Post: #501

It's NYE, my friends and I are at a preparty with no good prospects so we try to get to a club before midnight to leverage the whole midnight kiss deal. We find a venue that looks good, go in and walk towards the dance floor but I immediately see three blondes by the bar. One of them is an 8, so I go up to her and say "You seem kinda cute, maybe I'll let you be my midnight kiss"
her: "excuse me?
me: "well, hold on, turn around, let me double check"
her (raising an eyebrow, but with a shy smile): "what?"
I turned her around by the hips, take a look at her behind, then turn her back to face me and go: "Okay, yeah, that will do"
her: "hem, excuse me?!"
me, ignoring her objections: "ok, I need to get a drink, let's take some shots, here order them for me" (since she's between me and the bar)
I give her my cc, she asks me which shots, and then orders them
me: "where the hell did my buddy go?" (my wing apparently got tired of her friends who admittedly didn't seem very receptive and weren't that hot) ... "fuck it, let's drink ours in the meantime"
her: "oh one of the shots is for me?"
me: "of course. let's go"
we take the shot, then she gives me a little bit of her complimentary champagne
we talk for a minute then the countdown starts already, and then I go for the kiss
she doesn't put any tongue, so I say "come on, what kind of NYE kiss is that" and I go back for more, and after a little insistence I finally get a more real kiss
girl doesn't seem like a big party girl though, which I generally would like, but in this case I just want the SNL. we talk for a bit, i find out she's 22, and here and there I go for more make outs, but she always seems somewhat hesitant (but still lets me, even if for just a few seconds at a time). A couple more minutes of talking then she starts to turn away and goes "i gotta go back to my friends" (who have been a few feet away, but might have made eye contact with her to try to cockblock, who knows), to which I try to resist but she seems pretty determined and my wing is nowhere to be seen so the friends are alone. I then tell her "well at least let me get your number", but since she has her iPhone in her hand I just tell her to give it to me and put my number in, then i don't give it back (playfully) and she starts trying to grab it from me, my buddy finally shows up and we pass it back and forth. She seems kinda amused but I eventually just give it back BUT FORGET TO CALL MY PHONE FROM HERS. Amateur move.
Anyway, obviously didn't get the bang, but I can at least analyze my flaws in this approach: 1) not much kino (I really need to work on this) 2) I forgot her name when she asked for mine and told me hers, which was bad bc she seemed kind of a "good" girl, so dropping her name here and there might have helped build comfort 3) if she suddenly wanted to move back to her friends, it means she was prob losing interest 4) should have seen this was an unlikely SNL but a good lead for later and focused on leaving a good impression and getting her number

As for the next few weeks, I got really inspired by Gio's posts (and Lothario's) so I wanna focus on day game for a while, which should get me better with indirect game (always been more of a cocky/direct game kind of guy).

Happy new year, fellas!

Post: #502

Shaky Approach, Stumble and Recovery : Damn you Gio , I had an abstinence of about 10 days not Approaching, Can you believe it, me not Approach, hell I'm Approaching even when I am Sleeping. Following Gios's Advice I'm approaching only when I see a Girl that really boils my blood

This is what not approaching even for a week does to your Game, It gets Rusty , here is what happened at today's Lunch Stroll ........

I'm about to sit down at the coffee place and see a Blonde in black yoga pants with a white top talking to an elderly lady, My kinda girl, alright alright.... she looks at me and her stare lingered a little longer then it would if there was nothing there. Ok.... I sit down at look up and find her intently looking at me, Alright it's ON. I was dressed my best in a stylish Skinny Tie, even my Socks were Vibrant matching my shirt color.

She pass by me and I open with

Me: Excuse me Did I just saw you in the Pediatrics Clinic ( I said that Literally Stuttering)

Her: Oh yeah ! um .... No .....I was actually in the Neurology clinic pointing in that direction.

Me: Do you work here ?

Her: Yes in the Neurology Clinic

Me: Where are you heading ?

Her: To lab

Me: Alright I will walk with you

her : Ok

Me: I am new to town and would like to make new friends , lets have coffee sometime ?

Her: OK

Me: let's exchange numbers ..

her: Ummmmm......Do you have a Univ e-mail ?

Me : No but let me get yours and hand her Paper and pen ( Which she held for good 5- 10 min)

I couldn't believe myself that I was asking her questions that early in my Approach ( Rookie mistakes that i did about 2.5 years ago ) and seem like I ran out of material. I guess part of the problem was She was Hot and I was Rusty from not approaching in the last 10 days.

