Post: #726

Damn, bright future ahead for you lad.

Post: #727

(05-10-2013 06:44 PM)MattC Wrote:  Damn, bright future ahead for you lad.

No doubt. If only I had swallowed the pill at 17.

Respect.

Post: #728

There's still lots to improve on. I was just always confident and good around girls, so most of it comes easy to me.

But I love how this forum made me behave more 'alpha'.
The way I talk, walk and carry myself have evolved from jumpy teenager mannerisms to Don Draper-esque stoic calmness. I no longer take shit from anyone and have noticed a massive difference in how other guys treat me.

Post: #729

(09-12-2012 07:35 PM)swshrsweet Wrote:  Gio. I want to know how direct game is working out for you? What type of reaction you get, How the girls handle the opener, if you got the number.

You were asking me about these lines..

"hey you look nice today, whats up with you?"

"you look nice in that dress"

"excuse me, I know this is crazy but you look really nice today, what's your name"


I like to go direct. Its more fun and exciting for me. It forces me to eliminate all fears.

Like you said, some girls like it and some girls don't. It just depends if she likes my look and likes my vibe. It depends if she is single or not, horny or not, etc.

My results have gotten better and better every month. I have learned to present myself as calm, confident, and attractive.

I used to be direct and needy. Now, I am direct and smooth.

Direct works, if you can pull it off smoothly.

Post: #730

I think the bold points are key. Once I was able to convey those all things go smoothly. It's taken me a year but I'm finally at this point. I'm confident in my interactions while conveying that I'm a fun personable guy who has his shit together.

I do think my looks play at least 50% of the equation though. I've asked the girls who go out with me what it was that made them stop. They always say it was the boldness of my approach and the fact that I dress better then 99% of men out there.

(05-12-2013 02:39 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  My results have gotten better and better every month. I have learned to present myself as calm, confident, and attractive.

I used to be direct and needy. Now, I am direct and smooth.

Of the two approaches I did today one is looking fairly solid

Cute girl in the mall walks by me. I walk after her and position my self in front of her with the yad stop.

me - hi, can I tell you something really quickly?
her - sure
me - I just walked right by you and there was something that caught my eye. I thought you were cute so I figured it would be in our best interest if I did some shameless flirting with you today.
her - haha ok
me - you had this great dreamy look to you as you walked. Like a little hippie running through a forest of dandelions
her - haha thanks!
me - so what brings you out today? It looks like you're shopping in preparation for a vacation
her - no just getting a mothers day gift
* I just totally blank out here
me - I'm totally blank right now and have no idea what to say
her *smiles* it's ok. so where are you from? (hook point)
me - SF but I've been here for a few years
her - oh cool I'm from SF as well. where did you grow up?
me - this ghetto little town called Danville (this town is anything but ghetto)
her - oh that must have been horrible for you!
me - yea it was rough I barely survived it. since you're a SF girl do you still use the word "hella"
her - haha not anymore people give me shit for it
me - I'm bringing it back. that word is hella cool
her - hahaha... yea but my friends gave me a ton of shit for it.

some more basic chit chat as I enquire about her ethnicity.

her - look I'm sorry but I have to go. I was just about to meet my family.

At this point she lingers after she says it and looks at me expectantly

me - give me your number and we'll talk some more
her ok

after I get the number I like to send a quick text with my name.

her - it was great talking to you. don't forget to text me

10 minutes after the interaction I get a text from her

"hey thug muffin great meeting u. sorry I was in a rush"

We've been texting back and forth now so now it's just a matter of setting up a meet.

Post: #731

(05-10-2013 06:58 PM)little wing Wrote:  There's still lots to improve on. I was just always confident and good around girls, so most of it comes easy to me.

But I love how this forum made me behave more 'alpha'.
The way I talk, walk and carry myself have evolved from jumpy teenager mannerisms to Don Draper-esque stoic calmness. I no longer take shit from anyone and have noticed a massive difference in how other guys treat me.

I can tell from the way you write you will do well for yourself, considering your age. Nice to see some other young guys here.

Post: #732

Met up with Lothario today in my hometown NYC. We started off our day-game escapade in Union Square, then headed to Central Park (great spot for meeting foreigners), and finished off spitting at girls on the steps of the Metropolitan Museum. He suggested I start logging some of my approaches so here they are:

Keep in mind, I just turned 20 (shout-out to the RVF young slayers and future players) -- I have never tried day-game...although I have been going out and cold approaching at clubs and bars + using social circle game etc. to get laid at school.

