Post: #3251

I did a bunch of sloppy drunk approaches that I can barely remember. My friends were impressed that I opened a bunch of girls and actually talked to them but they dogged on me saying I couldn't close which I took with some pretty horrible poise. I'm such a shameless liar when I'm drunk it's funny. I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing in nightgame I just walk up tell some lies and talk to women. I was way to drunk to actually get anywhere with any of those approaches which makes me wonder what the fuck I'm actually doing, I guess it's just fun. My friends were being boring and I was just trying to be drunk and enjoy myself.

1st approach

"hey why are you on your phone with a room full of people"
"I'm talking to my boyfriend"
"where is he"?
"he's working the bar"
"that's cool, I'm from wisconsin I don't know anybody here, will you introduce me to some people"
"Oh that's so cool everyone is from here, I don't know anybody either"

I don't remember the rest I started like doing some light kino and fucked it up by being too agressive. I'm not from wisconsin and don't have an accent at all, no idea what I was thinking. Straight drunk fucking up.

2nd one

"I would never forgive myself if I didn't walk up and tell you you're beautiful what's your name"
"[name], what's yours"
"my name is [name], it's nice to meet you. What are you doing tonight"?
"drinking, dancing, hanging out with my friends"
"me too! Those are my friends over there [points], we should all meet and be friends together"

Don't remember the rest. I got her to come over to my group but fucked it up somehow. I'm gonna have to ask my boys if they remember what happened

3rd one

"hey you're beautiful, dance with me"
"I have a boyfriend"
"it's just dancing, what you don't like to dance"?
"I don't feel like dancing"
"Let me tell you a secret"
"okay..."
"I can't dance at all I was just going to get drunk and wing it anyway"

She laughs and the conversation goes dead and I just meander away drunk as fuck.

4th one

[I walk up and grab this girls hand and she kind of just give me this wtf look]
"what's your name"
"[name]"
"[name], hold my hand"
"okay..."
"what are you doing here"

Can't remember the rest at all. I was pretty fucked up on redbull and vodka at this point. I came home with my dick in my hands and did some blow with my peoples. Regurely, sober I'm pretty fearless. Drunk I'm just a mess. I didn't get kicked out of any bars so you know whatever. I'm kind of mad I was too inebriated to actually pull but I'm happy I actually approached even it was sloppy as shit with no real outcome. I actually did have a good time until I started getting too drunk and talking shit to people. I'm going to get back on the wagon get sober for a little while and try to do some of this stuff sober. I've almost completely swore off online game at this point because I'm just fucking tired of it. I'm tired of the serial dating courosel riding busted ass bitches on there that think they're 2-4 points above their SMV. I mop up 4-6s like nobodies business but i'm not too proud of all that. I figure if I can get a 5-6 a week on Tinder I can get at least a 7-8 a month daygaming and nightgaming. We'll see. I'm also pretty actively looking for something different lately. Hooking up with a girl the first day I meet her off of tinder or OKC isn't doing it for me.

Post: #3252

(04-28-2017 11:44 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  Stats for 2015
Approaches: 500
Dates: 2.5
Lays: 0

Hats-off to kbsms.

These stats are absolutely horrible. A 0.5% date to approach response rate is not acceptable at all.

Please explain what you're doing, and we'll figure out what's going wrong and get this fixed.

Post: #3253

Was struttin' through the park, when I spy a chick off in the distance, playing with a german shepard, so I immediately head in that direction. The cutest Asian of all time. Billowy sweats implied a champion ass, even full-looking breasts under her snug tank. So, I simply started up a chat about the dog, and after maybe 15 minutes made the formal play, to which she threw out the boyfriend biz. I took a walk without fighting that shit.

Post: #3254

Oh, and captain_shane, that's why I'm here, since I clearly need the aid of the forum.

Post: #3255

Been trying to get back into this as it's my favorite way to meet girls and I'm fairly recently single.

Anyway, was in Target last night needing to buy some bike chain lube and paper towels. I grab the lube and head over to paper towels aisle, grab a two pack - select-a-size because I'm an environmentalist like that. I turn to head to the register when I see this super cute girl with caramel skin, long black wavy hair, jean jacket and a flowery skirt browsing the hair products aisle. She was thin but with a nice little rack and great ass protruding out from her skirt. I'd give her a high 6/low 7. Early to mid 20's, I'd guess maybe 24.

