Post: #551

(03-17-2013 02:21 PM)Teedub Wrote:  ^ I like this direct style, as you may get blown out quicker when it isn't working, but at least you know if you're in there or not!

I also think going direct builds confidence and fearlessness faster then going indirect.

*****

Here's one from last week:

I was walking through a large university. I see a 9. Eastern European looking, long hair, dancers body, great ass with a slim waist, thin, feminine.

I followed her into the library, she got in line at Starbucks, I didn't want to approach her there, I waited..

She sat down at a small table with 2 chairs. I started walking over there, I wasn't sure what I was going to say, I've learned to just trust myself.

I get to the table, she is eating a sandwich, we make eye contact, I smile, she smiles, I sit down.

me: that looks good
her: im so hungry
me: thats the best seasoning
her: ummm, hmmm(she didn't even look up)

She was really enjoying her food. I let her eat.

(She was hungry and she was comfortable. She was comfortable because of the quick eye contact that we shared. I was dressed nice and my eye contact was sincere, she trusted me to a certain extent because I was dressed sharp and I looked very presentable, she didn't feel threatened at all)

me: you don't mind if I sit here..
her: no

She barely looks up. I just let her eat. After a minute or two she is finished with most of her food and her mind starts to return to the present moment.

me: do you feel better
her: hmmm yes
me: you were famished
her: i was
me: my name is gio
her: hi gio
me: hello, whats your name?
her: kristina
me: i like that name
her: thanks
me: i saw you from over there and I wanted to come say hello, you look nice today
her: oh thank you
me: are you from around here?
her: well, im from romania, ive been here for 10 years
me: i knew there was something different about you
her: what do you mean?
me: i don't know, i could just tell that you were a little different.
her: hmmm
me: are you a track athlete?
her: no im a ballerina
me: oh thats what it is
her: you could tell?
me: yes, you move a little different

She was giving me good eye contact and we seemed to be vibing well.

her: you are so open
me: what do you mean?
her: the way you just smiled and sat down

She was impressed by my confidence.

me: you are very open also
her: i am but most people are so closed off, americans are weird.
me: yeah, americans are so scared of everything
her: i have to tell you im not emotionally available
me: oh no, why not?
her: i just got out of a ltr
me: really? how long were you together?
her: 4 years

Bingo! She is opening up to me emotionally!

We chat about her ex-boyfriend, blah, blah, blah. It's going well.

me: well, i better let you get back to work
her: yes
me: i know that you are not emotionally available but would you like to chat again sometime?
her: um, sure, maybe we can just have fun
me: yeah, that sounds okay - whats your number?
her: xxx-xxx-xxxx
me: have a great day, i'll call you in a few days

Post: #552

"Maybe we can just have fun"



Brilliant mate.

Post: #553

Lunch time approach at Chipotle today. I was going to take my burrito bowl to go but scanned the restaurant and saw an empty seat by the window right by a tall brunette. She was reading a book, opened her with "What are you studying" and we start chatting.She was reading italian as she was visiting in a few days.Some small talk about Italy and I tell her " I wish I studied a foreign language in college" Turns out she was in college 10 years ago! Fuck, she looked in her early 20s. My eyes immediately go to her finger and I see a rock. Ah, she tells me she has to leave and I hand her my business card and wish her a good day.

It was good practice though, I think we should approach all women, married or not! you never know, it may be a failing marriage and she may be looking for some. No harm in trying.

Post: #554

(03-31-2013 12:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  me: yeah, that sounds okay - whats your number?
her: xxx-xxx-xxxx
me: have a great day, i'll call you in a few days[/i]

+1 rep
YES direct game FTW Bro!!!

My sister agrees....


I admit I'm total beta, I love this photo cause this chick is giving it all she's got
thinking FTW whether she's hot... that's spirit...

Post: #555

(04-01-2013 10:08 AM)MattC Wrote:  "Maybe we can just have fun"



Brilliant mate.

