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RE: Unexpected ways the forum has changed you
1. I disgust obese women even more now. 2. I realize just how big of a cunt American women really are. 3. I now realize their attitude isn't normal or even sane for a women. 4. I have more confidence. 5. I now study all interactions around me between men and women especially if it looks like there is flirting involved. 6. I often judge whether the guy has game, is a newb, is a beta, or just doesnt have a clue. 7. I see if the girl genuinely likes the guy, has some interest, or is just taking advantage. 8. I have a better appreciation for game and its effectiveness and overall malleability. 9. I constantly wonder if Im talking to a forum member or am around one.
10-26-2012 09:08 PM
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A girl I met started talking about her hamster and it took me a full minute or two before I realized she was talking about some kind of pet rodent.
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I've become hypersensitive to bitchy girls or girls asking dumb shit. Sometimes I overreact and it hurts my game.

Eg. Last night pretty much all of the girls I talked to asked me "so what frat are you in" if they asked it after a few minutes of talking ok cool she might be interested. I ran into this girl I knew, talked to her for a bit then she introduced me to her friends. The first thing that comes out of her mouth isn't what's your name/how do you know my friend etc its "what frat are you in" I looked at her funny and walked away.
10-27-2012 09:38 AM
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The biggest thing for me is my growing hostility towards manginas, male feminists, effeminate herbs and white knights.
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RE: Unexpected ways the forum has changed you
well i thought this shit was only about getting laid at first, but it changed my life in so many different ways

1. started lifting weights like a man (squats, deadlifts, etc.)

2. eat like a real ass man

3. more confident/self assured in social interactions/situations

4. realizing so much male behavior in TV/hollywood is beta as hell

5. don't listen to drake as much, although i still think he's talented and enjoy his music. i should say i don't take his music religiously like i used to. same with the weeknd

6. studying male/female interactions that i see, try to pick things up

7. classifying dudes as beta, alpha, etc (don't know if this is a good thing)

8. accept women for what they are, i'm not mad

9. got my school/future career shit in order

10. wear better clothes now, spend time on myself...get a good haircut, take care of my skin, etc.

11. more comfortable with who i am

12. i jerk off a lot less as well

13. knowing that anything is possible, you can be whoever you want to be, do whatever you want to do, you just gotta put in the work.

thanks roosh, i owe you a lot boss.
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11-25-2012 11:07 PM
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(10-25-2012 07:22 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  The thing I noticing most recently however is that game is leaking into my school work.

Just the other day I was working on an essay for German about a kid called Tonio Kröger who is basically a socially maladapted loser in highschool. I titled my essay "Tonio Kröger - Why he's a loser in highschool and what he can do about it. I wrote an essay about what he should.

The main points were:
  • Stop worrying about what everybody else thinks or that they are better than you. Focus on yourself.
  • Work out. You'll feel good and look good.
  • Get a new wardrobe. Dress sharp. Dressing in new clothes will help you feel like a new man. Fit is king.
  • Get more experienced with girls. Talk to a hundred of them.
  • Don't focus on just one girl.
  • Your mission in life is more important than girls.

Even in English class going over English literature such as poetry from the likes of John Donne, I wrote an essay titled "How to seduce Christian Women using John Donne's Rhetoric". It is also rife with basic nuggets of game.

I'm really looking forward to seeing what grades I get for these essays.

I got As on both of those essays, by the way.

Wald
11-25-2012 11:51 PM
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RE: Unexpected ways the forum has changed you
1) Really accepted women far inferior intellectually than men.

2) They're wired to snag a high-status male, then sort of ignore you to care for babies.

3) It's not their fault any more than what I want.

4) But it means taking them less seriously means doing better with them. They don't want the responsibility of someone who really loves them. They're into their kids. You're at best a well-liked piece of furniture.

5) Their main purpose in life is to entertain me, have kids, and dote on me. If they aren't with that they're pretty useless.

6) That aphorism by the smart guy here "You can lose money chasing women but you won't lose women chasing money" reverses when you pass 50. Every day you work will mean a day without much interaction with women cause you'll be tired at the end of it. So you need to reduce your work time to be fucking more....

because

"Time--Time is all you got." (Ry Cooder)


And better get used to Asian women.
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11-25-2012 11:56 PM
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(10-23-2012 03:52 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  1) This forum motivated and taught me how to go out solo and not only be successful doing it, but more comfortable in my own skin.

2) Above translated into more confidence, more women, and in sum, more confidence outside of game in everyday life.

3) This forum taught me to be proactive, and go after what I want.

