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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
(09-28-2012 08:45 PM)Sonsowey Wrote: I can tell you from first hand experience that starting a band definitely does NOT get you laid unless youre actually famous. I play in a rock band that gigs at good venues in nyc, and have never gotten laid after a'show. you have to gaul your gear out of the club afterwards, which sucks, and taking the time to practice really cuts into your gaming time. I love music and do it for the joy of it, do NOT get it twisted and think young bands getting good gigs are getting laid any more than some dude in the crowd w game.
I got laid way more before joining the band honestly. just having the free time to go out and game is way more valuable if you just want pussy.
Yes, constantly cold approaching or doing the club promoter / entourage thing is one of the best ways... if you enjoy it.
But I really don't and it makes me unhappy when I'm not pursuing my passions. So even if I have less time for socialising, when I do, I feel a lot better about myself because I'm working on my goals.
I think you need at least one day or night a week in which you're exposed to a larger group of people (but outside of a gig setting) in order to get the benefit of both worlds.
Thoughts on this? I really want to figure out out accomplish this because 10 hours a week in a club or bar (and not performing) isn't an efficient use of time for me.
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
I developed a bit of fame from partying in my hometown. For example i brought alcohol to the "good kids" Senior Night. That night i proceeded to pass out in my truck and told one of my friends parents to fuck off when they tried to wake me up for school.
I also went to jail for drinking and driving (Would not recommend)
Got drunk at prom and came to walking out of the woods the next morning with a lit cigarette and a beer in my hands.
Ok so, i'm not sure if it was infamy or fame, but it seemed to help get the slutty girls easier. These things seemed to bring fame for the short periods of time that people talk about the party, Also hangovers.
You can also play some kind of sport. That's what my brothers and i did in high school and college. That would only really work for younger people in high school though.
It seems like if they know your name when you meet them then your value is automatically higher, even if ever so slightly.
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
I think some of the guys talking about downsides and the barrier to entry and whatnot may have missed that this thread is about micro-fame and/or local fame. Forgive me if I'm wrong.
Anyways, more applicable to the young guys, but if you get talented at motocross or skateboarding or surfing you can definitely pick up some local fame. Takes hard work and talent though. Same goes for football or basketball or any kind of sports - amateur fighting events in your local area can do it.
The rednecks out there looking to ride some buckle-bunnies could kill it as a local race car driver or bull-rider.
Owning a bar gets you some local fame if it's a popular place. Don't know if it's worth the headache.
I could see some fame game coming from writing books IF the books were extremely controversial (think Tucker Max) and you did in-person book signings and promos.
Fight promoter or club promoter in local area.
The model hack some guys were doing a while back where they did photo shoots and tried to promote women would be killer - wouldn't exactly give you a ton of fame in the area unless you were actually getting results but all the hot women who ended up at the events and parties would see you as famous.
Owning or managing a strip club could yield similar results where you were at least famous to the girls. Actually, a strip club owner where I grew up ran all sorts of commercials and he was a crazy cat who wore a top hat and cape, etc, everywhere he went (hell, before Mystery even hit the scene). He even ran for mayor once and was always in the news for some big controversy. You can bet he was famous far beyond the strip club.
Speaking of which, a publicity stunt like running for mayor could get you there as long as you were controversial enough to have no chance of winning. Would take some further scheming to leverage it into a long-term status though.
I think the motivational speaker bent has a TON of potential....Pretty sure Tony Robbins kills it. I've read a few places that he's been caught cheating a lot of times and I imagine in his seminars he wields a cult-like power over the women. Of course, he's extreme, but I could definitely see women in the audience getting dripped-up on your confidence and personality even in smaller settings.
In a small enough town, being popular or a successful businessman is enough to give you some fame rewards. So you could always downsize.
And I especially like the idea of achieving fame somewhere abroad. I could definitely see this being doable, perhaps even on a big level but definitely easy to swoop up some micro-fame just by meeting local celebrities who want to know foreigners and riding their coat-tails a bit.
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
(01-04-2014 02:02 AM)JofSuperman Wrote: Start a business and network your ass off.
At least that's what I've been doing. I started a local modeling agency, and after some time, ditched and converted it to a video production company.
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...And after starting that business
Small and Simple way to display DHV that's worked for me in the past...
Have a business card...plain and simple...and ALWAYS carry it on your person.
*Works on SO many levels. When I was younger, I started a small record label. Had a roster of 2 artists besides myself.
When you whip out that shiny upholstered business card it makes the appearance of an important, organized, upwardly mobile business guy. NO bullshit
In this frame, the most inconsequential job becomes a "career'...Greg Smith the sewage worker turns in to a "Greg A. Smith, the Waste Consultant"....Mark Brown, the Head line cook is now "Mark S. Brown, Head Chef/Supervisor of Food Management/Restauranteur"
It's all semantics of course, but trsut and believe that small card opens doors. Low investment too.
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
(01-06-2014 06:32 PM)blkgatsby Wrote: (01-06-2014 05:46 PM)JofSuperman Wrote: Planning on going to Mercedes Benz Fashion Week in NYC with some girls, to cover it for my video production company.
This should be a huge opportunity!
Considering how exclusive Fashion Week is for most events, you're already famous....
Partially. Getting in is easier than you would think.
Just takes making a website, putting up some work (photos, video, etc.) and paying $80+ for a press pass.
The press pass puts you on the invite list, but doesn't necessarily get you into the A list events. However, having a press pass and being on the press list, makes it a lot easier to sneak into A list events.
http://www.vh1.com/celebrity/2011-02-14/...hion-week/
http://www.ashleygaga.com/how-to-get-int...hion-week/
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
(01-17-2014 10:12 AM)SwayMe Wrote: @JofSuperman
Is this also applicable to Germany e.g. Berlin Fashion Week?
Okay, scratch that, they just rejected my press application lol. They stated they're changing their press policy since the shows are now "live" streamed. They won't be accepting any random press company that's willing to pay.
I could still try to just crash it, but not really worth the time and cost of driving and booking hotel there just to "try".
Yes, I think this could work in Berlin. I was actually considering coming to Berlin in July for their Fashion Week, it was only 20 euros for a press pass last time I checked. I might give that a shot instead.
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RE: How can the average guy build some fame?
Thanks for the answer!
July is something I would target as well.
Do you have to have a press company for a press pass or is there another way?
Quote:I could still try to just crash it
How would you do this? Any advice?
Are there any blogs or entries where I can learn about the fashion industry, maybe there also additional access points.
What about Milan, Prague and Munich which was mentioned in the "How to get a model" thread. Didn't know there was a Prague Fashion Week. Business contacts should be pretty good as well, at least on A list events
Thank you!
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