Post: #26

I've never had any luck with this. I am a young, good looking guy especially compared to their clientele. Girls have teased me and given me numbers but I have yet to convert. strip club = great place to get blueballed and drop bills. you'll have better luck getting laid at the bar/club all day. Less chance of getting std there anyway.

Post: #27

I have some experience with this - getting a number from a stripper means absolutely nothing, much like with real girls. I remember the first time I got a number from a stripper and got all excited cause "she isn't supposed to be doing this". Well long story short I actually ended up talking with another guy who had a separate encounter with the same stripper and got the same game played on him. Girl gave both us her number and told us her real name which were both fake IOIs in order to make us thing we had a chance and that we were somehow better then all the other customers that came through. Of course when both us tried to actually meet her outside of the club she always had an excuse.

I would say the only way to know if she's actually for real with her intentions is if she agrees to meet up with you outside the club.

Post: #28

It is still beyond me why in this country strippers are given some kind elevated of status. In the rest of the world no guy would aspire to dating or fucking a stripper just because she was a stripper...lol Just from the way you are talking I can tell that this is the case. The first thing you would need to do is take her off of the pedestal you have put her on!

I have banged and dated a few of them. Just treat like any other girl with her clothes on. Generally, I stay away from them. In my experience they ALL have messed up lives with a lot of crazy shit going on. Also a lot of them are lesbians or have a strong lean towards women.

Post: #29

(03-10-2013 05:33 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  It is still beyond me why in this country strippers are given some kind elevated of status. In the rest of the world no guy would aspire to dating or fucking a stripper just because she was a stripper...lol Just from the way you are talking I can tell that this is the case. The first thing you would need to do is take her off of the pedestal you have put her on!

False.

It has been this way since at least the 1920's:

Guys have always dated Showgirls.

In Europe as well for even longer.

Post: #30

A "Showgirl" back in those days was equivalent to an actress today.

Post: #31

(03-10-2013 05:33 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  It is still beyond me why in this country strippers are given some kind elevated of status. In the rest of the world no guy would aspire to dating or fucking a stripper just because she was a stripper...lol Just from the way you are talking I can tell that this is the case. The first thing you would need to do is take her off of the pedestal you have put her on!

I have banged and dated a few of them. Just treat like any other girl with her clothes on. Generally, I stay away from them. In my experience they ALL have messed up lives with a lot of crazy shit going on. Also a lot of them are lesbians or have a strong lean towards women.

There's something primal about it. Bad ratios, naked women, sex in the air, hormones raging on all sides. This goes beyond strip clubs. When a lot of guys are vying for one females attention in any situation, the same thing happens. Crazy part is, women do it to.

I don't think it's one factor but many. I honestly believe pheromones have something to do with it, social factors, simple competition, ect. You can almost call it a phenomenon, but humans are too simple.

Not hating on anyone, but I stay away from those places. The deck is stacked against you. And yes, most strippers are ate up like a soup sammich.

Post: #32

Great Thread !
I 'm perplexed by a stripper that number close me last nite..Rewind….A friend of mine begged me to go with him to strip club. He just received a large sum of money and couldn't resisted the urge to splurge. We went to two clubs in ATL. I'm not impress or into strip clubs. Although, I would love to go to the trap house. (Sexclub) I've been to Thailand and everything after that is a blur.
I spent most of my time aloof once inside. My friend was having a good time tricking off…( I spent more time chopping it up with some German dudes in the first club than with the girls) We step in the last club and this one chick was on my boy from the door to the table for an hour but observing me. I caught her staring quiet a few times throughout the night . I mostly try to avoid eye contact to keep unwanted pandering.
Two hours later she accosted my friend while he was with another girl at the booth "Are you going pay for a lap dance for him" I reply, I rather watch you dance on him….. But they both insisted. I put his money on the table like she asked me too(Closing time was near she didn't want pickup off the floor) some time later this intoxicate fool pick it up and threw it to make it rain. I help her pick it up. Then she causal took out her pen and wrote her name & number on the back of a dollar bill and handle it to me and said "Tell your boy its not alway about money" I put it in my pocket the same time security was ushering us out the place.
I agree with a lot of the comments on here strippers are not worth my time and Peace of Mind but………. A bird in the hand is worth more than two in the bushes. What do you lads think about the whole thing ?

Post: #33

If you want to pick up a stripper bring a girl/girlfriend with you to the strip club.

Post: #34

(09-20-2013 03:53 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  If you want to pick up a stripper bring a girl/girlfriend with you to the strip club.

