Post: #1

i read somewhere that you tease or freeze out a girl when she gives you IOIs.. is there some form of communication dynamic where you build attraction this way? for example, what do you do next if you tease and she responds positively? and what happens if she responds negatively? what do you do then?

what i'm trying to do is build a girl's attraction so much that she becomes irresistible to me.. is there a way that this can be done?

Post: #2

Absolutely. Heartiste's 16 Commandments of Poon are the fundamental ways to create that irresistible attraction - http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixte...s-of-poon/

My team's collection of posts on creating attraction - http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/instructional/

Post: #3

You'll need some serious confidence, too.

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/...-expanded/

Post: #4

Take your hygiene to the next level.

http://hokieblogger.com/2011/12/26/impor...e-hygiene/

Post: #5

Quote:i read somewhere

If you're getting serious advice from places you can't remember, you're reading too fast. The only solid way to take advice from multiple sources is to do it bit by bit, so you can keep things on context.

Quote:you tease or freeze out a girl when she gives you IOIs

Huge difference between a freeze out and a tease. A freeze out would punish her, which makes no sense. A tease would be used to show her you have higher expectations than the average guy in your situation, like a 30+ year old guy dating an 18-24yo girl. See: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/02/0...ger-women/

The basic rule, on the micro/conversational and macro/dating level, is to respond to IOIs with compliance tests.

At bar:
Her: You're funny.
You: Thank you. Let's check out the patio.

Over text:
Her: Blah blah... I had a lot of fun getting coffee with you.
You: Blah blah... Wanna come over for a movie this weekend?

Post: #6

(10-12-2012 03:58 AM)3rdmilleniummen Wrote:  Absolutely. Heartiste's 16 Commandments of Poon are the fundamental ways to create that irresistible attraction - http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixte...s-of-poon/

My team's collection of posts on creating attraction - http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/instructional/

wow!!! thank you 3rdmilleniummen.. i'll definitely study this guarenteed! and excuse the belated reply.. my old computer was broken and i had to repair the stupid thing.

(10-12-2012 05:48 PM)Private Man Wrote:  You'll need some serious confidence, too.

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/...-expanded/

private man, thank you for this vital info.. greatly appreciate it.

(10-12-2012 10:52 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  Take your hygiene to the next level.

http://hokieblogger.com/2011/12/26/impor...e-hygiene/

thanks man .. this does come in handy.. appreciate it!

(10-13-2012 04:15 PM)TXH Wrote:  

Quote:you tease or freeze out a girl when she gives you IOIs

Huge difference between a freeze out and a tease. A freeze out would punish her, which makes no sense. A tease would be used to show her you have higher expectations than the average guy in your situation, like a 30+ year old guy dating an 18-24yo girl. See: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/02/0...ger-women/

The basic rule, on the micro/conversational and macro/dating level, is to respond to IOIs with compliance tests.

At bar:
Her: You're funny.
You: Thank you. Let's check out the patio.

Over text:
Her: Blah blah... I had a lot of fun getting coffee with you.
You: Blah blah... Wanna come over for a movie this weekend?

hi txh.. wow! thank you so much for the added info.. this i know will serve me well. and if you have other examples of or micro and macro convo styles, please do post them.. i need them like a thirsty man in a desert.


-- and to everyone who posted on my thread, sorry that i couldnt response sooner.. i had to fix my stupid old computer!

Post: #7

You're welcome, Obla. I'd give examples, but they're all over the good books and blogs. The best way to see the forest for the trees is to get a good wing, and go out like it's your job. Field reports and quoted lines on a page just scratch the surface.

As far as micro/macro, I just mean you can chunk game down into tiny pieces, but they look like the big picture. It's a fractal, like the way any piece of a fern looks like a smaller fern. Juggler described game as guiding the conversation into a space where the girl becomes interesting, appreciating her effort/uniqueness, and escalating. Over and over, up the escalation ladder. Hone in on broad concepts like these from reputable sources, one concept at a time and the examples will start to pop out at you in the field.

Post: #8

it's really rare that a girl will really respond negatively to a good tease. Usually she will respond negatively as a joke, but its not really negative. If she is responding negatively your teases aren't fun and light like they should be. Or the 1/100 chance that she's just having a terrible day or has issues.

Post: #9

(10-14-2012 11:22 PM)20Nation Wrote:  it's really rare that a girl will really respond negatively to a good tease. Usually she will respond negatively as a joke, but its not really negative. If she is responding negatively your teases aren't fun and light like they should be. Or the 1/100 chance that she's just having a terrible day or has issues.

i agree with you and will kep this in mind since i've been known to over-intensify my teases.. thanks man.

Post: #10

The greatest thing we can do to become irresistible is....

Be famous or powerful.

The 2nd best thing is to be...

More confident and more authentic then other men.

Post: #11

(10-15-2012 01:30 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  The greatest thing we can do to become irresistible is....

Be famous or powerful.

The 2nd best thing is to be...

More confident and more authentic then other men.

absolutely.. but i think by being confident you become powerful not just to yourself, but to females. and i think to a large extent that a confident man is more powerful to a woman than a powerful man with no confidence.