I pass her once then loop back around for the approach. I notice she has one right earbud in so I look at her and say, "Hey, are you on a call right now?"

She smiles and says, "Hey hang on a sec" to the person on the phone. She then nods and says to me, "Oh hi. Yeah, what's up?"

I then ask, "Is it important?"

She smiles again and says, "Oh I'm talking to my friend, we're having some girl talk right now."

I continue, "Oh I see, well I just wanted to tell you something." There was a brief pause to create some suspense.

Me: "I thought you looked super cute (I smirked while checking her out up and down) and wanted to say hey."

She immediately starts giggling, meanwhile her friend is on the other line, hearing this all in real time. Without prompting, she says, "hi I'm [her name]" and she extends her hand. We exchange names.

She then says, "Oh I need some of those too (pointing to paper towels in my hand) and toilet paper too!"

I then start rambling about paper towels and how I've been reusing this dirty dish towel in my kitchen and it's probably about time to not be such a dirt bag and be more sanitary with disposable cleanup methods, etc. etc. Rambled about my bike chain needing oil yadda yadda for like 2 or 3 minutes.

She just smiles and nods. I then say, "Well hey, listen, I wanted to ask you just one quick question as I see you're busy with some serious girl stuff right now with your friend. Are you single?"

She shows me a huge grin and shrieks and says, "Yes! My friend and I were just talking about boys just now..."

Me: "Great, put your number in my phone and maybe we can get together over coffee or beer sometime."

Her: "Ok, I like both actually, just not mixed together."

Me: "So no coffee porters for you then."

Her: "Exactly."

Me: "Ok dork."

She enters number and I make a comment about her area code. She is from the midwest - I'm from TX. I didn't send a text or anything yet. Will give her a call today or tomorrow...I think I got some uniqueness points for this approach given the circumstances. We will see how it plays out.

Post: #3256

(05-10-2017 09:34 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  Oh, and captain_shane, that's why I'm here, since I clearly need the aid of the forum.

Tell me what your approach looks like. Let's break this down and see what's going wrong.

Post: #3257

Heh-heh, Christ, which one? Are you famiilar with some of my earlier materials on this thread?

Post: #3258

I've been out of civilization for two months (close to zero opportunity for sex and minimal interactions with females) so it's time to shake off the rust. I went downtown Saturday night (the day I got back) and it was a bit too much for me so I bailed early and decided to ease into it with some low pressure situations.

I had two errands to run today - 1) get equipment from TV/internet company 2) pick up held mail. At the internet place a hot blonde (8) was in front of me so I sat down next to her after I signed in.

Me: "What are you in for?"
Girl: "I'm getting rid of my service with this company, I'm so excited!"
Me: "So that's it? You're disconnecting from pop culture once and for all?"
Girl: "Ha ha, no I'm switching companies. I don't even have cable but the other one has better customer service and faster internet" (babbles about customer service for awhile)
Me: "So how are you going to keep up with the Kardashians now? You'll have to get all your information secondhand."
Girl: blah blah, not interested in that kind of stuff
Me: (sarcastically) "Oh really, that's my favorite program."
Girl: "Somehow I don't believe you."
Me: "Well you know you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. There are some important deep social themes they discuss on that show."
At this point the girl is called up, the first name on the account is "Richard." She had used the pronoun "we" to describe the situation so it's clear enough she has a boyfriend. It would've been difficult to close out anyway because she walks out once she's done at the counter and I'm still sitting in the waiting area but I suppose if she'd wanted to she could've come by to say goodbye. Anyway I accomplished something with the interaction, opening cold and bantering with a very attractive person.

Mail center -
Decent looking girl (6) is at the counter in front of me. She's wearing skin tight shorts that barely cover her ass cheeks. Legs are OK, a bit fleshy but I don't mind a little thigh fleshiness. The guy tells her he needs to see her ID and she makes a joke complaint about having to go out to her car to get it. When she gets back in

Me: "Pretty difficult walk, huh?"
Girl: "Oh yeah, it was like 3 steps each way."
Me: "Oh wow, brutal. Especially in this weather" (It's 75 and sunny). "Better make sure you're not dehydrated."
Girl: "Ha ha."
I forget a bit of the intervening dialogue, she mentions that she's just wearing her pajamas which is actually a hoodie and the shorts.
Me: "That's what you wear to sleep?"
Girl: "Yeah, well normally I don't sleep in this" (motions to sweatshirt, I was going to say something about cranking up the AC).