It was interesting the way it happened. I said:

"I know you are not emotionally available"

We had just talked about it.

Then, she said, "Maybe we can just have fun"

I was surprised that she said that! I don't think she realized how open and honest she was being!

I got her into such a relaxed and comfortable state of mind that it just came out.

IT WAS ALMOST LIKE I HYPNOTIZED HER!!!

Honestly, I just got lucky, if there was ever a girl to see in a coffee shop at a university library and then just go and sit down with her -- This was her!!!

Something happened. It just clicked with her. Girls are weird.

SOMETIMES, IF YOU JUST DO REALLY BALLSY, RIDICULOUSLY CONFIDENT STUFF AND PUT YOURSELF RIGHT IN THEIR FACE -- THEY THINK YOU WERE SENT BY GOD OR SOMETHING!!!

Seriously!

Post: #556

That was a situation very well read, it's like preempting an excuse or a no from her. Like, what other reason could she give if you've already used her own trump card against her?

Post: #557

Here is one from yesterday..

I park my car at a big shopping center. As I'm getting out, I see a gorgeous white girl -- black tights, nice body, thin form-hugging sweater, lite jacket, long wavy blond hair, maybe another Eastern European..

This has happened to me the last 3 times I have gone out day gaming -- as soon as I park my car or as I am parking my car, I see a cutie that I have to approach. I like to hit the ground running. If I see something I like, I don't hesitate (most of the time).

I immediately turn my back to her so I stay off her radar. I watch her in the reflection of my window and she is walking right past me but on the other side of the street. I think about immediately turning and walking straight over to her with an "excuse me" type of a line but I pussed out on that idea. She walked past me and was headed down the street..

I turn and follow. Usually, I can walk much faster then them and catch up to them in a few seconds. This girl was walking fast, I had to speed up, I though about a Yad/Sasha run up and jump in front of her approach but I talked myself out of it..

I walked faster, she turned back and looked at me, oh shit, now, I am on her radar, should say something sooner rather then later..?!?

I was close to her now, the sidewalk was crowded, it was now or never, she stepped in front of me, not on purpose, a food cart was passed by, I sped up so I was right next to her, the timing was perfect..

"hey careful" (very playful tone and big smile)

her: omg sorry
me: thats ok, its crazy out here
her: ya it is
me: i like your sweater robe poncho jacket thing (She was wearing a weird sweater-jacket)
her: haha oh thanks
me: i almost bought something similar on saturday (lie) Its so versatile.
her: exactly
me: you can dress it up or just wear it with sweats and it always works
her: ya its like getting 3 outfits for the price of one
me: haha good one. This is a nice material too
her: ya so comfy
me: can i touch it
her: yeah
me: oh nice


Blah, blah, blah. I tell her I'm gonna go buy the one I saw.

me: are you from around here?
her: no im from orange county
me: oh that explains your style
her: what!?
me: socal people dress better then norcal people
her: ya its just different
me: how long you been up here?
her: 2 years
me: you like it?
her: ya its really cool
me: different but still cool right?
her: ya its a great mix of things
me: what do you study?
her: liberal arts
me: oh good for you, study whatever the fuck you want
her: im gonna be a teacher though
me: thats smart, do liberal arts and then get your credential, dont waste your time in those education classes.
her: haha what do you study?
me: pe and sports psychology
her: cool
me: whats your name
her: raquel
me: i love that name, im gio, nice to meet you
her: you too
me: well have a nice day
her: you too
me: you know, raquel, would it be crazy if i said we should have coffee sometime?
her: oh no not at all
me: we can continue our chat
her: sure
me: if you give me your number i will call you in a few days
her: ok

I pretend to look for my phone in my pretend backback.

me: ok orange county whats that? 714?
her: yup
me: and then?
her xxx-xxxx
me: cool do you hike?
her: i do
me: ok, ill call you

I'll text her tonight at 8:45pm and say "hey raquel, nice meeting you yesterday - Gio"

Post: #558

^ did you stop and talk or keep walking and talk? the walking and talking never works for me

Post: #559

(04-03-2013 06:07 PM)GenJx Wrote:  ^ did you stop and talk or keep walking and talk? the walking and talking never works for me

95% was walking and talking. We didn't stop until the very end when I said, "whats your name".

