Post: #1

How long do you guys keep girls around. I did some reflection for the first time in ages now that day game is my new venue and I realized its hard to decide when to cut it off. My rule has been as soon as I get "annoyed" by their text messages.

When do you guys cut it all off?

Post: #2

It depends on the girl. If I just want to bust a nut and she's not the greatest of quality ill fuck her once or maybe twice. If she's nice or is tolerable and good and bed I'll keep her around until she does something that is a massive turn off or starts acting up. Usually these girls stick around for a few months and of this ill have a main girl that my friends assume is a girlfriend.

Post: #3

I find that after a few months, the law of diminishing returns kicks in and I lose interest. That and they usually start getting clingy around that time. It's usually when I Pull to Eject.

Post: #4

Depends on your other options.

Post: #5

I'm sorry but Gio is on fire today.

Post: #6

I guess the issue I'm driving at is you always have better options.

(09-04-2012 03:07 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Depends on your other options.

Post: #7

Well, if you have better options, I would try to just keep her around as a fuck buddy, unless she is really annoying to you and you can't stand her anymore. In which case, let her go.

Post: #8

Depends on a combination of factors:

1. Her looks
2. Her attitude
3. Her age
4. Quality of the bang
5. How fun she is

If all five items are on point, there's a chance she's sticking around for a long time. They never are. It becomes an intricate calculus after that. The items are in rough order of importance.

Post: #9

I'll agree that she should be fun to hang out with. I say a lot of stupid shit so I can't have a girl that's too uptight and gets pissy over nothing.

Sex on demand is a big #2. She needs to be DTF anytime I want it. Hell I like it when they initiate once in a while. Big turn on.

Post: #10

I keep them until I am tired of fucking them. This could be because they are not hot enough, they are flaky, they like to get pissy, or are a pain in my ass for another reason. I generally don't keep girls around for longer than a month. I usually have a few girls in rotation, and slowly fade out the old, and bring in some new. I only keep a girl around for longer than that if I like them, and that is probably because my options are limited at the time. Which means it's time to get back to work and find some new options.

Post: #11

3-4 months. They try really hard to keep you happy in the beginning.

Post: #12

I was going to post a follow up thread to my "maximum number of girls in rotation" to discuss a corollary issue of how long to keep plates. This has two component parts to consider: your own enjoyment or well being, and the girl's (if you care).

For me, there comes a time when even though a girl I'm banging is objectively hot, and/or sucks my dick like a champ, or whatever, I have lost interest in her. It is inevitable for me, and I think one of the fundamental aspects of the male psychology. One of my saddest moments in the game was when I couldn't bust from a blowjob given by the queen of sucking dick. I mean this girl was a champ but there came a point when it didn't register in my attraction centers anymore. That day I knew it was done, even though I look back and haven't had that consistently good BJs in a while. It sucks (heh) how your dick makes decisions for you... It often knows things I don't...

For me that time is a few months in. I don't care how hot she is or whatever, I would rather have new pussy even of lesser quality, than the same amazing pussy I've been getting for the past few months. This requires a constant changing of the girls in my rotation. And it is ameliorated by the fact that I'm fucking 2-3 other girls at the same time, but it happens regardless.

The other issue is how girls change. On the one hand they become comfortable, don't try as hard, start bitching, or more often, catch feelings. The last one is the norm for me. I can always sense it coming, like they start acting really sweet and say off the cuff comments that red pill men can smell a mile away. This is usually when I cut them off, and I'm always like "you said you were cool with just hanging out but now I can tell you cant handle it, so we can't hang out anymore." Venom and drama ensues. I agree and amplify and tell them I'm a very bad man. As an aside, if you shut them down like this, you can ALWAYS go back if you want a little taste for old times sake...

The other issue is, I'm not really into breaking girls hearts. I understand that its part of the game, but you have to be a pretty cold bastard to spend a month or two fucking a girl and have no compassion for her. I mean I always get accused of being cold hearted, but in reality, when I can tell they are getting too attached, its better to cause a little pain early on than a lot down the road, especially when the "old pussy" dynamic is creeping up. More drama at a time of less reward? No thank you. Usually this occurs about the same time as me losing interest. That is between 2 and 3 months.

Post: #13

If you just keep her around for sex, and she wants more, dead that situation, asap.

A ball drainer will put your game in a coma.

WIA

Post: #14

As the saying goes, “show me a beautiful woman and I’ll show you a man who’s tired of fucking her.” My experience is that the first couple of months are great, but then the bubble of wow pops and I start getting bored, even with the best of them. The call of the strange is just too compelling. So is the thrill of the hunt. The next one doesn’t even have to be better, just different.

Post: #15

As long as she deserves it.

If she never rejects sex, looks good, gives me attention / massages / beer / etc. then she's in for the long run. When she starts pushing for more, denying sex, being "busy", time to drop her.