Then the postal guy came back and dealt with her. I noticed when she signed in to her phone, the photo was of her with a young bearded guy so I didn't pursue any further although that was probably a mistake. For all I know it could've been her brother and the practice wouldn't have hurt. Anyway she smiled and said goodbye to me and I left it at that.

It was good to make conversation with girls and practice some situational openers. It wasn't great, but overall not bad for starting over after a long layoff. Now I just need to keep the momentum going.

Post: #3259

Was downtown today.

Did 2 approaches. Nothing much to report other than I'm still doing them and even my shitty approaches are pretty decent. One of the chick was in HS so I told her that I'll be walking the other way but she was super flattered and attracted to me.


Was in the sauna later and then did an indirect approach with a mom/daughter combo. They were mexican and the daughter was super sexy. I included the mom in the convo but eventually focused on the daughter. I even said with a straight face: "so, is this your... sister" LOL. Then asked her if I can take her to coffee and asked her mom if she's okay with that.

Closed with instagram ala Vinny instead of a phone number. We'll see how this turns out but she accepted my follow request and followed me back.

Post: #3260

Chatting up a girl in the presence of her mother that is some balls!
Beta no more is too fucking right

Post: #3261

Interesting progression of 3 yesterday.

First I was walking home and about a block ahead of me I see something that looks really good from the back - thin, nice ass, legs, long strawberry blonde hair. I didn't think I'd catch up but we end up waiting to cross the street together. Her head is buried in her phone (big surprise). We start to cross and an oncoming car makes a pretty late left turn nearly hitting us. "That was pretty late" I said, and she says "IKR!" or something along those lines. I say "good thing we were paying attention." She finally looks up at me to voice her agreement and WOW she is young. Legal, but no more than 20. She makes a quick right turn which took me by surprise so I didn't have anything prepared and gave up. Something good to say may have been "we're breaking up already? But we just met!" etc.

A couple hours later, out at the bar with friends. I go up to close out my tab and as I sat down a girl (6.5) offers me some chips from her basket. I ask her what she ordered and we get to talking. She's with three friends and they're out for her birthday. I say "21?" jokingly but she doesn't pick up on it and says 26. She's drunk but not in a good way, just kind of out of it. We chat for awhile, but it's getting real interview-y, she's not really into it. She says her friends and her are going to some dance party. I rub her arm - "how about if I go with you?" She says OK but they all kind of slink away, I think the other chicks are likely cockblockers and I'm not going to chase after them. I think she really just wanted to get rid of the chips and I mistook it as a flirty IOI.

Friends moved on to another bar while I was talking to the last chick. I get there and there's an open stool next to them so I sit down and start telling them what happened. I show them a funny picture of myself which I'd used while chatting up the girl at the last bar and then just spontaneously I show it to the girl that was on my other side, who turns out to be about a 7. She actually goes for it and we start having a really good conversation. Fun, humorous, good flow, very relaxed and not forced. No silence for ~30 minutes. Turns out she's a Californication/Hank Moody fan. Her crew is about to leave for another bar so I hand her my phone and say "we'll hook up later" to which she nods eagerly and puts in her info. Up to this point I played it perfectly, but I think I should've told her to hit me up when she was done with her friends and texted her right then so she could've had my #. At the time I thought about it like I shouldn't contact her right away and instead should wait a day or so, but in retrospect I think this was the wrong move because we hit it off so well and she was already out and drinking and quite possibly DTF. Admittedly, being drunk muddled my thought process. I'll text her tomorrow but I'll have to be starting out from scratch so we'll see how that goes. On the plus side I guess it's good to make specific mistakes so I can add those to the memory banks and know not to make them again. I gained something to build on from #'s 1 & 3, but 2 was just a dud.

Then a lesbian sat down next to me. I'm feeling like I'm on a roll and I start chatting her up because I'm feeling good and chatty. We're having a nice conversation and I can tell her girlfriend (hairstyle is #2 clipper all around) is getting annoyed which just inspires me to keep going. Turns out they're there with one of my co-workers who I find out is gay. I had no idea. I guess my gaydar is terrible, but you learn interesting stuff by going out and talking to strangers.