I am trying for number close that early in the encounter, Fuck me...., asking for e-mail what ? .... mistakes mitakes mistakes. I better burn this set and move on......

Voice in the back of my mind ROOSH was telling me Ramble muthafucka Ramble ..... and Rambling was what got me back on track

Me: Oh yeah I just moved here from Florida and don't know where all the clinics are

Her : What brought you here ?

Me: I am a consultant with such and such company and will be working this Univ until their program is established.

Her: Oh yeah, what kinda program ?

I felt like i was back on track, good, and to tell the young players a teaching point , This is what rambling does, gives you time to recover and or find a topic that you both like have a conversation about.luckily the first thing I said about me moving from FL leads to her asking questions, great......

Me: Working with such and such Dept , travelling to here and there, i did mention some names that I thought she ought to know and she did.

Her: I have been trying to get into medical sales , what do you think about it ?

Me: You should instead become a Physicians assistant

Her: why do you say that

Me: I give her a good 3-5 min lecture on where healthcare is heading

We had stopped by the Lab's door and were talking and she didn't seem like she wanted to move, She was still holding the pen and paper that I had given her earlier and another thing I noticed her face started turning red (Easy to detect on white Girls ) and Pupil dilation.

Me: I have to get back to work at 1 but lets meet for coffee sometime

Her: Sure and starts writing something on the paper, It was her number and not the e-mail

We shake hands and off I go......

On the way back to my Work place , I ran into a Teacher of Mine who complimented me on how I look about the same as 10 years ago and dressed very Stylishly which took my confidence to cloud nine.

I wasn't gonna let go of this high energy boost and thought to myself I am Approaching the next Hot Girl I see no matter what, Which I did , Details in the next Post .......

Post: #503

This Red Head I see , I met her 2 yrs ago and number closed but didn't follow as I left town for 2-3 months , I open with

Me: Hey you, Still here ? I thought you should have graduated by now.

Her: Smiling, Yeah I am still here, Decided to do one more year of .....

Me: Cool, You know it's not going to increase the Job options for you ....

Her: I know, What have you been upto...

Me: Just back from England, I moved there for 2 yrs as my Mom was sick.

Her: Nice of you to do that

Me: You still owe me a cup of coffee

her: No No No It was the other way around

Me: Well let me see If I still have your number

She tells me her number and I call and her Name pops up , yes It was still in my Phone. We part ways agreeing to get a cup of coffee next week.

This is about the second or third time in past 2-3 months when I get One number, The next Approach is a number also, I guess I am building on momentum or just more confident from the earlier Approach that went well.

Now I have two more numbers to put through the Funnel. Currently I am working on a total of 5 as of now which too much for me to juggle with my cards ........

Critiques on the Approaches are welcome .........

Post: #504

lothario, strong work my brother.

Post: #505

Excellent stuff Lothario, I actually got opened yesterday as I left the gym by 2 girls, does that count as an approach

Post: #506

Going back to college today, so I'm sitting at the airport gate, waiting to board. I got to the gate like two hours early, so there was no one around at first. Put in my headphones, and people started filling in.

Edit: Accidentally posted early.

Anyways, a guy sat next to me, and a cute girl sat across from me. I'd say she was a seven. There were other open seats, so she could have sat elsewhere; that's what prompted me to at least think she'd be receptive.

The news was on, so I just made a comment to the guy about what was going on. Guy and I had a pretty decent conversation...guy was in first class and he gets up to leave. Once he leaves, I simply ask the girl why she's going to NY (that's where the flight is headed), and we end up having a pretty decent conversation. She's a student at some college.

Lots of smiling from her. I even stopped talking to see if she would try and continue the conversation, and she did.

I didn't initiate convo with her on the plane because she was seated behind me and in the opposite aisle. We were both in aisle seats. Honestly, the only reason I didn't talk to her was because I didn't want to be turned around the whole time haha.

Anyways, picked up talking again at baggage claim. Asked if she'd be in NY for Spring break, said she wouldn't because her sports team would be gone. Upon hearing that, I decided not to ask for her number; I figured that I'd probably never see her again. I go to school in CT, and the only time I'll be in NY this year will be for spring break anyway. She told me that she was really glad that we talked and her face seemed disappointed when we exchanged parting words so I guess I did alright this time.