I tried to be pretty selective, even though I had the urge to go approach-bot crazy. I approached approximately 10 girls today (ranging from 18-30 yrs old) and got 4 numbers + 1 French girl who hardly spoke english took my digits in her iPad - Lothario told her I'd help her this summer with her english

I will attempt to accurately recall 1 number-close fail + 2 girls who I successfully number-closed.

- Sitting on the steps in front of the Met, I see a very pretty artsy-looking girl leaving the museum and pulling out her phone to make a phone-call. She is also waiting for the light to cross the street, but fuck it, I approach.

Me: "Excuse me, do you know how much it is to get into the museum?"
Her: Still holding her phone, "It's up to you, you can give a donation"
Me: "So would it be messed up if I just went in and didn't donate anything at all" I smile
Her: Lowering phone, smiling a bit, "Are you trying to pick me up?"
Me: Grinning, "Yes, I think you're really cute so I wanted to come over and say hello."
Her: Big smile now, looking flattered and no longer interested in her phone or crossing the street.
Me: "You have an accent, let me guess...you're Eastern European?"
Her: "I am actually from Greece."
Me: "What are you doing in New York."
Her: "I'm an actress ... blah blah
Me: "Cool, I am taking an acting class now too actually (bullshit), apparently I'm a great liar and story teller"
Her: "That's not a good thing!" laughing a little bit
Me: "Blah blah...Well you seem cool, we should get together some time. What's your number?"
Her: "I actually have a boyfriend, I was trying to call him...he's picking me up right now."
Me: "Oh...I don't mind, we can still hangout, I don't think he'll mind."
Her: "I have a boyfriend, sorry"
Me: "Alright no worries, it was nice meeting you anyway."
...Walk away, see her Euro boyfriend meet her and start kissing her 2 mins later...too bad, she was cute and seemed hooked by me.

- See 2 European looking cuties walking in our direction. Lothario and I approach.

Me: "Do you know where the closet Dunkin Donuts is?"
(We both get into our own separate convos with the 2 girls)
Me: "You have a very european accent, where are you from."
Her: "Munich Germany"
Me: "Oh cool, are you a soccer fan? I watched Bayern Munich kick Barcelona's ass the other day."
Her: "Yes, I love watching soccer."
Me: Tease her and ask her if she's a great soccer player too.
Me: "What are you doing in Manhattan?"
Her: "I am an Au Pair nanny in Connecticut and come spend the weekends in NYC usually."
Me: "That's awesome, next weekend we should get together when you come back."
Her: "Yes, definitely, I can call and text you!" pulls out her phone before I even reach in my pocket...
Kiss her on the cheek and tell her we'll be in touch
...this German girl was giving me the Googly Eyes - If she is down to come back into the city and meetup, it should be a +1.

- Union Square. See a spanish smoking a cigarette and drinking a cup of coffee outside Petco.
Me: "Excuse me, do you know where the nearest Dunkin Donuts is?"
Her: Gives me directions
Me: "Is the coffee there any good? I'm just getting into drinking coffee myself, I want to make sure I'm drinking quality stuff."
Her: "I actually think it's much better than Starbucks coffee. Starbucks tastes burnt and too strong."
Me: "Gotcha. By the way, what are you doing in front of Petco?
Her: "I'm actually waiting for my friend. She's inside buying blah blah for her dog."
He: "I hate dogs. I got mauled by 1 when I was younger." (bullshit)
Her: "I don't like them either, blah blah"
Me: I tell her about the cat and parrot that I own, how my parrot has the same name as me, how both my pets are evil etc.
Me: "Anyway, I gotta go catch up with a friend, we should meetup some time. Let me get your number."
Her: "Yeah definitely"

Overall had a fun 1st time day-gaming...learned a lot, and realized how many opportunities there are in my city...Time to MAN-UP and start approaching often during the day.

Post: #733

Guess I'll share this here, happened during the week.

Approached a girl sitting near Target on a bench. Opened up with a direct "Hey, you are really cute. I wanted to come meet you." Got a conversation rolling and sat down beside her.
Turns out she recently came from mexico and is applying to colleges. At one point her mom came. I shook her hand and let them chat for a few seconds. Then her mom left for Target leaving her daughter with me.
Talked a bit longer, didn't kino or anything, had a call from my buddy and decided to leave on a high note. Got her number, mehmehmeh, at the end she did the traditional kiss on cheek good bye "This is how we say goodbye". (I was smitten as fuck)

Post: #734

Double post, my bad.

