Post: #1

What do you want out of her? Sex, obviously. But how do you like structure your relations? A one-off smash? Keep her around for a few fucks? Make her part of your harem? Something more serious, maybe? It's a question that comes down to your personality and your options. So what's your take on it?

Personally, few things in this life are more satisfying than meeting and bedding a girl in the same night, and then never seeing her again. My memories of the night are seducing and sexing her, so I remember the girl fondly (exceptions for hate fucks, of course). I guess I'm a romantic like that. Plus, you're only exposed to her good side. You can't see her flaws in vivid detail, because she hides them from you.

The novelty factor plays a large role too. It's happened that disappointing sequels follow blockbuster first times. And after the third time with a girl, everything just seems so familiar. That's why, even when I didn't have any other options, I've given the girl the dick and the boot in the same night. All this means that I have to stay in top form.

Obviously, there's no emotional connection, but I don't feel the need right now. Especially now that I'm back living in these United States of America.

At least, that's how I rationalize it.

Post: #2

I'm up for all kinds of relationships, which I choose depending on the quality of the girl.

However I am seeing lately that even good LTR-material girls tend to bore me faster than before, I guess its just part of the process.

Never asked to become a cold hearted mofo though... Kind of makes you feel bad sometimes.

Post: #3

Quote:Personally, few things in this life are more satisfying than meeting and bedding a girl in the same night, and then never seeing her again. My memories of the night are seducing and sexing her, so I remember the girl fondly (exceptions for hate fucks, of course). I guess I'm a romantic like that. Plus, you're only exposed to her good side. You can't see her flaws in vivid detail, because she hides them from you.

This is me precisely, I'd rather smash and dash and then have fond memories of the night, than get to know a girl over time and come to hate / resent / be annoyed / get bored with her as always happens.

Post: #4

Of course people are different, have different tastes etc...but part of your post concerns me...

(09-07-2012 06:25 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  Personally, few things in this life are more satisfying than meeting and bedding a girl in the same night, and then never seeing her again.

This comes off to me as someone who just wants validation.

(09-07-2012 06:25 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  ...after the third time with a girl, everything just seems so familiar....

This says more about the girls you are attracting, rather than girls in general. If all a girl can offer is pussy its bound to get boring after a while...

If a girl seems good to hang out with initially don't assume it's just because you haven't been exposed to her flaws.

Post: #5

(09-07-2012 09:33 PM)3agle 3yes Wrote:  This comes off to me as someone who just wants validation.

I take it you prefer something more long term.

Quote: This says more about the girls you are attracting, rather than girls in general. If all a girl can offer is pussy its bound to get boring after a while...

If a girl seems good to hang out with initially don't assume it's just because you haven't been exposed to her flaws.

True, but how many girls bring something to the table other than pussy?

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Post: #6

I prefer to keep them for the long run.

EDIT: I suppose I should clarify: I game in low volume and enjoy a thrill of a relationship more than just the bang. At least for now.