Post: #1

theres a chinese club with fine girls that i want to go to.. but being that i'm caucasian i might feel left out and maybe ignored since few white guys go there.. what do u guys think? how should i attack this problem?

also, how should i open specifically the chinese girls there?

Post: #2

I'm no expert on Asian women per say, but as far as blending in, do just that, blend in. Don't walk in there like you own the place and start talking to every girl in the joint. Sit down, have a drink, develop a strategy based on how busy the place is while you're there (assuming you find the talent there at that particular time worthwhile). Other than that, do what you would normally do with any other kind of female that you're gaming for the first time. If she's alone, great. If not, try and isolate her the best you can. And if you look out of place, so what? Just remember, you have a job to do. Nothing else should be relevant.

Post: #3

You won't be ignored, you'll be hit on. Asian girls like white guys, and will have respect and interest in one who's in a predominantly chinese club.

Post: #4

Also, do you have any Asian male friends that frequent this spot? If so, they're your in if you're truly worried about sticking out in the crowd.

Post: #5

Chinese or Korean? know your target...

Dunno about the US but 'Asian' clun nights here are basically no go for white boys, you will experience MAD HATE from the asian bro's. As someone else said if you go with Asian friends it may be semi acceptable. These joints are probably the one of the few places where I would think twice about rolling dolo.

Post: #6

I am going to sound bitter but it's going to be a lot easier for you compared to Asian guy walking into a bar full of white people.

Do they expect you to speak chinese? no. would they laugh at you if you can't speak pretty good? no.
Would they appreciate if you spit just some words? Yes. Would they flip out if you throw some slangs? Yes.
Learn some slangs that can be used as a reaction to certain situations. Spit it out here and there. they will love you.

Learn about some celebrity. just spit it out 'do you know this person? he/she is amazing'
it will make them feel proud.

Talk about some real cuisine that's not available on English menu. (not kungpao chicken crap)
They will appreciate the fact that you know the real chinese food and enjoy it.


It sounds too easy for me......

Post: #7

Go. Don't worry, just go.

Post: #8

I'm a Black guy and I've done the same thing.

Grab a friend with you, ideally Asian and go. If you don't have an Asian friend to take with you, having a friend even if not Asian will help you feel more comfortable.

If you do dare roll solo dolo, then quickly, maybe before you even enter the door, befriend an Asian dude. Maybe even buy him a beer inside. Then when anybody asks, you just say you're there with your Asian friend.

Post: #9

Are you in Korea, or just in an American club frequented by Korean Americans?

Post: #10

Just walk in wearing this shirt and you're golden



I'm half serious ...but I bet you that you'd pull one that night if you did.

Post: #11

Also, how do you know if you'll be ignored unless you go there?

This is something guys on this forum deal with on a regular basis: the possibility that people might not like you. Get over it.

As with individual women, you're not going to get anywhere by wondering whether or not you'll be accepted before you've even made an attempt.

Just go. If you get bad vibes, just find another club. Why does this even need to be said?

Quote:also, how should i open specifically the chinese girls there?

If they're Chinese-Americans, open them the same way you would any other woman.
If they're from China, then unless you've been to China and can speak Chinese, I'd say open them the same way you would open any other woman.

Also, if this is a club in China (especially if this is a second-tier Chinese city, and you're the only foreigner in sight) you shouldn't have any difficulty approaching, as you'll basically be the cute little exotic animal from the zoo, and people will likely try to befriend you just so they can show off to their friends that they know a foreigner. Imagine you were in a club and you saw Dr. Manhattan or one those big blue motherfuckers from Avatar walking around ordering drinks and hitting on girls. That's pretty mucht he reaction you'll get there as a foreigner.

Post: #12