Post: #735

(05-12-2013 11:18 PM)Spider Wrote:  Met up with Lothario today in my hometown NYC. We started off our day-game escapade in Union Square, then headed to Central Park (great spot for meeting foreigners), and finished off spitting at girls on the steps of the Metropolitan Museum. He suggested I start logging some of my approaches so here they are:

It was fun meeting up with Spider in NYC, I will do his Game Analysis in another thread as soon as I get time, This was a short lay over non- game trip and I had 6-8 hrs during the day and Spider had approached me and wanted to experience Day Game, What better place to teach someone then NYC ......

I think spider is forgetting, we did a total of 15- 20 Approaches, some very short, some hooked , some were done by me only some by him only, some both at the same time and Isolated our targets. We got 4 numbers and may be a couple e-mails etc

My Logistics were not right as I had to leave NYC in 6-8 hrs and didn't had a plcae to bang but made sure I get Spider on the go and get him number and save some for me for next time I am in the city.

Highlights:

1. It was fun 2-3 years ago to see Game Working , I think it was equally fun to show the ropes to a younger player and and have him see the game working during Day time and making him a believer.

2. There was time in Central park where we got 2 numbers each from two approaches and Spider was super excited and wanted to Approach every single Girl in Central Park De ja Vu ...... Reminded me of myself 2 yrs ago when I had to Approach everysingle Girl in my line of vision.

3. IOI's , showed spider a two set Asian, One of them checked us out and about 5 seconds later the other one turned around and checkes us out. That was my que, got up and Approached and the set hooked and we both got numbers and possible date later for Spider.

Spider was Missing a lot of IOI's that Girls were giving but he got better later in the Day.

4. We were narrowing down Foreigner Chics and shooting them in a Barrel. It seemed like we had an Unfair advantage knowing a little about Game.

Here are couple of Fun Approaches .

We are looking for a restroom for Spider and I see two 7ish Girls with a Map coming towards us. I open with

Me: Excuse me , Do you guys know where the nearest restroom is , My friend is about to wet his pants.
They both laugh , and started looking in the map and giving us directions.
Me: I tell one of them that she sounds british,
Her: how do you know, Do I have an accent ?
Me: Yes I can tell as was in England last weekend.
Her: Where ?
Me: Portsmouth
Her: What were you doing there ?
Me: Working for the Naval Hospital but that's not Important.... You don't look Biritsh though
Her: Why ?
Me: no offense but you have almost perfect straight teeth
Her: Blushong and laughing hits me in the Arm.

Meanwhile Spider was having a conversation with the other one, we numberclose with plans to meet later ....

I will post some Approaches later as I get some time to type......, Overall a great day with great Spring Weather to Day Game in NYC, I think this summer is going to banging for Spider as lives in the City... Mofo ... I envy him getting in game at such a young age and more so for living in NYC. Have Fun Player ......

Post: #736

(05-10-2013 06:58 PM)little wing Wrote:  There's still lots to improve on. I was just always confident and good around girls, so most of it comes easy to me.

But I love how this forum made me behave more 'alpha'.
The way I talk, walk and carry myself have evolved from jumpy teenager mannerisms to Don Draper-esque stoic calmness. I no longer take shit from anyone and have noticed a massive difference in how other guys treat me.

I felt the same over the past 6 months, especially as I walked around campus (I'm 21). Dramatic difference in attitude.

My buddy's 17, same boat as you. The sooner, the better. I'm glad I started now, before I finished university. The 17-18 y/o's are not only legal but culturally acceptable right now... Kansas is 16 for the legal limit, but at a certain point culture's gonna look at me funny for it.

Post: #737

^ ... Yeah, around 15 or more approaches probably sounds more accurate. Some of them were just in a rush and so it didn't wind up turning into a real set.

Am definitely going to practice recognizing IOI's and working on overall environmental awareness.

Here's a set where I felt uncomfortable # closing.

