertaining. Think of how hilarious some of the drama, meltdowns and too easily butthurt people on our forum are for instance Using this stuff as part of your game toolbox isn't every guys style, but girls can and will get addicted to that shit, there's a reason they call it "chick crack".

Post: #6

gossip is gossip.

People WILL talk about you.

No way around it. Gossip about other people too.

Im in a small city. It's like im in high school again. I think you need to gossip. There's not a whole lot else to do to relate to people here: "Oh, you know so-and-so? Cool, yeah we hung out, I remember she dated bobby, did you know him?" It establishes common ground. And the things people will say are fucking CRUEL.

Man/woman is probably the cruelest of all animals in the universe.

Your reputation is something to be careful of. Mine's pretty fucked right now. But it's fun - if extremely nerveracking and difficult - to raise from the ashes like a fucking phoenix.

Are you in the scene? The point is, it sucks being an outsider, but it sucks conforming to the scene too. There's the scene, and then there's your scene.

Post: #7

(11-12-2012 03:29 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  Are you in the scene? The point is, it sucks being an outsider, but it sucks conforming to the scene too. There's the scene, and then there's your scene.

Well, always been a guy who demands a lot of attention. Outgoing, used to be in the center. So I will say that I'm "in the scene".

And yeah, I agree with everything you're saying. And everything you do will be talked about. I fingered this girl and when I met my friend the next day I put two fingers in his face to illustrate it in a funny way. The problem is that this other girl was in the room too and saw it. Didn't take very long time before the info got back to the girl i fingered (cause of that other bitch in the room). But, surprisingly, she wasn't mad when she confronted me about it. She almost seemed flattered.

Anyhow, thanks for input

To sum it up (note to self): Gossip will be talked about, it's a great way to get a girl going, you just have to handle it like an alpha.

Post: #8

Ahh, I'm jealous of you.

Gossip is much more hurtful when you're naturally introverted like me.

Gossip is a tool. It's fun to hear about other people's demons even if its not fun to hear other's talk about your own.

Gossipping is also about friendship. You don't have to fuck every girl. Especially in this small city I'm in now, it's much more important to be cool with the girls & flirt some, but not be too aggressive. Then the sex will come.

God it's taken me so fucking long to realize this and I still cant implement it. LOLOLOL