Approach 1 down, 99 more to go...thank goodness I'm back on campus haha

Post: #507

(01-07-2013 09:38 PM)Lothario Wrote:  She pass by me and I open with

Me: Excuse me Did I just saw you in the Pediatrics Clinic ( I said that Literally Stuttering)

You were rusty, you were nervous, you were stuttering.

It was a good warm up. I will leave it at that.

I'm glad that you are approaching beautiful blonds. There is no other way.

(01-07-2013 10:11 PM)Lothario Wrote:  This Red Head I see , I met her 2 yrs ago and number closed but didn't follow as I left town for 2-3 months , I open with

Me: Hey you, Still here ? I thought you should have graduated by now.

The 1st approach warmed you up. This approach was more comfortable and natural.

Now, get out there and approach the most beautiful women you can find!!

Post: #508

(10-25-2012 11:02 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  In retrospect I think if I'd shown up in a leather jacket and treated these girls like shit it might've worked better.

I have started switching my style about here in LA from SF. Dropping dress-shirts and embracing v-necks. Everybody is in a dress shirt here. Its means absolutely zero. Better yet show off hints of your gym body paired w/a blazer

I was at boulevard 3 about 2 months ago...Saw this sexy looking asian petite girl in a red skin-tight dress. Shes staying near the smoking area in the aisle, facing away from me.

3 taps on the shoulder-
"You are just like a traffic cone- bright, small and in my way (slightly cocky tone but delivered w/a huge "I want to bang you" smirk)
This girl's face lit up like a christmas tree. We had a good 30 second talk before some random asian dude in the group pulled her away and moved her half away across the courtyard. lol.

My friend who was walking with me starting busting up and laughing right after I said that.

Post: #509

2 solid approaches and another solid interaction its not even noon

1: Lucy liu clone sits next to me. I smile at her and wait until we have to start answering questions. I start with the questions at hand then make fun of the teacher. We talk about our classes, she mentions something about her program then asks about mine. She was really shy and made eye contact once or twice. She'd half look down and be insecure about her answers, but would sit there giggling for a while after I'd made fun of the teacher. I leave and she says "see you next class"

Then I went to the store and built on the energy by talking to a dude that works there for a while, bought some stuff then left.

On my way home I get approach #2 in. Short ginger girl holds the door open for me and waits a good 10 seconds for me to get through the door. We get to the elevators and none are there I say "damn just missed it!" then we start talking about the weather, she says how she just bought a scarf and when I leave the elevator she says see you around.

Whats great about these is the mindset I went into them with. I was positive just wanting a nice chat with someone. It hit me last week or so that I was approaching for the "wrong reasons" I was approaching with the mindset that I wanted to run just enough game to get her number, then go on the same date I've been on a bunch then fuck her. I think they could sense this and it put them off. I still want to fuck these girls, but I'm going into the interaction with the mindset that she's hot enough to bang, but is she worth my time. She looks interesting but is she. Guess its more of a qualifying frame and they sense its more genuine, because it is. I want to meet some interesting girls, interact with cool people and if they're interesting enough I'll fuck them.

Post: #510

Context: I am stranded at an Airport and had to spend the night at the Airport Hotel , got in about 11:00 PM, tired and in no mood to go downtown , Do make rounds at couple of Hotel Bars with no target in site and troll the Arrival Terminal , make couple of Approaches that don't go any where. I call 350Zguy (Shout out Brother), he comes over and we go to find a place to eat as he was starving It was a little after 1:30 , even MCD's was closed, we spot a Dive Bar that was open. We had no plans on gaming but to just catch up with each other.

We enter and it almost empty , I spot three Girls sitting at the end of the Bar. We go sit next to them and started catching up, The Girls sitting next to me had her back turned to me, Lets give these girls a number rating, middle 5.5, near end 7, far end 6, while 350 was looking at the Menu I open the girls with

Me: Hey Girls, Do you know what is good here at this hour ? My friend is starving.

Them: The girl in the middle jumped to answer, Try the Fried cheese ravioli , It's awesome.

Me: Oh yeah, let me tell my friend as I don't eat fried food this late at night

We resumed out talk and girls were talking among themselves, I noticed they were wearing some sort of Uniform, 350's order comes out and i did had some fried Ravioli in it, I pick one with a fork and

Me: Point the fork with the Ravioli on it to the girl in the middle and extend my hand and ask her to take only a bite and not the whole thing..

Her: Ahhhh, My favorite, You are so sweet.