- Attractive older looking woman (probably in 30's age rage) walking dog in central park
Me: "Excuse me, can I pet your dog?"
Her: "Sure" stops for me
Me: Keeling down and stroking dog, "What kind of dog is this"?
Her: "A saint Bernard"
Me: "No way, there are a couple of these in my neighborhood. They become gigantic."
Her: "Yes they do, she's just a baby, she'll be huge pretty soon. What neighborhood do you live in?"
Me: I live in ***
Her: "Wow, I actually work right in your neighborhood" Jewelry business, literally works a block from my house

- She starts telling me about places she likes to eat in my neighborhood. I sort of feel embarrassed because she clearly knows a lot more about the restaurants/landmarks in my neighborhood than I do. She also came across as a pretty intelligent working woman, whereas I am a college student living with my parents for the summer...

So even though she was engaging me and asking me personal questions, I felt any potential was unrealistic.

I'm guessing I was just overanalyzing, and should have tried to number close anyway?

Post: #738

(05-03-2013 06:19 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  Zaki, ballsyamog, and Cyr all with varying level of approach success and actual level of game, but what stands out the most?

No supplication, no neediness, overall good calibration/self-evaluation, and no negativity. Really impressive.

As Hotwheels said, you guys are going to get far that way.

Hope to have some approach posts up here for tonight as it's a friend's birthday, it's been really hot/nice weather (this means the girls will be out in droves by the beach), and I have an itch to get over this shit that I posted in the I got flaked on thread.

Your "flake" was something beyond your control. You should have way more rep points than you do. Members can learn a lot from your lifestyle and way of integrating game into your social circle and life in general.

Not everything needs to be a one off approach ie. "i saw you from over there and thought you were cute"...

Post: #739

(05-04-2013 05:31 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:   Only read this if you care about stripper pick ups.



At a strip club tonight with 2 friends. Blonde 9 (irrefutable 8 even if she isn't your bag) makes rounds for lap dances. She makes subtle eye contact with me and I smile back bashfully and look away. I did this because I believe when strippers first see you it is like the roles are reversed, they are the approacher and you should give an IOI to warm them up. Boyish playfulness I believe can do this.

Most strippers will stand over you and bend over or crouch down touch your leg and ask you how you are or directly if you want a dance. She decides to sit next to me in the empty chair and introduce her stripper identity to me. I call her Ashley on accident when it is Ashton and she corrects me and I ask her if I can just call her Ashley instead she says fine with a laugh and smile, but she really is a tomboy that is why she calls herself Ashton. I ask how the tips are tonight, how the club is, how she likes the girls etc... kind of like I am a new stripper myself learning how the night is going. This took her out of customer mode and into, how is my day going mode.

Fast forward to the backroom during the dance I try to get into the dance but still keep conversation going. I don't think strippers are used to this. She seemed amiable to conversation though. She asks how old I think she is, I guess too old on purpose in a polite way, she agrees many people say she looks older (she is 22, may look 26ish, I guessed late 20s), I say it is because she has wisdom in her face. I comment on how she has a real dancer's body, not just a stripper body and how she got that. This lead into conversation about her working out and history as a stripper. I joke about how her firm stomach is GI Joe shit. She laughs.

During the dance things get a little heated and she says she can't concentrate on talking when we are doing this she loses her train of thought. She says she gets hot easily. She begins to perspire the tiniest bit, I point it out saying she really does get hot easily. She goes into how she is during sex when it happens and wants to be on top and not pressed against someone because she feels gross etc...

Eventually the dance ends and she stands there looking like it should keep going. I say "that's it right?", she says yes it is, but looks like she had the fun knocked out of her.

I later her see her on the main stage and go up to it to show her I haven't had enough yet. I tip her a few dollars to come over and show me attention, at the end of her dance she comes to collect and gives me warm but somewhat hidden smile. I have been to strip clubs for over 10 years and I haven't see a playful smile like that from a stripper yet, they usually have too much sex appeal almost in semi cartoon way in their stares and smiles. She looked like we just shared a secret like two excited kids.

Later I see her walking around and we catch eyes again she comes over to say hi, and I ask for another dance. We go back and I say I need to ask her some questions. I ask her what's best advice to ask a dancer to talk outside the club, I rambled about how I heard paying anything makes you a customer and you are totally out. You should just only buy drinks and hang out or meet strippers outside the club. And I mentioned the way I heard to see if a stripper is down to see you outside the club is to ask what time do you get off work. If the stripper says I can take off anytime I want then they are down to see you. If they say oh we have rules and have to stay the whole night til whenever then they just want to work.

She objected and said she dated one guy that was a customer and how he spent a ton of money on her at the club and became a stalker later. At this point I knew she was gaming me to spend alot of money. My body posture went cold as her halfway dance during this conversation rolled on. When the song ended I got up briskly and said goodnight. She seemed surprised.

