Post: #76

Daygaming while reading a book? Who the hell slices it that way? Show me just ONE natural who would ever even think to ask the question and I will be amazed.

Just go to any public location that you would normally read whatever book it is. I have no idea why you would ever try specifically to do game while reading a book.....the market sizing is just ridiculously niche. Why not jusy go out to any of the numerous bars where girls who want to gey picked up are or onenof the church social groups where girls who want a husband are?


Bottom line is that your mentality is backwards. Think like a comsumer goods marketer. You need to go where the customer wants you to be and forget about where you want them.

Post: #77

In Daybang Roosh talks about approaching while he is at work with his laptop or reading a book in a cafe. I think its possible. After looking at videos where guys are loitering around looking predatory in the streets or in the mall , getting to know someone while you are doing your own thing seems more natural and productive to me.

Post: #78

Key to day game is acting like you are coming or going somewhere important. If you are just lurking it is because you are just waiting for something. Women like men of action. If it just seems like you are hanging out to engage Women, they can see it. If you didn't know Women while not being very logical are actually very intuitive. Incongruence sets of their "creeper alert".

Post: #79

(09-24-2016 01:27 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:  Key to day game is acting like you are coming or going somewhere important. If you are just lurking it is because you are just waiting for something. Women like men of action. If it just seems like you are hanging out to engage Women, they can see it. If you didn't know Women while not being very logical are actually very intuitive. Incongruence sets of their "creeper alert".

True. But to establish a connection one still needs to settle down and put aside some time to talk to her. That is the tough part. Openers can be delivered after overcoming AA. It is the follow up which is tougher because the flow of the conversation has to look natural and it has to increase her attraction by building rapport.

Thatswhy I was thinking that if you are doing work or reading a book you are already doing your thing so there is no need to rush. You can afford to talk to someone for a few minutes . But such venues are limited and other forum members can help with this.

I went to a city park to catch up with some reading and all I could see were elderly couples, hipster kids skating around and couples bringing their children.

Post: #80

(09-24-2016 01:27 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:  Key to day game is acting like you are coming or going somewhere important.

Incongruence sets of their "creeper alert".

Awesome post!

Well said and so very true!

Here is a new strategy that I am using...

I go jogging through the busiest parts of town during rush hour!

Of course, I wear nice, fitted, jogging clothes and shoes..

When I see a girl I like, I simply jog over to her and say..

'hey, I'm kind of in a hurry but, ummm, you look great, how are you today?"

Some variation of that.

The interaction is short and direct.

I basically introduce myself, ask her out, and continue my jog..

I'm still experimenting with this method but the point is -- I am not lurking -- I am doing something purposeful!

It is exactly what you described. I agree with everything you said!

*****

(09-21-2016 10:11 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  the best place

The "best place" is not the place where YOU feel comfortable.

The "best place" is the place where ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS ARE!

Expand YOUR skill set so that you can talk to pretty girls anywhere and everywhere.

Waiting for the perfect situation is passive and docile.

Be more aggressive about enlarging your comfort zone instead of waiting for girls to randomly enter in to your ideal.

Just try.

You can still read books in cafes and parks, I think that is a great activity...

But, if you want to get good with girls, in the fastest way possible, you're going to have to go find them and go talk to them.

I'm just trying to help you. Aggressive learning is better than slow learning!

Post: #81

Yeah, posting up in a cafe with Pale Fire may certainly get you a few interactions in a week, but much easier to go jogging where all the hot girls jog and hit the starbucks with them after.

Post: #82

(10-01-2016 03:12 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Yeah, posting up in a cafe with Pale Fire may certainly get you a few interactions in a week, but much easier to go jogging where all the hot girls jog and hit the starbucks with them after.

Puts a new spin on "How to Run Day Game"

*rim shot*

"I'll be here all week..."

WIA

Post: #83

Doesnt really matter what you're doing or viewed as doing or going. The girl does not care.

Post: #84

Every girl cares, they're sizing you up in 5-20 seconds and deciding if you're fuckable.