Me: No I'm not , Just take bite before I change my mind

her: Takes a bite.

Me: here take the whole thing, I don't eat fried food.

her: You should it is so good.

Me and 350 started shooting the shit again, I reopen with

me: Did you guys just got off from work

her: Yes we work at ----------

Me: Till what time does downtown stay open.

We all got into conversation, found out they were not down for bouncing to another spot, 7 was driving them and I was getting the most vibe from 5.5, Ok I will do it if she is easy and not much effort. She was giving me the Doe eyes. at some point She kissed me on the cheek and I turned the other cheek, she kissed the other one too and I told her now the real one and She kissed me on the Lips.

I told 350 i'm going to etiher burn the set or make it happen, I ask them to come with us for an after party, They weren't down and I thought Ok, I am coming back in 2 weeks , may be then or another time . I told 5.5 it doesn't lok like we will much time together tonight but lets meet up if you are in my town or I am visiting here, she agrees and I ask her to give me her cell phone, 350 makes fun of her broken screen , I call 350's number from her phone as I didn't want to give my real number out.

What's going on in my mind is that 3 girls it would never happen and even if she wants to leave with me , She wouldnt want to appear slutty in front of her friends , when they get up to leave I hold her back so her friend were moving and she was talking to me. I tell her lets get together after your friend drops you home, I know you don't want to leave with me now because of your friends but she should call me when she gets home and I will join her, She said she lives in such and such neighborhood and she might call me.

When we walked out they were there smoking, we said our Good byes and moved on, I don't think much of it as I wasn't gaming full force , 350 dropped me to the hotel and I slept.

Next morning 350 texts me that the girl from last night called his cell phone in the morning..... Ah Damn A missed Booty Call and missed Greek Flag (Damn I would have called mechanico to Brag)

Lesson Learned: Put 100 % effort in every Approach to bang, even if your only option of the night is a 5.5. No half Ass Attempts.

Always be Prepared ......meaning I didn't leave home knowing I will be approaching so I didn't had my second cell phone on me and also didn't had my Smokes and lighter either. So next time I leave house , I will have all my Game Paraphernalia no matter where I am heading and what kind of mindset I am in.........

Post: #511

My classes are becoming a poosy paradise. I'm the only non-omega/beta in my classes so I'm the "cute guy" in class. In my first class we were doing some lame group stuff (small class). I look around and see this cute natural blonde with blue eyes etc. She had that rosy, pale skin girls get with the cold. an image of me fucking her flashed through my mind, blasting all over her smooth pink pussy. I get that "its on" feeling. Go to approach after class and shes gone.

I get to my next class and am sitting with an empty seat on either side of me (solid move because groups of girls/dudes can't sit by you, selection #1). I look up and see the blonde. She makes eye contact and I smile. She pretends to look for another seat and comes back saying "is anyone sitting here" I say "nah". She sits down and the teacher starts talking. I do the standard class game where I make fun of the teacher, play off their opinion of their class etc. Light and funny while answering the questions. No talking when the teacher is, you don't value pussy more than an education do you?

After 20 minutes of class and about 5-10 of talking she looks at her phone and visibly gets in a bad mood. I'd noticed her legs crossed towards me to start THEN SHE CROSSED THEM AWAY. I had a moment of complete despair. (thanks soup ha). Pulled out of it and started running my university version of GALNUC

G: guess her faculty
A: guess what year she's in
L: where she's from/does she live on campus
N: name
U: does she go to cool parties/where does she study
C: cool (drink), or study (at a coffee shop/later at night maybe have a drink when we're done).

pulled the number like a pager. just as i handed her the phone a text from another girl popped up. Got up and said "cool see you around"

Post: #512

(01-16-2013 02:31 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  In my first class we were doing some lame group stuff (small class). I look around and see this cute natural blonde with blue eyes etc. She had that rosy, pale skin girls get with the cold. an image of me fucking her flashed through my mind, blasting all over her smooth pink pussy. I get that "its on" feeling. Go to approach after class and shes gone.

I get to my next class and am sitting with an empty seat on either side of me (solid move because groups of girls/dudes can't sit by you, selection #1). I look up and see the blonde.



pulled the number like a pager. just as i handed her the phone a text from another girl popped up. Got up and said "cool see you around"

You have a "do my homework" bitch in 2 classes! Well played

Post: #513

Its lookin like she'll just be a homework buddy unless I put some serious work in. Looked her up on facebook and my god, with her name she should be in porn. Anyways her timeline pic is of her and her bf. Shes not in a relationship on her profile. Her mood also shifted to very negative in class (assuming a problem with the boyfriend). Any suggestions on how I should play this?