We just stopped for a minute. You will get better with practice. I used to suck at it also.

Post: #560

(04-03-2013 05:57 PM)MattC Wrote:  That was a situation very well read, it's like preempting an excuse or a no from her. Like, what other reason could she give if you've already used her own trump card against her?

It was really interesting..!

It didn't even do it on purpose. I just did it instinctively. I did use her "trump card" against her, and she folded. It was beautiful. I learned alot from that approach.

Post: #561

I was in line at Whole Foods. Very cute 20 something white girl in front of me. She was holding her own carry basket. I asked her where she got it. She looked at me and her eyes lit up like diamonds. She had a big smile. Clearly happy that I opened her. Remember, I am in DC area. I NEVER see guys talk to girls in the daytime here.

She said she found it someplace. I asked about her purchase and she said she was cooking dinner tonight. She asked me a question about what I was buying, I explained I was going to make a healthy vegetable juice.

The entire exchange took about 60 seconds and her than her dull state college sports guy boyfriend walked up. His face was red and he was AMOGing (credit Soup) but would not look at me. Instead he put his arm around her and kissed her on the lips. She seemed slightly embarrassed and turned around, smiled, and said good bye.

I like day approaches. I need to do more.

Post: #562

Cute girl walks into the elevator with me at my building holding a Trader Joes bag.

Me - Oh cool, Trader Joes, I love that place
Her - Me too, but I had to walk today, it kind of far
Me- why, you don't have a car?
Her - yes, but it wont start.
Me-Meet me at the parking garage, I can help

I jump start her car. She is a recent GW Law school graduate and new to my neighborhood. I ask for her number, and say we should go running some time. She says sure and gives me here number.

I texted her 1 time, no response.

2 weeks later I see her that her beta chode boyfriend moved in with her. He is always walking her 10 pound little girly dog like a beaten down "man" at age 24.

I see them around the building all the time. I always give a big smile, say hi to both of them and give them both eye contact. I am the Alpha and they both know it.

Post: #563

great approaches guys, I'm hooked to this stuff.

Gio, have you done the Yad stop before? How did it go? I'm opening from the side but then it's a walking and talking approach. Thinking of transitioning to the Yad stop, but Yad stop also means going direct.I'm doing direct right now but from the side.

Post: #564

(04-03-2013 07:08 PM)NewGamer Wrote:  great approaches guys, I'm hooked to this stuff.

Gio, have you done the Yad stop before? How did it go? I'm opening from the side but then it's a walking and talking approach. Thinking of transitioning to the Yad stop, but Yad stop also means going direct.I'm doing direct right now but from the side.

I do one of two things:

First one is running a few steps ahead of the girl, turning around to face her and walk towards her with my hand held out and maintaining eye contact. Then I'll say "hey, stop for a moment".

Second one is running up to the side of them and with the front of THREE fingers, gently pushing on the front of her arm and stepping in front of her before talking.

Post: #565

(07-08-2012 11:41 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night:

1. Girl #1 next to me at bar, no way I'd ever hook up with her, but just got there and wanted to warm up. They put soda in her wine, asked her about that, made some light commentary.

2. Girls at our table for a birthday that were pulled in before I got there. Went to my guy friends first, ignored the girls. Eventually sat next to a busty blonde, solid 7. She opened me up, chatted for a bit, lots of negging, etc. Made a bet that her school was ranked worse than mine, I lost. Had to buy her a shot, told me she's going to bathroom and to wait for her to go dance. So I left when she left and back outside, to approach #3...

