scotian
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RE: Foregoing Materialism
God damned them all, I was told we'd cruise the seas for American gold, we'd fire no guns-shed no tears, now I'm a broken man on a Halifax pier, the last of Barrett's privateers!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZIwzRkjn86w
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Smitty
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RE: Foregoing Materialism
It's no so much about foregoing materialism as it is simplifying your life and not consuming more than you can handle.
People complicate their lives with five credit cards, a car payment, a mortgage payment for a house that they bought with a down payment borrowed from their 401k account, an expensive engagement ring (two months salary, right?), an even more expensive wedding, and so on.
These things are not inherently evil or wrong, but when you cannot afford them and try to take too much in too short a period of life you become a slave to society. Banks own you. Your employer owns you. Your wife and kids own you. The U.S. government owns you.
As an example, I went through the whole minimalism phase a few years ago and purged >80% of my belongings. I realized most of what I owned was unnecessary and largely unused. But when I finished purging everything I went out and bought a brand new premium car. Why? Because I could afford it, I didn't have any debt or long-term financial responsibilities, and it was something I wanted. I had taken care of my 'needs' and was able to afford this 'want.' It was the first car I ever bought brand new and I'm in my mid-30's. Materialism? I guess. But life is still simple. My car is my only debt. My loan after the down payment was about $25k @ .9%. I took the loan because my money is locked up in a 5-year CD @ 2.5%, so I'm still making money even though I'm paying interest on the loan. I also wear $200 jeans and $1000 suits for work. That's materialism, but to me the quality is well worth it. On the flip side, I don't piss away money on eating out, storage rentals, late fees, bounced checks and all the other stressful/wasteful expenses that consume the lives of most people in the U.S.
But back to my original point, it's not about foregoing materialism, it's about properly managing your life and avoiding the extreme complications brought about by impulsive, irresponsible and destructive behavior. Separate your needs from your wants. Take care of your needs first and over time, as you increase your earning power and build your own little fiefdom, start taking care of your wants.
And like Scotian said, always have that "fuck it" fund filled up and ready to be used. And don't hesitate to use it when you feel the walls closing in.
(This post was last modified: 07-16-2012 05:12 PM by Smitty.)
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| 07-16-2012 05:11 PM |
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xsplat
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RE: Foregoing Materialism
On the flip side, I've recently made some purchases that greatly improved my quality of life.
A heavy bag for boxing, an electric guitar, and a yamaha keyboard.
Other items I use regularly and really enjoy: my large flat screen TV on a custom stand positioned in front of my bed, hooked up to four speakers, the stereo with the speakers positioned at the head of the bed, and plugged in to my laptop, my ping pong table, boxers speed bag, and the large 3 floor residence (each floor in a studio layout).
All these things bring great enjoyment, I use them regularly, and they are tools of of my lifestyle.
(This post was last modified: 08-04-2012 04:25 AM by xsplat.)
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