Post: #1

Last Saturday I went to my little cousins house party. I ended up banging one of her friends in the bathroom.

We had tons of chemistry. Then her boyfriend picked her up from the party.

I stayed at the party and tried to bang another one of her friends which ultimately never happened mainly b/c i was too wasted/tired.

text follow up

Probably 30 minutes after the chick gets picked up by her boyfriend:

Her: HI!!!!
Me: hey how are you?
her: Im alright!! ughh im so over this!!!! i want to back to X's
Her: hey don't text me back i'll text u ok!!

Next day
Her: Hey sorry for leaving all crazy yesterday haha.. how are u?
me: hey im good how did everything turn out for you last night?!
Her:Well not so good but whatever!! did u stay there long?
me:yep i woke up and X's Dog was licking my face lol. had a great time last night.. perhaps we can see each other soon ..
Her: Lol no way! aww that dog is beautiful.. i had great time too while it lasted lol. yes of course i would love to see you again too
Me:Sounds Good
Her: Okay just let me know when your free then

[/b]Next Day
Me: Do you want to meet for a drink this week: Maybe wedenday or thursday?
Her: im off on thursday. hey my bf is about to get here so dont write me back Ill text u tomorrow.. sorry

2 hours later
Her:Hey
Me: hey thursday sounds good im free around 5 lets go to (restaraunt/lounge/bar name) i hear its a cool spot..
Her:Ok sounds good yea i actually love that place. I have a long day tomorrow so im going to sleep already! Goodnight
Me: Good night

2 days later wednesday night
her: Hey sly how are you?
Me: hey im good just got done at gym. you?
her:im at work.. almost out.. hey so for tomorrow im going to be busy all day but we could meet at night if thats ok with you

Next day on thursday date night
Me @ 11 a.m.: Ya no prob. how does 8ish sound
Her (Few minutes later):Ill let you know. Im not sure yet!
Her (7:40 Pm): hey i dont think were going to able to hang out tonight

what to do?
so i think my texts were cool. unfortunately she flaked last minute. i don't care too much. however, i would like to see her again. really cute girl who is actually my type. like i said before we were really into each other.

I think she wants me to push her more.
I'm willing to push harder. However that is not usually my game. I don't usually have to push too hard cuz i don't usually deal with chicks with boyfriends.

any advice on where to go from here?

i was reading the text threads. i like the idea mechanico had of sending her a coffee in the morning (via text) just to see what kind of response i get.

Also, i can throw a little party at my place and tell my cousin to invite her..

Please, any feedback much appreciated

Post: #2

Your texts look fine to me. It's probably more about her than anything. You've already banged, I'd say just invite her over so she won't have to worry about hiding from bf.

"Hey, would it be easier to just come over and grab a drink at my place?"

Post: #3

Then when you see her again you've gotta find out the bf's work/travel schedule so you know when she's free and can suggest convenient times based on this

Post: #4

Thx for feedback.
I hadn't thought about her being worried about being seen with me in public. We live in a small town.
After looking on Facebook, I noticed my cousin and her friends checked into the lounge last night. I'm guessing this is why she flaked.

I didn't ask why we couldn't hang out or give any type of response.

So I'm gonna text her Sunday. Is that a good reaction or should I send her a text sooner so she doesn't think I'm a dick?
I'm sure my cousin and her friends told her I'm a bit of a player at this point.

Post: #5

If you live in a small town then be prepared for the word to get out sooner or later.

And be ready to deal with the consequences.

The girl might turn on you to save her reputation, the guy might come after you with his buddies, you might become known as a major scumbag, etc...

The risks of fucking a "taken" girl are majorly amplified when operating in a smaller environment, because everyone knows everyone else, and reputations (and in the case of the cuckolded guy, pride) are much more important than in large cities.

Of course, that's what makes fucking a taken girl that much sweeter. But you've just got to be aware the game you're playing and accept the risks.

Post: #6

Good point scorpion.
I think she wants to break up with her boyfriend to tell you the truth.
She kept talking about how big my dick is while she was stroking it in bathroom. Plus I'm 23 graduated college makin good money good job.
her bf is 21 and in junior college.
I think I'm way cooler then Him and I'd be an upgrade lol.
I kind of like the idea of stealing away some other dudes girlfriend. The guy honestly haS no idea she might be leaving him ; especially if I'm aggressive

Post: #7

No sense in chasing a girl with a boyfriend, just ignore her till she starts texting you again.

Post: #8

Well said samseau.
So many options ha
I think I will ignore her and tell mY cousin to invite her to my party next weekend. If she doesn't show up, at least her other friends cute friends will
Little cousins. . . Great referral network

Post: #9

let her deal with her BF schedule. if she wants you she will text you first.

Post: #10

You need to play it cool with this girl. Do not push her.

She was initiating texts with you, so obviously she wants to stay in contact for the purpose of fucking again.

A lot of girls are like monkeys on tree branches-they dont want to let go of the last branch (boyfriend) until they have grabbed onto the next one.

It's possible she wants to make you her next boyfriend, it's also possible that like many girls she just wants some dick on the side from time to time.

Either way she cant be seen with you in public in a small town.

Don't text her too often but don't ignore her either. Maybe 1 or 2 short text convos a week with keep you in her mind. Don't suggest a meetup up every time either- you don't want to seem like you're chasing her. I would wait a couple of weeks and ask her if she wants to come to your place for drinks and a movie one night.

Post: #11

(10-12-2012 10:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:  No sense in chasing a girl with a boyfriend, just ignore her till she starts texting you again.

that's the way to go. for max effect, try to bang the other friend that you were talking about from that same party

Post: #12

Sounds like I'm in the minority, but I'd still say to hit her up if I were you and try to get her right to your place. She's going to be flakier than your normal girl (who already is super flaky) because she has a bf. Doesn't say anything about her interest level. And she gave you a little warning and let you know. Sure, would have been better if she proposed another time, but more and more I'm noticing that girls just aren't good at this shit and not to take her not proposing something else as a bad thing, necessarily.

Also, I've been experimenting with DLVing myself to girls like this once it becomes clear they want you to be a bf. It's surprisingly effective at getting them right back where you want them. Doesn't sound like you're there yet, but it's worth keeping in mind that we're not always best off DHVing and making them chase us.

Post: #13

Win or lose, you still banged her in a bathroom at a house party.

Post: #14

you already banged her, now move on. stop wasting time with her, if she'll come back to you, she will. if not, move on.
stop texting her, and bang her friends until she comes back to you. if you live in a small environment where the odds of this getting leaked, then be careful. she has a boyfriend, expect flakiness, dont push her, and just bang other girls.

Post: #15

Let her chase you now but only if you want to keep banging. She has a BF and you won't be priority nor should you want to be unless you're trying to lock her down. She may just be playing around with you to get back at her man, because she's bored, or because she is looking for a new one. Either way, not the kind of chick you want to be messing around with too seriously. These kinds of chicks that show themselves to be completely untrustworthy right away (she fucked you in the bathroom and had her boyfriend pick her up?) will just go and fuck some other dude in the bathroom when she gets bored with you.

Post: #16

Yeah totally, just ignore her for a week or two until she starts texting back. Then when she texts back suggest the whole "we don't have to go out, it would be better to just chill at my place".