3. Blonde's friend. Cute girl that I wanted more than blonde. 7.5, lives in NYC. Asked her about it, no playful banter, more interview style. Blonde came back and cockblocked me. Saw cute girl looking at me a few times. Damnit.

4. Saw two girls standing by themselves, went up to one and asked if that's an adios motherfucker. It was. Had nothing else to say, so I actually said "that's all I got" and walked away.

5. Friend opened up two girls, went in there. Somehow she started saying stuff about being gay and lately I've taken this and exaggerated the shit out of it. Saying I'm super gay, never kissed a girl, etc. Girls love this amazingly. Probably because I do not come off as gay at all. Anyway turns out she hadn't had a date for over 2 years.

Those were all the approaches. Spent a lot of the night with the blonde, tried to get her to come home with me, were outside after bar closed but she wouldn't, so gave me her #. No date in 2 years girl I went up to her later in the night, and had to do so carefully cause blonde was around, told her I'm going to take you out on a date, that's ridiculous 2 years. She asked my birthday and upon finding out we were the same sign said it'll never work. Still was going back and forth, gave me her #. No response to text today. Will try to bone blonde this week, only have one week to do so before I leave on vacation. I've got to tone down my dickness level a bit. Night before had a girl go cold on me after telling her she was a 6/10 kisser when we made out. She was actually pretty damn good. Oh well.

These bitches are ass holes. I don't know how on earth can same sign doesn't work.....fucked up bitches....

Post: #566

Post: #567

Note to myself: be ready to approach 24/7.

Post: #568

(04-04-2013 03:52 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

Airport Approach:It's 5:30 in the morning, I am walking towards my gate slowly, My Nasons making click clock Noise, Confident as ever and am stealthly scanning the seating area , No targets in sight and then I see a young White Girl getting a message in an automated Message chair and thumbing away on her I-Phone, I see a power source next to the Massage chair and an empty seat.

I sit down on the seat across from her, get my laptop out and plug in to charge and start reading my Kindle with zero fucks given to the girl. She was still on her phone and stayed on for good 10 min and I was thinking , she is just another retarded young girls with I phone addiction problem, I am not approaching and then my Inner Lothario told me "you have nothing to lose by approaching, your flight is going to be announced in 10 min and there are no other Targets"

I Open the Girl even though she was still on her phone texting.

Me: Do these chairs give good message ?

Her: Oh yeah totally, I badly needed one as I have been travelling a lot from Seattle to Chicago to NYC to here, I was here on a Job Interview.

It was as if a flood gate had been opened and as if she was dying to talk to a real person

Me: So What brings you to my town.

Her: Job Interview?

Me: How do you like my town.

Her: There weren't many people in Downtown Bars last night.

Me: Oh yeah, Univ is on Springbreak and 40,000 students are not in town.

her: I didn't knew you guys have that many students.

Me: Yeah that's the beauty of this town, such a young feeling in the air all the time.

Her: Interesting, I ate at such and such place last night ,Food wasn't good....

Me: you should have gone a block over to the better restaurant for some serious Country cooking.

Her: Oh, I didn't knew anybody in town to give me recommendations.

Me: Well you do know, I'm Lothario.

She gets up from her chair, takes astep towards me,extends her hand and says

Her: I am Sana tabehnejad

Me: Great, Irani roots ?

Her: yes I was born in Mashhad, been here since I was 2. (I was surprised, she looked like a White Girl from Minneapolis)

Her: Where are you from ?, What do you do here ? etc etc

After that the Approach goes on a Auto mode, we exchange numbers and I tell her if she gets the Job in my town to call me , She said she will look forward to it but I should take her to that Bar and Restaurant that I was talking about.

My name got called on the Intercom, Apparantley my flight was being boarded and i wasn't paying attention and I was the last one on the Flight.

