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What to say after the opener
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What to say after the opener
I went out solo last night and in my self evaluation I noticed that after the opener I completely go blank. And when I do come up with something to say to the girl I comes out ( in my opinion as stupid) Is there anything I can do to improve knowing what to say or is this mainly just a learning curve that comes with practice?
07-27-2012 05:20 PM
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07-27-2012 05:31 PM
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RE: What to say after the opener
Talking complete shit when you draw a blank is great advice. Another thing that Roosh suggests in Bang is stacking openers. If you´re at a loss after delivering your opener, just say another one right after it (if it would have worked as the first thing out of your mouth, there's no reason why it shouldn't work as the second). If you just keep running your mouth, before long the conversation will catch fire and become self-sustaining. It's gonna sound random and disjointed at the beginning, but if you hold your ground and say your bullshit wih supreme confidence the girl is likely to go along with it and pretty soon you'll get through it and be having a normal conversation.

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07-28-2012 01:08 PM
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RE: What to say after the opener
A good rule of thumb is open with something you can talk about.

Hey you think that guy over there is from XXX?
Hey where'd you get that XXX?
Hey nice seeing you again!

etc.
07-28-2012 02:12 PM
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RE: What to say after the opener
hahaha!! good question!,

What do you say after the opener???

You say whatever the fuck you want. I hope you have some decent conversational skills. There is no secret. You have to be able to converse spontaneously. If you are not comfortable doing this, you better start practicing..
07-30-2012 12:30 PM
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RE: What to say after the opener
You have to immediately begin to hook her interest.

Do not ask her questions.

You want to get her to start asking you personal questions.

Talk about something that will give you a chance to bait her into asking you these questions.

Don't answer her. Keep her wanting more. Don't do anything she asks you to do. If you need to, then make her do something for you first. You must control the conversation. This is setting up the rules of your engagement with her.

Remember, it's about reversing the script so that she is chasing you.

There has to be a purpose behind everything you say and do. All your actions must be intentional.
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07-30-2012 12:48 PM
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RE: What to say after the opener
Ramble homie. Get high if you have to and just ramble on until she hooks onto something.
07-31-2012 12:01 AM
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