Post: #526

(03-11-2013 02:57 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Giovonny's smart. Wears quiet shoes so they can't hear him approaching

I also never approach or touch them from behind. I don't want to scare or startle them.

I don't like to give the impression that I am sneaking up on them.

Even though I probably followed them for 3 blocks!

I want it all to seem -- Serendipitous. A random but sexy encounter between two strangers.

(03-11-2013 10:12 PM)slubu Wrote:  By the way, if anyone's wondering, Gio actually comes close to word for word transcription of his approaches.

I don't know how I am able to do this???

I usually don't have a great memory. I was a shitty researcher and test taker. For some reason, I can remember almost every word of my approaches. It's like a have a photographic memory when it comes to approaching girls.

I think the reason is obvious...

I am fully invested into Game. My total heart, soul, passion, energy, and life force is dedicated to this. I go into an alternate reality. I have an out of body experience. My mind takes on super powers. Or, maybe I just care about this alot. Nothing brings me as much fullfillment.

Time for lunch. In 45 minutes, I will try to make time to post my recent Valentines Day approaches. Got a free solid numbers.

I have to make it look like I'm working at the office!

When I'm about to type a post, I say -- "ok, let me send a few important emails before 3"

Post: #527

On Valentines day, I put on some nice slacks and a nice shirt and went out day gaming. I have been having more success by presenting myself as a business professional rather then my usual style shorts, t-shirt, sneakers. Fashion has helped me alot.

I was parking my car when I saw a cute Latina..

I quickly park and start walking in her direction. She is walking fast so I hurry up. I have no idea what I will say to her. I just know I have to catch up to her first. I start thinking about what I might say? I don't really think about it too much. I trust myself. I know something will come out of my mouth. She stops, she goes thru her purse, I walk up in front of her, a good 10 feet away so I don't get into her personal space, which would have seemed unnecessary and awkward at that moment...

me: what year is this? i love these pontiacs (one of my standard street openers)
her: oh, this is not my car, sorry
me: i wanted to offer you 10 thousand for it, damn, are you sure?
her: oh ya, its not mine
me: too bad, what are you doing standing next to it?
her: i'm just looking for my phone case
me: you got too much stuff in there, time for a spring cleaning
her: ha i know

I notice her yellow Lance Armstrong jacket.

me: your boy was cheating
her: whaaa
me: you boy lance
her: oh this, there were all cheating
me: maybe your right
her: well take care
me: ok

She starts walking away, pretty forcefully. Do I tell her to stop? Say - "excuse me", or run and catch up to her..???

I do nothing. It was my first approach of the day and I wasn't worried about it. I start to enter the mall. Then I get this weird feeling..

I don't want to let her get away. She never rejected me, she never denied me, she just kind of walked away. She didn't know I was flirting with her!?!

I think I can get her. I walk back out to where we were talking. I see her sitting in her car. She starts it, she backs out, she put the car in gear and slowly accelerates..

I step in front of her car just a half step and wave my arm and smile. She rolls down her window cautiously..

me: hey, i forgot to ask you something
her: whats that
me: can i call you later, i know its random but i thought you looked nice and wanted to flirt with you but you walked away, my name is gio (I hold out my hand)
her: oh hi nicole
me: i thought that was your car and everything so you know (i was pretending to be a little nervous)
her: its okay, how old are you
me: what? take a guess
her: 28
me: close 29 (i'm 37) How bout you?
her: im 19
me: oh, well i would say that you are too young for me but the way you handled yourself the whole car thing makes me think that you are pretty mature for your age.
her: thanks
me: do you go to school around here?
her: yes i go to usf
me: oh nice, well would you be interested in having a drink with a slightly older gentlemen? i will text you in a few days and we can go to the cheesecake factory right around the corner.
her: sure

I take her number. I text her a few days later. We can't make a date that week. We continue some light texting for about 2 weeks. Good flow to it. She says she is available this week. I will text her tmw.

More of these to come soon. Got 2 more good ones on Valentines day. Gotta go back to work!

Post: #528

You are 37 and she thought you were 28, damn, thats whats up.

Post: #529

Nice gio! a lot of times i'm having a good conversation and i let the girl walk away for some reason. have to push it to the end always

Post: #530

Gotta start taking care of myself, that's for sure. I want to be doing this as well when I'm 37. If I start now I might be half as good as Gio one day.