I'm thinking of starting off by disqualifying her and saying "I'm glad I got a study buddy for this class, I don't know anyone" then later dropping bait about a girl to see if she'll ask "is that your girlfriend" and I'll reply with "its complicated"

Because the dude is looking all herby and beta in all her pics I'm assuming their problems would be him being to clingy. I'll go total aloof fratboy/jock mode. Seems like shes in that world but lower status compared to her friends. ITS ON.

Post: #514

that sounds like a good strategy WC/

Post: #515

I have four numbers in my phone from last night..One is sexy and cool, the other is gorgeous and probably won't respond to my text.. the other two I don't remember

The funny thing is I have two calls in my log from girls.. I know one of them is a drop dead gorgeous latina so I pretty much will have to just text both numbers and agree to meet up with either one, in the hopes that it ends up being the hot latina and not whatever other rando is in my phone ha!

Post: #516

(01-17-2013 07:14 AM)bojangles Wrote:  that sounds like a good strategy WC/

man, even better. We studied yesterday, she never mentioned her boyfriend (at one point she was talking about transit and said "we were waiting for the bus"), but I teased her lots and made her laugh. She busted out a pudding cup. I looked at her funny and said "what is this elementary school" she got more friendly and less school mode after that.

Today she gets to class. I'm hopped up on coffee and excited to be done the previous class and I talk too much. Some dude sits beside her that I think she knows and she wasn't very warm to him (he was asking her all the questions I'd already asked). THEN OUT OF NOWHERE. A chick I was in a group with last year comes up and says "is anyone sitting here (beside me). I said "I'm saving it for my coat" with a smirk. She was a few mins late to class and as she was walking behind me she gave me a big hug and sat down. The other girl snapped her head over and kept trying to get my attention when answering the questions in class.

Post: #517

I went to the Farmers Market today and only managed to get in one approach. These things can be hit or miss but usually I’ll find at least 1 attractive girl there. They also tend to be a lot more receptive since the mood of most people there is to wander and look at everything that is going on. Typically I would do the Yad stop but she was just strolling along so I walked up beside her and opened. Fumbled the beginning part of the opener.

Hi, excuse me, I …(some type of mumbling). Oops… give me a sec and I’ll get that word out.
(She just stands there smiling)
I just passed you over there and I couldn’t help but notice something about you.
You’re absurdly cute so I wanted to come over and say Hi.

Her – Oh my gosh thank you.

Me – What I noticed is that you have this happy free flowing vibe to you. Like a hippie running through a field of dandelions.

Her – laughs. Hi, I’m hippie girl. What’s your name?( I consider this a hook point if she asks me who I am)

Me – I’m Thug Muffin

We talk about what she's doing this day and stuff about the farmers market. I tease her a bit on how she probably has this market on lock down since she said she comes here a lot. She mentions how she’s a vegan and we talk about that for a bit. We go over things she likes to do for fun. A few minutes into the pickup she does mention that she has a boyfriend.

Me – Oh… well a man has got to go for what he wants in life.

Her – Yea… I liked how you approached me. It shows a lot of confidence.

We do some idle chit chat about vegan recipes and I end the conversation.

Post: #518

It's been a long time since I cold approached, spending the majority of my time in a bush in butt fuck nowhere working in the oil biz and having stable pussy to come back to in my home base city has made me a game sloth. My wallet's good no doubt, loving the money out here, but I have no rotation like I did in TDot and the fucking cold...making night game equivalent to hunting seals in the arctic (if it's -20 C* during the evening, that's -4F to you Americans, it's considered a warm night!).

I finally I decided to get off my ass during my week off and see if I "still got it".

Walked into an antique shop on a trendy street on a 'happening' part of town, start browsing around looking for shit to fill up my apartment with.

Saw a redhead, around 6'2", walked up and asked

Me: This is a pretty cool place, it has tons of unique stuff to fill a den with
Her: Yup, it's really nice blah blah
Me: Yeah, I usually drop by here often to see if there's anything new for sale, it's like Winner's, you always need to stop by to see what's good
Her: Yes, very good place, blah blah,
Me: I'm actually looking for something to fill an empty space in my living room
Her: Oh cool, have you looked at (we walk over to wall art section, discuss different items for a while),
Me: (Deliberating the pros and cons about each item, dropped hints of items I've collected by travelling)
Her: Where are you from?
Me: (Insert region, not specific country)
Her: Oh nice (doesn't know where the fuck it is)

We keep talking for another 10 minutes on different items.

