Post: #26

Being smart can lead to the following:
1.Understanding of statistics and finding the proper environments.Discovering the tendencies.
2.Understanding the counter balance factors.Getting aware of the blocks.
3.Cultural awareness
4.Knowledge of languages
All these can increase chances of pick up.The problem of many smart guys in my opinion is that they are very afraid.They get easily scared and jerks use it to their advantage.Another problem is the societal pressure because society expects results and punishes for mere women hunting.Other problems are that smart guys put others off by displaying above average intelligence because in this case the other guy feels starined and he wonders why should I feel strained and not be able to tell my bullshit.It is not economical.

Usually average intelligence guys view intelligence as a property of no value laughable at least.It gives some smoothness but it is as long as it gets since even smoothness can be perceived as weakness.From the point of view of intelligent guys intelligence is everything and they feel vastly superior to the rest.One common question they have is why this superiority does not materialize often in results and the common answer is the society structure which heavily promotes and favours average.

Post: #27

I thought I'd bump this thread since I believe I am experiencing a few roadblocks in Miami.
I have been going out a fair amount of places with Nomad and we met PJ25 last night, a cool cat with a lot of high energy and rapid fire delivery.

However, my perceived personal roadblock here is that I am finding is, that when I open lizards here, I tend to be getting one word answers to my openers. I quickly run out of things to say if she is not interested as I am not the kind that wants to stand there entertaining some droll lizard like a party host and then I eventually just stand there and look around for better targets.

Am I doing things right or do I need to have some stories lined up? I mean for what it was worth, the convos that I did strike up in Toronto tended to go further. Is it a case of ease of opening a group inversely related to ability to sustain the convo?

Or do I merely need to open MORE sets? I would like the advice to be South Florida specific because every city has its own flavour and one has to readjust in order to maximise the wavelength.

Realise for some background information for those that don't know, that South Florida is very Hispanic and also the gold digging level is very high due to the ballers that reside down here.
This means that the convo will have to be Hispanic geared for the large part or one will fall short.

I am trying to tune into the South Florida wavelength and figure out what men and women in social places tend to talk about.

I've been advised that the intellectual level here isn't high so I make a concerted effort not to steer the convo into any areas of potential debate.

This means I keep light and sweet and just talk about where I've been and where I want to go, if it gets that far.

Post: #28

(11-18-2012 10:00 AM)Moma Wrote:  However, my perceived personal roadblock here is that I am finding is, that when I open lizards here, I tend to be getting one word answers to my openers. I quickly run out of things to say if she is not interested as I am not the kind that wants to stand there entertaining some droll lizard like a party host and then I eventually just stand there and look around for better targets.

Are you suited up?

WIA

Post: #29

(11-18-2012 04:03 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(11-18-2012 10:00 AM)Moma Wrote:  However, my perceived personal roadblock here is that I am finding is, that when I open lizards here, I tend to be getting one word answers to my openers. I quickly run out of things to say if she is not interested as I am not the kind that wants to stand there entertaining some droll lizard like a party host and then I eventually just stand there and look around for better targets.

Are you suited up?

WIA

South Florida is waay too hot and humid for suits. Whoever mentioned that must be on sniff. I've taken to going out in a blazer with trousers and shoes and I am already overheated.

Post: #30

Girls are typically plugged into a different kind of intelligence than men typically. And that is what makes them interesting.

Post: #31

(11-18-2012 10:00 AM)Moma Wrote:  I thought I'd bump this thread since I believe I am experiencing a few roadblocks in Miami.
I have been going out a fair amount of places with Nomad and we met PJ25 last night, a cool cat with a lot of high energy and rapid fire delivery.

However, my perceived personal roadblock here is that I am finding is, that when I open lizards here, I tend to be getting one word answers to my openers. I quickly run out of things to say if she is not interested as I am not the kind that wants to stand there entertaining some droll lizard like a party host and then I eventually just stand there and look around for better targets.

Am I doing things right or do I need to have some stories lined up? I mean for what it was worth, the convos that I did strike up in Toronto tended to go further. Is it a case of ease of opening a group inversely related to ability to sustain the convo?

Or do I merely need to open MORE sets? I would like the advice to be South Florida specific because every city has its own flavour and one has to readjust in order to maximise the wavelength.

Realise for some background information for those that don't know, that South Florida is very Hispanic and also the gold digging level is very high due to the ballers that reside down here.
This means that the convo will have to be Hispanic geared for the large part or one will fall short.

I am trying to tune into the South Florida wavelength and figure out what men and women in social places tend to talk about.

I've been advised that the intellectual level here isn't high so I make a concerted effort not to steer the convo into any areas of potential debate.

This means I keep light and sweet and just talk about where I've been and where I want to go, if it gets that far.

I'm in Miami, and when I first got here I experienced a little of what you're describing.

1) You have to dress to impress- the gold digging is at epic proportions in this city. About 80% of the time, the girl is summing you up before you even approach.