Stepping in front of her car... Isn't that kinda cree... ballsy?

Post: #531

(03-12-2013 05:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  me: oh, well i would say that you are too young for me but the way you handled yourself the whole car thing makes me think that you are pretty mature for your age.

Can't tell you how crucial this is with younger girls.. Statements like these scream "DADDY'S APPROVAL"! They also communicate that you want to hang out with her for who she is and not because she is some fit young girl (which is what they get 99.9% of the time). It basically validation and a reason for seeing you again. The smiling and light hearted demeanour that went along with this didn't hurt either Gio. IMO sometimes smiling and light heartedness is the difference between coming off as a creepy stalker or coming across as a fun, pleasant, charming man.

Post: #532

(03-12-2013 05:38 PM)pitt Wrote:  You are 37 and she thought you were 28, damn, thats whats up.

It's funny, last month, I was going to bed after midnight almost every night. When I asked girls to guess my age, they all said 34 or 35.

I knew I didn't look rested and fresh.

This month, I got back to going to bed at 10pm. Now, girls are guessing my age to be a 28 or 29. I look fresh and youthful.

That's why its called "beauty sleep". The secret to my game is sleep.

(03-13-2013 07:05 AM)gandt Wrote:  Can't tell you how crucial this is with younger girls.. Statements like these scream "DADDY'S APPROVAL"! They also communicate that you want to hang out with her for who she is and not because she is some fit young girl

Good point. Well said..

(03-13-2013 07:05 AM)gandt Wrote:  It basically validation and a reason for seeing you again. The smiling and light hearted demeanour that went along with this didn't hurt either Gio. IMO sometimes smiling and light heartedness is the difference between coming off as a creepy stalker or coming across as a fun, pleasant, charming man.

Yes. The difference between "creepy" and freindly is often body language, facial expressions, mannerisms, etc.

(03-12-2013 09:35 PM)freshcream Wrote:  Stepping in front of her car... Isn't that kinda cree... ballsy?

Yes, there is a fine line sometimes. I used to be a bit more creepy when I did this stuff. Now, I have gotten much better at presenting it as ballsy and alpha. The difference is just clothes, body language, vibe, facial expressions, voice tone, posture, confidence, etc.

So much is sub-communicated non-verbally.

Post: #533

I recently created my personal best opener and it has liberated me from the feeling of a girl being off limits because I don't know what to say when approaching. I put it to use with rigorous field testing this past weekend and was rewarded with number after number and got to making out with a gorgeous latina girl after 30-40 minutes of talking.
The below material is MINE but I suggest adapting it for your own use. It works in Day & Night game, and subtly flatters the girl when you act like she is familiar and have already established friendly rapport from a supposed previous meeting. It is designed to get you through the first 5-15 minutes of conversation with multiple opportunities to explore any number of subjects. This gets you past the initial "who the fuck are you and what do you want?" barriers.


How I Carry Conversation with Small Talk

The difference between small talk and normal conversations: in small talk, no particular subject is focused on. Instead rapport is created by conversing over any number of topics until a certain level of comfort is built.
Format followed: pose a question, and then add negging laced feedback to it. This builds comfort by establishing common ground with your dominance.

Convo starter with Icey chicks (always assuming they're answering in the negative), always be moving the conversation forward.

*Opening - She's distant & even threatened:
Me: Hey, you're Michelle right?
Her: No I'm not Michelle
Me: What's your name?
Her: Holly
Me: You look familiar from the *beach* earlier.. have you been to the *beach* this year?
Her: No
Me: Are you from here?
Her: No
Me: Where are you from?
Her: Nashville
Me: I used to live in vegas for 10 years, then I finally moved back/how long have you been here?
Her: Thats cool, --> I've been here 2 years

*After being opened she's more agreeable & decreasing her threat for you while you're DHV'ing:
Me: Not really, its way better here.
Her: Ya
Me: Do you travel much?
Her: No
Me: I traveled a bunch in eastern Europe last summer, Prague is my favorite city. Have you ever been in Europe?
Her: Nope
Me: Oh you have to go in the summer. The dollar goes a long way in the Czech Republic, and/or, a pint of beer costs a dollar.
Her: Thats nice
Me: At night, the party doesn't start until midnight, and last call isn't till 5 or 6.
Her: Cool/Really?
Me: Thats when the first subways and trains begin to run. Have you ever ridden subways?
Her: Nope
Me: Its weird cause all European cities are laid out well for subways and trains. But the US is so new, especially west coast cities, we're more spread out for cars.
Her: Yea thats true

