Post: #51

Are you asking how Chinese guys game in China?

Money. Thats it. Whoever has the most money and isnt physically disabled or have terrible scaring.

I hang out with a few wealthy Chinese guys who are lame as hell with women, all married, that go after girls in early 20's. Tables, room in the Hyatt, expensive seafood, out shopping.

Post: #52

And are they successful with using money to game?

Post: #53

(01-13-2015 02:38 PM)worldtraveler3 Wrote:  And are they successful with using money to game?

For the most part yes.

There is that smallish group of Chinese women that want romance, a Westerner, a man they get along with very well, and or do not care about the money. Maybe because they may already have money themselves or alot of English or exposure to Western stuff/people.

Then there is another group that wants guanxi for their family more than money. Usually guanxi = money but not always.

For each chick that is not impressed with your money, there is probably 20 walking around somewhere within 50 meters that would be.

And as a general heads up, the very high quality women are NOT impressed with money at all. They are usually more interested in your style, your looks or height, what your family is like, fun, your education and school, guanxi, mostly because they are middle-upper class or richer themselves. One way to get around that is to demonstrate wealth/success to their parents, which makes them put pressure on her to come off that bullshit. Doesn't always work though, for obvious reasons.

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Post: #55

(07-18-2013 02:09 AM)Ilikekane Wrote:  

(12-03-2012 12:41 AM)BadWolf Wrote:  

(10-21-2012 11:55 AM)expectation Wrote:  All foreigners and ABCs have it easy in China. It's like fishing with dynamite. The local dudes are incredibly beta when it comes to approaching women. If anything, the locals should be taking notes from this forum.

Thats 100% correct. Game here consists of you showing up ANYWHERE at ANYTIME, handing a girl your cell phone and saying you'll call her. There is NO GAME, NO TECHNIQUES, NO NOTHING.

You just have to approach... its as simple as that.

1. Approach
2. Say hello
3. Tell her she's pretty
4. ask her if she likes to XYZ
5. say oh me 2, why dont we XYZ together sometime and I can help you learn English and you teach me Chinese
6. hand her your phone.

Game over.

easy as 1-2-3 P R C like taking candy from a baby

I speak 0 Chinese, use body language when I need to. Most Chinese speak basic English anyway. The highest quality women are NOT in the 1st tier cities. Want to score a great girl for a wife? You must hit the country-side or 3rd tier cities. The best women come from poor families, don't have cars, iphones and can't afford to goto a nightclub or drink a starbuck's coffee. Stay out of any place that local chinese cannot afford. Want to meet quality girls? Go to a university, factory or farm... Its 30 rmb for a starbucks coffee. Would you pay 30 DOLLARS for a coffee at home? Would you want to date a woman who expects to be treated to a 30 dollar coffee?

Shanghaiese girls are some of the snottiest stuck up princesses in China followed closely by Beijing girls and in third Guangzhou women. Stay out of those cities if you want to meet quality girls. EVERYONE in China knows that the only girls who goto nightclubs are sluts and prostitutes...that is COMMON KNOWLEDGE. Without launching into another discussion, 1 rmb is equivalent to 1 dollar for most Chinese people. The average nightclub costs 300 to 1000 rmb to have a seat in and 80 rmb to gain entrance. The average Chinese girl makes about 1500 to 3000 a month in THE FIRST TIER CITIES... so you can imagine only the rich are attending the nightclubs in China...rich spoiled sluts ala paris hilton. If you need game, then you are getting a westernized woman.

The best place to meet girls in China is on the slow train, bus or subway.

The girls you are going for are considered average or not good looking by Chinese standards.

Chinese people like tall, super white skin, super big eyes and extremely feminine, all the good looking girls leave the small shitty cities and move to big ones to do modeling or anything else that may net them a rich guy.

I agree with you that most of the 'good girls' in terms of personality aren't in big cities.

Country side girls are pretty farmer......hair under the arms, eat like farmers and all this other stuff which i find distasteful...big city girls are at least more Westernized in some good ways.

University can be ok.......

30rmb isn't 30 dollars you spaz, it's about 6.

Many clubs are free, the average Chinese girl makes 2000 to 4000 a month unless she is a farmer selling clothing at the cheap market, then she probably makes bugger all.

Not all girls who go to clubs are ho's or sluts....you are insane if you believe this.


The hottest women are not 'Westernized', they barely have contact with Foreigners as they are constantly kept on lock down by the rich locals....they are by far the hottest girls, the ones who make money for themselves work as hosts in the ktvs for rich guys (I've helped organize girls for the ktv's, hence i know) and they are extremely good looking, much better than most girls you see in anywhere except clubs.

This.

I believe average white guys can tell an 8-10 asian women but cannot tell the difference between a 7.5 and a 5. I'd actually go out and say that when i see white guys in asia date asian women, locals see more than that the white guy is better looking than an the asian.

But it really doesn't matter. The standard of beauty is different between us, at least for 5-8's. This is what keeps the Chinese people sane from seeing foreign tourists.

If you find somebody beautiful, good for you. It doesn't matter what others think.

PS: in my country if we have a bad night or dont get laid, we just go to the KTV and get some happy endings. pursuing women is not as of a high priority in the US. most chinese people worry about the next meal and p4p is very acceptable in the country.

Post: #56

Someone mentioned rich Chinese girls. Is it straight forward to find these girls, or just by chance? Once found, are they the type to be interested in a white guy, or are they only interested in Chinese guys with local status? Many places in Asia being seen with a white guy is DLV, they assume she's a whore etc, some girls avoid it. The poster who mentioned stealing a chubby Chinese kid's lady has me interested. Chances of her taking me on shopping spree?

Post: #57

(08-19-2015 12:24 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  Someone mentioned rich Chinese girls. Is it straight forward to find these girls, or just by chance? Once found, are they the type to be interested in a white guy, or are they only interested in Chinese guys with local status? Many places in Asia being seen with a white guy is DLV, they assume she's a whore etc, some girls avoid it. The poster who mentioned stealing a chubby Chinese kid's lady has me interested. Chances of her taking me on shopping spree?

This could be it's own topic but I will keep it short. (In order of prevalence)

1. Social Circle/Business Circle game. (Good guanxi with high society Chinese people)

2. Matchmaker events

3. Trade/Business Expos/Events

4. American Universities

5. Random locations in China, vacation girls in Thailand, Nepal, and the PI, and upper tier universities.

If you are sneaky or clever, you can find them shopping in upscale stores in big cities, but more often than not, they are handcuffed to a dude or with family. Like Ninja said, the rich families tend to heavily guard their high value girls pretty well.