Post: #1

I done fucked up. I been hooking up with my roommate for about a month now who I also work with and now she's getting really attached. She get mad when I flirt with other girls and introduces me as her man and shit to other females. I definitely want to end things because there are other girls i'm interest in right now and want to be able to take them home without any drama and i'm wondering which route I should take. Should I just straight up tell her i'm not ready to be cuff up and I wanna bang other girls our should I blame it on her and tell her I don't think she's over her ex and I don't want to be a rebound and set myself up to get hurt. I like this girl and enjoy her company and don't want to hurt her and I don't know the best way to end it. Thanks in advance!

Post: #2

give her a speech and make it clear to her in no uncertain terms that a relationship is off the table. She can choose to share you if she wants, or she can choose not to have you. the choice is hers.

Post: #3

Why in the fuck are you banging your roommate and a girl you work with. That's some next level shutting where you eat.

Post: #4

You're fucked.

First step would be to move out, because no matter what you tell her now, she's not going to be happy with you bringing other girls home. Even if you don't care about about the girl at all (it sounds like you do) and just say fuck it, you are not going to want a cockblocking female roommate when you have other girls around.

Post: #5

Hahaha talk about shitting were you eat squared.. Let it be a lesson for you.

Post: #6

Move out asap. Then break up with her at her place. Avoid her at work if possible and learn from your mistake. That is all.

Post: #7

OK- In my view its never a good idea to dump a girl!! never never never! Also never be honest be elusive, don't answer etc, these guys who say have an honest talk with her are insane.

What you do is get her to dump you, push it so she has to break up with you, take your exit when you get the chance which you will and then you are free, have her as backup and can forever be free even if you fuck her again because she broke up with you.

I would say start jokingly bringing up threesomes, watching porn together etc, go through all the things you want to try, does she have a friend for the threesome she can make it happen with etc. She will get the message you are in the exploration stage, so either you have a threesome with her or she will say this is not what she wants and break up. Either way good result for you

Post: #8

Wow, coworker and a roommate. I see some drama in your near future...

Post: #9

Use your joystick to press 'start.' Then press 'quit game.' When it asks you if you are sure, press 'yes.'

Post: #10

I'm definitely aware that I shouldn't have been fucking her. I guess there's no easy way out.

Post: #11

This is basically shitting into your own mouth.

Post: #12

Start farting around her more often, eat cabbage, broccoli and beans if you are not flatulent by nature.

Also leave the toilet lid up and the seat down and pee on the seat (but don't wipe it up) about twice a day and pretend you forgot.

Observe and monitor. If she still likes you after that, let me know and I'll let you know how to up the ante on nasty masculine shyt.

Post: #13

Do what women do when they're not happy in a relationship. Start making a big deal over nothing, start fights with her for no reason, and generally be annoying as shit for a couple weeks.

After that tell her you can't take the drama and that you were better off as friends. And that you being physical is whats ruining what was once a good friendship. Then actually do some shit with her for a couple weeks without fucking her, going to the park, meeting up with mutual friends, and that kinda shit.

Then just start doing that shit less and less because you are "busy" (or just be busy). This will hopefully reduce how butthurt she gets and will also hopefully reduce the amount of strife you'll have to put up with for the remainder of your lease and time spent working together.

Post: #14

I say do the opposite of what everybody here is saying.

Act like you are deeply in love with her, text her all the time, tell her you cant sleep because of her, tell her how nice she is, when you want to fuck her, beg her to fuck (please, can i fuck you babe? im so horny, please, please), be extremely needy..i guarantee you she will dump your ass. Nobody likes a beta.

Post: #15

You can't go back to being friends/roomies now. Not as long as you're still living together. Until you're ready to move out, don't say or do anything. If you try to "break up" with her while still living with her will make for a much worse situation. Attempting tactics that may make her uncomfortable enough to break up with you might be the way to go, but again, one of you is going to have to move out, and until that happens, things could be tense or weird. Still not a good environment to bring other chicks into, as she may do or say something vindictive to cock block you. As suggested, maybe you should try pushing the sexual envelope in ways that make her think you're crazy.

Post: #16

Pitt's idea is probably the best, act really clingy and lame. It still won't work out well. Don't fuck room mates and co-workers.

Post: #17

(10-04-2012 08:01 PM)pitt Wrote:  I say do the opposite of what everybody here is saying.

Act like you are deeply in love with her, text her all the time, tell her you cant sleep because of her, tell her how nice she is, when you want to fuck her, beg her to fuck (please, can i fuck you babe? im so horny, please, please), be extremely needy..i guarantee you she will dump your ass. Nobody likes a beta.

I wouldn't do that. Nothing indicates who you are to your subconscious more than your behavior. This is why even when I'm not feeling great or feeling beta, I still flirt with girls and act alpha.

Joystick, it's only been a month - how into you is she? How'd you think she'd react to breaking up?

Post: #18

Line up alternate living arrangements. You need an escape plan.

Give her the truth. That you're not going to be in any sort of relationship with her and that you're going to get other chicks. If she can't handle that, then you're done. Expect a blowout but remain calm.

Post: #19

Post: #20

(10-04-2012 12:16 PM)JoyStick Wrote:  I been hooking up with my roommate for about a month now who I also work with and now she's getting really attached.

She get mad when I flirt with other girls and introduces me as her man and shit to other females.

You see, my man, there won't be an easy way out because even though she's your fuck buddy, you are more than that to her.

Regardless of how you choose to end it (and there's good ways that our fellows mentioned), I'd advise you to start looking for an apartment.

Your home is your fortress and it should not be vulnerable in any way. If you two continue to live under the same roof after it's over, you'll have a serious breach in your castle. If you finish it well, you'll be cool with her, but it's not like she'll wing you, introduce you to her friends, etc. And if it goes bad, well, then you'll have an actuall enemy living where you live.

Get out. Now.

Post: #21

Bang her mom.

That won't solve anything, but I want to see how deep this can go.

Post: #22

And I thought I fucked up bad by sleeping with my gym's receptionist.

Post: #23

haha you fucked up son. Should have made it clear from the start. You will never have all of me, you can have some of me or none of me, make your choice now. Don't fuck me about, I won't fuck you about. Cue a little whimper 'nooooo............some of you' followed by a hug and fuck.

Post: #24

@Soma, you got some link to that story?

Post: #25

Also...if you live and work with her, and are fucking her, she's more than a fuck buddy, regardless of what box you're putting her in in your own mind. Just the circumstances alone make her more than that.