I did tell the gate agent I forgot something at the seat, came back and gave the girls a kiss on the cheek (She turned Red) and left ...

Hope she gets a Job in my town ........ If our paths ever cross again I'm going to cash the Spark I saw in her eye.

The airports are among my favorite places to make some magic happen. Strong work, brother.

Post: #569

Just got a girl's number on the DLR platform.

Been in Liverpool today to go see my Dad and was pretty tired from the two journeys and got back into London at around 9:30pm. I was walking slowly down the platform with my earphones in to get the DLR back home and I strolled past this short blonde girl who I could see was looking at me.

I haven't done any approaches in about a week and want to get a few done in the next week to find myself a nice little European girlfriend for the summer so thought I may as well chat to her as a bit of a warm up. She was cute, had a nice ass and dressed okay so I thought why not? I'd give her a 6.5 in total. I'm not totally interested in her, just wanted to get the gears grinding again.

I stop not too far away from her and shoot her a look after a few seconds and catch her eyes. I hold eye contact and she does briefly, before turning away. Shall I? Shan't I? She looks again really quickly then looks away. Yeah, fuck it. So I walk up to her next to her.

Me: Hey
Girl: Heeey (she smiles)
Me: Didn't your mother ever tell you it's rude to stare at someone?
Girl: Yeah but you were doing it too!
Me: That's right, I'm a creepy pervert.
Girl: (she giggles)
Me: You look cute today, what's the occasion?
Girl: Oh I've just been to my friend's for a Sunday dinner in Clapham and I'm on my way home, we do it every Sunday. I've got work tomorrow so I have to get back to bed early like a loser so I can get some sleep and be okay tomorrow
Me: Wow, thanks for your life story (cheeky smile)
Girl: Heeeyyy! (she hits me playfully)
Me: I'm Matt (I hold my hand out)
Girl: Nice to meet you, I'm Rosie (she takes my hand and smiles, her eyes are dazzling already)
Me: Ah, a nice English name. I don't know many Rosies (only the 3...)
Girl: Well now you do (standard response to that statement)
Me: Hey slow down young lady, I'm not sure if I want to get to know you yet. Tell me something cool about yourself
Girl: Oh my god, really?
Me: Yeah actually, the coolest thing about you
Girl: (giggles) I don't know! Errrrrmmmmm

She's thinking and going all red. I yawn really sarcastically.

Girl: Heyyy! (she hits me again playfully)
Me: You keep hitting me, I might have to go grass on you to the TFL people over there
Girl: Whatever! I can't think of anything. You tell me the coolest thing about you!
Me: I asked first
Girl: Come onnnn!
Me: Nope, you have to answer first

The train starts to pull in and she's still umming and ahhing, this is a great line I've used a couple of times and it really makes them qualify themselves to you because they really don't want to seem uncool. We get on the train and sit next to each other.

Girl: Okay, you tell me first then I'll tell you?
Me: Nope, I've already told you
Girl: Arrrgh! You're impossible

I grin cockily. After a minute she says

Girl: I went travelling in Australia a few years ago, I guess that's it. I went all down the Gold Coast and spent like 6 months there
Me: Great, now what's the coolest thing?
Girl: Oi! (she laughs again and hits me yet again)
Me: Cor, you like it rough huh?
Girl: Maaaybe
Me: Listen, put your number in my phone for me and I'm going to take you out sometime for a drink
Girl: Okay

I slowly pull my phone out of my pocket and I've got a message on whatsapp from another girl on there but it's nothing harmless. I can feel her eyes burning and I take my time as I get to the add contact bit on my phone and hand it to her. She adds it in hurriedly and hands it back.

Girl: So what do you do?
Me: What do you mean?
Girl: For work
Me: I do blah blah

We do a bit of small talk, real boring shit but I've made it to make myself seem interesting enough that she's hooked. I get off after a couple of stops

Me: Right, this is me. I'll text you some time and organise that drink, okay?
Girl: Okay, nice meeting you

I stand up and turn to her.