Of course, it does not matter if you are jogging per se, but how you look, the image you're giving off, does it look congruent, whatever you're doing.

If you don't think girls are judging you based on something as simple as what you're drinking at a bar: wine, beer, rye -- you are mistaken.

Post: #85

Haha
You talking about different situations.
This is a daygame thread.

Post: #86

It's what you don't do during Daygame. Than what you do do... You don't want to be a "gayfriend" or "thirsty creep"
I find the more I ignore women. The more successful I am. Period. It is only when I stray away from this, I start to lose.

I think a required reading for Daygame is not so much DayBang. But Roosh's Compliment and Cuddles.
Guys tend to let their guard down as they think women have let their's down in a daytime setting and think they have to be much more Civil...
This can be a big mistake.

Girls are usually just as preoccupied talking to their girl and gay friends during the day. It is very easy to
get put in that category without any alcohol present.

Meetup.comBang is more my alley. This is where girls try to hook up with guys with "similar" interests.

Post: #87

(10-02-2016 04:20 PM)Carmichael Reid Wrote:  Meetup.comBang is more my alley. This is where girls try to hook up with guys with "similar" interests.

Meetup.com is, in my experience, filled with borderline unsociables and incelibates, people that have to resort to the internet to meet other people, and <5/10 women.

No thanks.

Post: #88

(10-02-2016 04:20 PM)Carmichael Reid Wrote:  It's what you don't do during Daygame. Than what you do do... You don't want to be a "gayfriend" or "thirsty creep"
I find the more I ignore women. The more successful I am. Period. It is only when I stray away from this, I start to lose.

This is a good thread.

How do you incorporate the above into a successful daygame strategy though? You go around ignoring women and they open you?

Sounds amazing!

Post: #89

Hey guys, I am noticing a pattern in a few of my daygame approaches. I usually start a chat mostly with girls who give IOIs during the day. And most times, they usually have something to ask/comment about from the outset so I go along with the flow by agreeing/expanding on it and at some point get to know more about her. But almost always, she will try to end the convo by going 'I will let you be on your way' or 'You better hurry up before it gets dark'. And this is normally before I try going for the number.
Do you guys reckon that their comments are code for a lack of interest and a phone number would have resulted in a flake?

Will be great to hear if you guys have experienced this. Cheers

Post: #90

IOI is an invite to go and talk to her . Your appearance sparked his interest. Then, you have To capitalize on this .
Work on your voice tone
Work on your approach .
Many times I got IOI and then after I go and talk to her , she shut me down. When I analyze my approach, I would find I said something stupid .

Post: #91

(04-22-2018 08:14 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  Hey guys, I am noticing a pattern in a few of my daygame approaches. I usually start a chat mostly with girls who give IOIs during the day. And most times, they usually have something to ask/comment about from the outset so I go along with the flow by agreeing/expanding on it and at some point get to know more about her. But almost always, she will try to end the convo by going 'I will let you be on your way' or 'You better hurry up before it gets dark'. And this is normally before I try going for the number.
Do you guys reckon that their comments are code for a lack of interest and a phone number would have resulted in a flake?

Will be great to hear if you guys have experienced this. Cheers

(04-22-2018 08:39 AM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  IOI is an invite to go and talk to her . Your appearance sparked his interest. Then, you have To capitalize on this .
Work on your voice tone
Work on your approach .
Many times I got IOI and then after I go and talk to her , she shut me down. When I analyze my approach, I would find I said something stupid .

So you think her reply is a shut down. That's unfortunate.
Most times, we are just having a normal conversation, nothing 'gamey' like I mentioned above. Its kind of hard to pinpoint what the cause is. Infact, when it gets to personal topics, which the girl would normally initiate, I just listen without commenting much. On a cold approach, the only substantial things I say are touristy stuff, general information about places, interesting things I have seen.

I am not sure, if its better to go into material like push pull and escalation when you are talking on the street. The opinion here is that the 'elderly' opener works best for daygame so I opt for that as a safer approach as compared to 'gaming'.