I agree that you should either go with a girl or go alone. The last couple strippers I've talked to have told me that they get pissed when they see big packs of drunk dudes coming into the club and generally try to avoid them. It will work to your advantage if you act like you're "in the know" about this and purposely go alone. Obviously a lot of guys that do stuff like that probably go to one of these places every 5 years for a bachelor party and try to white knight the strippers. Don't be that guy.

Post: #35

I've been with about 8 strippers over the years. My formula I basically stripped down (no pun) to its raw essentials.

You're going to have 3-4 types of standard customers in there, per strippers I've talked to about this:
1) Lonely dude (often older) who makes average scratch but spends his entire check there for companionship.
2) Simps and occasional actual pimps in the sleazier places. Some are running tail, some are making their appearance-rounds to remain G-statused. Some are banging the one(s) they talk to. Take note of which girls these are, as you're probably wasting your time with them
3) Guys who have absolutely no game, almost or are omega types.
4) Mr. fun guy, who tries to draw all the attention to himself and his crew if with one.
* all the above will usually be regulars to some extent.

I avoid appearing to be like any of these cats above. I don't come in booted n suited, just average street clothes or slightly dressed up to be out as usual.

But I walk in the place like I totally own that fucker from the first step inside. This is really a social experiment.

I park myself at the bar or a table, usually solo, somewhere semi-high traffic for the layout.

I don't give the girl on stage my full attention for long periods unless she's one of the top 2-3 in there. I order a drink and pick out 1-2 average or better looking strippers, who are making their rounds and comment on what they're wearing or something about their appearance. I never gawk, and maintain that I'm extremely comfortable around mostly naked girls. I usually give some strong kino right off the bat with these first girls.

I'll go up and throw bills only at the hot ones I'd like to fuck on stage over the course of a few hours, but again, not park myself at the stage for the whole night, like a needy pussy fiend.

They're all trying to hustle to some extent, you can immediately tell which ones are seasoned vets by how they sell their desire to get you in a booth for a dance. I deflect their requests in a casual manner, but remain super chill but playful.

Once you establish you're a cool easy-going guy to talk to you more or less get "accepted" into the establishment's social sphere. This of course includes tipping the bartender well, maybe opening a tab to they know you're not leaving real quick.

It's best to enter strip clubs to pick up strippers on slow nights, for obvious reasons. I'll tell one that just used her twat to pick up a bill of my face after her happy stage twerk; "Is that all you've got?" or something along those lines of negging.

Later, as the ones I flung bills at do their rounds to check to see who wants dances, I'll scoop them into a drink with me while sitting on my lap, etc. I can usually get at least one that I like - whether its dead in the place, or they're in and out of doing dances, to commit to park themselves mainly with me for the night.

I'll also hit on girls that occasionally come in there who are either strippers off shift or friends of other strippers, to maintain a smooth flow of interaction. If you can get one of them to park herself with you most of the night, often others will come around and if you're doing well, you'll end up with a little group of them around you. I also push how far with the kino I can go without getting kicked out of the club.

I keep it a night out drinking. I'd rather buy a few rounds at the cost of a couch dance rather than blow a bunch of money on couch dances. The only time I pay for a dance is when I've got one of them so horny they're begging me to get a couch dance to check out what I'm packin. The rest is history. Make your move and try to ONS at end of her shift or get # and commitment to meet outside of the place.

On almost every occasion, the one I fucked said at some point before we banged;"You don't seem like the type of guy that comes in here," or my favorite;"you're not like the kind of guy that 'needs' to come in here.." That's right, I'm not. That's why we need to fuck.

Post: #36

Getting strippers ain't easy, but it ain't very hard either. If you have a reg place you post-up at, it's pretty much a guarantee that some nite some hot chick will be: bored, drunk, horny, high, hellbent on revenge for getting dumped, likes your style, and ask you to take her home...or give you her number and make it very obvious: 'Hey, I cook a mean breakfast....'

That's called an IOI, gentlemen.

Post: #37

Don't really hit up the strips clubs but being in miami and having friends you're virtually assured of going to one sooner then later.

I was in bt's right in front of UM campus one night having a drink. As we are about leave my friend tells me he paid the only girl he thought was worthy of lap dance and that she's waiting for you. I go and same thing as OP happened. She dry fucked the shit out of me( I think she liked it more then I did)She gave me her number and took mine down. About a week later calls me and says she at a club on the beach if I want to come down. I was kind of hesitant but marched forward.big mistake...if anyone has been down here you know there's two types of Cubans. Ones born here and the fresh off the boat kind. I hate that cheap cologne tacky style so I told her lets go somewhere just me and you after being annoyed at her group. She said no...I met a polish chick at another place that night.