Me: What, no hug?
Girl: Oh! Sorry!

She stands up and I wrap my arms around her waist and she puts them over my shoulders and hold it for a second before releasing.

Me: Nice meeting you
Girl: You too! Speak to you soon!

I walk off coolly. I'm not gonna text her but at least I made her weekend, and warmed myself up for the week.

Post: #570

Nice approach Matt. Don't you get rusty from not approaching? I did terribly this weekend so I'm making it a goal to do at least 1 approach everyday versus going out on the weekends to make approaches.That way, come the weekend, I'm ready to go.

Post: #571

Yeah, anyone will be rusty after not approaching for a while and if they say otherwise they're a liar. If it's not fluffing up what you're saying, you'll feel a bit more anxious, and that sort of thing.

I like to think I've become quite social and will often talk to anyone I can be arsed to during my day if I can think of something to say which keeps me on top. So if I'm at the shop and buying something, I'll make sure I speak loudly and confidently and try get the person smiling or laughing. Not that fake shop assistant smile, like a genuine smile that he or she is happy they served me. That gets you feeling good and if you are to approach a girl after that, your state will already be up and she'll vibe off of that instead of having to build it up with her.

Or if I'm on the tube I might comment on something in the paper that the person next to me is reading, or what they have with them (there are a lot of "uncommon" things happening in London day to day which offers me these opportunities). Simple stuff like this helps.

Even saying hello to people as you walk past them gets your state up and you feel warmed up already. I noticed walking to work a few times I'd see a couple of people I know from the gym on the way there and a few simple "hi mate"s improved my mood massively.

The thing is, breaking that social barrier that people have up even with a simple "hello" puts you above pretty much everyone else out there, let alone if you're hitting on girls on the street. You'll feel more confident even for doing that and it's a great warm up.

Post: #572

(04-07-2013 05:27 PM)MattC Wrote:  Just got a girl's number on the DLR platform.

Been in Liverpool today to go see my Dad and was pretty tired from the two journeys and got back into London at around 9:30pm. I was walking slowly down the platform with my earphones in to get the DLR back home and I strolled past this short blonde girl who I could see was looking at me.

I haven't done any approaches in about a week and want to get a few done in the next week to find myself a nice little European girlfriend for the summer so thought I may as well chat to her as a bit of a warm up. She was cute, had a nice ass and dressed okay so I thought why not? I'd give her a 6.5 in total. I'm not totally interested in her, just wanted to get the gears grinding again.

I stop not too far away from her and shoot her a look after a few seconds and catch her eyes. I hold eye contact and she does briefly, before turning away. Shall I? Shan't I? She looks again really quickly then looks away. Yeah, fuck it. So I walk up to her next to her.

Me: Hey
Girl: Heeey (she smiles)
Me: Didn't your mother ever tell you it's rude to stare at someone?
Girl: Yeah but you were doing it too!
Me: That's right, I'm a creepy pervert.
Girl: (she giggles)
Me: You look cute today, what's the occasion?
Girl: Oh I've just been to my friend's for a Sunday dinner in Clapham and I'm on my way home, we do it every Sunday. I've got work tomorrow so I have to get back to bed early like a loser so I can get some sleep and be okay tomorrow
Me: Wow, thanks for your life story (cheeky smile)
Girl: Heeeyyy! (she hits me playfully)
Me: I'm Matt (I hold my hand out)
Girl: Nice to meet you, I'm Rosie (she takes my hand and smiles, her eyes are dazzling already)
Me: Ah, a nice English name. I don't know many Rosies (only the 3...)
Girl: Well now you do (standard response to that statement)
Me: Hey slow down young lady, I'm not sure if I want to get to know you yet. Tell me something cool about yourself
Girl: Oh my god, really?
Me: Yeah actually, the coolest thing about you
Girl: (giggles) I don't know! Errrrrmmmmm

She's thinking and going all red. I yawn really sarcastically.