The 3rd approach was obviously the best, but my main criticism is that I was already fairly drunk at that point which is why I was able to be so bold and converse in such a care-free manner. I don't want to develop the habit of having alcohol as a crutch, especially since I don't even enjoy drinking. I have to learn how to relax myself naturally even if it is in a place where everyone is drinking.

Post: #3262

Went to a hotel bar in the middle of the day. where a chick I like works with the excuse that I was dropping in to watch sport and check the score.
Opened her with some chat and she hung around to talk to me.
She's younger than I thought, maybe 21 or 22. Find out she's studying and compare that to the uni I study at and what course she's doing.
I'm asking lots of questions to get her talking, showing I'm intelligent and DHV. Got to ramble and link topics together to tell her about myself, she was interested and asking questions about my background.
I didn't keep the momentum up and number/IG close though! Building comfort successfully but will have to go back. This one's going to be a long one as I am +10 years older.

Post: #3263

Shot down by one of the hottest girls I've hit on and got 2 numbers yesterday. Small town, stopped in a restaurant for lunch and a gorgeous tall, tan blond was opening the door for a guy exiting as I walked up. First approach of the day and on a smokeshow, so pretty anxious throughout but held it together. "You look nice today, very summery".
"haha thanks, I try"
She was the hostess, I get a menu and tell her I'll be back to order after I look at it. Walk to an ATM then go back and order. Chat a bit but keep it brief, get a laugh or two from her. Come back to pick up, she was occupied so I banter with cooks at counter, make them laugh, social proof for her. On my way out "Listen, I don't want to make things awkward for you at work but you are gorgeous and I'd like to text you and maybe take you out sometime if you're down".
She pauses, looks a bit uncomfortable "Sorry...but...I'm only 19"
"That's OK, I'm only 20. I've had some work done" (Credit Tom T)
"Oh you're only 20?!"
"Nah, a few years older..."
"Oh, I was gonna say" with a smile. Phone rings "Maybe another time, it was nice to meet you though!"

Great girl, beautiful and well-spoken. I could tell from the way she said "sorry" that she genuinely meant it, a sweet demeanor uncorrupted by the coming years of thirsty betas drooling all over her and alphas pumping and dumping. It sucks getting too old for the top tier/total package young girls like this, almost makes a man wish he'd settled down with one a decade ago - have to work harder for less every year. If I get this again I'm going with "That's OK, I'm only 20...6" which I can maybe pass for to a young girl and would break the tension a little better.

Streets of a major city later that day - 2 set walking other side of street, cross behind them and overtake them "Hey. You look great. I like your shawl thing. I was actually walking along here trying to find a shirt since it's so cold today but might get one of those instead, think they make them in guy colors?"
They laugh, we walk and chat, both cute but probably 30ish. I make clear that I'm not looking for a friend since opener wasn't super direct - when they say they're visiting the city because there's more to do and talk about the things to do, I say "And having random guy walk up and start hitting on you" with a smile.

Stop at the end of the block and hedge my bets by looking between them both and saying well I'm going this way but we should exchange contact information and hang out next time you're in the city or over at Xtown." They exchange a glance and the one who I was giving more attention to bites and we swap numbers, been texting.

Cutie with incredible tits and ass and a flat stomach walking on other side of street, I cross and catch up and she crosses over. Rrrg. Cross again at crosswalk and overtake her - earphone in but I come alongside and go direct, she takes them out and says "What?" and I say "You're gorgeous and I had to talk to you" or something. Runner with an injured ankle so walking that day, Ivy leaguer - quality chick, but that sweet, open demeanor from blond19 just wasn't there... Cute face but ohhhhh those curves... Chat for a bit and I get her number then walk to the end of the block and split.

I may have fucked this one up by ending too abruptly at the next block, could tell she was a bit jarred by going our separate ways. Texted, no response yet. I'll try again in a few days.

Asian 2 set holding a store bag, approached from behind after dusk "Wow, you guys managed to find a shop that was still open? Everything around here closes so early". Walk a couple blocks with them and split. They had nice bodies but meh faces, they were into it but I didn't go for the number.

Post: #3264

Today was the day I spent most time in the field (in terms of day game). I went to uni early morning and left at 6pm. I had a ton of opportunities but only approached once.

After just leaving my exam I was heading to the library when I saw this cute girl, 19 or 20 years old, petting a random cat that was around campus. She was alone and there was no one around.