Me: I'm new in town, I'm just basically starting to get to know the city, do you know any good locations to kill time here?
Her: Yes, absolutely, it's a little calmer in winter but try (lists off locations).
Me: Nice, I've been to [one of the locations she previously mentioned], it's pretty good. Have you been to [a nice trendy but very niche spot I know]?
Her: Never heard of it, where is it?
Me: (Explain location, type of spot, crowd etc).
Her: Cool, sounds intriguing.
Me: Anyways, I gotta go now, but hey if you're around town let's catch up, maybe we can hit up the [the niche spot I mentioned earlier]

I hand over my phone, she enters contact info, I say good bye and jet.

Somewhere in between there we introduced ourselves with names, but can't quite remember at what point of the conversation.

The conversation took about 25-35 minutes tops.

I texted the next day, around 11 am. No response.

Ah well. Charged to the game.

Post: #519

Not really a cold approach since I knew she wanted the D, but still. I was nervous and had to make myself go do it.

I went to this library last week and saw a hottie from my class there who I hadn't spoken to. People are creatures of habit especially at such early hours in the day so I assumed she'd be there again today killing time between classes. I get there and see her, I sit down and start doing my own thing since I have a while till I have to be somewhere. 15 minutes after this she walks past me, I glance up and she's looking at me and smiling. I know this shit is on.

20 minutes before I have to go I pack up and then walk over, say "youre in (class) right?, cool" and I sat down across from her. I got her to tell me all about something I 'missed' the other day. She would drop bait, I would drop bait. We discussed the prof, she asked me what my major was, then my name, then where I was from. I was sitting back completely relaxed, spitting game in this dead silent library. We talked about our personal lives a bit more, why we chose our majors etc. I pulled out my phone, checked the time and said "well I gotta run, lets continue this convo another time (my voice wavered a bit which was good, things were going TOO smoothly). I ask her to spell her name, she starts spelling and I hand over my phone. Get the digits "cool see you around" she says "text me some time" with a smile.

I was kind of worried, she made lots of eye contact, her legs were crossed towards me, but she had her arms crossed a lot of the time, but when I got the digits she opened up a lot more. Funny thing is when she was giving me info on the class I was leaning in listening and I could see her hands shaking with nervousness.

Post: #520

I've been practicing the Snapchat opener, good results so far but it could be improved. Designed for a larger group of 3-4 girls in a low key evening/night venue.

I walk up to a table or group and say "excuse me will you take a picture with me? I play a game with my friend where we snapchat back and forth throughout the night and try to one-up the other person each time. He lives in LA [or wherever] and just sent me a crazy picture"

Then I ask another person nearby to take a picture. Only tried it a handful of times but I haven't been turned down yet. if they don't know what snapchat is i will explain and direct attention on the hottest girl.

It's indirect, there is some bait in the opener, and Snapchat is always a good follow up topic for discussion. A good opener for what would be otherwise a hard group to approach.

I need to find a way to incorporate a very soft, subtle neg. Many of my best approaches begin with me making an observation about her appearance.

Post: #521

gio how long does it take you to do 10 approaches? did your efficiency go up over time?im trying to waste as little time as possible approaching

Post: #522

(03-06-2013 11:30 PM)GenJx Wrote:  gio how long does it take you to do 10 approaches?

It depends how fast I want to do them.

If I want to do 10 as quickly as possible, I could do it in 20-30 minutes..

"Hey whats up, how are you? I know this is random but I saw you over there and I gotta run, but, I'd like to call you later and flirt with you over the phone?"

"Hey, hello, can I talk to you for minute?"

But, I'm not really in a hurry. I don't like to be in a rush.

I just approach girls that I come into contact with. Girls at school, at the store, gym, public transportation, cafes, etc.

I'm not trying to do X amount of approaches. I'm searching for my next lover. I treat each approach as the most important one and the only one that matters. I recently got laid from my first approach of the day. Every approach could be the one that gets you laid. You never know which one it will be until you do it.

(03-06-2013 11:30 PM)GenJx Wrote:  did your efficiency go up over time?

Yes, of course it did. I got better. My game improved. I learned how to appear more attractive to women.

You will have the same experience.

