Post: #1

In the last three weeks I have fucked three girls who told me after the bang that they had been worried that I wouldn't be able to fuck them hard enough.

I feel that I MUST be losing bangs because of this perception.

I'm not going to get any tattoos, and getting big is a lengthy process. Any advice on what I can do now to change this perception?

By the way, the logistics recipes on this forum are awesome

Post: #2

Be cocky, but be subtle.

Talk about workouts. Then smile slyly and say "I can go full out in the gym/on the treadmill/on the eliptical. Other places, too."

Talk about how you have self control in one context. "I really am pretty disciplined and under control when I work. That kind of control helps in other activities, too."

Babes love the double entendre. They think, "wow, he's not crude, but the message is clear."

Post: #3

Maybe you need to work on the way you walk/carry yourself.

Lucky for you, Roosh, Parlay, and Neil skywalker put together a little video on this very subject.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3b9gOtQoq4&t=0m24s

Post: #4

Being in shape helps. I think talking about sex and how good you are, even if it is a double entendre, can come off as bragging and try-hard. If you must demonstrate that you're good at sex, do it through physical action. Wrestle with her, pick her up, etc.

I don't worry really about how good I am at sex because I know I'm awesome at it and I guess its just a vibe I have. If you are sexually confident it shows in every action you do.

But really, you shouldn't care about what they think. If they think you're good at sex, great. If they don't then when you fuck them, they will get caught off guard and pleasantly surprised.

Some girls have told me they weren't expecting much because Im asian, and it's a good little ego boost once they see me naked and the surprised look on their faces and loud moans when we get down to business.

Hope this helps.

Post: #5

If you got the bang all three times, who cares?

Post: #6

(07-30-2012 08:47 PM)Sentrix Wrote:  If you got the bang all three times, who cares?

There were were more bangs that I didn't get. And I felt like I was very close.

Post: #7

(07-30-2012 08:41 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  Being in shape helps. I think talking about sex and how good you are, even if it is a double entendre, can come off as bragging and try-hard. If you must demonstrate that you're good at sex, do it through physical action. Wrestle with her, pick her up, etc.

I think that's a good idea.

(07-30-2012 08:41 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  But really, you shouldn't care about what they think. If they think you're good at sex, great. If they don't then when you fuck them, they will get caught off guard and pleasantly surprised.

I'm of the same mind as you. Frankly I don't give a shit unless I'm in a giving mood. I just think there are some girls that haven't fucked me because of this vibe.

Thanks.

Post: #8

Sort out any weak links in your style. Haircut. Watch. Wear a chain around your neck. Shoes.

This could also be coming from preludes to sex, like when you're kissing or touching. Anything you could improve there?

When you first taste a glass of wine, you smell it first before you drink it. You do that to protect your taste buds and body from drinking it when you shouldn't... you can throw it out if for some unexpected reason it smells spoiled.

Girls work on this same concept, but with kissing etc. They make sure everything feels OK and there's no show stoppers before the bang. If she proceeds to the bang with you, you know things were largely OK. But maybe there's something in the leadup that makes her think twice.

You don't want to be standoffish in any way when things start to heat up. Be comfortable kissing her, touching her hair, breathing in the smell of her hair when you're dancing close to her and things like that.

Also, where your bangs are coming from? Say they're girls that know each other from social circle. Eliminate the possibility a girl is worried you won't fuck her hard enough because one of your previous conquests is privately telling every girl you didn't fuck her hard enough.

Post: #9

You're probably being to nice and not aggressive enough. Switch it up and report back to us in a few weeks.

Post: #10

my guess is that you might be not decisive or assertive enough at first or at all.

to her the innitial interaction is like a trailer of the whole movie (you). she only gets to see a snapshot of your personality. so when you're kind of meek or shy and try to reserve yourself (we've all done it), not going straight at it, the girl immediatetly senses that. and in her head (it's too complicated for to think that some guys can be super cool just a bit shy around girls) she's like "this is how this guy approaches life in general". and it involves sex too. so in that first 3 seconds of your appraoch the girl labels you and forms some kind of opinion about what to expect. of course this judgement can change later if you step up.

this is why to me personally it's better to go in hard and calibrate AFTER the approach, not before. so she can SEE good trailer of me and know what to expect of me. that's how the frame is set from the beginning.

just my first answer, maybe that's not your case.

Post: #11

Never had a girl say that twisted shit to me.

If you game a girl good enough, you will be her god.

Post: #12

be physically dominant with her when you escalate with her.

firmly take her hand and lead her by the wrist,

grab her hair and make out with her,

hold her by both wrists and kiss her while you walk into her

wall-slam and makeout

kiss her neck, etc


basically strong, sexual animal escalation. you can just drop bits of it in here and there... mix it in with chillness and being cool and social, obviously. like XXL said, give her the trailer.

Post: #13

Your subcommunication is important too.. When I'm talking to a girl apart from escalating, being sexual and bringing the vibe, I have a very sexual look. The "I'm gonna fuck you so good you won't wanna leave the bed" kind of look, I find this to be important.

Each guy has their own and it comes automatically when you are sexual and you know it and communicate that to her. It comes down to you actually wanting to fuck her well and thinking about it when you're looking at her and showing it through your body language as well..

Don't rely on saying it alone; stick to the basics such as eye contact/body language/vocal tonality and 75% of your sexual vibe is taken care of