(08-26-2014 08:50 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: I understand that girls of my generation have no wit or charm and they give short responses.
It just depends.. I have met some really cool girls who are your age.
(08-26-2014 08:50 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: Crass and vulgar humor/pop culture
charm
(08-26-2014 08:50 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: A combination of the two is deadly.
This is really a special observation.
Knowledge of, and ability to joke about pop culture is a fun and very effective way to appear socially intelligent.
I need to start incorporating "current events"/pop culture in my conversations with young girls.
(08-26-2014 08:50 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: Bring in a shit ton of positive energy. If you feel on top of the world they will feel like it too talking to you. Women feed off emotion.
This doesn't mean that we have to be "hyper".
It just means that we should be prepared to provide energy, understanding, humor, empathy, passion, etc. to the conversation.
(08-26-2014 09:48 PM)iamdegaussed Wrote: Gio one thing I want to ask, is it always pulling back to your own apartment because the girl has less eyes on her and less ability to be judged, or do you sometimes end up back at their dorm rooms?
They would rather come to my place than stay in their dorm.
My place is like a 4 star hotel compared to the dorms. And, they don't have to worry about nosy neighbors, room mates, or their reputation.
My food is 1000000000000000% superior to dorm food.
I try to make being with me like a vacation experience for them.
I did bang 2 freshman in the dorms last year. I was pretty crazy to be honest, I'm 38!
(08-26-2014 10:13 PM)Travesty444 Wrote: One thing I want to put down is know the difference between an absolute party girl and a normal college girls.
Absolute party girls no matter how tough it is to get them out never do it in the day. These girls can love to experiment more but you need to strike fast.
Only at night with the expressed intent of alcohol being drank heavily.
Normal college girls can be leery to meet you at night for the first time. Going on a good day date can help.
I can tell by the way you write that you have been chasing college girls. I agree with everything you say here.
Great points about:
A) Getting the party girls out for drinks.
B) Doing day dates with the "normal" girls until they get comfortable.
That wisdom comes from experience, obviously.
*****
School started.
I went to a large university.
I started in the food court..
I immediately see
a tall, thin, white girl, pretty face and feminine features.. She is holding a green smoothie..
I walk slightly passed her at an angle and as I am walking past her, I say:
me: that green smoothie looks good
her: its really good
me: whats in it
her; lets see kale, pineapple, spinach, and hemp milk
me: sounds interesting, i do make those sometimes, ill have to try the pineapple
her: ya it really sweetens it
me: i smoke hemp but ive never had hemp milk
her: all those milks are the same to me
me: have you ever tried the acai here?
her: no
me: i thought you were brazilian when i first noticed you
her: really, im not
me: what are you?
her: russian and german
me: oh
her: well im have to run, bye
I made a mistake!
I got too personal, too early in the conversation!
The transition from indirect opener to personal question was not smooth enough.
We were talking about pineapples and than all of the sudden I am talking about when I "first noticed" her.
This was a "red flag" for her.
Next!
---
* I have recently added a new approach style.
I now often will walk literally
passed a girl instead of walking along side of her like I would in the past.
As I walk
passed her, or more specifically, once I am a step or so passed her, I will than make an Indirect comment about something she is holding or wearing.
The fact that I am walking passed her puts her mind as ease as it appears that I am not approaching her but rather just passing by.
My comment is often said softly as if to appear like I don't care if she responds or not.
(this has the effect of making her feel MORE comfortable in responding)
Once, she responds, I continue walking passed her to carry on the illusion that I am not approaching her. I speak to her over my shoulder from a few feet ahead of her. I make it seem like I am in a bit of a rush.
This dynamic of timing and positioning can make it seem/feel like the girl is the one pursuing me, which is the exact opposite of what is happening. Obviously, I am pursuing her.
This is a much better system for me than walking alongside a girl. Walking alongside can be too direct and confrontational. This new style is less invasive (threatening). Less chance of "scaring the cat".
I am obviously using Indirect type openers when I do this.
I am really happy with this little evolution in my style. It's working great.
*
---
3 minutes later, I see a
beautiful white girl in a summer dress that exposed her sexy, toned stomach, very sexy girl with long brown hair and clean radiant skin..
I turn and follow her to a crosswalk. She crosses the street and I take an angle that will put me about 10 feet ahead of her on the other side. I pretend that I don't notice her. I make a 'fake phone call", I watch out for oncoming cars, I do everything in my power to make her believe that I have not noticed her..
Once on the other side of the street, I loudly end my "fake phone call" put my phone into my laptop bag. She is walking right behind me, as I look up from putting away my phone, I pretend to notice her for the very first time..
me: i love your dress
her: thank you
me: i was just thinking to myself about how not many girls dress well at this school, but you have changed my mind
her: haha ya girls here dont wear dresses too much
The timing and positioning of my approach was perfect. She never suspected that I had been following her for 2 blocks.
me: how is school going?
her: pretty good
We walked and talked. She was very pleasant.
