Post: #1

I go to a small college (little less than 3,000 students) and most people know about each other's business. I seem to like/attract a certain type of girl and thus most of these girls are are often friends/acquaintances with one another. What is the best way to approach this? Is jealousy going to work? If I fail with one girl, are the other girls going to think less of me? I am thinking of keeping flirty relations with the girls and going after the one I like the most.


Also, what do girls who have somewhat of an interest in you think when they see you dancing/grinding with another girl (possibly one she knows) of a similar attractiveness?

Post: #2

(02-11-2010 03:11 AM)fantasticmrfox Wrote:  I go to a small college (little less than 3,000 students) and most people know about each other's business. I seem to like/attract a certain type of girl and thus most of these girls are are often friends/acquaintances with one another. What is the best way to approach this? Is jealousy going to work? If I fail with one girl, are the other girls going to think less of me? I am thinking of keeping flirty relations with the girls and going after the one I like the most.


Also, what do girls who have somewhat of an interest in you think when they see you dancing/grinding with another girl (possibly one she knows) of a similar attractiveness?

As long as you're honest, jealousy always works in your favor. Remember that, and you'll be golden.

Post: #3

Try to Game girls from different social circles. Keep a girl or 2 from your social group , PLUS, an athlete (tennis/track/soccer team etc), a party girl, a sexy study buddy type, a black girl, a latina, an asian, etc, Girls from the international department/study abroad program, a rich girl, a poor girl. A drama/musician chick, a freshman, a senior. Work these different circles and keep things "on the low". When i was in school, i would purposely go to areas of campus where i never went before, just to meet girls in different majors, programs, areas, etc. Try to work groups that would never communicate with each other. I used to love having a black girl off the track team on friday and then a white poetry girl on saturday and then a International student from the Phillipines on sunday. Those girls would never hang out in the same areas or talk to the same people.

Post: #4

You can always swoop on girls that don't go to your college as well.

Assuming, that your small college is in a big city.

I ran through my college pretty fast.

By junior year, I was probably swooping 80% girls outside of college, 20% college.

Good solid diversification.

Post: #5

Giovonny's got the right idea! Divide and conquer. By playing girls form different walks of life the chances of them meeting each other is slim. Also when you do get in with multiple girls, make them believe they are the only one and that the other girls(if they know about the others) are just "friends"

Post: #6

It's great to keep things mysterious and unknown, but I wouldn't tell a girl she was the only one you're fucking. If she catches you in a lie, she could use that against you, or feel fucked over. If you keep things ambiguous, but stay honest, that is your best bet.

If she asks you if you are dating multiple girls, you can say "that's none of your business" or just outright say "yeah"

I was never a big fan of lying to girls. Too much juggling and bullshit.

Post: #7

"Try to Game girls from different social circles."

How to Swoop Tons of Different Girls at the Same Time and Not Get Caught

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2009/11/how...aught.html

Post: #8

(02-11-2010 10:42 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  It's great to keep things mysterious and unknown, but I wouldn't tell a girl she was the only one you're fucking. If she catches you in a lie, she could use that against you, or feel caressed over. If you keep things ambiguous, but stay honest, that is your best bet.

If she asks you if you are dating multiple girls, you can say "that's none of your business" or just outright say "yeah"

I was never a big fan of lying to girls. Too much juggling and bullshit.

This is great advice if your gonna date multiple women. I can only "juggle" 2 at a time now. Otherwise it gets to hectic, and you can't really enjoy each woman.

Post: #9

(02-11-2010 10:42 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  I was never a big fan of lying to girls. Too much juggling and bullshit.

Yeah, I'm a fan of just bullshitting with them, or evading the question, or just obviously lying by saying what they want to hear.... they usually learn to just leave it alone