2) Attitude- If she's giving you one word answers and seeming non interested? You throw that right back on her. Start checking out other girls mid convo and speak to her with your body angled away. Or if she's hispanic sometimes I say things purposefully to get them fired up. Doesn't matter what, as long as you get that passion even anger reaction out of them. This is what gets their juices flowing. They are a passionate people.

3) Drop bait way sooner. Girls here have a ton of options, much like you do because of the amount and quality of girls. You have to make STRONG first impressions. No "weesh" approaches.

4) If she's hispanic quickly find out what nationality, and drop bits of knowledge of how you went there. Research on Travel forum beforehand. Doesn't matter if you're bullshitting and never been there. Interest in their country and culture goes a long way.

5) Be more of an asshole- You're going to battle through bitch shields. That's just the reality of the situation here. Tone it up. When I'm in NYC I even sometimes have to tone it down because of being here too long.

6) They all want something out of you- You have to bring something to the table. While in other cities just your company may be enough, here no chance. Girls are getting offers to go on sugar daddy's boat, heat games etc. For me I use tennis as a carrot, tennis lessons. Or even guitar/singing lessons. Whatever, you can make it up. My brother uses personal training. That way, they see it as a win for them. Yeah they go out with you, they fuck you, and eventually if they start getting regularly involved they have a "perk" also. I know, its fucked up but that's just the way it is down here.

Post: #32

i agree abot dumbing down when talking to girls , i never really felt the girl being on the same level as far as intellect goes, although your german chick here might enjoy a short talk with some substance.
only one girl surprised me, which funnily enough is my 17 yo cousin , and she makes me quite insecure , because she's surpassing me at some point.
I mean i've had deep discussions with her about politics and political parties , aswell as about psyschology and famous writers and their views , where at some point i can't follow her anymore because her knowledge surpasses mine . the first time a girl made me insecure because of her intellect. the fact that she's 17 made it probably even more intense.

fun fact: she declared herself to me as a feminist. it hit my heart directly hnghh.

anyway , anyone had that experience ? Being seriously challenged by a chick in a disscussion with intellectual substance ?

Post: #33

(11-19-2012 09:09 AM)rationalize_this Wrote:  I'm in Miami, and when I first got here I experienced a little of what you're describing.

1) You have to dress to impress- the gold digging is at epic proportions in this city. About 80% of the time, the girl is summing you up before you even approach.

2) Attitude- If she's giving you one word answers and seeming non interested? You throw that right back on her. Start checking out other girls mid convo and speak to her with your body angled away. Or if she's hispanic sometimes I say things purposefully to get them fired up. Doesn't matter what, as long as you get that passion even anger reaction out of them. This is what gets their juices flowing. They are a passionate people.

3) Drop bait way sooner. Girls here have a ton of options, much like you do because of the amount and quality of girls. You have to make STRONG first impressions. No "weesh" approaches.

4) If she's hispanic quickly find out what nationality, and drop bits of knowledge of how you went there. Research on Travel forum beforehand. Doesn't matter if you're bullshitting and never been there. Interest in their country and culture goes a long way.

5) Be more of an asshole- You're going to battle through bitch shields. That's just the reality of the situation here. Tone it up. When I'm in NYC I even sometimes have to tone it down because of being here too long.

6) They all want something out of you- You have to bring something to the table. While in other cities just your company may be enough, here no chance. Girls are getting offers to go on sugar daddy's boat, heat games etc. For me I use tennis as a carrot, tennis lessons. Or even guitar/singing lessons. Whatever, you can make it up. My brother uses personal training. That way, they see it as a win for them. Yeah they go out with you, they fuck you, and eventually if they start getting regularly involved they have a "perk" also. I know, its fucked up but that's just the way it is down here.

Hmm, this is very useful, thanks bro and it is giving me ideas. Let me see if I can find some of my old jewellery (hate wearing that shyt).

Will bait them with international travel and stay options. I am going to have to turn back into a bit of a British wanker. Sobe it.

Post: #34

Moma,

They are surrounded by rich men and men pretending to be rich. Because of this, they are stuck up cunts with high bitch shields and an attitude of what can you do for me?

They are hispanic, so, they are racist against blacks.

Don't let them blow you off with one word answers. Don't let them fuck with you.

Come with as much firepower and swag as possible. Talk shit to them, make fun of them, find out their nationality and tease them about it. Better to get them mad then to get no response.

Lie to them, lie about your job.

You gotta fight fire with fire sometimes.

You gotta blow their minds on some other level shit. Don't be average, they won't respond to that. They will only respond to swagged out, not giving a fuck, blood pumping, passion filled energy.

Post: #35

Men are logical and like to think and talk about abstract things. Women are the opposite, they are illogical, driven by emotion and superficial.

When girls are growing up, they quickly realize that all they need to do in order to get attention is be pretty, so they start learning how to take care of themselves, dress, makeup, etc. Boys, on the other hand, learn that in order to gain attention they need to be better than the other guys, to stand out, by means of physical dominance, intelligence, humor(later value in the form of money and power, etc).

