Post: #1

I would like it if someone could really lay out in detail the basic day game formula. Ive read the book "Bang" and been approaching, but I think that Im getting bar game to mixed in with my day game approaches, and its not working out to well for me. Or if any of you guys have any day game layout tips, personal experiences to help a beginner that would be great.

Post: #2

Sketness,

The key when you are starting out is to go to a high volume area. That way you can work out the kinks and you wont dwell on rejection.

Go to: high end shopping district, university, beach etc.

Post: #3

(11-30-2009 05:46 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Sketness,

The key when you are starting out is to go to a high volume area. That way you can work out the kinks and you wont dwell on rejection.

Go to: high end shopping district, university, beach etc.

what i usually do is open and start a conversation but what i need some advice on is how to take the conversation from... "hey do you know where such n such is" to..... "hey we should haing out, put you number in my phone". I guess what im saying is that I know how to approach and close but Im missing that in between attraction building step . Do you have any possible tips?

Post: #4

I think one of the keys to Street Game or Day Game is once you have started a conversation, go with her someplace ie get a drink, coffee, check out some crap etc.

I think pua's call this "going on an instant date" or something.

This is key. Once you walk with her a lot of the pressure dissipates.

From there, run it like normal: make her laugh, share a smoke, joke with her, tease her, pull her hair, throw a bug on her etc. (just playing on a couple of those).

Post: #5

I think sometimes guys OVER-DO the whole "PUA" thing.....just talk to as many attractive girls as you can....try to have a conversation with them.....it can be about anything.......my grandfather used to do all the time just walking around town......nobody ever called it "game". It was just a natural thing when you saw a pretty girl to say "HI".......they love the attention. See what works and what doesn't work to keep the conversation going, over time you will be able to keep a girl interested for a minute or two.....then write back and we will teach you how to "close".....trial and error is better then reading pua books.

Post: #6

(11-30-2009 09:16 PM)Sketness Wrote:  what i usually do is open and start a conversation but what i need some advice on is how to take the conversation from... "hey do you know where such n such is" to..... "hey we should haing out, put you number in my phone". I guess what im saying is that I know how to approach and close but Im missing that in between attraction building step . Do you have any possible tips?

What it sounds like to me is that you can can lose the wind behind your sails soon after opening. I sometimes have the same problem. I think the key is just learning how to get good at talking to random people in general. I'm trying to start opening people more. I don't mean just girls in bars. I mean even old ladies in line behind. Ask them how they're doing, have a random 5 minute conversation. Chat up dudes at the gym about random shit. When I went shopping on black Friday, I tried to chat up every girl ringing up my stuff. Some of them seemed very chatty and fun to tease with, some just seemed like they were tired and not all that social, but I spoke to them anyway. That's how I'm trying to deal with the problem.

Post: #7

"I'm trying to start opening people more. I don't mean just girls in bars. I mean even old ladies in line behind. Ask them how they're doing, have a random 5 minute conversation."

Great move speakeasy.

I think too many guys are too insecure. They only think they should talk only to attractive girls.

Talk to everyone that seems interesting. It is the only way you will get practice.

This is a tactic I use in bars as well: talk to bouncers, guys, girls that aren't what you looking for. Talk to everyone.

You will be "on" when you do meet the right girl, and also you will meet a lot of interesting people. And you look like you run the joint.

Win, Win.

Post: #8

(12-01-2009 01:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  This is a tactic I use in bars as well: talk to bouncers, guys, girls that aren't what you looking for. Talk to everyone.

Yeah, it's just a good warm up too.

Post: #9

(12-01-2009 01:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  This is a tactic I use in bars as well: talk to bouncers, guys, girls that aren't what you looking for. Talk to everyone.

Regardless of where you are, or what time of day it is, that's the way to go.

Even if it's a brief hello.

Later on, once you are gaming some girl, those people will come in handy. It will help you look like the guy that knows everybody.

Plus, you never know who you're gonna meet. They could help you in other ways than chicks.

Aloha!

Post: #10

"Later on, once you are gaming some girl, those people will come in handy. It will help you look like the guy that knows everybody."

Exactly. I have found this technique works extremely well in somewhat "closed" enviornments ie weddings, art gallery gigs, mansion parties etc

"Plus, you never know who you're gonna meet. They could help you in other ways than chicks. "

Exactly. Biz contacts, connections etc.