4) It made me realize there really is more out there and than the shitty entitled attitudes I deal with everyday. You just have to work hard to find them.

5) It has also made me want to better myself, learn a new skill/song/language/workout harder, everyday.

MOST IMPORTANTLY: It taught me that game and success with women isn't just a skill. Its a lifestyle. And like many things, its never finished. It is constantly a work in progress.

Dead on. If anything, this forum taught me to be unfazed by headscratching women in the US in addition to just "playing for the win" in any given circumstance whether it be game, personal aspirations, or career goals.

You said everything I wanted to say so I applaud you for that.
11-26-2012 12:13 AM
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Most unexpected thing to come out of this forum was my first meet up, with Lothario. He's a great guy, very friendly, and we shoot texts back and forth every now and again. I'm looking foward to becoming friends with other RVFers because of a great face-to-face meeting with a fellow member, something I never expected when joining.

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11-26-2012 01:28 AM
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One story illustrates what I've learned here.
About a week ago I'm in a Starbucks in a high end part of the city to finish a work project. I go to sit down at the one empty table next to two women in yoga clothes, one a 6 and one a bitchy, high maintenance-looking 8.5. I'm dressed in jeans, italian shoes, form fitting v neck t shirt with high-end shades dangling off the V, and soft leather jacket. I go to sit and notice them checking out the RVF push up thread powered pecs. I'm just f----ing up the limbic systems. I glance at them, then ignore with disdain. I sit down, spread the legs, lean back, take up space... then I go to open my laptop when my napkins fall on the floor. Then the two women BOTH rush to pick my napkins up for me before I can do it.

It's very possible they just liked me for “me,” but I'm guessing I don't get that kind of service if I'm not grinding out the RVF push-ups. Or if I don't upgrade the clothes to fit my body type. Or if I don't force them non verbally to qualify. Or if I don't read the body language right (What Every Body is Saying book). Or if I flash the supplicating “I'm so happy you noticed me!” smile. When they're rushing to pick up your napkins you've flipped the script of normal gender behavior. RVF is about the only place where you can consciously learn to make this happen.

Then specifically, I've really picked up on a few key points:

1) Life, in essence, is a numbers game. Maximize your s---, keep stuff cooking on each burner. Don't get hung up on one pot, no matter what it is. My best pot will eventually spill and if I don't have 5 more going, it's my fault, and my fault only.
2) Fit is more important than brand, color, etc.
3) Don't give a f—-; not in an anarchic sense,but rather in a take it or leave sense. The guy who can "pass" is the guy who wins.
4) Confidence (or more specifically- successfully demonstrating confidence) is king. It's the Jedi force that makes stuff happen. Train your body to demonstrate; from eye movement to the fidget elimination, etc.
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Aside from checking out obvious things like a girl's face, ass, tits, and legs, I pay special attention to see if she's got flabby upper-arms or not.

Skinny upper-arms are almost more of a turn-on to me then some of those other things now.

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It's made me unsatisfied about my life.

Not in a depressive way, but more like a "my life is not where I want it to be, I NEED to change it." sort of unhappiness. I'm perpetually craving more experiences and reading about some of the dudes here who are location-independent and making tons of cash always gets me extremely unhappy when my life is currently so far from that.

Fortunately, I'm done with wallowing in self-pity about it and have begun to make some serious changes. It's always inspiring to read some of the posts on here
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I now recoil and look to end the conversation once I find out a girl is Danish.
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(11-25-2012 11:51 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  
(10-25-2012 07:22 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  The thing I noticing most recently however is that game is leaking into my school work.

Just the other day I was working on an essay for German about a kid called Tonio Kröger who is basically a socially maladapted loser in highschool. I titled my essay "Tonio Kröger - Why he's a loser in highschool and what he can do about it. I wrote an essay about what he should.

The main points were:
  • Stop worrying about what everybody else thinks or that they are better than you. Focus on yourself.
  • Work out. You'll feel good and look good.
  • Get a new wardrobe. Dress sharp. Dressing in new clothes will help you feel like a new man. Fit is king.
  • Get more experienced with girls. Talk to a hundred of them.
  • Don't focus on just one girl.
  • Your mission in life is more important than girls.

Even in English class going over English literature such as poetry from the likes of John Donne, I wrote an essay titled "How to seduce Christian Women using John Donne's Rhetoric". It is also rife with basic nuggets of game.

I'm really looking forward to seeing what grades I get for these essays.

I got As on both of those essays, by the way.