*She begins to IOI:
Me: Whats the oldest city you've been to?
Her: I don't know
Me: I think its important to experience places that are old. Would you be a traveler, or a tourist?
Her: Whats the difference?
*Holding eye contact*
Me: I say a traveler is someone who goes to experience a place more through its people. a tourist doesn't.
Her: What do you mean?
Me: A tourist doesn't spend as much time as a traveler does interacting with people from the city. Tourist's are mainly focused on relaxing, whatever they do for the day its important they never feel uncomfortable, and they're always eating out at restaurants.
Her: And what does a traveler eat?
Me: A traveler might be eating dinner on a train, or at someone's house they've met, or eating while interacting with the people around them.
Her: Okay
Me: Some people just want to relax when they're not working, I respect that, but between the choice of relaxing, or having fun experiencing a new place. I'll take the more active role.
Her: Yea, I'm more of a traveler

*Negging while escalating tension:
Me: Do you wear contacts? / Glasses: I like your glasses.
Her: No / Thanks
*Hold eye contact and move closer*
Me: I wouldn't be able to make eye contact with you if I didn't have contacts.
Her: Ok
Me: Holly, what color are your eyes?
Her: Green
Me: Well
*Hold out your hand until she holds out hers, then take it and slowly move your grip up and down*
Me: You seem nice, I'm [Name] by the way.
Her: Nice meeting you too
*Release her hand and place yours at her side lightly touching it while grinning*
Me: I'm glad we met by mistake.
*Pull in a little closer, and/or using the hand touching her side*
Her: Me too
*Look down at her lips, then slowly look back up to her eyes*
-If she hasn't broken eye contact the entire time then go in for the kiss.
-If shes still a bit distracted then continue negging while qualifying:
Me: Do you cook?
Her: A little
Me: Well you seem like you eat healthy, you don't shop at Whole Foods do you?
Her: Thanks, yea/no/sometimes
Me: Everyone there is so serious, are you very serious?
Her: yea/no/sometimes
*Pull in a little closer with a smirk*
Me: Is this your serious face or nice face?
*Look down at her lips again*

-Gauge her reactions.
Decide to keep escalating or go for the kiss.
If she backs up or responds with something like, "Its my chill face, or my whatever face" then you need to move on.

Post: #534

(03-12-2013 05:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  me: hey, i forgot to ask you something
her: whats that
me: can i call you later, i know its random but i thought you looked nice and wanted to flirt with you but you walked away, my name is gio (I hold out my hand)
her: oh hi nicole
me: i thought that was your car and everything so you know (i was pretending to be a little nervous)
her: its okay, how old are you
me: what? take a guess
her: 28
me: close 29 (i'm 37) How bout you?
her: im 19
me: oh, well i would say that you are too young for me but the way you handled yourself the whole car thing makes me think that you are pretty mature for your age.
her: thanks
me: do you go to school around here?
her: yes i go to usf
me: oh nice, well would you be interested in having a drink with a slightly older gentlemen? i will text you in a few days and we can go to the cheesecake factory right around the corner.
her: sure

Hold up. USF? You live in Tampa?

Post: #535

University of San Francisco. It's a small college in SF that rich chicks who can't get into Cal or Stanford go to.

Post: #536

(03-13-2013 07:54 PM)Ensam Wrote:  University of San Francisco. It's a small college in SF that rich chicks who can't get into Cal or Stanford go to.

Oh, never mind. USF=University of South Florida for me.

Post: #537

Couple of noteworthy approaches going on this week.

Cute little girl passes me and we cross the street and I make chase.Small and tiny... I love it. I catch up to her and jump in front.

Excuse me.... this may be a bit random... but I literally just passed you on the crosswalk... I couldn't help but notice something about you... so I ran to catch up with you... You are really cute so I figured I'd come over and say hi.

Her: Oh thanks!!!

I tell her she's got this great wholesome look to her. I then I make up stereo typical farm town shit. Like she probably raced tractors growing up.

