Post: #26

Jesus, the article the OP posted was a trainwreck. I vaguely remember reading it over the summer.

However, that website the-gaggle.com talked about in the ensuing comments is fucked.

Check out this post: http://the-gaggle.com/2013/04/the-start-...nnial-man/

It must be biological for women - how can women simultaneously pine for alphas on the same website that they also want betas? I think that is the trick, they clearly talk about lust with alphas; but talk about everything but lust with a beta - how they cry about what he does for them, how he loves her unconditionally and it breaks her heart, how he is such a great helpmeet.

I think it must be biological - in their mind, it is perfectly legit to get knocked up by the alpha, and have the beta raise the child.

Post: #27

Women already do this. These men are called ORBITERS.

Post: #28

that's what "Sex and the City" teaches women also: to have sex with all the guys... and that each woman should have sex with at least 1,000 guys before settling...

Post: #29

(06-14-2012 12:58 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I've been doing this my entire adult life but there's one difference between what they can do and we can. Girls are better about keeping their orbiters in orbit. You try to put a chick in orbit that really likes you and you're going to have a stage 10 stalker on your hands. I'm juggling but these deals explode about one a week. They're just not having it

"You try to put a chick in orbit that really likes you and you're going to have a stage 10 stalker on your hands."

You have to learn how to set limits. And lie. I recently got a big contract to write something. That enabled me to set limits on one crazy-but-hot chick by telling her I was under serious deadline pressure and she could only call once a week (I wasn't under that much pressure, but she really grated my nerves). Even though she's kind of the pushy type, she agreed: "I understand work comes first." I know some women will blow you off if you do this, but others will fall into line, like children who want a parent to set limits.

Let's put it this way: I've lost women by being too accommodating but never lost one by setting boundaries. And it's not just women, but people in general respect men who aren't pushovers.

Post: #30

(04-25-2013 03:30 AM)2Wycked Wrote:  Jesus, the article the OP posted was a trainwreck. I vaguely remember reading it over the summer.

However, that website the-gaggle.com talked about in the ensuing comments is fucked.

Check out this post: http://the-gaggle.com/2013/04/the-start-...nnial-man/

It must be biological for women - how can women simultaneously pine for alphas on the same website that they also want betas? I think that is the trick, they clearly talk about lust with alphas; but talk about everything but lust with a beta - how they cry about what he does for them, how he loves her unconditionally and it breaks her heart, how he is such a great helpmeet.

I think it must be biological - in their mind, it is perfectly legit to get knocked up by the alpha, and have the beta raise the child.

Alpha fucks, beta bucks.

Post: #31

(04-25-2013 03:30 AM)2Wycked Wrote:  Jesus, the article the OP posted was a trainwreck. I vaguely remember reading it over the summer.

However, that website the-gaggle.com talked about in the ensuing comments is fucked.

Check out this post: http://the-gaggle.com/2013/04/the-start-...nnial-man/

It must be biological for women - how can women simultaneously pine for alphas on the same website that they also want betas? I think that is the trick, they clearly talk about lust with alphas; but talk about everything but lust with a beta - how they cry about what he does for them, how he loves her unconditionally and it breaks her heart, how he is such a great helpmeet.

I think it must be biological - in their mind, it is perfectly legit to get knocked up by the alpha, and have the beta raise the child.

Women who are pregnant or who have very young children are genuinely attracted to beta behavior, because biologically they are at their weakest point and in desperate need of a man's resources.

Of course, I wouldn't say they are sexually attracted to betas on a visceral level, but their hamsters work overdrive to convince them otherwise during this period of their lives. This is why women who are pregnant or with young children can't stop talking about how great their lives are, how amazing and helpful their husbands are, how wonderful and fulfilling their relationship is, etc...

That's the hamster talking. Except it really isn't trying to convince anyone else. They are trying to convince themselves.