Btw, have any of you been at sobe hostel? There's a bar with cheap drinks. I figure it would be a perfect place to meet tourist girls.

Post: #38

I think it's possible, over the past few years I've gone about 10 times and experimented a bit to see if I could bang one, unfortunately it didn't happen. The problem is the clubs I've been to the girls were pretty much pros or semi-pros. I remember going to strip clubs when I was younger, and I never remembered the girls being like this. Lap dances were regular lap dances.

The past few years I had girls unzip my pants and start jerking me off, and offering up the extra services, asking if I want to cum or a blowjob. Since I have about 35 years of the game before I have to resort to being that dirty old man in the strip club, I turn them down and tell them I just want a regular dance. Not to mention it's a stupid risk. This may just be a result of the clubs I've been to, but I've been to several where I suspect the girls are pretty much hookers.

I've gotten a few numbers and was supposed to meetup with one strong candidate(make out, fingered, yes I felt like a dirty bastard but I'm sure some 'regular' girls I've been with have been dirtier.)

I've had a few experiences, I'll try to describe them for any guys on the board who want to give it a shot.

I try to focus on the younger girls (25 and under) who were drinking on the job, the girls who remind me of the young party sluts I knew in college. I'll roll in usually with a friend, but I don't dress that differently(these aren't high end clubs.) I'll try to sit where there's a high traffic area so they approach me. Sometimes I'll be at the stage, but I've found that not being at the stage girls approach more. Then it's basically conversation as usual, I'm just humorous/aloof andI try to gauge her interest. I look for the green light which is her spending time hanging out with me at the expense of making money with other customers. If a girl is doing this especially for a longer period of time, I try to move things forward.

I've tried just going for the number and contacting them later and actually getting a lap dance. So far I haven't gotten any bangs, so I don't know the best method(paying them to fuck you would be the easiest, but then that's not really game)

Post: #39

(10-21-2012 02:19 PM)DoctaWho Wrote:  Fast forward to the end of the night. I've got a good buzz going, the place is closing, I still have cash in my pocket and the last girl on stage is one of the two I've seen all night I would actually call attractive. So I bought a couple of private dances.

As far as she's concerned, you're a trick, game over.

If you want to pull strippers, you have to keep your money in your pocket.

Post: #40

(09-21-2013 11:29 AM)Deacon0228 Wrote:  Don't really hit up the strips clubs but being in miami and having friends you're virtually assured of going to one sooner then later.

I was in bt's right in front of UM campus one night having a drink. As we are about leave my friend tells me he paid the only girl he thought was worthy of lap dance and that she's waiting for you. I go and same thing as OP happened. She dry fucked the shit out of me( I think she liked it more then I did)She gave me her number and took mine down. About a week later calls me and says she at a club on the beach if I want to come down. I was kind of hesitant but marched forward.big mistake...if anyone has been down here you know there's two types of Cubans. Ones born here and the fresh off the boat kind. I hate that cheap cologne tacky style so I told her lets go somewhere just me and you after being annoyed at her group. She said no...I met a polish chick at another place that night.

Btw, have any of you been at sobe hostel? There's a bar with cheap drinks. I figure it would be a perfect place to meet tourist girls.

I can't remember who it was, but I remember talking with someone on here about doing a strip club data sheet for Miami.

Post: #41

(09-29-2013 09:00 PM)jariel Wrote:  As far as she's concerned, you're a trick, game over.

If you want to pull strippers, you have to keep your money in your pocket.

Not even remotely true. Secondly, if you go to some place every month or so its not like they remember every freaking guy from their 4-5 day, 8 hr a week shift month after month after month.

If you are alpha, they are interested. Period. Same as any other ho.

edit: FTR, I have smashed strippers in every major city I've lived in. You can take home the fcked-up ones and/or the 'nice' ones. I've had girls hop in my car after the club closed, literally just open the door and jump in and say 'Take me home/your place/hotel.' And I don't use or offer drugs.

Post: #42

I pulled one before.

keys were:

became a regular there at lunch time. nice and slow. place was around the corner from my office. went in for the club sandwich. really.

never tipped the one i wanted

tipped the other girls, made her very jealous.

took her home straight from the club

kicked her out afterwards, she appreciated that (not spending the night)

afterwards had more than one more of the others girls just slip me their number while i was eating lunch

went out with 5 or 6 of them one night, crazy ass night!!