Girl: Heyyy! (she hits me again playfully)
Me: You keep hitting me, I might have to go grass on you to the TFL people over there
Girl: Whatever! I can't think of anything. You tell me the coolest thing about you!
Me: I asked first
Girl: Come onnnn!
Me: Nope, you have to answer first

The train starts to pull in and she's still umming and ahhing, this is a great line I've used a couple of times and it really makes them qualify themselves to you because they really don't want to seem uncool. We get on the train and sit next to each other.

Girl: Okay, you tell me first then I'll tell you?
Me: Nope, I've already told you
Girl: Arrrgh! You're impossible

I grin cockily. After a minute she says

Girl: I went travelling in Australia a few years ago, I guess that's it. I went all down the Gold Coast and spent like 6 months there
Me: Great, now what's the coolest thing?
Girl: Oi! (she laughs again and hits me yet again)
Me: Cor, you like it rough huh?
Girl: Maaaybe
Me: Listen, put your number in my phone for me and I'm going to take you out sometime for a drink
Girl: Okay

I slowly pull my phone out of my pocket and I've got a message on whatsapp from another girl on there but it's nothing harmless. I can feel her eyes burning and I take my time as I get to the add contact bit on my phone and hand it to her. She adds it in hurriedly and hands it back.

Girl: So what do you do?
Me: What do you mean?
Girl: For work
Me: I do blah blah

We do a bit of small talk, real boring shit but I've made it to make myself seem interesting enough that she's hooked. I get off after a couple of stops

Me: Right, this is me. I'll text you some time and organise that drink, okay?
Girl: Okay, nice meeting you

I stand up and turn to her.

Me: What, no hug?
Girl: Oh! Sorry!

She stands up and I wrap my arms around her waist and she puts them over my shoulders and hold it for a second before releasing.

Me: Nice meeting you
Girl: You too! Speak to you soon!

I walk off coolly. I'm not gonna text her but at least I made her weekend, and warmed myself up for the week.

Why don't you feel like texting her?
Seems like a nice and easy lay to me,
but eh if you don't feel like smashing you must have your own reasons

Post: #573

Basically because I'll find a better girl during the week to spend my time and money on.

I may see if she's up for coming over and having drinks here as I can't be arsed taking her out, and if not then I'm not fussed. I've got other priorities at the moment and unless I see a girl I'm really into and one that knocks me over, dating is gonna take a step back for a while. I'm gonna still do approaches though, I need to keep them up.

Post: #574

Approached a cute Japanese chick after class at uni. Saw her walking down the stairs and opened with "Hey, where are we walking too?". First thing that came upon my mind, she was a bit surprised but responded well. Bullshitted a bit then asked her if she wanted to get a coffee, was a bit hesitant at first as it was a bit forward but she agreed. Talked to her for about 30mins as she had a class coming but it was me mainly carrying the conversation as she admitted she was a bit shy. Got her number and said goodbyes.

A lot of talent in my uni this year im quite excited.

Post: #575

(04-07-2013 05:27 PM)MattC Wrote:  She stands up and I wrap my arms around her waist and she puts them over my shoulders and hold it for a second before releasing.

Nice approach. It seems like that girl was really falling for you. Have you ever thought about kiss-closing a girl at the end of a very good day-game approach?

Ive had the same kind of experience on trains, airplanes and other places, where I ended up sitting next to a cute girl, having great convos and doing some mild kino. Of course I would number-close at the end, but then sometimes I had the feeling that the girl would appreciate a seemingly innocent little kiss close as well.
While great convos will decrease the assumable flake rate, a kiss close will be much more memorable and minimise it even further, if not put it to almost zero.
On the other side, a quick kiss-close during day time might fail and scare the girl off, eliminating all work done with the approach and the convo.


Any experiences with that? Would it be worth to take the risk from time to time.