(03-06-2013 11:30 PM)GenJx Wrote:  im trying to waste as little time as possible approaching

We all are. It's not about approaching chicks girls, it's about banging them.

If you want to save time, don't go out to approach girls, just go about your normal business and only approach girls that you come into contact with at the bank, the store, the street, class, etc.

This way you are getting shit done AND approaching a few girls at the same time:

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Another thing I want to say is that you gotta approach the girls that you like. It's not about day game vs night game or direct vs indirect, its about you banging the girls you wanna bang. The only way to do that is to talk to them.

I know you don't wanna waste any time but when you see a girl you like you better go talk to her!

Another related post:

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If you wanna improve your skills as quickly as possible. Approach every girl you are attracted to.

If I were you, I would go to a large college campus and approach the first 10 cute girls I saw. But, you might consider that a waste of time???

Hope I answered your questions, let me know if you have any more..

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Here is the bang that I mentioned above. Like I said, first approach of the day, about 1pm in the public library. Banged a week later..

I was parking my car near a local shopping center and I saw a cute girl walk into the public library. College girl, Filapina looking, tight jeans, big boots, sweater, long hair. What attracted me to her was her body. Thin legs but a round booty. Long brown hair and thin body.

I followed her into the library and looked for her. I found her sitting at a desk using the library computer. I walked right up to her..

me: cool boots

I continued walking right past her...

her: thanks

I sort of turned back and looked over my shoulder..

me: You're welcome. They are sort of stylish and rugged at the same time.
her: yes, exactly.
me: you can get alot of stuff done in those.
her: oh my god, i know, i wear them for everything.
me: i like versatility. I wear these for everything.

I show her my shoes..



her: ooh i like those.
me: thanks. I wear them with everything. What are you studying today?
her: oh, i'm just doing some research for my childhood development class
me: hmm, are you studying to be a teacher?
her: yes
me: what grade?
her: i wanna teach elementary school
me: oh how cute, i love little kids, they are the best
her: i know right, so sweet and innocent
me: are you from san francisco?
her: no im from san diego
me: oh how cool, are you enjoying the bay so far?
her: yes, i love it

Blah, blah, blah.. We continue chatting for a few minutes. I pretend that I'm not that interested, even though the conversation is going well. I go over and pretend to look at some books. After a few minutes I walk back over to her..

me: hey nice meeting you
her: you too
me: good luck with your research
her: thanks, good luck with yours

I noticed what she had up on her computer screen.

me: that looks like a good one
her: oh it is, im gonna go to this event on saturday
me: nice, that looks fun
her: i hope so
me: hey do you wanna exchange numbers or something? maybe we can get coffee or something sometime?
her: um, sure, that'd be great.
me: okay, cool, whats your number?
her: xxx-xxxx
me: alright, ill call you later in the week
her: okay, sounds good
me: have fun at that thing on saturday
her: i will
me: hey, i would like to check lout that event also, should we get coffee and go to that thing together?
her: umm, ya, that would be cool
me: ya, i think thats a good idea
her: okay, call me soon
me: i will, take care
her: bye

This is looking good already. We just met and we already have a date set up for Saturday morning.

I text her on Thursday and say "whats up". She asks if we are still on for Saturday. I say yes.

Saturday comes. We meet at a coffee shop, then we go to this event in downtown San Francisco. It's a spoken word/poetry kind of thing. It goes well. We have fun. Afterwards, we go out to lunch. She has to go to work.

Then, I go meet WestCoast for cocktails and day gaming..

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WestCoast and I get a few numbers and then we part ways. He went out salsa dancing, I went to the Mike Tyson show.

A few days later, I text the girl, we make plans for dinner. The Thai place I wanna go to is closed so we meet at Whole Foods and eat there. After dinner we go to her place to hang out. I meet her roommates and we end up in her room looking at pictures of her in high school.

Guess what happened next....???

Bang.

2nd date. First time at her place. 21 years old. Filapina. College junior.I'm 37. I told her I am 29. She guessed that I was 28. I have been going to bed early lately, thats what keeps me looking young. That, and the college girls that I surround myself with!

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Props to Lothario, Slubu, and At350zguyy - Day gaming with you guys helped my skills and helped me get better. I am getting better with each approach!

Post: #524

Giovonny's smart. Wears quiet shoes so they can't hear him approaching

Post: #525

By the way, if anyone's wondering, Gio actually comes close to word for word transcription of his approaches.