So basically, girls that are worth talking to aren't usually smart..because they never had to. While I wouldn't say that intelligence is a turn off(that would be illogical from an evolutionary POV) for them, she won't be able to follow you and will get bored.

Post: #36

(11-19-2012 03:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Moma,

They are surrounded by rich men and men pretending to be rich. Because of this, they are stuck up cunts with high bitch shields and an attitude of what can you do for me?

They are hispanic, so, they are racist against blacks.

Don't let them blow you off with one word answers. Don't let them fuck with you.

Come with as much firepower and swag as possible. Talk shit to them, make fun of them, find out their nationality and tease them about it. Better to get them mad then to get no response.

Lie to them, lie about your job.

You gotta fight fire with fire sometimes.

You gotta blow their minds on some other level shit. Don't be average, they won't respond to that. They will only respond to swagged out, not giving a fuck, blood pumping, passion filled energy.

MOMA: Here's an example to best illustrate Gio's and my point:

I swooped this Puerto Rican 22 yr old 7.5 (.5 for the ass, damn it was nice) from Baru on a Friday night while I was smoking a cigarette, I may have been there only 30 minutes.

I DHVd the fuck out of her, lied out my ass about everything. It got to the point she started not to believe me, and questioned saying "You do this all the time."

Luckily, I have all the bouncers and a few waitresses on lock. So when she turned to ask a random bouncer if I was a regular etc., we were on the way to my place 10 minute later. (I tipped him generously after this)

We arrive at my spot, and my bro is there with one chick he met back in January. We're having another drink and he doesn't know what I've been telling her and fucks up my story. What followed was an onslaught of "WHY YOU LIE TO ME?" "WHY YOU LIE TO ME?"

Her english was bad so it was even that much funnier. Still got the bang though after about an hour of LMR. Hit it again in the morning. My brothers girl kept repeating "WHY YOU LIE TO ME?" in the morning as the chick was leaving.

Needless to say, I never saw her again hahah. Still a running joke between us.

Post: #37

Yes Rationalize!

This what I mean by..."Fight Fire With Fire"

These girls wear make up, wear high heels, wear tight clothes, talk shit, act like gold diggers, etc.

And, we are supposed to be honest and kiss their ass! Fuck that!

Moma,

Tell them you a Nigerian soccer player in town to workout with the Miami Fusion.

Why not?

Post: #38

(11-20-2012 02:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Yes Rationalize!

This what I mean by..."Fight Fire With Fire"

These girls wear make up, wear high heels, wear tight clothes, talk shit, act like gold diggers, etc.

And, we are supposed to be honest and kiss their ass! Fuck that!

Moma,

Tell them you a Nigerian soccer player in town to workout with the Miami Fusion.

Why not?

Hmm, then I should spice up my accent when talking to them then. You guys are giving me some good ideas, I've been playing them like Mugsy when I should be Shaquille O'Nealing that pussy.

Post: #39

Go Dennis Rodman! Go fucking crazy!

Post: #40

(11-20-2012 02:38 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(11-20-2012 02:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Yes Rationalize!

This what I mean by..."Fight Fire With Fire"

These girls wear make up, wear high heels, wear tight clothes, talk shit, act like gold diggers, etc.

And, we are supposed to be honest and kiss their ass! Fuck that!

Moma,

Tell them you a Nigerian soccer player in town to workout with the Miami Fusion.

Why not?

Hmm, then I should spice up my accent when talking to them then. You guys are giving me some good ideas, I've been playing them like Mugsy when I should be Shaquille O'Nealing that pussy.

to quote the great Bill Walton, 'Throw it down, Moma! Throw it down!'

Post: #41

Do not do that ever, that "dumb" guy is not really you, first of all that will look completely unnatural and two you shouldn't do that for any girl, you are an alpha male, and Alphas do not pretend to be retard just so he can get some pussy that night, that just looks desperate.

Post: #42

I call b.s. Say whatever it takes. If you need to say you're a professional football player or Chinese factory owner, do it.

When they hold your funeral, nobody's going to scold your embalmed corpse for lying to screw hot 22 year old chicks.

Post: #43

It depends on what circles your in. Dumbing yourself down to a college educated black chick in DC is not a wise move. In general, being a black man and dumbing yourself down is not what's up. A lot of people already peg black men for only being interested in superficial shit like sports and rap music anyway. I've found that being able to show that your multifaceted is the best approach. Girls don't want a square but most quality chicks don't want a dumbass either. Being able to show that your down to earth but at the same time sophisticated and intelligent is the best of both worlds from my experience. That's what girls want.

At the same time tho, you have to assess the chick that your hollering at. If she's just a airhead party girl, then yea, name dropping dudes you know that are in the league and rappers and DJs that you went to high school with will be to your advantage. Showing that your affiliated with the pop scene will definitely help your cause.

But I don't think that you have to by default come off dumber than you are to attract a chick.