A half hour later she is making her rounds and comes up to me and tells me she thinks she can get off any time she wants but she will probably be able to get off work in an hour but she isn't sure and make have to work til close because she is pretty new. I shit the bed mentally and don't realize she is actually repeating my pick up line back to me. I say well yeah I am still hanging out for a little while. She says okay I will come back and say hi before you leave. I soon after realize my folly.

I start thinking rapidly about logistics, how much life my cell phone has, and how to talk to her again.

I am with friends that drove me from 45 min. south. Her place is 1 hour+ north. This is a 9 stripper with a perfect body in my mind who also smokes weed and play video games. Worth the mental math. I quickly decide it is a stripper. I will not stay behind with no ride til closing and be flaked by her. I decide to just number close.

I catch her and ask her what time she is really getting off she says closing time. I say well put your number in my phone because I have to go now (friends need to leave) and we will figure it out. She says she can't be seen giving a number to a guy in the club, she says she will go get paper to write it on.

I wait about 10 min, she returns to sit next to me and says she tried to get paper and she was called out on for why she needed it, and stole a gum wrapper to write it on. She hands me the number. I tell her I can pick up my car and meet her here at closing time, or she can drive down to my place. She says she won't meet new guys from the club right away because of the stalker ex. I say fine no rush. We keep talking about her hobbies, pets, where she lives, her family. All about her.... 100% in fact.

She stays so long a club manager comes and tap her saying time to get back to work baby. She gets up slowly with a smile and I say I will talk to you, good night.

I find these points may be in my favor:

1. It was her second day at the club and she risked being seen giving out a phone number to a customer
2. She also wasted time talking to me when there was no money in it, in fact she got in trouble for not working to talk to me
3. I found out she lives in the middle of nowhere and is a loner, she has 3 pets, plays video games, and loves pot. I think even a stripper wants a tiny bit of companionship or decent sex once in awhile.
   

This is my first stripper number attempt or what I hope will turn into a pull. I think it went well. Interested to hear about guys that pull strippers from the club and their thoughts.

Do you have a follow up on this?

Post: #740

(05-05-2013 04:02 AM)Prosal Wrote:  

(05-04-2013 05:31 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  I think even a stripper wants a tiny bit of companionship or decent sex once in awhile.
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+1. Some guys could state that one of the cardinal rules of a stripper is to NEVER to date a guy they met at a club, but I couldn't disagree more. I've had adventures with strippers in Romania, in Russia, in Uzbekistan and in Moldova. Many opportunities with strippers in FSU, as long as you treat them nicely and respectfully and you show some empathy, self-restraint and personal attention ..... those girls deal night after night with boorish sex-weaned guys, and are usually happy to find someone who don't treat them like pieces of meat. Many (at least in FSU) are just girls with honest feelings, emotions, goals and reactions. With them, you need to develop other skills than the simple fact of having money. Intelligence, empathy, charm, wit, cultural awereness, ect come to mind.

It's one of my favorite target groups. Furthermore, having a stripper as a regular "fuck-buddy" is a very good position in that even if you go to chase in clubs or have a date and say don't get any success that night, you always have your stripper to fall back on in the morning.

I remember a stripper I scored in Chisinau. She would get off of work at 5am, sent a sms to see if I was still awake (and alone), and if I was, would go to my apartment, down one beer or two, talk a bit, bang me, sleep till noon, have sex again, and then leave. No questions asked, no materialistic expectations, save sometimes a few drinks before her work at 7pm. Talk about a nice situation. It lasted more than one month, until I leave. And without bragging, she was the cutest of the club - my komrade Zippy from "another forum" can testify.

Also, in FSU, those girls usually live in crappy tiny appartments with other girls or with their family (often parents, sister, brother in law and nevew), so it is almost a humanitarian gest to offer them a nice accommodation for the night. (smilie)

A stripper from the most upscale strip club in Piter (Saint Pitersburg) who became a long-term GF, here in my place in Paris (as a side note, she earns A LOT of money and extensively travels, on her own account):

You are such a fantastic member to have on the forum. You are going to be my go-to for everything FSU related. You seem to be a veteran on the subject.

Post: #741

Gym approach:

Saw this girl make eye contact with me while I was leg pressing 150kg. I had a few sets left so I finished them off and went to where she was. She happened to be near a machine I was at.

Me: You arent using this machine are you?