Her: No I'm fromm blah blah blah.

Some ore chit chat.

Her: Look I got to go what are you doing later?

Me: Meeting you for drinks.

Her: I get off at 3:30

Me: I'm off at 4pm lets meet then.

Her: Sounds good see you then.

I go to meet her at 4pm and she flakes. Right as I'm about to leave this cute black chick walks by on her headphones. I give chase!

Same type of opener.

I tell her she looks like she's in her own little world. I'll guess you're listening to Mozart.

her: smiles... no just normal stuff

I go into normal talk. Where she's from, what's she doing out, and what does she like to do for fun. I don't ask them straight up questions like that though. I like to make statements.

You have a very different style to you. You're probably not from around here. Most girls dress like xyz and you have a, b, c which is different. She'll then go into her background and I can free flow the conversation from there.

Me: Listen... I got a spare 10 minutes. Why don't we go get a tea.

her: Ok

I get a good 20 minute instant date. Find out she's 19. I'm 36. She doesn't ask me about my age though. I'm suited down so she's going to guess late 20's - 30's.

*****

I'm standing outside enjoying my lunch break when a cute asian walks by. Away I go!

Standard opener. I like to follow it up though with what I noticed about her and then throw in a tease, much like krauser only I don't make each unique to the girl. I use general ones on girls that I feel share the same qualities.

"You're cute but you have this really determined look to you. It reminds me of when my little 4 year old niece tries to not draw outside the lines."

This is one of my better sets. Krauser talks about "maybe" girls. I slowly win her over from who the fuck is this guy to "oh my god this guy is awesome".

Conversation is pretty standard. I throw out some assumptions to latch on to things to talk about. Once a solid topic comes up I'm golden. I like to throw in a bit of teasing, a healthy dose of eye fucking, and a dose of being challenging.

Number closed her and have a date set up for next week. During our texts she tells me how nobody has ever approached her like this and how much she loved it.

Post: #538

Got last Friday's approach in my blog.

Only done 3 since then on account of being ill this week.

Sunday:

A girl (7) is walking through the mall in Canary Wharf, nothing too special but enough to perk my interest. I'm walking back to work.

Me: Hey, you look lost
Girl: I am! I'm looking to get home but I dunno where to go!
Me: Come

She follows me to the DLR station

Me: Okay, you wanna go here blah blah blah
Girl: Great, thanks!
Me: It's gonna cost you a fiver though. I don't do anything for free
Girl: What?!
Me: Yeah, I'll send you my paypal details and you can wire it to me when I get home tonight
Girl: Ha ha! You're so cheeky
Me: You know, you're actually pretty cute. I only spoke to you because I saw your ass when you turned around and I thought it was pretty sexy
Girl: (blushing) Thanks
Me: What do you do with yourself missy?
Girl: I do blah blah blah

A bit of small talk

Me: Right. I have to get back to work, but I'm going to take you out for a drink some time.
Girl: Oh are you now?
Me: Yes. Put your number in my phone and I'll text you some time

She puts it in

Me: Have a good night, seeya
Girl: I might not get home though, I might get lost
Me: Okay, I'll give you a missed call. That way if you need me then you have my number and can call me

I give her a missed call, she saves it, a bit of small talk again. As we're parting ways, I tell her to text me when she gets home, she says she might never make it and I reply "Well seeya never then". She texts me when she gets home and is responding to my texts within a minute of each one.

Tonight:

After last Friday night's success, I'm interested in how successful hitting on girls is on the tube platform at the end of a night out. I get onto the platform after an unsuccessful meet up with 2 girls (one messaged me on OKCupid and I said to bring a mate along for Bojangles and we'll head to a bar tonight. Weren't interested in either as them as it turns out) and unfortunately there's no talent on there.

I get on the tube and at the stop before mine, a girl (8.5) gets on. She kinda looks like the singer September and she's wearing this long grey skirt that shows her nice feminine hips. It's fucking quiet on the tube so I write this on my phone...

   

...and walk over to her to show it to her. She smiles and says thanks. I don't think it's on. As I back away she shows me she's playing some weird game on her phone.

Girl: It's not going very well unfortunately, that's probably why
Me: I see

I'm standing there, just looking at her and she's gazing back at me

Girl: Thank you though, that's the nicest thing someone has said to me on the tube
Me: That you look angry? I suppose you don't get many people talking to you then huh?
Girl: (giggling) No I don't actually!

