Post: #26

You've got a point that text can easily be taken the wrong way, but thats why you have to do it carefully and properly.

Make it very lite too. Dont attack her, just trivialize something she's did or said or make a joke out of something she did or said. The "winky" smilie is your friend when negging too.

ex.

That looks a little slutty

vs

That looks a little slutty

You've judged her and used a word with a negative connotation. Girls love the winky and it implies that while what you said was negative that it isnt meant to be serious. Winky is probably the only smilie I use. The other standbys [ :o , , , ] Are to passive and what most guys send to be "cute"

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Post: #27

I feel like you're not getting it, and that you're not going to either. Worse yet, you're trying to give me advice? Maybe that works for you, but I really don't recommend "joking" and using smileys in text messages to girls.

Post: #28

CJ,

I like your strategy. I can see that you don't waste any time bullshitting with these girls. You don't have to call them because you build enough connection with them at the bar. They are probably already down to hang out with you so there is no reason to call.

Calling can be dangerous for guys with limited conversational skills and low confidence. Good Point.

I like your no bullshit texting style. Good work finding a style and strategy that works for you.

I also tell girls to meet me at the bar, WHEN I KNOW I'M NOT EVEN GONNA GO. This is a funny little trick isn't it? Its does keep you fresh in their minds I think.

Post: #29

(04-16-2011 06:03 PM)CJ Wrote:  I feel like you're not getting it, and that you're not going to either. Worse yet, you're trying to give me advice? Maybe that works for you, but I really don't recommend "joking" and using smileys in text messages to girls.

Isn't the idea of these forums to share ideas and whats worked for you? Dont insinuate that I'm giving bad advice simply because it doesn't work for you.

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Post: #30

(04-17-2011 12:05 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  CJ,

I like your strategy. I can see that you don't waste any time bullshitting with these girls. You don't have to call them because you build enough connection with them at the bar. They are probably already down to hang out with you so there is no reason to call.

Calling can be dangerous for guys with limited conversational skills and low confidence. Good Point.

I like your no bullshit texting style. Good work finding a style and strategy that works for you.

I also tell girls to meet me at the bar, WHEN I KNOW I'M NOT EVEN GONNA GO. This is a funny little trick isn't it? Its does keep you fresh in their minds I think.

Congrats on being an unfunny douchebag!

Post: #31

Question(s) for you all, how long are you phone conversations, and how often do yall call/contact in a week?

Post: #32

(04-18-2011 12:09 AM)ModernRUBIROSA Wrote:  Question(s) for you all, how long are you phone conversations, and how often do yall call/contact in a week?

This is in regards to texting, not calling, but I never contact a girl to do anything other then confirm plans. Now, if she contacts me I'll chit chat for a bit till the current conversation dies, but I wont re-up by asking a question.

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Post: #33

I hate phone game and talking on the phone period. But I have a number of girls that live a good distance away that I drop a line every now and then just to keep in touch so when we meet up I have something lined up. I usually try and make it seem like I'm busy and I have stuff going on so I can get off the phone ASAP if it's a girl who's boring to talk to. If it's a girl that likes to talk a lot, the same, but it just makes it easier on me. I just sit back, pretend to listen, take in little bits, and ask more questions. I feel this works pretty well with girls that talk a lot. It can be hard to do humor over the phone, especially because a good amount of these girls are Brazilian, most of whom don't speak great english, and my Portuguese isn't on the level of being able to pull off some of my cracks, not to mention some things just don't translate.

Post: #34

You know fellas I had it in my head that phone game was dead. Been focusing more on day game and text game lately. But I gotta tell ya ...last Sunday I called this girl out of the blue instead of texting her. Ended up banging her that night. Last night(also a Sunday) I called another girl I know down in Florida just to ping her and see what's up. Got an invite to spend a week with her next month at her place in Orlando. She even offered to let me use her car while she's at work. Needless to say ...I'm going. I may have to resurrect and sharpen my phone skills again.

Post: #35

Phone game should be used sparingly on either special occasions(i.e., birthday, injury, child sick etc) or coordination (ie, ummmm I'm on Bank Street, how do I get to your house from here?).

Quick calls that last no more than 5-10 minutes. If you're banging multiple women on the regular you don't have time to be on the phone blabbering with a chick and you don't want her blowing up your phone when you're getting your dick wet.

A woman should be trained to expect to only receive emails and text messages from you. This allows you the freedom to maximize your pussy potential.