I just opened her with my standard opener and she was flattered but uncomfortable about the approach. Instead of asking something logical like “what do you study here?”, I thought I’d do the situational talk so I said “I always take care of these cats too when I see them around.” She said she doesn’t “take care of the cats”, was just petting that one randomly, we exchanged names and before I said anything else she said she had to go to her class. After that I thought “Yeah, petting the cats, that’s what I meant, not ‘taking care’ of them. Why the fuck did I saw that?”
Even though she was pretty, just from that mini conversation I noticed we didn’t have any chemistry, so I just let her go.

After my first approach I had a total of 7 opportunities and took none. Naturally I beat myself up for this. I was thinking about it, and I realized that there are situations in which I will approach, and situations in which I won’t approach.

The situations in which I approach are:

1. She is sitting, alone, in my direction.
2. She is standing still, alone, in my direction.
3. She is in my environment, such as the bus stop or the gym.
4. She is coming my way, walking at a normal pace, with no one or almost no one around.

And the situations in which I can’t approach are:

5. She is with a girlfriend.
6. She is sitting alone, but far from the direction I’m going (the further away, the worse it gets).
7. She is alone, coming my way, but there are too many people around.
8. She is sitting alone, I’m going her way, but there too many people around

Most day game approach chances, I think, fit into the last 4 types somehow. So can anyone say something magical to me that will rewire my brain to approach in all situations? Maybe I'm not shameless enough, but I don't feel approach anxiety anymore.

Post: #3265

A pretty cute petite girl in the supermarket. Wanted to open with "did you know you were cute" but instead asked her if she belonged to the (small) minority that I belong to. Which turned out to be the case. We talked a little, I teased her about her minor (mining engineering) and got her number. Texted a few hours later with "Hello miner lady " without introducing myself. No response yet. I guess probably because I didn't create enough attraction when I approached. At least I made it clear with the text that she couldn't friendzone me.

Post: #3266

(05-30-2017 06:36 PM)jabberbabewocky Wrote:  Today was the day I spent most time in the field (in terms of day game). I went to uni early morning and left at 6pm. I had a ton of opportunities but only approached once.

After just leaving my exam I was heading to the library when I saw this cute girl, 19 or 20 years old, petting a random cat that was around campus. She was alone and there was no one around.

I just opened her with my standard opener and she was flattered but uncomfortable about the approach. Instead of asking something logical like “what do you study here?”, I thought I’d do the situational talk so I said “I always take care of these cats too when I see them around.” She said she doesn’t “take care of the cats”, was just petting that one randomly, we exchanged names and before I said anything else she said she had to go to her class. After that I thought “Yeah, petting the cats, that’s what I meant, not ‘taking care’ of them. Why the fuck did I saw that?”
Even though she was pretty, just from that mini conversation I noticed we didn’t have any chemistry, so I just let her go.

After my first approach I had a total of 7 opportunities and took none. Naturally I beat myself up for this. I was thinking about it, and I realized that there are situations in which I will approach, and situations in which I won’t approach.

The situations in which I approach are:

1. She is sitting, alone, in my direction.
2. She is standing still, alone, in my direction.
3. She is in my environment, such as the bus stop or the gym.
4. She is coming my way, walking at a normal pace, with no one or almost no one around.

And the situations in which I can’t approach are:

5. She is with a girlfriend.
6. She is sitting alone, but far from the direction I’m going (the further away, the worse it gets).
7. She is alone, coming my way, but there are too many people around.
8. She is sitting alone, I’m going her way, but there too many people around

Most day game approach chances, I think, fit into the last 4 types somehow. So can anyone say something magical to me that will rewire my brain to approach in all situations? Maybe I'm not shameless enough, but I don't feel approach anxiety anymore.

It's not true that you "can't", it's just in your mind. In 5 chances of closing are smaller but still worth trying to challenge yourself. Imagine it's like working out in which you try to push your boundaries. For 7 and 8 you can just forget about the people, it's your life, your mission. Yeah people may turn and look but that's because either: they wish they had the balls to do something similar or they wish a decent guy like you were approaching them too.