Post: #43

(09-29-2013 09:04 PM)jariel Wrote:  

(09-21-2013 11:29 AM)Deacon0228 Wrote:  Don't really hit up the strips clubs but being in miami and having friends you're virtually assured of going to one sooner then later.

I was in bt's right in front of UM campus one night having a drink. As we are about leave my friend tells me he paid the only girl he thought was worthy of lap dance and that she's waiting for you. I go and same thing as OP happened. She dry fucked the shit out of me( I think she liked it more then I did)She gave me her number and took mine down. About a week later calls me and says she at a club on the beach if I want to come down. I was kind of hesitant but marched forward.big mistake...if anyone has been down here you know there's two types of Cubans. Ones born here and the fresh off the boat kind. I hate that cheap cologne tacky style so I told her lets go somewhere just me and you after being annoyed at her group. She said no...I met a polish chick at another place that night.

Btw, have any of you been at sobe hostel? There's a bar with cheap drinks. I figure it would be a perfect place to meet tourist girls.

I can't remember who it was, but I remember talking with someone on here about doing a strip club data sheet for Miami.

It may have been rationalize_this. He did post some data on Scarlett's. I posted all the data I have with the exception of Wonderland and Goldrush (downtown). Goldrush is without a doubt the worst strip club I have ever been to. There were three strippers working there. All were horrible looking and had tons of attitude. The girl behind the bar had tons of attitude too. The only reason I went there was some taxi driver was saying how great it was. I knew that didn't sound right, but I wanted to check it out anyway. I liked Wonderland and I don't remember it ever being mentioned on the forum. There is a good mix of girls there. The last time I went, I got numbers from a Cuban girl and a Virgin Islands girl.

Post: #44

(10-22-2012 06:42 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  Someone posted about strippers' forum here.

They read Napoleon Hills book to make more money in fields.

maybe you can visit their forum to learn about their tactics so you can outgame them?

This, I can't remember that site but. . .yeah you're getting played. Really there is no point trying to game strippers. none. You get nothing out of it and you go through way too much trouble trying to do it. But if you want to keep doing it, go ahead. You'll figure it out eventually

Post: #45

(09-29-2013 09:04 PM)jariel Wrote:  I can't remember who it was, but I remember talking with someone on here about doing a strip club data sheet for Miami.

I was talking with thegmanifesto about this in one of the Miami threads. I could probably do about half of it from memory right now but there are a few new venues I want to check out.

(10-01-2013 04:09 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  Goldrush is without a doubt the worst strip club I have ever been to. There were three strippers working there. All were horrible looking and had tons of attitude. The girl behind the bar had tons of attitude too.

Goldrush has a reputation for being a place where you get scammed... and by that I mean you literally get money stolen because they put a mandatory hold on your card. Don't go there.

The place got closed a few months ago because employees stole a bunch of money, but I don't know if they re-opened or not. Here's the article: http://blogs.miaminewtimes.com/crossfade..._miami.php

CJ_W Wrote:This, I can't remember that site but. . .yeah you're getting played. Really there is no point trying to game strippers. none. You get nothing out of it and you go through way too much trouble trying to do it. But if you want to keep doing it, go ahead. You'll figure it out eventually

That forum was just female hamster bullshit. The only game they need is to be as good looking as possible. If some really ugly bitch with "good stripper game" starts soliciting you for lap dances, are you going to say yes?

Post: #46

Vitriol:
The first and only time I was at Goldrush was in January. That story doesn't surprise me one bit.

Post: #47

(09-29-2013 10:07 PM)horn Wrote:  If you are alpha, they are interested. Period. Same as any other ho.

How are you alpha and you're tricking your money off to some chick for shaking her ass?

You think you're different because you only go every once and a while and trick?

Come on, read any of the old pimp books or Black Players, and you'll have some idea of how that dynamic really works.

Post: #48

I don't give them money for shaking their ass. I guess you do, but I do not.

Secondly, I think almost every guy here for the price of a $20 lap-dance would happily take home the hottest girl at the Rhino, Dollhouse, Rick's and smash her all night. YMMV.

I see Clooney at the VIP at the Rhino all the time. Such a beta! He gets no action, I'm telling you.

Post: #49

You're not Clooney, so your story doesn't relate.

I do go to strip clubs from time to time; however, as I've mentioned before on this site, I go with a girl who pays for everything.

Post: #50

Last broad I pulled from strip club was a newbie 19 year old hot ass blonde. About 5'6" 110 pounds.

She came and sat by me and about all I said to her was "Do you know what a sugar baby is?"

Worked in Rockford. Let me know where else it works.