Post: #1

Hey guys,

So, I was chatting this girl up a bit on facebook (mostly because I dont have her number) until things hit a snag. She hasn't replied in a little bit. Now, I'm not asking for ways to get her back or anything like that (although that would be nice)
What I am looking for here is more of a critique of my game; what I did right and where I could have done better.
any criticism would be helpful
M
Hey Sarah, hows it going?

H
Its going good zoheb, how about with you?

M
meh, you know; school, work, the occasional drug deal, the usual. Anyway, word on the street is you're back in town.
H
Your joking right? And yes, yes i am back

M
Of course. I've been out of school for a few weeks now XD. Really, I know its been a while since we talked but you should have let me know you were coming back. How long are you staying for?

H
A few weeks, but the thing is i didnt tell anyone because im busy the entire time im here. I havent seen some of my family in over a year
M
Ah, the whole time eh? So there'd be no time for us to hangout or anything? Because I had a couple ideas XP

H
As of right now no sorry:/ what kind of ideas?

M
A fancy, romantic dinner with candles and shit. Real classy
or, we could always chill at square one or something.
in any case, hit me up if you have time to spare while you're here.

H
Are you asking me out?

M
Asking you out? You'll have to work a bit harder for that i'm just asking if you want to hang out sometime while you're back in town, it would be a shame if we didn't have the opportunity to see each other again.

Underlying question is, did she flake on me or did I fuck up somewhere?

Also, I'm still looking for advice on my albino game thread /thread-12993.html
(thanks for all the advice from beforehand) I just didn't want to bring that thread back for no reason, any advice in this matter would also be appreciated.

-Zobee

Post: #2

I would say you tried too hard when she wasn't giving you any signals which made you look a little weak.

And dude fancy romantic dinner is asking a girl out

Post: #3

Yea man you sound like a try- hard. First you should not be talking to hoes on facebook,( the worst possible way to game females you will get nowhere I PROMISE YOU) anyway you make the mistake of forcing the conversation with her, asking her why she didn't contact you when she came in town, that shit sounds real needy and you come off like a little bitch before you even start to talk to her. The best advice I can give to you is try to score a number the old fashion way and get her on the phone. If she dosent take your phone call more than likely she is not going to let you fuck her. As far as your game goes cut out the romantic shit. Invest in yourself and buy Roosh's book BANG, it really helped me as far as my whole game in general.

Post: #4

First things, first. Avoid IM, texting to build attraction, just keep them for logistical purposes. And when you do have to use IM, texts keep things light, playful and to the point.

Here's my critique of your 'IM game', sorry if I sound too harsh.

(06-30-2012 09:37 PM)Zobee Wrote:  M
Anyway, word on the street is you're back in town.

Weak, stalker-ish and a power sink. The moment you said the above, you conceded major power to her.

Quote:H
Your joking right? And yes, yes i am back

M
Of course. I've been out of school for a few weeks now XD. Really, I know its been a while since we talked but you should have let me know you were coming back. How long are you staying for?

Creepy. Unless a chick is your gf or heavily attracted to you or made plans with you beforehand, don't expect her to let you know about her plans. Also, you're already way too invested in the convo - your replies are long and drawn out while hers are simple one liners.

Quote:H
A few weeks, but the thing is i didnt tell anyone because im busy the entire time im here. I havent seen some of my family in over a year
M
Ah, the whole time eh? So there'd be no time for us to hangout or anything? Because I had a couple ideas XP

No, no, no. You're begging for her time and attention. This is not going to work. You're making it sound as if she'd do you a huge favor by hanging out with you. Remember, women are attracted to men they consider higher value than themselves.

Quote:H
As of right now no sorry:/ what kind of ideas?

M
A fancy, romantic dinner with candles and shit. Real classy
or, we could always chill at square one or something.
in any case, hit me up if you have time to spare while you're here.

No way, buddy! She's shutting you down and you're rewarding her by putting her on the highest pedestal. Talk about power imbalance.

Quote:H
Are you asking me out?

M
Asking you out? You'll have to work a bit harder for that i'm just asking if you want to hang out sometime while you're back in town, it would be a shame if we didn't have the opportunity to see each other again.

Come on dude, use at least an iota of common sense. Even a 2 year old can figure that you're asking her out. Blindly using canned 'game-lines' won't cut it, you have to be congruent overall.

Quote:Underlying question is, did she flake on me or did I fuck up somewhere?

Ofcourse you fucked up and fucked up royally. There was no attraction from her side. You gave her immense power. Pedastalized her for no reason. And were overall pretty beta.

Anyways, learn your lessons from it and move on. Failures are utmost important for success. We all have had such a convo with some chick at some point in our game careers, so don't worry much. Focus on other chicks, have multiple lines open at the same time. Keep trying till you succeed.