Her: No, I was just going from this machine to that machine so I have 1 left.

Me: Alright, I'll just wait patiently for you to finish the last set. I'm moving slow today anyway

Her: Haha same here.

Me: Where did you get your tattoos?

Her: argargsdrgfsergaeg

Me: Interesting. I am thinking of getting a sleeve.

More banter back and forth.

Me: I am guessing you don't usually come to this gym since I have never seen you here before.

Her: Yeah I usually come later because it's easier with work etc...

Banter about work and what she does in the city.

Her: Well it was nice meeting you, I have to go and run for a bit.

Me: No prob, hopefully see you around

Her: For sure.

I finish up and go toward the entrance, make eye contact and smile at her. Grab a smoothie and chill in the stretching area.

She finishes up and comes over to me and says she is going to go stretch.

Me: I could stretch with you if you want

Her: Sure come with me

Then we had an isolated room to talk about everything for a solid 15-20 mins. Traveling, nightlife, relationships.

We end up walking home together and make plans to meet up at some point.

Post: #742

(05-14-2013 09:23 AM)gandt Wrote:  You seem to be a veteran on the subject.

Well, thanks for your kind words, but you overvalue my participation here about FSU matters. Vorkuta, Greek K, Partizan, ect, are much more well-travelled and experienced.

Furthermore, I feel old when I relate this type of anecdote (the Chisinau stripper). It was in 2006. (embarrassment emoticon).

Post: #743

Saw cute girl, made eye contact, walked over to her with some sheets.

"Hey, you look like you want to trade finals."
--- slid the papers towards her in an idle gesture.
"No, not really, anyone offering that usually means it's a bad trade.."
"Ahh, that's no fun. What are you working on here?"
--- discussion on her psychology, child development, work there. Talked a little on how I deal with it, 4 adopted/3 foster siblings, all with issues.
"Hey, that's pretty cool. So hey, really, I thought you were cute and I had to come over and flirt with you. My name's Kurtis."
--- Extended my hand towards her, she shook it and said -
"My name's Kendall, though I actually have a boyfriend.. I'm sure that took a lot of courage to come over though, you seem really confident."
"Ahh, you're killing me here. That's fine. Yeah, it's normal." (wasn't sure of what I was saying here, wasn't sure how to reply - never had someone comment on how much confidence it takes, and my wit failed me).
"I see you all the time here, you're the only person I know that also gets a double shot of espresso."
--- tangent into conversation on coffee/etc, and my work. She seemed fairly sociable. Nice girl, genuinely nice. Too bad she was taken - I got a really good feeling from her (like, feminine, sweet, nice, etc).
--- Closed it off, though, as I had to get working.
"Hey, it was really cool to meet you. If you're ever bored, I'm always down to chat."

No bueno, but hey, I don't approach on campus often, so it was good to change things up a bit.

Post: #744

I'm pretty sure I got hit on by a pedophile middle aged man today. That or I got scouted for a youth football team.
Either way I had to put down my birth date, phone number and name. Technically speaking I got number closed.

But I also managed to pick up a phone number.
I was in the supermarket looking to buy some lunch after school. I looked like shit so I didn't feel like approaching any girls but there was a cute,tall,slim blonde standing in front of the wine shelf when I walked past and I couldn't resist. She was looking at all the different wine bottles and I walked over, stood next to her and said:
"You look like you have trouble choosing"
Her: Yeah haha, you know anything about wine?
LW: Wine is fine but whiskey's quicker (Hank Moody line right here)
Her: I don't think whiskey is gonna cut it, I am having some relatives over for dinner.
LW: What's the special occasion?
Her: I finally got my university diploma(during later texting it turned out she is 21, yikes)
LW: Wow, I don't really know you yet but I am already proud of you. What did you study?
Her: Haha yeah I kinda have that effect on some people. Some bla bla about design
LW: Why did you study design?
Her: bla bla bla.. but I have to go now
LW: Hold on, after all this intrigue I at least have to get your name
Her: Sarah
LW: Ok Sarah, I want you to put your number into my phone(this somehow always works)
She smiles and is being reluctant but ultimately puts her number in my phone
LW: Ok I'll let you run off now, bye
Her: bye

Hopefully I can line up a date but it will be tough. She's 5 years older than me and I'm sure she has a bunch of guys just waiting to go on a date with her. I'll have to play this real good

Post: #745

Gandt showed us a great example on how to not just fall back on asking for a number and continuing the interaction. What are the odds that girl flakes on you Gandt? Like 1% maybe?