I walk closer to her and put out my hand with a cheeky smile

Me: I'm Matt
Girl: I'm Susie
Me: And what do you do Susie?
Girl: I'm a hairdresser blah blah blah

Some small talk

Girl: Where are you getting off?
Me: Bank (next stop)
Girl: Ohhh okay (sad face)

I realised that she was down for it but I'm still kind of ill and really didn't want to spend the night with someone tonight, especially with daygame to come tomorrow.

Me: (handing her my phone) Put your number in my phone please
Girl: Oh, look at you! Direct, I like that (she takes my phone, puts her number in)
Me: I'm going to take you out for a drink some time
Girl: Okay, that sounds good

I give her a kiss on the cheek and leave the train. Will text her tomorrow, not so arsed about the previous one now but we'll see.

I get onto the DLR platform at Bank, I see a girl who's easily a 9 standing there alone. I'm hesitant at first but then think fuck it.

Me: Excuse me, you're standing in my spot
Girl: What?
Me: That's my spot and you're in it. That's where I stand
Girl: Are you serious?
Me: Deadly

She moves away and I stand where she was, she moves around me. I keep looking forward

Girl: Really, you're serious?
Me: (with a cheeky smile) Oh yeah, deadly serious.
Girl: Oh my God! I can't believe I fell for that! (laughing)
Me: I'm Matt (I put my hand out)
Girl: Sorry, I'm not interested
Me: Fine, but don't leave me hanging
Girl: I don't know where your hand's been
Me: Yeah, I suppose you're right. I shook a girl's hand earlier and I'm pretty sure she picks her nose
Girl: What?!
Me: I know, disgusting
Girl: There's so many weird people around. I always come across them
Me: Where do you hang out?
Girl: Where weird people are
Me: Cool...

I turn away, knowing it's not on. The train comes like a minute later and she says to me as she get's on "That's a pretty good line though, I'll use it some time".

Me: You don't need to
Girl: What do you mean?
Me: You're a girl, all you need to do is smile at a guy and he'll move Heaven and Earth to come to you
Girl: No he won't

Blah blah. She got all pissy as I'm laughing away. Oh well, you win some, you lose some.

I've changed my number close with girls ever since that "Put your number in my phone" video. My usual close was "let's exchange numbers and we'll meet up some time" with varied success, but commanding a girl "put your number in my phone" seems to be much more effective, followed by a "I'm going to take you out some time". I'll text tonight's girl tomorrow and see if she's receptive.

Post: #539

Went to a sporting event with my mate. You park somewhere and they bus you to the event. Long story short didn't approach anyone at the event itself. So we're leaving and getting onto the bus, were the last two ones on. My mate sits down next to some dude, I have to go further back in the bus and boom have to sit next to cute asian chick:

me: you getting off here? (bus stopped for some odd reason)
her: no I don't think so
me: so is this your first time going to the (event)?
her: Yea! It was fun but a little cold. Thought it was going to me warmer.

we talk a little more about the event, just to keep it going. Found out her sister had an extra ticket that's why she was there yada yada yada

me: So what do you think about these pants? (I wore flashy douchebag pants)
her: Uhh yea they're loud
me: Hey I got two compliments today on them, both from the same person. Some black woman loved them. (true)
her: Hahaha

more talk on where she lives. She lives close and works for a medical device co. I also live in the area too...

bus about to stop

me: What's your phone#?
her: Umm excuse me?
me: You seem fun to talk to we should get a drink sometime
her: Are you crazy???
me: Maybe (pull out phone, she hesitates for a few seconds watching me with my fingers entering her # waiting...)
me: Forget it
her: No wait (she gives me her number)
me: Name? (I'm just sitting there with my finger on the name box)
her: Christina

Everyone is leaving the bus. The dudes to my right have to pick their jaws up from the floor they were stunned. I let her leave first so I could check out her ass which I didn't see before this all started...yes not bad for asian chick.

her: SO what's your name??
me: Crazy guy with flannel pants is gonna text you that later
her: Hahaha ok!

Just texted her my name with wink emoji. Will try to set up drink get together next week. Gents: first # I've pulled in public from chick. Wouldn't have happened without this forum.

