Post: #1

The purpose of this thread is to explore the affect of venue changing on a man's chances for a single night lay. (Note that when I go for SNLs, I'm always by myself).

In the past couple of years I had a few single night lays after going to a few different bars/clubs on a weekend night. In each of the three cases I have in mind, I met the girl very late at night very soon after I entered the last venue. Because of this I've been trying to hit up four or five different places a night when I go out on a weekend.

Last weekend I went to one place and for whatever reason I did not feel like venue changing and I stuck it out at that one club the whole night. (Ended up staying there for 5 hours). I approached several women and didn't get anywhere. At about 2AM, a girl hotter than I ever hooked up with in my life came in alone and went to the bar. I approached and ended up going home with her when the bar closed.

Last night I went to a club that I had to get to early to get in. I approached over 10 women in the course of a couple hours. The ratio was skewing to about 2 guys for every girl so I decided to venue change. But when I left there was a huge line and literally about 30 of 40 hot women waiting in line - better than what was in the club when I left. Then I wasted the next hour because I couldn't get into the places I wanted to go to. The last couple of places I went to were not nearly as good as the original club I left.

Another consideration is when I approach too many women in one place I lose track of who I approached and who I didn't approach. I've approached the same girl twice before.

So guys, what are your experiences with venue changing and SNL? When in a half way decent club, should a man stay or should he go and look for greener pastures?

Post: #2

I'm not sure there's one rule that can be followed here- the important thing is to stay flexible and adapt to circumstances

If a club is good on a night- i just stay there.

If its bad early on, or turns bad later, I leave

I am a big believer in venue shopping since there is a lot of randomness and unpredictability involved.

I will go into a bar or a nightclub with no cover for just a few minutes to check it out and make a decision to stay or leave based on what I observe. I may not even stay long enough to buy a drink.

I am looking specifically for whether a place has any bangable girls in sets of 2 or 3. If it does I will stay for awhile and try to make an approach.

Post: #3

(07-22-2012 01:20 PM)MrXY Wrote:  I will go into a bar or a nightclub with no cover for just a few minutes to check it out and make a decision to stay or leave based on what I observe. I may not even stay long enough to buy a drink.

How do you do this? Do you do the "pretend to text on your phone" method while covertly checking the place out?

Post: #4

(07-22-2012 11:14 AM)NoBalls Wrote:  So guys, what are your experiences with venue changing and SNL? When in a half way decent club, should a man stay or should he go and look for greener pastures?

Impossible to give a "blanket" answer.

This is a decision one is faced with almost every night out.

You just have to make the best move you can based on all the information you have.

Post: #5

yes ^^. black and white shit again. there is no one universal method. it's case by case basis. you decide what to do by judging the situation you're in. i personally always screen girls, not venues but that's just me.

Post: #6

(07-22-2012 01:20 PM)MrXY Wrote:  If a club is good on a night- i just stay there.

If its bad early on, or turns bad later, I leave

Yeah.

A lot of this stuff comes from just straight up experience.

I was in a club a month ago when I first got to this city and I got to the club a little early. (I didn't know the optimal time to arrive yet).

Once I got in, I could tell I was early, but I could also "feel" that it was going to go off hard.

I was right. It did go off the hook. Mad fly girls. Real good energy.

Met a 22 year old Russian girl that I swooped the next week.

But that was a decision I made "on the fly" totally based off past experience.

Post: #7

(07-22-2012 01:27 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(07-22-2012 01:20 PM)MrXY Wrote:  I will go into a bar or a nightclub with no cover for just a few minutes to check it out and make a decision to stay or leave based on what I observe. I may not even stay long enough to buy a drink.

How do you do this? Do you do the "pretend to text on your phone" method while covertly checking the place out?

Yep- that's exactly what I do, if the place is small or medium size and not too crowded. I figure I will be attracting attention, so I pull out my phone and pretend to check my messages. They will assume that I am arranging to meet a friend.

If the place is crowded or large, I just stroll around- I figure people aren't noticing me that much