We arrived at the parking lot.
me: hey um, do you wanna grab a coffee or something sometime?
her: im married
Next!
---
5 minutes later, a
beautiful light skinned black girl smiles at me and says 'hi"..
I approached her last year on campus and she recognized me. Sometimes, they reject my initial approach but when they see me around campus again, they realize that I am actually a better option than many of the other guys around town.
Dressing well and being well groomed really does a lot to encourage this.
I say "hi" back to her..
her: hey how have you been?
me: great how bout you?
her: good thanks
me: senior year?
her: yup last one hopefully
me: no rush take your time and enjoy it
her: i will nice seeing you
She was walking with friends. I didn't want to stop and engage her. That would have felt a little needy if I did that. If she is interested in me, she can stop and engage me.
I'll see her again and feel out the situation.
Again, being well dressed and well groomed really helps these girls to consider me as a potential lover.
---
5 minutes later, I see a
hot latina, tall, long brown hair, hard body, great ass and skin..
I turn and walk past her. As I am passing her, I say..
me: what brand is your backback?
I keep walking so that I am a few steo ahead of her and looking at her over my shoulder..
her: oh its from guatemala
me: oh ok, i must have seen it when i was in costa rica or something, are you from guatemala?
her: well, im half guatemalan but i was born here
me: you were down there visiting family?
her: yes
me: how was it?
Blah, blah, blah.. We walked and talked. It went okay.
me: hey do you wanna exchange numbers
her: how old are you?
me: 30 how bout you?
her: 18
me: oh I though you were older
her: really
She wasn't interested.
Next!
---
5 inutes later, I see a
cute little blond in yoga pants. She is wearing Boston Red Sox shirt. I walk past her and make a "fake phone call' to allow her to hear my voice and observe my vibe. After a minute or two, I hang up and open her from a few steps ahead..
me: the red sox!
her: oh im not a red sox fan i just got the shirt as a gift
me: your not from boston?
her: no haha
me: where are you from?
her: oakland
me: oh ok, do you live over here now?
her: yup
me: how do you like it?
her: oh well, blah, blah, blah.................
She went on for about 5 minutes which was fine by me. I just listened and took mental notes.
The conversation went really well.
Eventually we got to a fork in the road and I went for her number.
me: hey nice taking to you, lets talk again sometime
her: ya sure, you'd be a good guy to talk to about that stuff.
I got her number.
She is 18.
---
5 minutes later, I see a
a cute and sexy little latina in a nice skirt..
I walk past her and open her as I am walking by..
me: i love that dakine backpack
her: oh thanks
me: that is a surf brand, do you surf?
her; no i cant even swim
me: what!
We walk and talk about her lack of swimming ability. I encourage her to learn.
The chat goes well. She is 18.
me: hey lets go out for coffee or something sometime
her: oh thanks but i have a boyfriend
Next!
---
3 minutes later, I see a girl that
I approached 2 years ago at the mall. She was 18 at the time and beautiful. We have chatted a few times since then but I have never gotten her out.
She looked great. I made eye contact with her and made a funny face. She realized it was me and smiled back.
Continuing with my new attitude and style. I smiled but
walked passed her without saying anything. Of course, this made her curious and she called out to me..
her: hey what are you doing her?
me: im taking a class here now, when did you start here?
her: i just started
me: your a junior
her: ya
I just smiled and kept walking.
She called me later that night and we talked for an hour.
She is hot and sweet.
21 years old. She said she wants to have a drink with me.
Again, the reason she is interested in me is:
A) She has seen me in a tank top and she knows I am in shape (I have gone into her work after the gym)
B) I was dressed and groomed well
C) I was not needy when I saw her
*****
* I went to my car and changed clothes. I wanted to try something new.
I put on basketball shorts and tennis shoes. That's it.
No shirt.
I have been working hard on my body and I wanted to use it as 'bait'.
I grabbed a water bottle and actually just held a shirt in my hand.
I walked around the student housing looking for cuties. I pretended like I just came from the basketball court, soccer field or gym.
*****
I saw a
sexy white girl wearing a tight dress, awesome body!
I walked passed her and said:
me: I love that sweater skirt
her: oh thanks ive never heard it called that before
me: what do you call it?
her: oh just a dress
me: its cool, sort of unique
her: ha thanks
me: how was class today?
her: pretty good but i need to find the financial office
me: its right here
I helped her find her way and than I asked for her number.
me: hey let me ask you something else
her: sure
me: wanna give me your number, i wanna take you out for a drink or something sometime
her: ya im down
She took my number and texted me right away. I texted her back and we had a little text exchange later that night.
Getting a girls number with my shirt off was a lot of fun!
I'm going to go shirtless whenever it is sunny.
***
I'm going to bang a new college girl very soon.