Post: #3267

Two for you guys. Was at M&S, saw a blonde with nice features, tight body wrapped up in even tighter jeans. Hoped they'd split inbetwixt the isles, but the daughter followed like a little duckling. Then they went to the cashier's check out and it was my last chance. Had a sandwich and a bottle of small juice. Unfortunately, another woman got in front of me, behind the mum and daughter. Went in, asked the woman in front of me to let me up the queue, she agreed. Then, as the combo finished and was paying, I started talking to the girl, gently touched her arm and told her to wait for me. Put my stuff and paid, they waited, was so strange. Asked the mum if she could give me a minute to talk to her daughter but she didn't catch that I wanted to talk one on one, not her just standing hovering there and drilling me with her eyes. So decided to go straight in. Scottish girl, got told she had a boyfriend, lol.

Saw a girl walking down the street whom I saw the day before in a park coming up to her friends. English/Indian, face not up my street, but not bad, however body of a calendar model. Tallish and slim. Was walking so fast wasn't sure I should try it. Followed for a bit, then approached at the traffic lights. Opened with seeing her the day before in a park, she acknowledged that. Commented on her fantastic legs, she took it well but then asked if she was in a hurry for if she was I would take only a minute (in retrospect, should've just do my thing without caring what she was really up to and where), she asked what I wanted, should've teased but just told her straight I'd like to get to know her and go out with her. She was not into that. Saw her entering Tesco a minute later, had I known, would've done it there. It is what it is.

This year, measly results, only one lay so far.

Approaches: 44
D2: 5
D3: 1
Lay: 1

Post: #3268

Two more things for jabberbabewocky:

When you approach a girl when there are other people around and watching it feels so great. It's like you own the venue (and that's how you should picture yourself). Also remember this: you control your environment by controlling your emotions.

Now I have questions of my own.
1-When you hit the curbs with the purpose of approaching girls, how do you avoid the "predatory" or loitering look (the latter more in supermarkets or malls) to appear on your face??
2-When a girl is coming from the opposite direction and doesn't give you a strong IOI (doesn't seem to be intent to stop) how do you proceed. It seems to me I should stop the girl by first stopping myself and saying something like "Excuse me" and then deliver the opener. Otherwise it will appear weak.
3-On average how many of the girls that you approach in daygame make eye contact before you approach?

Post: #3269

(05-31-2017 06:16 PM)duedue Wrote:  Two more things for jabberbabewocky:

When you approach a girl when there are other people around and watching it feels so great. It's like you own the venue (and that's how you should picture yourself). Also remember this: you control your environment by controlling your emotions.

Now I have questions of my own.
1-When you hit the curbs with the purpose of approaching girls, how do you avoid the "predatory" or loitering look (the latter more in supermarkets or malls) to appear on your face??
2-When a girl is coming from the opposite direction and doesn't give you a strong IOI (doesn't seem to be intent to stop) how do you proceed. It seems to me I should stop the girl by first stopping myself and saying something like "Excuse me" and then deliver the opener. Otherwise it will appear weak.
3-On average how many of the girls that you approach in daygame make eye contact before you approach?

1 - I don't really feel proud/awesome about approaching when other people are watching. I think of approaching as a sexual act, sort of, and therefore it's intimate - you don't want other people watching as you approach during day game just like you go somewhere no one can watch your banging or hooking up with a girl.

2 - I don't know about any "predatory" look on my face. My face is the same. I walk slowly to scan the environment properly, and if i'm perfectly relaxed, no one notices i'm looking at people around. However, because there is no way to do day game without scanning the environment, some times i end up forcing people's attention because you are walking around looking at people and of course some of them will notice eventually.

3 - I just say "hey" or "hi" and then deliver the opener. But that's if there is almost no one around. If the environment has a lot of people, approaching feels even more out of nowhere, and i'm still thinking of how to tweak my opener to work on these cases.

4 - I don't like to make eye contact before i approach during day game because i don't want a girl to think that i approached her in the middle of somewhere just because our eyes met, as if i'm so desperate i'm acting on a girl making eye contact. In fact, yesterday i saw a hot chick sitting alone somewhere but she caught me checking her out and that alone stopped me from approaching her.

You shouldn't wait for an IOI during day game before you approach man.