Post: #746

(05-14-2013 06:04 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Gandt showed us a great example on how to not just fall back on asking for a number and continuing the interaction. What are the odds that girl flakes on you Gandt? Like 1% maybe?

I just got back from hanging out with her. We're going to meet up again soon. Chill girl.

Post: #747

(05-14-2013 05:59 PM)little wing Wrote:  I'm pretty sure I got hit on by a pedophile middle aged man today. That or I got scouted for a youth football team.
Either way I had to put down my birth date, phone number and name. Technically speaking I got number closed.

But I also managed to pick up a phone number.
I was in the supermarket looking to buy some lunch after school. I looked like shit so I didn't feel like approaching any girls but there was a cute,tall,slim blonde standing in front of the wine shelf when I walked past and I couldn't resist. She was looking at all the different wine bottles and I walked over, stood next to her and said:
"You look like you have trouble choosing"
Her: Yeah haha, you know anything about wine?
LW: Wine is fine but whiskey's quicker (Hank Moody line right here)
Her: I don't think whiskey is gonna cut it, I am having some relatives over for dinner.
LW: What's the special occasion?
Her: I finally got my university diploma(during later texting it turned out she is 21, yikes)
LW: Wow, I don't really know you yet but I am already proud of you. What did you study?
Her: Haha yeah I kinda have that effect on some people. Some bla bla about design
LW: Why did you study design?
Her: bla bla bla.. but I have to go now
LW: Hold on, after all this intrigue I at least have to get your name
Her: Sarah
LW: Ok Sarah, I want you to put your number into my phone(this somehow always works)
She smiles and is being reluctant but ultimately puts her number in my phone
LW: Ok I'll let you run off now, bye
Her: bye

Hopefully I can line up a date but it will be tough. She's 5 years older than me and I'm sure she has a bunch of guys just waiting to go on a date with her. I'll have to play this real good

Calm cool and collected demeanour. I dig your style. It seems you go for the number extremely quick and have short interactions. Interested to hear whether or not these chicks flake often or not.

Post: #748

I like to save the long conversation and physical escalation for the dates.
I just try and get the number as quick as possible without being needy or pushy.
Get in there, get them to laugh, build some common ground, drop the number bomb and get out of there. The less they know about you the better.

I don't often get flakes. I think I'm very good at texting and chatting. I always get them to reply immediately and they always think I'm really funny. I'm a bit of a sweet talker

Post: #749

This one's from today. I decided to go indirect, I haven't done indirect in a while.

Number 1
Me: Your Wifi working?
Her: No, I don't have wifi
Me: Oh ok! You look brazilian
Her: I'm Slovakian
Me: Oh yea, I'm visiting Bratislava soon
Her: Why Bratislava?
Me: Well it's part of my Eurotrip where I visit at least 8 European capitals
Her: Nice
Me: So what are you upto?
Her: Meeting some friends. And you?
Me: Got some work to do. What's your name?
Her: xxxx. And yours?
Me: Alberto.
Her: Where are you from?
Me: Not from here. Take a guess
Her: SOuth America maybe
Me: Close, I'm from HellA
HEr: Oh I went to the states few days ago
Me: How was that ?
HeR: It was awesome
Me: What city did you like most?
Her: NYC
Me: Shit! Why not LA?
HeR: I didn't go
Her: So where are you gonna stay in Europe?Couchsurfing?
ME: Hell no! Mostly hotels. Do you have any couchsurfing experience?
HEr: Well yea, I couchsurfed in the states, are you CS?
Me: Well yea, but I don't post much
Me: Listen, we should meet up, I'd like to get some insider info on Bratislava.
HEr: I don't meet strangers
Me: Here put your number down on my phone
HEr: (She takes the phone) But says no phone numbers just FB
Me: Why are you making this more difficult than it has to be girl?
Her: It's fine, but no numbers
Her: She types her facebook name twice (I realized she gave me the fake facebook name second time)
Me: Take care
Her: Good luck

Lessson: Don't go indirect, it's a waste unless you're a very good conversationalist.
Observations: I was being too friendly, and there was no attraction.
Solution: Next time keep small talk to minimum and focus on attraction and comfort

Post: #750

You should try to be wittier.
Facial expression and prosody is also really important. You need to make her feel comfortable around you quickly.
It's very hard to get a girl's number when you have not once made her laugh or smile