Post: #540

Nice one lad.

Post: #541

This Thread has picked up again....., I was dormant in my hometown but Gio's new posts inpired me to Approach again. I did 2 solid Approaches on College/Uni white Girls just like I like em......., Will post details later.

Highlight : I did my first ever Approach in another Language , Yes Spanish ... In DR at Sambil Plaza in SD, yes I got the number. Total of 4 Approaches in Sambil got 3 numbers out of 4, Funny thing is it was all in Spanish. The one that didn't give me the number was outside the mall buying a soda from a colmido and I motioned to her and asked the driver to stop the car, Reapproached and got the number. 4 out of 4 . I will try to post the Approaches in Spanish next week after I return.

I love this shit , honestly I was euphoric approaching yesterday to almost the same level as Banging the night before...

Post: #542

Went out daygaming in central London today with Bojangles. I'm sure he'll write his approaches up later. It was pissing it down with rain, umbrellas everywhere and not much talent in sight. It was also packed with large groups of betas and uglies for St Patrick's day clogging up Picadilly Circus and Regent Street. Managed to do 4 in total and got 2 numbers. I'm loving the "put your number in my phone" close. I'll stick the 2 numbers I got up otherwise this post will be really long. I'll write the blowouts up later if anyone is interested.

I've been ill all week and coughing and spluttering everywhere still so I'm not on it. We're walking down Regent Street and I see this Chinese girl (8) dressed up in a coat and skirt with some heels. She has these killer legs and she's crossing the road. We carry on walking. I look back at her legs. Damn. We carry on walking. I turn around to look again. Fuck it. I run after her, cross the road on Regent Street and chase her down.

Me: Hey, excuse me
Girl: Hmm?
Me: Take your earphones out (I'm motioning too)
Girl: Yeah?
Me: So I was just walking down the street with my mate and I saw you crossing the road
Girl: Okay...
Me: You speak English right?
Girl: Yes! I'm from Leeds!
Me: Oh no! Not Leeds
Girl: I knowww...!
Me: So anyway, I saw you crossing the road right, and I think to myself that if I don't go and speak to you I'm gonna be kicking myself all day
Girl: Okay...(blushing)
Me: I think you're really cute. My name's Matt (hold my hand out)
Girl: Thank you hehe! I'm Amanda
Me: So Amanda, why are you all dressed up today?
Girl: (giggling and laughing like fuck) What's going on? Are you pranking me? I feel like I'm getting pranked
Me: Yeah, there's 4 cameras up there (I point), 8 cameras up there (I point again) and I'm gonna send this to MTV
Girl: Har har
Me: Honestly, I'm the kind of guy where if I see a girl I like the looks of I'll just go and say hi. (I look her up and down) And I think you look really sexy today
Girl: Thanks (blushing again)
Me: So tell me cheeky, why are you all dressed up? Where are you heading to?
Girl: I'm going to a bar to see my friends for St Patricks Day
Me: Okay
Girl: Is this what you do? Just stop random girls on the street?
Me: Oh yeah, it's my full time job. You're my 42nd today
(Girl is laughing like crazy again, she's obviously attracted)
Me: What are you doing in London then if you're from Leeds, missy?
Girl: I work at blah blah

Some small talk and stacking, etc

Girl: Anyway I really have to go and see my friends
Me: Okay well listen, I'm going to take you out for a drink some time
Girl: (giggling again) Really?
Me: Yes, so I'll tell you what. Put your number in my phone

I hand her my phone and she puts the number in

Me: Alright, I'll text you some time and we'll arrange it
Girl: Okay, I'll speak to you later
Me: Have fun with your mates
Girl: I will

We start walking away, she stops

Girl: Oh, that really is my number, okay?

She smiles at me and then walks away all flustered. Funny girl but that was hard for a warm up.

----

Next girl is walking down the road looking kind of lost and she's a 7. She looks European and has those stupid big ass glasses on with the thick frames and she's wearing a similar coloured coat to me. I walk up to her face on.

Me: Hey, stop there for a second (with my hand raised)
Girl: Okay!
Me: I have to tell you something
Girl: Okay...
Me: I think you have great taste in colour

She looks at my coat and hers and it clicks after a second. She starts laughing

Girl: Looks that way!
Me: However, those glasses are terrible. I bet they're those ones that aren't even proper glasses
Girl: Nooo they're real! See!