Post: #3270

Was at a friend birthday party at a bar yesterday. It was in the afternoon, and most of the girls were OLD!
And I mean 45 and above.
Sat there and talked with the friends husband. Me and my friend go 15 years back, and I know her husband.
Atmosphere was boring, so I looked up people to chat with.
The only one I could notice who was alone, and approaching HB6 was a girl about my age.
Opened her with a situational:
Me: "Are you a teacher?" (my friend is a teacher and most of the crowd were teachers)
HB6: "No. I do <some kind> seminars"
Me: "Cool. That sounds interesting"
HB6 (smiles): "Yes. How do you know our friend?"
Engaged her in a conversation, with light touching.
It turned out she is married. Did not have anything else to do so /i carried on the conversation.
Teased her about her name, showed intellectual mastery discussing "history repeating itself".
All in all it was a good talk and some crowd started to gather around us (2-3 people).
She gave me her number, as I asked her to invite me to one of the seminars. Immediately sent her a whatsapp massage to remind her.
No worry - still have a steady harem.

Post: #3271

Was with my buddy at a Royal Mile, then saw a tourist(?) milling around Hume's statue. She wore all black, nice, fit body, blonde hair, Italian, with a pro-vegan bag and big, inside-of-an-arm tattoo, wearing sunglasses.

Crossed the street, there was some direct sun, she was taking pics of the statue, so kinda got to the side, looked at her, vacillated a bit, then she walked a few steps away towards street crossing. Perhaps she noticed me. It was my first open of the day, quite meek, I'd say. Came up to her at the traffic lights, said saw her take pictures (perhaps not the best way to open implying I saw her as a tourist in the city) asked and if she knew who he was, she looked at me, smiled and replied: 'Of course I know, I have PhD in Psychology'., then just, without a pip, quickly walked away before I even opened my mouth.

In my whole dg 'career' never had something like that. Girls, even if not interested would act politely.

Approaches: 45
D2: 5
D3: 1
Lay: 1

Post: #3272

Was with my buddy at a Royal Mile, then saw a tourist(?) milling around Hume's statue. She wore all black, nice, fit body, blonde hair, Italian, with a pro-vegan bag and big, inside-of-an-arm tattoo, wearing sunglasses.

Crossed the street, there was some direct sun, she was taking pics of the statue, so kinda got to the side, looked at her, vacillated a bit, then she walked a few steps away towards street crossing. Perhaps she noticed me. It was my first open of the day, quite meek, I'd say. Came up to her at the traffic lights, said saw her take pictures (perhaps not the best way to open implying I knew she was a tourist) and asked if she knew who he was, she looked at me, smiled and replied: 'Of course I know, I have PhD in Psychology'., then just, without a pip, quickly walked away before I even opened my mouth.

In my whole dg 'career' never had something like that. Girls, even if not interested would act politely respecting social contract between a man and a woman.

Post: #3273

@ksbms
Your post reminded me times I used to live in Edinburgh for year, I used to work in cafe a and it was easy. I was young and naive and ignored lots of girls, was dating one.

But I could easily chat with girls in other cafes, Elephant House for example, I would go and write or read and the cafe was always full with lost tourists.

How about Forest cafe? I used to meet many girls there just to hang out, it is pretty nice place to meet, more alternative and artistic.
How about student parties? or Festival parties all round city in August?

Looking at your statas, just wonder how did you get that lay?

p.s. loved your signatures.

Post: #3274

Took my son to the library. Noticed a burnette explaining to her daughter how to use the computer.

Being the IT nerd that I am, i walked by her and commented on another quicker way to complete the task.

When she turned, I stopped, winked at her with a smirk and she stood there moving her lips but no words came out. That shit was funny. I said "damn, thats when you know your feeling soneone". She apologized and told me its not often she gets approached by men "of my caliber" blah blah blah. Invited her and her daughter out with me and my kid for ice scream, (insta date) she's like a 6 maybe a 7 with make up. We got along, she laughed at all my jokes, took her number but probably won't follow the lead seeing how she thinks of her dad as a deadbeat even though he stuck around in her life when her mother tryed pushing him away...

Post: #3275

A little late but got approached in the gym last week by a 6 blonde. She used my jordan jersey I was wearing. "That sucks that Lebron beat Jordans playoff record huh"? I said yea but Lebron will never see the amount of rings Jordan has. She said yea true blah blah blah. I hate talking at the gym, so i just ignored her and continued with my training. (Was doing heavy squats) so was out of breath and light headed.

A bit off topic but I have a goal i'm trying to accomplish. I want to approach 10 woman for every 1 time I get approached by one. This year i'm on par with my 10:1 ratio so far. No matter if I run into a 10, I will NOT approach if I didnt get approached yet. This shed some light on WIA's advanced game topic. Definitly don't recommend if you have less than 5 years in the game however.