Wald

As an english teacher I hope I get students like you ^^
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I recently insta-dated a girl I approached in the mall, she loved the sponateity!
I always do more powerlifts at the gym.
I eat like a man.
I look at women like they are retarded, I mock them and say what is on my mind.
I know more about the women in the Balkans, Baltics and Scandinavia than the retarded women in Toronto.
I make sure I am always the most Alpha dude any place I go.
I am planning trips that I could only dream off (Russia)!

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I want to go to the DR
I take Zinc.

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I've improved my geography knowledge a lot. I think I would score pretty highly on an exam on lesser-know cities in for instance the FSU or Latin America. Of course it also helps that I love looking at maps.
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I want to start my own blog/ebook business.

I don't go down on women.

I shoot for the notch.

I think Roosh is a brilliant blogger and marketer.

I met el mechanico

I feel I have a chance to finally succeed with women (at 29 no less).

Um, I figured out it is okay to be a male.

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This forum made me view travel differently. I've always wanted to travel, but just to see the great, historical sites around the world. The forum got me thinking more about capturing flags at the same time. To focus more on languages.

Many of the issues regarding women, and how we relate to them, I had already observed before I found my way here. Seeing guys discuss the same things here made a light go on. It's great to see the opinions of guys from different parts of the country and the world as it relates to these issues. Long ago I thought seriously about finding women that weren't born in the US to hook up with. I just hadn't thought so much about finding them on THEIR turf. The forum has also gotten me to think more about building something for myself (I've long had a idea about a business I might want to start). The forum has made me think more about taking definitive steps towards that goal.

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I think about going to a country, then I have to check if I have the flag or not, and this will influence my decision somewhat.
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This forum has made me take less shit from girls. It has really improved my self esteem. I'm not joking.
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Not so much this forum, but many MGTOW / PUA forums.

1. I know the science of women down to a tee, I still make mistakes here and there but at least I can analyze my mistakes against an accurate model of attraction.

2. Have no trouble talking to women ever and I can make friends with just about anyone, anywhere. I am the party at all times except at home, at home my wife and I just sit around and enjoy each other's company.

3. Deprogrammed my old self, have no fear of anything really, capable of doing anything, anywhere at anytime. I have literally no way to be embarrassed.

4. Excellent people and networking skills, helps on both of my jobs.

5. Know there are people out there to help and that I CAN help and are OPEN to help. As an old friend of mine helped me, maybe I can help out another, he always said: "and the wheel turns".

6. Got married, and to a woman who isn't very attractive but would make 99% of men jealous. I am very proud of my wife, kind of a weird thing to say on a men's forum but she is exactly the thing that most MGTOW's would love to have. Also this has helped me network others to good women who hate feminism. Vancier can back me on this one, I hope he is doing well. Smile

7. Brag about how good my life is and the transformation that took place, who else gives a sh1t but men in the process of change.

8. Gives me an outlet to make friends who aren't blue pill.

9. Roosh specific: I met a guy on this forum that I instantly connected with. I was surprised because most of the Indian guy's I've met have been pretty hostile to me. I really hope I get the chance to meet more guys as smart and interesting as him. (no homo) hahaha.

Note: Even though I don't get along with many people on the different forums, I know that an IRL meeting would almost always result in a long lasting friendship. Thats a nice thing to have access to... in a lot of ways we are a tribe.

The tribe of the natural order of things.
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1. I hate fat women more than I thought was possible previously.

2. I utterly loathe white knights/enablers/fat-apologists.

3. I know a lot more about society, especially masculinity and feminism, than I did previously.

4. I see my parent's divorce from my Dad's perspective a lot more.

5. Made me realise that not wanting to get married is not a negative thing.

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I'm starting to sympathize a lot more with my father now. I think I can tell the kind of bullshit he went through raising his family.

Every time a girl threatens to "beat someone up", I challenge them to try me first in order to remind them that there are social repercussions for violence and that, historically, men were the ones most polite about it because we have to put our money where our mouths are.

I hit the gym 5 days a week. Admittedly, I've also been influenced a lot by Chaos and Pain.

I get fucking sick of the masculine attitudes of our women in general.

I call out feminists on their shit every once in a while. Doesn't help me get laid, but someone has to do it. I call it "black knighting".

Now I just need to approach like a madman. I do approach, but my game is still somewhat shitty. Basically, I'm doing what I can in this small town shithole until I graduate at the end of the semester and move to a bigger city.

Call it what you want, but I wanted to get other things in my life sorted out first (fitness and health, money situation, work ethic).

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(02-10-2013 02:03 PM)Hannibal Wrote:  I call out feminists on their shit every once in a while. Doesn't help me get laid, but someone has to do it. I call it "black knighting".

Black Knighting, I like that.

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