She takes them off and gives them to me to try on

Me: Hey! It's all fuzzy!
Girl: See!
Me: Yeah yeah

She tries to take them back

Me: No wait, I wanna keep them on, you look better when you're all blurry
Girl: Oi!

She hits me playfully smiling and I hand them back

Me: I actually stopped you because I think you're cute like a little mouse
Girl: Aww thanks (blushing)
Me: I'm Matt (hand out again)
Girl: Nice to meet you Matt (shaking hands)
Me: And your name?
Girl: I'm Lucy
Me: And why are you looking so lost today Lucy?
Girl: I'm trying to find this bar where my friends are for St Patricks Day
Me: Oh no, not another one! What's the name of it?

Blah blah, she's from England (boooo) and we do some small talk. She asks what I do, where I live in London, what I'm doing today and all that. Same close as before (I'm gonna take you for a drink some time) and I got the number.

The other two aren't too dissimilar to the first, two girls who genuinely seemed in a rush where I wasn't able to build much vibe. They kept reiterating they had to be somewhere not giving me a chance to build on anything so it didn't go anywhere.

Can't wait for the weather to warm up.

Post: #543

^ I like this direct style, as you may get blown out quicker when it isn't working, but at least you know if you're in there or not!

Post: #544

You know where you're at with the girl yeah, and you also make your intentions fully clear with her so she doesn't think you're just being friendly. London is fast paced and it really works here but I imagine elsewhere in the UK girls will be just as responsive.

It really throws girls off, and you get a lot of shit tests so it's all about maintaining your frame. It's the most effective in my opinion. Krauser does direct approaching brilliantly which is why I think he's the best guy on the planet.

Post: #545

Well I recently bought his book to help my direct daygame, so that compliment you paid him has fired me up to read it tonight!

Post: #546

I'd recommend going through his blog from the start too. It really helped me.

Post: #547

I was carrying a newly purchased Surface Pro and a cute girl standing behind me opened me with "Did you just buy a Surface? Is it good?"

Post: #548

I approached a group of about 6 russian girls..FOB accents and all.
Didnt know what to do..the cold heartedness of these chicks..
They just sat looking pretty. but never rejected me me or said they didnt wanna talk
they just didnt have shit to say.

I wasnt trying to waste time so i left them
But ran into them again around 2am. and they invited me to some russian club they were going to.
I said no by then. I didnt trust them.
For a group of chicks to seem so cold and then agree to go to another club...seemed sketch.

Post: #549

(03-20-2013 12:44 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  I approached a group of about 6 russian girls..FOB accents and all.
Didnt know what to do..the cold heartedness of these chicks..
They just sat looking pretty. but never rejected me me or said they didnt wanna talk
they just didnt have shit to say.

I wasnt trying to waste time so i left them
But ran into them again around 2am. and they invited me to some russian club they were going to.
I said no by then. I didnt trust them.
For a group of chicks to seem so cold and then agree to go to another club...seemed sketch.

According to my experience and my russian friends this is typical hot russian girl behavior:

they require the men to constantly "wow" them. They don't have super high bitch shields in the sense that they will certainly give you the time of day if you approach them, BUT if at any point you slip up or become "boring" in their eyes consider the interaction finished.

The wow factor includes dressing flashy/nice, making them laugh, etc... If you are expecting them to be an equal participant in the interaction you are in for a treat. As you experienced first hand, it can be off-putting.

Post: #550

I did my first direct day approach today! It's crazy how women and the people around react with surprise and shock. Apparently,we're breaking social norms. I'm with my wing and we're walking the streets of Chicago.We enter a starbucks, grab some coffee and look for targets.My buddy sees a young college student working on some stuff on her desk and just leans over and opens her. The guy sitting a few seats from her is just shocked! He gave my buddy the WTF look that was saying "How can you just walk up to a random girl and talk to her?"

We go out and after a few minutes, I see a cute girl walking by herself, I just go direct. I open with "you look really nice, I had to say hello", she was shocked but warmed up to me...some small talk and then her family came up from behind her and she had to go before I could establish anything.

This stuff is crazy! I think once I do more approaches and get good.. I can kill it since nobody does it here and it's easier to stand out versus hitting on women at the bar.